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Freedom
02-17-2009, 01:55 PM
Ben went to Rainbow Bridge at 2 PM today.

When the surgeon took digital xrays to clarify a shadow on the regular vet's xrays, it was tumor material wrapped around 2 vertebrae (L3 and L4). It was wrapped so tightly that it fractured L4. It was malignant cancer which had metastasized.

One possibility was surgery to remove as much tumor material as possible, and both vertebrae and put in pins. Then a course of 15 rounds of radiation, which is painful. At most, that would give him 2 years. Then he still needed to have a herniated disc addressed, and most likely something would have to be done about his severe hip dysplasia. All very expensive, and not guaranteed to cure him.

Ben was here one week and 3 hours, although not "here" all that time due to his stays at the vet yesterday and today. He made an impression on all of us, and he will be missed.

RIP, Ben. Now you are pain free, and you can blitz at the Bridge!

Karen
02-17-2009, 01:59 PM
Rest in peace, Ben. You can now bounce and play again at the Rainbow Bridge, free from pain and illness.

Husky_mom
02-17-2009, 02:57 PM
I´m so sorry... at least you gave him the very best week... and a nice clean shave ;) I bet he´s happy you did the best for him and he´s wagging his tail off at you...

RIP Ben...

jenluckenbach
02-17-2009, 02:59 PM
So very sorry about Ben's passing. RUN and PLAY now at the RB, Ben.

cassiesmom
02-17-2009, 03:43 PM
Be free at the bridge, sweet Ben.

Taz_Zoee
02-17-2009, 04:03 PM
Oh no, I am so sorry to read this. At least Ben got lots of love in the week he was with you. And now he is pain free and having a blast up at the bridge.

RIP Ben

Daisy and Delilah
02-17-2009, 04:07 PM
I'm so sorry, Sandie.:( This is incredibly sad. Ben knew great love in his last week on this earth.

Rest in Peace Ben :( Run and play hard at the bridge Sweetheart.:(

lizbud
02-17-2009, 04:09 PM
Awww, poor Ben.:( Rest In Peace little guy.:(

lvpets2002
02-17-2009, 04:30 PM
:( Oh no Poor Wittle Baby Ben.. I am so sorry Sandy of your loss.. May you be pain free now Ben & be entering the Golden Gates with the RB Angels.. Play hard wittle baby with all the other Beloved PT Babies.. RIP Ben && Huggss Sandy

Cinder & Smoke
02-17-2009, 05:21 PM
:(

Sandie's House ...

A Warm and Loving Half-Way House -
on the sometimes difficult journey to The Rainbow Bridge ...

Ben says:
"Thanks, Miz Sandie - you gave me a nice send-off.
I'll save you a spot up here on The Bridge.
Love ya,
Ben"

{{{God'sHugs}}} to the BEST Foster Mom
a pup could ever want.

chocolatepuppy
02-17-2009, 05:23 PM
I'm so sorry Sandie.:( I'm sure Ben loved the week he spent at your house.

Alysser
02-17-2009, 05:42 PM
Come on you know Ben wasn't a foster :D But nonetheless, I am so sorry for your loss. May the little man RIP :( He was much loved in his last days!

kb2yjx
02-17-2009, 05:43 PM
I am from the Cat side, but I am sorry to hear about your foster, Ben. I will lit a candle for him and you, too.. Sleep softly, dear Ben....HUGS to Sandy....

Freedom
02-17-2009, 06:40 PM
Thank you so much, everyone. It has been a busy week, with the last 4 days being a whirlwind ending in a nightmare.

It means so much to read the good wishes from all of you on here.

Moesha
02-17-2009, 06:49 PM
I am so very sorry to hear this news about Ben. I loved seeing his pictures and hearing about how he was fitting in. The poor boy had so many troubles and was in pain, but he still felt love being there with you and your dad and the rest of the crew. Please accept my condolences.

Cinder & Smoke
02-17-2009, 07:09 PM
This needs to be known >>>

"I didn't post it, but I made the 35 minute one way drive back
to the specialist's hospital to be with Ben at the end.

I didn't like the idea of him being alone in a strange place at the end.

Ben leaned against me and I held his head in my arms."

Gentle Ben ~ :love: Loved till the end ...
Safe Trip, Kiddo!

Good On-ya, Sandie!
God entered another Atta-Girl on your ledger.

{{{Hugs}}} ;)

K9karen
02-17-2009, 09:16 PM
No choice really, but it doesn't make it any easier to bear the pain. I'm sorry, Sandie. But, I'll repeat what the others have said, you are a living doll. I'm glad Ben's short time with you was happy. Til we all meet again, Ben. Do some major spins on your good back!

luvofallhorses
02-17-2009, 11:08 PM
I am so very sorry for your loss. :( I am sure he had the best week ever at your house, thank you for loving him. (((hugs))) you'll be in my thoughts. :love:

IRescue452
02-17-2009, 11:41 PM
Poor Ben. But wasn't he from a situation where his owner died and he wasn't treated so well after that? So hopefully they'll be back together again. Ben was a lucky boy. Not a large percent of dogs get even a week of the love of the PT family. He'll always have that love with him.

Maya & Inka's mommy
02-18-2009, 04:31 AM
I am so sorry for your big loss!! It doesn't make a difference if you have your pet 1 week or 1 year....; you fell in love with Ben from day 1, and losing a loved one is always hard and painful.....
Hugs to you!!

RIP Ben :love:

pomtzu
02-18-2009, 06:49 AM
I'm so sorry that Ben had to leave for RB, but he had a wonderful last week here with you Sandie. Thank you for being there for him.

RIP little guy. Find Ozzy and run and play together.

Ginger's Mom
02-18-2009, 12:56 PM
Just posted in the other thread then I saw this. I am so very sorry, Sandie, it is never easy. {{{Hugs}}}

Run and play pain free again, little Ben.

shepgirl
02-18-2009, 02:13 PM
So sorry about Ben. But you are super for being with him on the last journey.

ramanth
02-18-2009, 05:28 PM
I'm so sorry. :( :( RIP beautiful Ben.

KYS
02-18-2009, 06:22 PM
I am so sorry to hear about Ben. I was hoping for the best.
Ben is watching over you and visiting with my Sheba girl.
(((HUGS)))

Scooter's Mom
02-18-2009, 08:08 PM
I am so sorry that sweet Ben is at the Bridge. Your kindness in being there for him at the end... shows what a big and generous heart you have.

(((BIG HUGS))) coming your way, Sandie.

Crystal

CultureJunky
02-19-2009, 05:09 AM
I'm so sorry to see that Ben has gone to the Bridge, such a short time with you but at least loved despite the limited time you had with him. He looked like such a cutie, but not long for this world.
RIP Ben :love:

joycenalex
02-19-2009, 10:44 AM
i am so sorry for ben and you. he left with love wrapped around him, LES now

pitc9
02-19-2009, 11:05 AM
I'm so sorry to hear about Ben. {{{Hugs}}}

RIP Ben :(

K9soul
02-19-2009, 10:55 PM
Oh no :(. I am so very sorry, poor little Ben and poor you. Rest well, sweet Ben. You were a special angel for him in his hour of need. I know he'll be waiting with shining eyes and wagging tail when you meet at the bridge someday.

Freedom
02-20-2009, 07:51 AM
Thank you so much for all the kind thoughts and good wishes.

Flatcoatluver
02-20-2009, 03:14 PM
I'm so very sorry to hear this. (((HUGS))) to you. R.I.P Ben

cyber-sibes
02-26-2009, 11:14 PM
I'm so sorry about Ben, Sandi. He was such a cutie, and I know one week of being loved & part of your wonderful little family surely gave him many moments of joy.
Run & play at the Bridge, little Ben!
(Pardon my delayed posting, I just now saw this.)

Freedom
02-27-2009, 09:17 AM
Thank you both for the thoughts.