Miranda_Rae
12-07-2009, 08:56 PM
Alright I havent been on here a lot lately because I have been busy with wedding stuff, but heres my problem and I need some advice please.
My future mother in law is rather lets just say difficult. We are getting married February 20th and I have already sent out my side of the invitations. I have been asking her since JULY to get addresses for Michael's side of the family rounded up and give to me. Well now she has refused to give us addresses unless my fiancee sits down with her and does it with her, although I do not see the point in this as he does not know his side of the family very well. Now the thing is they set up a time to do it and she was a no show. Now I do not know what to do! I'm running out of time and I really want his family to be included, even if they can not come but to at least get an invitation. I finally gave up asking her and left it up to Michael. I do not know what to do! Do i say I need them by the end of the week or else they do not get mail or do I just let her procrastinate or what?!?! I do not know how be polite but not let her walk all over us. She told him that if he doesn't sit down with her and do it she will not help him with anything. :eek: Please help me figure out what to do! Thanks!
My future mother in law is rather lets just say difficult. We are getting married February 20th and I have already sent out my side of the invitations. I have been asking her since JULY to get addresses for Michael's side of the family rounded up and give to me. Well now she has refused to give us addresses unless my fiancee sits down with her and does it with her, although I do not see the point in this as he does not know his side of the family very well. Now the thing is they set up a time to do it and she was a no show. Now I do not know what to do! I'm running out of time and I really want his family to be included, even if they can not come but to at least get an invitation. I finally gave up asking her and left it up to Michael. I do not know what to do! Do i say I need them by the end of the week or else they do not get mail or do I just let her procrastinate or what?!?! I do not know how be polite but not let her walk all over us. She told him that if he doesn't sit down with her and do it she will not help him with anything. :eek: Please help me figure out what to do! Thanks!