Sweet Barney

[Emeraldgreen]

The first post of Barney's long thread in Cat Health starts with "This little cat just breaks my heart". This post will end with the very same words. :(

Even though he was deaf, I would pick him up and whisper into his ear “God hasn’t forgotten you Barney” and each time, he would purr and do head bumpies on my shoulder. I swear, he understood what I was telling him. Maybe he could just feel what I was saying but he got the message each and every time.
And, I really did mean it. Barney was an emaciated little creature who slept in a rusted out truck canopy on the ground and begged for food just to survive. But God made sure that people noticed him and would care for him, pray for him and love him. And as it turned out, dozens upon dozens of people, maybe more, stepped up and reached out to this little cat, the tiniest of beings and showed him that he was valuable and important and that he did mean something to somebody, to everybody.

My heart is so sad that you may not have known this kind of love until the last months of your life but as one of your angels once posted in your thread, “Sweet little Barney. Sometimes it takes your whole life to find the love you need, but once you do, all the time without doesn't count any more.”
I believe this to be true and I hope it was for you.

My prayers for you continue. I pray that you are content, full of peace and free of all disease and pain. I hope that you are strong and that you race around and have fun like a kitten. I hope you can now hear all of the sounds that Heaven must be filled with and I hope it is music to your ears. I wish I could see your beautiful long coat of fur, all shiny and soft blowing in the breeze. I’m sure you are a sight to see, handsome as ever. Please know that my heart has a big hole in it since you left to the Bridge but this heart has also been filled to the brim with the experience of knowing you. Thank you so much for coming into my life Barney. I’ll miss you forever.

This little cat just breaks my heart. :love:

Who would have guessed that this little cat with a sweet but grumpy face would touch people in so many ways. He means something to each of us and will live in our hearts until we see him again.
Thank you to every Pet Talker out there who offered love and support for our Barney. He belonged to all of us. I appreciate it so much. Lara


God has not forgotten you Barn-Barn, not now, not ever.

Signed,
Barney’s Angel (one of many!)

Below is a video that I took of Barney about a week before his passing. His sweet froggy face looks right into the camera and will make your heart melt. This is how I will remember my little man, Barney. :love:

http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd102/emeraldcreek/th_jan09003.jpg (http://s225.photobucket.com/albums/dd102/emeraldcreek/?action=view&current=jan09003.flv)

[kt_luvs_kitties]

RIP sweet Barney. You will never be forgotten. You are loved by so many people. I hope the bridge is all that you deserve and more.

You are so missed already:(


*HUGS* to you Lara. I cant even begin to imagine the pain you are feeling.
And thank you for loving Barney, with every single piece of your heart.

[jennielynn1970]

Sweet Barney, with that froggy little voice and face, we all fell in love with you, the underdog of all the cats on Pet Talk. You were the one we were rooting for, we wanted to love you so much you would almost have to get better. Unfortunately that didn't work, but you knew we loved you, I am sure of that. I am sure that you felt more love than any animal has possibly ever known. YOu were loved from near and far, and by just so many who never knew you, but you touched their hearts.

Dear Barney, I hope that you are now out of pain, and young again, and spry and jumping around at the Bridge. I hope you can hear all the birds and the crickets and insects that are there, and I hope you will be happy there, knowing that you have all of our love behind you.

We are all looking forward to seeing you again, one fine day, so you better be prepared for a lot of visitors throughout the years, my boy, because you will have a lot of them coming!

Sleep softly, dear Barney, for I must go as my heart is breaking again, and I'm crying, but they are mixed tears of joy and pain, joy for you, pain for us, but the joy for you is just shining so bright! Our love for you down here, on earth, is immeasurable my dear boy, and it will be enveloping you for years to come. We all fell in love with you, and you have stolen many hearts in your short stay here. My heart will heal and I will see you again, one fine day. Love you Barney Frog.

[Karen]

Rest in peace, sweet one, happy and in no pain at last. Love lives on, as will you in many, many hearts tonight and always.

[Purr-tender]

I found this cute poem and thought it fit our Barney this evening.


The Purry Gates
It seems that I've reached Heaven,
or it's doorstep at any rate,
and been winding round St. Peter's ankles
by the Pearly Gates,
I've plucked the angels' harp strings
and made a merry sound,
But it's plucking at my heartstrings
that you are not around.

So I think I'll sit and wait here,
just outside the door,
And as the souls come floating in,
I'll tap them with my paw,
And when you seek admittance,
they'll rename this place -
It will become Purradise,
and these the Purry Gates!

Author Unknown




Lara you and Scott have a very special angel looking over you now. It will take some time for the huge hole in your heart to heal. We'll all still be here with you, grieving, and missing him. You were a blessing to Barney and you are so special and dear to me.

Gentle hug and a squeeze!
Mary

[weluvcats]

What a wonderful memorial...You did such a tremendous thing for this precious angel...Like you said... "...This little cat just breaks my heart..." Barney broke all of our hearts, but what a legacy he leaves behind...All of us here at PT thinking, praying and remembering this sweet kitty...Many, many of us from, at last count, 5 different countries. Wow!

Thank you again, Lara, for sharing Barney with us...It has been a sad, wrenching time, but as it turns out, it has been a real gift, too. He will always be your special purr angel watching over you both...:love:

Sleep Precious Barney...You are loved so very much, and will never be forgotten...:love::)

Judy

[Taz_Zoee]

While I am very sad and heartbroken about Barney, I am also relieved to know he is no longer in pain. Also, I take comfort in the fact that he knew what love felt like in his last months here.
Thank you so much Lara and Scott (and Angela) for giving this to Barney.

RIP Barney

[Prairie Purrs]

Thank you, Lara, for loving this sweet little cat and for sharing Barney's story with us. My heart is breaking right along with everybody else's.

Rest gently, Barney boy. You've left a legacy of love and courage.

[krazyaboutkatz]

Lara, what a wonderful tribute. I'm sure that with your love and care that you made Barney's last few months some of the best that he's ever had.:) He was a little fighter but unfortunately his body just couldn't recover from his cancer and other health problems.:( Now he's painfree and running happily up at Rainbow Bridge. I'm sure that my RB Pepper was part of the greeting committee.:) Barney has touched so many lives here on PT and we'll never ever forget him. Some day you'll be able to see him again but for now he'll live in your heart forever. RIP sweet boy.:( Please take care Lara and Scott. (((HUGS)))

[Cinder & Smoke]

:(

Rest In Eternal Peace, Dear Barney :love:

For those who wish to keep a Memorial Candle burning for Barney >>>

Here's a direct link to Barney's Candle Group = BarnB
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...l=eng&gi=BarnB (http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=BarnB)

Find and *click* on an UNlighted candle - it will become Your Candle for Barney.
Follow the instructions that will appear beside your candle.

Safe Trip, Barney!

{{{HUGS}}} to You and Lara & Scott

/s/ :( Phred

[Barbara]

Sweet little Barney- thank you for touching our lives all over the world.
You have been loved and you paid that love back a thousand times.
Play happily at Rainbow Bridge.

Lara, it breaks my heart thinking of that drive. Now sit down and try to relax. You made the right decision.

[Medusa]

"Sweet little froggy face" describes Barney's appearance perfectly but only you and Scott were privileged to have the pleasure of his company. It's the outpouring of love and compassion for this little spirit, no, make that "big spirit w/a tiny body" that renews my faith in humanity. The love I felt was almost palpable and whenever I want to feel it again, I'll gaze upon his picture and be right back there. He was a blessing to the lives of all he touched in one way or another and he deserved the best and surely received it when he found you and Scott. RIP, sweet Barn-Barn. Peace to you and Scott, Lara. :love:

[Sugaree]

Rest In Peace Barney.

[kb2yjx]

Thank you Lara for being brave enough to love and care for this very special cat that brought so many people together...Barney may be gone, but there will be another cat that will come to one of us, who will need the same love and care, and again we will band together for the fight like we did for Barney.

Barney, your candle is still lit on the front porch, despite the wind we had last night. Like Phred suggested, I am going to keep your light going....I hope all our Angels were there to meet you at the Bridge. Can you just imagine the procession that took place as Barney was escorted over the Bridge??

Sleep softly Barney...

[pomtzu]

Barney Angel...
I feel so blessed to have known you and been a small part of your life, even tho it was across many miles. I'll never forget you, since you felt like part of my own family. So for now I am saying farewell, but never good-bye.
Play hard at RB, and enjoy all your days with new friends, knowing that you will be with Lara and Scott again one day.
Peace to you Barney, and to Lara and Scott as well. :love::love::love:

[Bengalz]

Rest gently, Barney boy. You've left a legacy of love and courage.

Barney your legacy will live on in many hearts - rest sweetly dear one.

[Catty1]

Lara and Scott - I remembered the first time of joy with Barney, after he peed on the bed at the other home.

He got a bit stronger and actually went to the litterbox on his own the next time! ;)

Barney, we were with your human purrents for every little victory, every ounce of weight you gained at the beginning - right to the end, with sad news, but hope against hope that something could be done for you.

And it was - you snuggled in Lara's lap in your blankie, and were content. You went to the Bridge, more loved than you ever had been.

I hope and pray you know the love you have, that you are free and happy.

Lara and Scott - hugs to you, THANK YOU for loving Barn-Barn in every way possible.
:love::love::love:

[Randi]

Lara, thank you for a beautiful tribute to Barney. And thank you for all you have done for him. :)

Barney, you have walked an alley of almost a hundred candles, and you are now the Top Angel on the RB. I believe that Pjevs and Fister's mom, Mrs. Spot will be there to show you around and protect you. ;)

Before you had to go, you got to know true love, and you have affected SO many humans in the best way. You have touched our hearts very deeply in the past few months.

Sleep softly sweet :love:Barney:love: - you were so loved and you will be in our hearts forever.

[rosethecopycat]

Barney, I don't think you had any idea of what impact a ragged little cat could have on this earth. But you did.

Godspeed.

[Pinot's Mom]

Lara and Scott, thank you for sharing that sweet froggy kitty with the world, he linked us all in a very special way, and I hope you know how much Barney meant to us. I'm sure, as someone else mentioned, he's had a grand entrance to the Bridge, and my savvy tomcat CK is holding one heck of a party (of many in his honor) to make sure Barney feels welcome! Now take a moment, realize how magical this space in time has been, and know that Barney is happy, healthy and free of pain.

You're wonderful people to have done this for Barney, and for us. Bless you!
:love:
Maggie

[Cataholic]

You will be forever missed, Barney. Hugs to Lara and Scott.

[momtomany]

Barney what a blessing you were to so many lives here on Pet Talk. I will miss that "sweet froggy" face that is etched in my mind. I will miss going daily to Cat Health right away to see the "Barney update". You brought people together in a way that was phenomenal. It was wonderful to read the words of eloquence that people wrote. It was wonderful to read the words from the heart that people wrote. I know for one that my life was enriched by all who shared and posted. Thank you for what you gave us.

Barney you were blessed with angels in Lara and Scott. Lara is an extraordinary person who opened her heart to share yours and hers incredible journey with you. God will look with favor on Lara for the compassion of her heart and Scott's also. Thank you Lara for what you shared and gave. Thank Scott also.

Barney, I know you are happy at the Bridge. You are healthy and in no pain. One day we will all get to see you again and be able to give you those scritches and scrathes and rubs we asked Lara to give to you.

Thank you sweet Barney and God for what you gave all of us...........an unbreakable bond between so many people in so many places.

[3Catcondo]

Lara,
I have been thinking about you for 2 days straight, I hope you are holding up well. I want to thank you so much for the care, compassion and time that you blessed Barney with. You and Scott are truly wonderful people and Barney was blessed to have been introduced to you both. If you need anything, please let me know. I will never forget Barney and your acts of kindness to him. Thanks again from the bottom of my heart, sending hugs from VA to you. :love:

[weluvcats]

Here's hoping that Lara and Scott are hanging in there today...Most (if not all) of us have been where you guys are today. After all the agonizing and stress leading up to the end of such an ordeal, afterward you seem to go through a period where you're numb and just worn out emotionally. We're all thinking of you both today, and your sweet Barney. Know that we are always here for you guys...:)

Phred's suggestion of a memorial candle is a great one..I've already lit one for sweet Barney, as well as for my family's beloved purr angels keeping Barney company at the Bridge. What a wondeful site!

Hugs and prayers to you, Lara, Scott and Barney:love:

Judy

[catmandu]

Theres a special Animal Angel Army welcoming commitee to take Big Barney to the Saturday Animal Angel Fly in Movie Party where Barney will be the Guest Of Honor.
The Party this week is in Fiji, and Barney will get to pick from the buffet table first and sit in the rows of coches and lazy boys, all soft and know that he is in Paradise where he will never be ill or in pain, and that he will find a mate, and have a family of Eternal Animal Babies to mentor.
All thts neede to make this truly Paradise is for Barney to be reunited with his Loved Ones , so he may repay them for the love and care they showed him, and that made him a very happy Cat.
One Fine Day.

[phesina]

Rest in peace, dearest Barney; you are safe home at last.

God bless you, Lara and Scott, and thank you for all you have done for this sweet kitty. And thank you for sharing him with us.

[Moesha]

I was here last night while Lara was making the thread, but I couldn't stay awake to post. I woke this morning and my thoughts went to Barney and how far he came just in the last few months. He had been outside and then worked his way inside with Angela. Then he had the run of the house even though he wasn't supposed to even be in there. Then he worked his way over to Lara's place in the outbuilding. He had quite the setup there with his movies and everything else. Then he moved himself into the main house even though that wasn't part of the original plan. Again he was out and about allowed to enjoy the fire and music. I think Barney was quite the manipulator! I too will miss the daily and extensive updates on his adventures. He will be missed but not forgotten.

[Emeraldgreen]

Thank you guys for so many wonderful posts for Barney. I also really appreciate the kind words for me and for Scott. It sure is a sad time but everybody's words make it so much easier to cope. I've read every one and looked at each of the candles on the candle site and read all those messages too. It's so great. Some of them, I don't know who they are from but it made me realize that more people were out there reading along for the past few months, checking in on old Barney too but may not have posted. Thank you to all of you too for reading and caring.
Some of the candles were from people I did recognize but haven't seen around PT for awhile! Thanks Willow Oak for your candle too!! :)

I was hoping that I would dream about Barney last night but when I woke up, I couldn't remember anything. Maybe tonight though!

I keep remembering this one time in particular, though he did it on numerous occasions, when I walked into his room and he was standing there with his right paw planted squarely on top of his left paw. He was just sitting there looking at me, blinking and holding hands with himself. I was so struck by it because I immediately thought "this poor little guy probably did this in the past to sort of keep himself company since there wasn't anyone else around". It was a comforting thing for him I think. It might be the sweetest thing ever now that I think about it. Sad but sweet.

I sure miss him, just as we all do. Last night I went into his old room and Scott had completely cleaned it. The floor was all shiney and there were no blankies and no litter box, food dish or water dish. It looked so cold and sterile and I just sat down on the floor where his bed used to be and thought about him.

I know he is out of pain and that is so important. And I know that those troublesome ears of his aren't causing him endless discomfort anymore. I know it was time. The only thing I'm struggling with right now is that he might have been scared on our trip and I just hate that. But it was as good as it could have been and I will have to accept that. The only thing better I guess would have been if a vet had come to our house. Maybe I should have done that. It's done now though and he will know everything now, even if he didn't quite understand yesterday so that gives me comfort.

I'm thinking about making a painting of him with his fur, grown out (which we never did get to see while he was with us) standing on a rock, overlooking Rainbow Bridge down below. Kind of like Aslan from Narnia. :) I've only painted a few things and don't know if it will turn out, but if it does, I'll post it. If it doesn't, I won't! lol

Tomorrow is the first meeting I've set up for our local feral cat group and I've printed out two 11x17 pics of Barney to post on the wall for people to see. I will tell them about him and how he inspired the group and hope that he will continue to touch people and hopefully to make a change for other cats.


kt_luvs_kitties wrote:
RIP sweet Barney. You will never be forgotten. You are loved by so many people. I hope the bridge is all that you deserve and more.
You are so missed already
*HUGS* to you Lara. I cant even begin to imagine the pain you are feeling.
And thank you for loving Barney, with every single piece of your heart.

Thanks Katie. Everybody's posts have helped so much.

Jenn Librarian wrote:
...we wanted to love you so much you would almost have to get better. Unfortunately that didn't work, but you knew we loved you, I am sure of that.
...Dear Barney, I hope that you are now out of pain, and young again, and spry and jumping around at the Bridge. I hope you can hear all the birds and the crickets and insects that are there, and I hope you will be happy there, knowing that you have all of our love behind you.

...We all fell in love with you, and you have stolen many hearts in your short stay here. My heart will heal and I will see you again, one fine day. Love you Barney Frog.

Jenn, you're right, I think we did try and love him to good health but as you said, it just didn't work. Certainly not for a lack of trying though on everybody's part! :) He really was loved from near and far and I think about that alot.
I hope he can hear the birds and bugs too! What a neat thought.
Hope you had a good birthday yesterday, despite that sad part.

Karen wrote:
Rest in peace, sweet one, happy and in no pain at last. Love lives on, as will you in many, many hearts tonight and always.


Love does live on. Thanks Karen.

Purr_Tender wrote:

Lara you and Scott have a very special angel looking over you now. It will take some time for the huge hole in your heart to heal. We'll all still be here with you, grieving, and missing him. You were a blessing to Barney and you are so special and dear to me.
Gentle hug and a squeeze!
Mary


Thanks for that Mary, I really appreciate it and thank you for that poem. Yes, we all have a new angel today. He has a funny little face and gorgeous white wings!

weluvcats wrote:

What a wonderful memorial...You did such a tremendous thing for this precious angel...Like you said... "...This little cat just breaks my heart..." Barney broke all of our hearts, but what a legacy he leaves behind...All of us here at PT thinking, praying and remembering this sweet kitty...Many, many of us from, at last count, 5 different countries. Wow!
Thank you again, Lara, for sharing Barney with us...It has been a sad, wrenching time, but as it turns out, it has been a real gift, too. He will always be your special purr angel watching over you both...
Sleep Precious Barney...You are loved so very much, and will never be forgotten...Judy

You're right Judy, it has been a gift and I must remember it this way. It is so amazing that people from all over thought about Barney over the past few months and on a regular basis. His family was really very big!

Taz_Zoee wrote:
While I am very sad and heartbroken about Barney, I am also relieved to know he is no longer in pain. Also, I take comfort in the fact that he knew what love felt like in his last months here.
Thank you so much Lara and Scott (and Angela) for giving this to Barney.
RIP Barney

I'm also thankful that the pain is over. I have been reminding myself of this every now and then through the day and it helps. Thanks for your post and for posting about Angela. I should have written something about her in my post too. She loved him very much and he just adored her. There was something about the way she handled him. He trusted her so much. I used to think he could hear the soft way she spoke to him and thought that was it but then I learned that he was deaf. So I realized that it was her touch and a connection they had. Before I took him I was trying to convince her to take him and told her I thought he was her soul cat. But now I see that he turned out to be everybody's soul cat in one way or another. :love:

Prairie Purrs wrote:
Thank you, Lara, for loving this sweet little cat and for sharing Barney's story with us. My heart is breaking right along with everybody else's.
Rest gently, Barney boy. You've left a legacy of love and courage.


That is the perfect word to describe Barney...Courage. That's it in a nutshell.

krazyaboutkatz wrote:
Lara, what a wonderful tribute. I'm sure that with your love and care that you made Barney's last few months some of the best that he's ever had. He was a little fighter but unfortunately his body just couldn't recover from his cancer and other health problems. Now he's painfree and running happily up at Rainbow Bridge. I'm sure that my RB Pepper was part of the greeting committee. Barney has touched so many lives here on PT and we'll never ever forget him. Some day you'll be able to see him again but for now he'll live in your heart forever. RIP sweet boy. Please take care Lara and Scott. (((HUGS)))


He was such fighter and so determined. He's probably ruling the roost up there in RB already! (or at least trying!) I hope Pepper is going to be okay with the new tough guy in town. ;) His heart is all marshmellow though so I'm sure he's making lots of friends.

Cinder and Smoke wrote:
Keep Barney's Candles Burning

Rest In Eternal Peace, Dear Barney
For those who wish to keep a Memorial Candle burning for Barney >>>
Here's a direct link to Barney's Candle Group = BarnB
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...l=eng&gi=BarnB
Find and *click* on an UNlighted candle - it will become Your Candle for Barney.
Follow the instructions that will appear beside your candle.
Safe Trip, Barney!
{{{HUGS}}} to You and Lara & Scott
/s/ Phred

Thanks Phred. That's a neat idea to keep some candles going for awhile. It's comforting. I just lit a few more too. Thanks for the hugs.

Barbara wrote:
Sweet little Barney- thank you for touching our lives all over the world.
You have been loved and you paid that love back a thousand times.
Play happily at Rainbow Bridge.
Lara, it breaks my heart thinking of that drive. Now sit down and try to relax. You made the right decision

Thanks for your post. That drive really was so hard. I felt a million things all at once. I was sick to my stomach, scared with butterflies, guilt ridden, full of love and so sad. I burst into tears when one of the receptionist barely said anything, something like "this must be very hard for you" and that was it. I was a mess. The other receptionist asked me how long I'd had him and it sounded ludicrous when I said "just a few months". I even laughed because it just didn't make sense.
I was so thankful when it was over. The hardest part, just as it is for everyone when they go through this is the ability to change your mind and turn the car around, second guess yourself. But once it's done, it's done and there's no turning back. There is a peace in that.

Medusa wrote:
"Sweet little froggy face" describes Barney's appearance perfectly but only you and Scott were privileged to have the pleasure of his company. It's the outpouring of love and compassion for this little spirit, no, make that "big spirit w/a tiny body" that renews my faith in humanity. The love I felt was almost palpable and whenever I want to feel it again, I'll gaze upon his picture and be right back there. He was a blessing to the lives of all he touched in one way or another and he deserved the best and surely received it when he found you and Scott. RIP, sweet Barn-Barn. Peace to you and Scott, Lara.


It's so true Mary. It was a privilege and never a burden. :love:
"big spirit in a tiny body" I love that. My faith has totally been renewed as well. I have never 'met' such a wonderful collective bunch of people in such a short time. Thank you for that gift Barney.

Sugaree wrote:
Rest In Peace Barney.


Thank you.

kb2yjx wrote:
Thank you Lara for being brave enough to love and care for this very special cat that brought so many people together...Barney may be gone, but there will be another cat that will come to one of us, who will need the same love and care, and again we will band together for the fight like we did for Barney.

Barney, your candle is still lit on the front porch, despite the wind we had last night. Like Phred suggested, I am going to keep your light going....I hope all our Angels were there to meet you at the Bridge. Can you just imagine the procession that took place as Barney was escorted over the Bridge??

Sleep softly Barney...


Thank you for keeping that porch candle burning Sandra. It is so neat that the wind didn't blow it out. Last night I lit a tea candle and put it on my desk while I typed his memorial post. It stayed lit until I said to my cat Sneakers "well, what do you think, is it bedtime?" and the candle went out, just like that! I smiled and said "good night Barney".

pomtzu wrote:
Barney Angel...
I feel so blessed to have known you and been a small part of your life, even tho it was across many miles. I'll never forget you, since you felt like part of my own family. So for now I am saying farewell, but never good-bye.
Play hard at RB, and enjoy all your days with new friends, knowing that you will be with Lara and Scott again one day.
Peace to you Barney, and to Lara and Scott as well.


He was/is a part of your family Ellie. I'm sure he knows how much you cared about him. He probably is whispering in Sherbie's ear about you right now in fact. ;)
Giving him tips on how to work his way into your house! lol Barney was the master at that kind of thing as Moe pointed out in her post! :)

Bengalz wrote:
Barney your legacy will live on in many hearts - rest sweetly dear one.

I'm so grateful that he went from being homeless and potentially 'forgotten' to a very special boy with many loved ones.

Catty1 wrote:
Lara and Scott - I remembered the first time of joy with Barney, after he peed on the bed at the other home.
He got a bit stronger and actually went to the litterbox on his own the next time!
Barney, we were with your human purrents for every little victory, every ounce of weight you gained at the beginning - right to the end, with sad news, but hope against hope that something could be done for you.
And it was - you snuggled in Lara's lap in your blankie, and were content. You went to the Bridge, more loved than you ever had been.
I hope and pray you know the love you have, that you are free and happy.
Lara and Scott - hugs to you, THANK YOU for loving Barn-Barn in every way possible.

I remember that too, we were so proud of him when he showed us that he did know how to use the litterbox afterall! And that pound he gained was so awesome. Robin (the vet) and I almost high fived each other when we weighed him! We both started laughing because we were so ridiculously happy about it!
Thanks Candace.

Randi wrote:
Lara, thank you for a beautiful tribute to Barney. And thank you for all you have done for him.
Barney, you have walked an alley of almost a hundred candles, and you are now the Top Angel on the RB. I believe that Pjevs and Fister's mom, Mrs. Spot will be there to show you around and protect you.
Before you had to go, you got to know true love, and you have affected SO many humans in the best way. You have touched our hearts very deeply in the past few months.
Sleep softly sweet Barney - you were so loved and you will be in our hearts forever.
That is a nice thought that Pjevs and Mrs. Spot will be there for Barney. I meant to tell you that when I looked at the pic of Pjevs that you sent me, it reminded me so much of Barney!
Thanks Randi.

Rosethecopycat wrote:
Barney, I don't think you had any idea of what impact a ragged little cat could have on this earth. But you did.
Godspeed.

He really was a little ragamuffin. I never did get him completely cleaned up. He got so mad at me when I bathed him. I bet his white fur is as white as snow now and his black fur is shiney and soft. And those little feet of his! I loved his little feet. He always did those paddies and would cross his legs over each other. He sure knew how to melt a heart! :)

Pinot's mom wrote:
Lara and Scott, thank you for sharing that sweet froggy kitty with the world, he linked us all in a very special way, and I hope you know how much Barney meant to us. I'm sure, as someone else mentioned, he's had a grand entrance to the Bridge, and my savvy tomcat CK is holding one heck of a party (of many in his honor) to make sure Barney feels welcome! Now take a moment, realize how magical this space in time has been, and know that Barney is happy, healthy and free of pain.
You're wonderful people to have done this for Barney, and for us. Bless you!
Maggie

It does sound like he must be having the time of his life or 'afterlife' with all those wonderful RB cats up there like CK!
It really was a magical moment in time and I will continue to think about, I think forever. I'm so glad to have had Barney and Pet Talk these past few months. It has been very special.

Catholic wrote:
You will be forever missed, Barney. Hugs to Lara and Scott.

Thank you.

momtomany wrote:
Barney what a blessing you were to so many lives here on Pet Talk. I will miss that "sweet froggy" face that is etched in my mind. I will miss going daily to Cat Health right away to see the "Barney update". You brought people together in a way that was phenomenal. It was wonderful to read the words of eloquence that people wrote. It was wonderful to read the words from the heart that people wrote. I know for one that my life was enriched by all who shared and posted. Thank you for what you gave us.

Barney you were blessed with angels in Lara and Scott. Lara is an extraordinary person who opened her heart to share yours and hers incredible journey with you. God will look with favor on Lara for the compassion of her heart and Scott's also. Thank you Lara for what you shared and gave. Thank Scott also.

Barney, I know you are happy at the Bridge. You are healthy and in no pain. One day we will all get to see you again and be able to give you those scritches and scrathes and rubs we asked Lara to give to you.

Thank you sweet Barney and God for what you gave all of us...........an unbreakable bond between so many people in so many places.

Thank you for those words Julie.
I enjoyed reading all those great posts too. People shared so much. Everything from support, suggestions and ideas to poetry, pictures and now tributes. It was a communal thread.

3catcondo wrote:
Lara,
I have been thinking about you for 2 days straight, I hope you are holding up well. I want to thank you so much for the care, compassion and time that you blessed Barney with. You and Scott are truly wonderful people and Barney was blessed to have been introduced to you both. If you need anything, please let me know. I will never forget Barney and your acts of kindness to him. Thanks again from the bottom of my heart, sending hugs from VA to you.

Amy, thanks for all the thoughts over the last few days. I've been thinking about all you guys! I'm better today, just taking it a few hours at a time. I had to work all day which was a good distraction.
I too will never forget Barney or the kindness of all of you.

weluvcats wrote:
Here's hoping that Lara and Scott are hanging in there today...Most (if not all) of us have been where you guys are today. After all the agonizing and stress leading up to the end of such an ordeal, afterward you seem to go through a period where you're numb and just worn out emotionally. We're all thinking of you both today, and your sweet Barney. Know that we are always here for you guys...

Phred's suggestion of a memorial candle is a great one..I've already lit one for sweet Barney, as well as for my family's beloved purr angels keeping Barney company at the Bridge. What a wondeful site!

Hugs and prayers to you, Lara, Scott and Barney

It's so true, the time after Barney left for the Bridge left me with a feeling of exhaustion. Crying always does that though. But all the emotions and butterlies take their toll and you just want to wrap up in a blanket and go to sleep to make it all go away. Part of me woke up this morning wishing it had all been a bad dream but the other part of me, the more sensible part, was relieved that the 'day' was over and that Barney was at last, free. He deserves to be whole and healthy after that tough life he lived for who knows how many years. I hope he is having the most wonderful time right now surrounded by lots of friends.

Catmandu wrote:
Theres a special Animal Angel Army welcoming commitee to take Big Barney to the Saturday Animal Angel Fly in Movie Party where Barney will be the Guest Of Honor.
The Party this week is in Fiji, and Barney will get to pick from the buffet table first and sit in the rows of coches and lazy boys, all soft and know that he is in Paradise where he will never be ill or in pain, and that he will find a mate, and have a family of Eternal Animal Babies to mentor.
All thts neede to make this truly Paradise is for Barney to be reunited with his Loved Ones , so he may repay them for the love and care they showed him, and that made him a very happy Cat.
One Fine Day.

Fiji?!? How awesome. The weather here is so awful, horizontal rain and damp cold. Fiji is a much better place to be. I love the idea that Barney might find a mate! Perhaps she will look like our cat Sneakers. I think he really fell for her the other day when he laid eyes on her for the first time. But she is a Norwegian Forest Princess of course! LOL I think it was Tracey that told me that and ever since I told Sneakers of her royal lineage, we haven't heard the end of it! She meows more than ever (constantly, really) and demands that we cater to her every whim! lol Barney was very impressed with her.

Phesina wrote:
Rest in peace, dearest Barney; you are safe home at last.
God bless you, Lara and Scott, and thank you for all you have done for this sweet kitty. And thank you for sharing him with us.

Thank you guys for sharing him with me. I couldn't imagine it any other way.

Moesha wrote:
I was here last night while Lara was making the thread, but I couldn't stay awake to post. I woke this morning and my thoughts went to Barney and how far he came just in the last few months. He had been outside and then worked his way inside with Angela. Then he had the run of the house even though he wasn't supposed to even be in there. Then he worked his way over to Lara's place in the outbuilding. He had quite the setup there with his movies and everything else. Then he moved himself into the main house even though that wasn't part of the original plan. Again he was out and about allowed to enjoy the fire and music. I think Barney was quite the manipulator! I too will miss the daily and extensive updates on his adventures. He will be missed but not forgotten.

Who could blame you, it takes me FOREVER to post! lol
Your post really brought a smile to my face. I never really thought of it that way but that little guy probably knew exactly what he was doing! Giving me those sad eyes and holding paws with himself! That little stinker! He had me from the first froggy meow! We knew he was an amazing cat but I think we can now add 'brilliant' to his list of qualities! ;)

[weluvcats]

this has been. I went back tonight and looked over this entire thread from beginning to end, and it struck me again what an amazing thing has happened through this whole saga with our sweet Barney. It's so easy to get caught up in life's garbage and to get hardened and cynical about so many things, but strangely enough, one sweet, sick, lonely and bedraggled little cat ended up bringing so many together on his behalf. I am so grateful to have found PT and the wonderful, compassionate, and caring people here. What an extraordinary community of people you all are!

And thank you again Lara, for making this experience possible by sharing your precious Barney and his story with us.:love:

Judy:)

[CultureJunky]

I hope you had a safe trip to the bridge Barney, there will be so many Pet Talk angels waiting to greet you, say hi to Jack for me, you will now be transported back to how you were in your prime, beautiful fur, bright eyes, puffy tail....have fun there, there will be many that want to see you again one day :love:

[Catty1]

I don't think Barney was scared once he was wrapped in his blankie and on his meowmie's lap. :love: Was he also in the blanket on the ferry? He was very bonded to you, and if you were there he felt ok. He might have found the rough sea trip tiring, which is maybe why he was 'limp' at the vet's. Don't second guess yourself.

Lara, I wonder...if you do get to speak to the woman who was the girlfriend of that young man who died in that dirt bike accident, and if he DID have a fluffy black and white cat - well, that would have to be Barney? She might even have a couple of pictures of him from when he was a bit younger.

Today, January 11 - the COTD is named Barney.

HUGS to you, Lara. And hugs to Scott.

[Medusa]

I don't think Barney was scared once he was wrapped in his blankie and on his meowmie's lap. :love: Was he also in the blanket on the ferry? He was very bonded to you, and if you were there he felt ok. He might have found the rough sea trip tiring, which is maybe why he was 'limp' at the vet's. Don't second guess yourself.

I agree w/this, Lara. Because our furkids can't speak for themselves, we imagine all sorts of things. Go easy on yourself, kiddo. You were wonderful w/Barney from the get-go until the end. :love:

[AbbyMom]

RIP little Barney. You were well loved. It may have been a short time that you had this love, but you had a lot of it when you found it. Play hard at the bridge.

[Edwina's Secretary]

Good bye Barney....It was so wonderful getting to know you.

[jazzcat]

From another heart touched, Rest in Peace sweet Barney.

[Kirsten]

R.I.P. little Barney! You fought such a hard fight, and now you will be young and whole again at the Bridge. :love:

Lara, I'm very sorry about your loss. You did so much for him!

Kirsten

[Shady]

I have not posted here in several years, but I do read.

This courageous little man has touched my heart to the core. I've followed the threads from the very beginning, the tears have flown freely at all the ups and downs and the compassion from his saviour Lara.

If anyone on this earth was blessed it was this little waif, who stole all of our hearts and is forever planted in our souls, our beings who was cared for by the best possible person who appeared to have been chosen somehow.

I know how hard it was to follow through with his care and his journey to the bridge, I have been there myself, and was just as affected by this tiny boy. Lara's courage and strength saved this boy and saw him through to the end of his journey on this earth.

Godspeed Barney and be reborn to live a beautiful existence at the bridge forever, and bless you Lara and Scott for stepping up for this baby and giving him love, affection and the best care possible.

Tess

[Scooter's Mom]

I have avoided this thread because I am so terrible with words. I have little to say that hasn't been said already. It's just amazing how this little scrap of a kitty touched so many lives all across the world. Not just a city or a state or even a country, but the world over. Thank you, Barney, for being a part of our lives for even a little bit. For reminding us what courage is.

We will all miss you and remember you forever.

[weluvcats]

I know how easy it is to slip into that..."I should have done this, I shouldn't have done that, why did I do this, why didn't I do that??" All of us who have made the "decision" have probably gone through this, but please don't beat yourself up over anything that you did for sweet Barney. You did the absolute best you could for him. Think about the shape he was in when you first saw him...and now think about all the love and tender care that you gave him in the nearly three months that you had him. That precious little kitty received more love and kindness from you in those final months than he may ever have had...Who knows what his earlier life was like before he was with you.

The difficulties with the trip to the vet couldn't have been helped. They were circumstances beyond your control. Taking Barney out of the carrier and holding him on your lap was the right and best thing you could do. As long as you were with him, he was as content as he could be in that situation. You did your best, and rest assured that he does know that now. You gave Barney love, kindness, care and compassion...I wish every lost little animal soul was as lucky as Barney was in those last months.

I think your idea to paint a picture of Barney is wonderful. And your reference to Aslan from Narnia is perfect. If you do go ahead with this, please post it. I'm sure we would all like to see it. Another memorial for sweet Barney.

Lara, please don't reproach yourself for anything that you did for Barney. We all here at PT have said before that you (and Scott) were Barney's angels...Those weren't just words. We meant them, and they couldn't be more true...:love:

Judy:)

[ramanth]

RIP Barney. :(

[MoonandBean]

I wasn't on PT this weekend but I was thinking of Barney and Lara A LOT on Friday and over the weekend. RIP Sweet Barney. I will have to go check out the COTD from the 11th as Candace pointed out...his name is Barney :) Coincidence? We think not :D

[Emeraldgreen]

...It's so easy to get caught up in life's garbage and to get hardened and cynical about so many things, but strangely enough, one sweet, sick, lonely and bedraggled little cat ended up bringing so many together on his behalf. I am so grateful to have found PT and the wonderful, compassionate, and caring people here. What an extraordinary community of people you all are!

And thank you again Lara, for making this experience possible by sharing your precious Barney and his story with us.:love:
Judy

I'm very thankful too.
I was so happy to share him.

Culturejunky wrote:
I hope you had a safe trip to the bridge Barney, there will be so many Pet Talk angels waiting to greet you, say hi to Jack for me, you will now be transported back to how you were in your prime, beautiful fur, bright eyes, puffy tail....have fun there, there will be many that want to see you again one day

I wish I could see how he looks now in his prime! I've been trying to find a picture of a petite long haired tuxie that resembles him but it's hard to come by! That little froggy face was one in a million I think.

Catty1 wrote:
I don't think Barney was scared once he was wrapped in his blankie and on his meowmie's lap. Was he also in the blanket on the ferry? He was very bonded to you, and if you were there he felt ok. He might have found the rough sea trip tiring, which is maybe why he was 'limp' at the vet's. Don't second guess yourself.
Lara, I wonder...if you do get to speak to the woman who was the girlfriend of that young man who died in that dirt bike accident, and if he DID have a fluffy black and white cat - well, that would have to be Barney? She might even have a couple of pictures of him from when he was a bit younger.
Today, January 11 - the COTD is named Barney.
HUGS to you, Lara. And hugs to Scott.

Yes, once I wrapped him up in the blanket, (kind of like an open ended burrito) at the end of my driveway, he stayed like that for the entire trip. During the ferry ride he perked up his ears a couple of times when people walked past my vehicle as we were parked right by the stairwell. He seemed frightened by them so I pulled the blanket up around his ears so he was snug as a bug and then he cozied in.
I do think the bobbing of the ship made him feel a bit strange. It's not normally like that and was just really rough that day. I felt kind of sick myself. So, that may have been why he was kind of out of it when we got to the clinic. He was 100% limp when Robin unwrapped the blankets and laid on his side. If he hadn't been breathing, I would have thought he had already passed. It was very strange. He never recovered from that because just a few minutes later he received the sedative.
I did pray really hard while we were driving and asked God to please remove all fear from Barney and maybe that prayer was answered and he was in a kind of meditative state.

I did see that handsome cat Barney who was COTD. A very beautiful boy! I thought that was a neat coincedance. ;)

Medusa wrote:
I agree w/this, Lara. Because our furkids can't speak for themselves, we imagine all sorts of things. Go easy on yourself, kiddo. You were wonderful w/Barney from the get-go until the end.

Thanks Mary. I feel a bit better each day about it all. :love:

Abbymom wrote:
RIP little Barney. You were well loved. It may have been a short time that you had this love, but you had a lot of it when you found it. Play hard at the bridge.

And by so many! I hope he knows that now without a doubt! Thank you.

Edwina's Secretary wrote:
Good bye Barney....It was so wonderful getting to know you.

Thank you.

Jazzcat wrote:
From another heart touched, Rest in Peace sweet Barney

Thank you.

Kirsten wrote:
R.I.P. little Barney! You fought such a hard fight, and now you will be young and whole again at the Bridge.

Lara, I'm very sorry about your loss. You did so much for him!

Kirsten

He really was a fighter. I've never met such a cat before. I do hope he is a young man again and living a brand new life at the Bridge.
Thanks Kirsten.

Shady wrote:
I have not posted here in several years, but I do read.

This courageous little man has touched my heart to the core. I've followed the threads from the very beginning, the tears have flown freely at all the ups and downs and the compassion from his saviour Lara.

If anyone on this earth was blessed it was this little waif, who stole all of our hearts and is forever planted in our souls, our beings who was cared for by the best possible person who appeared to have been chosen somehow.

I know how hard it was to follow through with his care and his journey to the bridge, I have been there myself, and was just as affected by this tiny boy. Lara's courage and strength saved this boy and saw him through to the end of his journey on this earth.

Godspeed Barney and be reborn to live a beautiful existence at the bridge forever, and bless you Lara and Scott for stepping up for this baby and giving him love, affection and the best care possible.

Tess

Thank you so much for taking the time to post that Tess. I really appreciate your words and I'm so thankful that he touched your heart as he did mine. Bless you too. :love:

Scooter's mom wrote:
I have avoided this thread because I am so terrible with words. I have little to say that hasn't been said already. It's just amazing how this little scrap of a kitty touched so many lives all across the world. Not just a city or a state or even a country, but the world over. Thank you, Barney, for being a part of our lives for even a little bit. For reminding us what courage is.
We will all miss you and remember you forever.

I think those words were GREAT! ;) He really was just ' a little scrap of a kitty' wasn't he. That never really changed much, even with the pound he gained. I guess he was more about quality than quantity with regard to his size and his time here on earth. Thank you. :love:

weluvcats wrote:


...I think your idea to paint a picture of Barney is wonderful. And your reference to Aslan from Narnia is perfect. If you do go ahead with this, please post it. I'm sure we would all like to see it. Another memorial for sweet Barney.

Lara, please don't reproach yourself for anything that you did for Barney. We all here at PT have said before that you (and Scott) were Barney's angels...Those weren't just words. We meant them, and they couldn't be more true.

Thanks! I will post a pic of the painting. I haven't started it yet though. :o
I should do it now, while his memory is so fresh in my mind.

Ramanth wrote:
RIP Barney.

Thank you.

Moonandbean wrote:
I wasn't on PT this weekend but I was thinking of Barney and Lara A LOT on Friday and over the weekend. RIP Sweet Barney. I will have to go check out the COTD from the 11th as Candace pointed out...his name is Barney Coincidence? We think not

Thanks Deb. I appreciate your thoughts over the weekend. I'm so relieved it's all over. The lead up to it was the hardest part. I miss him so much though but know that this will get easier with time. I've been avoiding the room he slept in because it's kind of depressing to go in there. Thankfully, we have another bathroom! ;)


quick update on the Feral Group inspired by Barney:
Well, the meeting was yesterday at 1:00 and I advertised it in a number of places. I was told by a few people on the island not to expect too many to show up and that if 6 showed, that was a good turn out. I taped up an 11x17 photo of Barney on the wall and set up coffee, tea and cookies and a bunch of chairs and people started arriving. The first to arrive was the vet who I had emailed a few times who is building a house here. She is a very nice person and I was so glad she and her husband came.
More and more people showed up until almost 30 people were there!! :eek:
But by 1:05, the president of the feral group from a nearby town who I had invited to speak and field questions had not arrived.
I just started the meeting and winged it. I was fairly nervous but just kept going and it all kind of worked out. I told them about Barney and apologized that the speaker hadn't shown up and told them about what I hoped we as as group might accomplish if we put our strengths together.
About 20 minutes into it a woman in her 20's spoke up and said she had experience with TNR in North Carolina and was against the feeding of ferals and wanted to know who was doing the surgeries, what were we going to do with the cats afterward and explained that the actual trapping was the easy part. She was fairly combative and I quickly let her know that this meeting wasn't about having people just show up to assume different positions of volunteering with all of the issues already worked out but was just the beginning of the beginning. I told her and the group that I had hoped a group like this would already exist in our area but it didn't seem that anyone was willing to take the initiative to start one up and that was what I was doing. I told her that the group would over time, find the vets to work with us, find the different skills that each of us could offer to make the group successful etc.. etc.. She really frustrated me because it was as if she was trying to cause a problem.
Thankfully though, an hour into the meeting, a woman who had indicated a few times that she wanted to speak, finally got her chance between everyone speaking out. I am so thankful that she finally spoke. As it turns out, she has extensive experience in TNR and supported the idea of feeding ferals and was full of amazing ideas and energy.
So, it looks like this will come together and we planned to meet every few weeks. I'm excited about it.
But my hope to name it after Barney will probably not see the light of day. I'm sure I could force the issue but I really want everyone that was there to be on board with it and I could tell that the name will have to be something more neutral.
People were getting really frustrated with each other when they would take up time to tell personal stories of cats in need. One woman in particular spoke out half a dozen times and each time it was to tell a story about a cat and wasn't really about TNR and what we needed to focus on. I didn't have the heart to tell her that but a man sitting next to me named Chris freaked out and yelled at her. :eek: He said "Sue!!! Tell your &^%$%$# stories AFTER the meeting. We ALL have stories but this meeting is only 2 hours long!!!" We all sat silently in shock for a second and then I started up again. lol
I felt bad for Sue but she seemed okay with it.
My speaker and her partner in the group never did show. I got home and there was a message saying that they were both sick and they were very apologetic. They said they'd like to come to the next meeting though. They'd better come dressed in hockey gear though, this crowd is tough!! Yikes!

[phesina]

God bless you, Lara.. starting this Feral Group inspired by Barney. Just think of all the other cats Barney will wind up helping!

[weluvcats]

Lara...Boy it sounds like you may have your hands full with this crowd!:eek: Unfortunately, when you involve yourself in trying to start a group about a cause (you name the cause), sometimes you end up attracting people who have their own agendas and issues.:rolleyes: I've been down that road with a couple of groups/organizations that I've been associated with or started myself, over the years. But, don't let that deter you...You're doing a very noble thing which is well worth the effort.

The important thing is that you had a GREAT turnout!!! I am sorry your speakers were a no-show, but, it sounds to me that you did just fine...Hopefully, they'll be able to make the next one. In the meantime, you got the ball rolling, and often, that's the hardest part. It would be great if the name for the group refers to Barney:love: in some way, since he was the inspiration behind this, but I understand that that decision may not end up as entirely yours.

So far my friend, I think you are off to a promising start. Keep your chin up, and just follow this road where it goes. It is a very worthy cause, and you are doing a wonderful thing. Hang in there, and let us here at PT know if there is anything that we can do to help.:)

Judy:)

[emily_the_spoiled]

Barney you are now at the RB with all of our loved ones that have gone before you. You had an effect on people that was greater than you could possibly know. We all loved you and followed your trials and tribulations and joys. But more importantly your legacy will be to have a group of people to help others that are in position (before you found Angela and Laura). That is the true meaning of an angel...RIP

[slick]

Every time I come here to post LES descends upon me :( and I can't think of anything useful to say. Everyone ahead of me has put my thoughts down so eloquently and I don't have much else to add except send out some big {{{hugs}}} :love::love:

So sorry, but I'll have to come back and post more. My face is all wet again.....:(, especially after viewing that video.....

[bowlkat]

Lara, I jsut wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart, AND my Special Someone's heart and those of all our rescued cats, for everything you did to make this wonderful little cat's last days so warm and so loved. NO ONE could have done more for him- and he, above all, knows that. God bless you- he already did once, with Barney, and you paid Him back wonderfully.
MC

[Anikaca77]

I'm so sorry to hear about Barney, I never posted to his thread but I read it and you guys did so much for him.

Rest dear sweet Barney in peace.

Melissa

[weluvcats]

Sweet Barney:love: left us for the peace and comfort of the Rainbow Bridge...This precious and very special little cat left a permanent impression on all of our lives, especially his angels, Lara and Scott. We miss you Barney, and will never, ever forget you...:love:

Judy:)

[kittykatharine]

I miss coming to Pet Talk and checking on sweet Barney's progress. Barney was an angel who was saved by a very special family, and he was loved more in that short period of time than he has ever been loved in his entire life. Barney, despite his many illnesses, lived a very high quality of life. Barney was so beautiful and sweet, and loved by so many here at Pet Talk. You are loved Barney by so many and you will never be forgotten! :love::love::love:

[Killearn Kitties]

I keep coming back to watch Barney's video. What an adorable boy he was with his lovely white paws. :love:
No-one could have done more for Barney than you did. It is so terribly sad that he had to leave us.
Rest in peace, sweet Barney.