View Full Version : My dogs won't stop following me!!
minearchy
05-16-2008, 08:13 PM
I have three great dogs. They are well behaved indoors, outdoors, at the store, in the car, EVERYWHERE! They listen. They aren't destructive.
They are perfect accept for one thing: They always follow me!!
This is great when we are at the park, but at the house it makes things difficult. They are always on my heels. When I'm getting ready in the morning I can hardly walk around because they are always right there!
I've tried teaching them that I don't want them to follow me by telling them to stay or "sschhhh"ing them (like the dog whisperer) whenever they take a single step towards me. They will stay, but as soon as my back is turned or as soon as I close a door behind me, they all follow!!
I don't know what else to do.
If anyone has any tips please let me know!
Thanks all.
Daisy and Delilah
05-18-2008, 07:02 PM
I'm certainly no expert but it sounds like seperation anxiety maybe. My dogs follow me quite a bit too. I'm hoping some of our resident experts on this will chime in with some facts. Good luck at solving the problem
Jessika
05-18-2008, 07:06 PM
You have what I like to refer to as "velcro dogs". :) I have two myself! It can get annoying but I live with it.
What type of dogs do you have, are any of them herding breeds or mixes?
Freedom
05-18-2008, 08:20 PM
Yes, some of it does depend on the breed.
I have bichons. They are known to be velcro dogs! Some folks find it stifling, I enjoy it! Well, except when we all 5 try to crowd into my rather small bathroom. But they INSIST it is more fun than being on the other side of the door, away from MUM! :D
luvofallhorses
05-18-2008, 10:04 PM
My dogs follow me everywhere but I don't mind it. :) Whats their stories? and what breeds are they? maybe they're glued to you. :p Tiger the kitty in my signature is more my shadow than the dogs. :love: I think it's because my dogs are lazy. ;) plus I am Tiger's person and he is very dependent on me. he even sleeps on my head. :) Of course my dogs are more independent atleast I think, but our hound Buster follows me everywhere the silly goose. :) I like being "stalked" by my animals.. hehe when I was younger and in the 1st grade our pit bull mix Daisy followed me into the school! I said that's my dog hehe. :D
Pawsitive Thinking
05-19-2008, 06:59 AM
My two are never very far away but if I do want a few minutes peace I give them a rawhide stick each to chew on...........they both then disappear to different parts of the house to enjoy them, leaving me temporarily dog-free
dukedogsmom
05-19-2008, 10:20 AM
My dog is a lab and his breed is known to do that. But I don't mind it at all. I think it's sweet. I don't have any advice as to how to stop it. I'm sorry that it upsets you. They just want to be close to you, is all. Dogs are pack animals and you're their leader.
buttercup132
05-19-2008, 01:22 PM
Dogs are pack animals and you're their leader. I think that's what it is. You pack leader and that what they do is follow and do what the pack leader does.
joycenalex
05-19-2008, 03:59 PM
Peanut and angel alex follows/followed me 80% of the time, i was often afraid if i stopped too quickly, i'd have 8 feet sticking outta my tush :eek:. As buttercup and dukedogsmom said, you're the pack leader, so they are gonna go with you, anywhere you go. I know sometimes it can be a problem, but i never found a way to make it stop. The treat idea is a good one.
lizbud
05-19-2008, 05:16 PM
My dog Smokey does that all the time. Maggie only does it if she hears
me pick up my keys or put on my shoes.( both mean a trip outside):)
It is bothersome sometimes, but if I conciously ignore them & think only
about what I am doing, it seems to help them & me.:)
Willow Oak
05-20-2008, 03:18 PM
I deny my dogs (and cats) nothing. They mostly follow me everywhere I go. I wouldn't have it any other way!:D
Emeraldgreen
05-20-2008, 09:22 PM
Our two dogs follow us too. We have built them an area for themselves in the yard and they spend quite a few hours in that each day. At night they have their own room to sleep in but in between these times, they're stuck on us like glue!
Maybe you could use some babygates in your house to block them from coming in the kitchen or tv room. That way they could still see you but not be right on your heels.
I agree with the other posts though, it's a pack thing and you're their alpha dog.
minearchy
05-21-2008, 03:18 AM
As far as their breeds go, two are labradors and the other a min pin. The min pin has seperation anxiety for sure, but the labs don't.
I think you guys might be right that they follow me because they follow the pack leader in the wild. I guess that means if I try to make them stop they might get confused because they think they are --supposed-- to follow me.
I guess I should just accept having an entourage.
Thanks all!
Pawsitive Thinking
05-21-2008, 04:28 AM
I guess I should just accept having an entourage.
Enjoy it! at least you will never be lonely
I deny my dogs (and cats) nothing. They mostly follow me everywhere I go. I wouldn't have it any other way!:D
Me too! ;)
Jessika
05-21-2008, 04:35 PM
I guess I should just accept having an entourage.
Thanks all!
TRUST ME, it can get so annoying especially if you are in closed quarters and you start tripping over them... they'll learn quickly not to get underfoot once you step on their feet enough times but it can still get annoying hehe
And wow, I'm amazed, you've posted twice and it still says you only have one post! Hehe
4 Dog Mother
05-28-2008, 08:30 AM
My response is be glad there is only 3 following you - I have 5 dogs and 3 of my daughters are living with me right now. Sometimes all of them follow me - sometimes only 5 or 6, sometimes only 1 or 2. My heart dog Snoopy died a couple of months ago and he truly followed me everywhere! And I miss that more than I can say. The rawhide idea sometimes works but sometimes they all follow me and chew on their rawhide wherever I am.
pitc9
05-28-2008, 11:41 AM
I have a 95 pound shadow. If I stop quick he bumps into me.
I love it!
It's nice to be loved! :love:
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