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Kfamr
03-18-2008, 09:35 PM
Ashley said she can't bring herself to make a thread for her sweet Shadow, so with her permission I've started one.

http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a194/frailwit/shadowmemory.jpg

http://www.petoftheday.com/talk/showthread.php?t=140114;

I just wanted to let you all know that Shadow was helped to the bridge yesterday afternoon.

I just can't bring myself to write her a memorial yet.

:(

http://www.zoto.com/kangashrew13/img/45/3d0a3e89a56460ead94b3f74f6e04c9f.jpg

I know she's up there eating ice cream and chasing jets to her hearts content.

Shadow, I miss you already.

:(


Ashley said she has stopped eating again this weekend and she had declined so much that it was time to let her go.

Having spent a whole day with Ashley and her girl, I fell in complete love with Shadow. We even got to share icecream with her that day. Such a sweet, gentle soul. She will be missed and never forgotten by her pals in Florida.

Rest well sweet girl, meet up with Snoopy, I'm sure you guys can take the tour together.


Ashley, big {{{{hugs}}}} going out to you.

cyber-sibes
03-18-2008, 10:18 PM
Oh Ashley, I'm soooo sorry to hear about Shadow. I know your heart is breaking, she was such a beautiful sweet girl. It's kind of a double-whamy, finding out that we've lost Shadow & Snoopy-- the RB PT-Findlay pack is gaining two wonderful souls. I really can imagine them all lined up, tails wagging, health restored, waiting for the cookies to be passed out. ;)
I'm glad I got to meet Shadow. ((((hugs)))) to you & the rest of your pups.

RobiLee
03-18-2008, 10:22 PM
I'm so sorry to hear this sad new, Ashley. My heart goes out to you. Shadow was such a sweet soul and I'm one of the lucky ones that got to meet her.

I know she is pain free now and having so much fun at the Bridge.

Rest In Peace, Sweet Shadow.

{{{Big hugs for Ashley and the family}}}

kallisto4529
03-18-2008, 10:26 PM
I am so very sorry to hear this about Shadow!!!! My heart just breaks for you, Shadow was very special and I pray all of our babies will show her and Snoopy the ropes. Lots of hugs for you and prayers.

Taz_Zoee
03-18-2008, 10:42 PM
LES :( I am so sorry to hear this. Snoopy and Shadow will have fun together at the bridge.
Hugs to you.
RIP Shadow

K9karen
03-18-2008, 11:02 PM
My heart is breaking. I'm so sorry Ashley. These last 2 days totally suck.

Enjoy the river of ice cream Shadow. We love and miss you forever.

Catty1
03-18-2008, 11:15 PM
Dear Shadow - what a sweet gentle face I see in your pictures...full of love, and a twinkle that might erupt happily when ice cream was near! :)

Rest peacefully, Shadow, and let your mom know you are ok, please.

Ashley {{{{hugs}}}}

ramanth
03-18-2008, 11:27 PM
LES and *HUGS*

shais_mom
03-18-2008, 11:37 PM
love and hugs on the way.
Godspeed Shadow, I'm so glad I met you.

chocolatepuppy
03-19-2008, 05:04 AM
I'm so sorry Ashley. :( Shadow was a beautiful girl and I'm sure will be sadly missed, here at PT also. :( She's playing now at the Rainbow Bridge, young again. {hugs}

cloverfdx
03-19-2008, 08:32 AM
That is a beautiful tribute Kay.

Vela
03-19-2008, 08:55 AM
I'm so sorry you lost your beloved girl. It's just so hard to have that empty place in your heart. It doesn't even seem real sometimes that it can really happen. Hugs and prayers to you=(

K9soul
03-19-2008, 09:18 AM
Oh no :(. Ashley I am so very very sorry. Shadow was such a beautiful girl with the gentlest eyes. It seems unreal that one of the Hoodlums could have gone on to the Rainbow Bridge. I know you must be stricken with grief. :( My thoughts and prayers are with you. I know she will be watching after you.

pitc9
03-19-2008, 09:31 AM
Here's a picture I took of her from last year at the dog park.
http://im1.shutterfly.com/procserv/47b7d726b3127ccebabd65395aa800000036108AaMWTJi1cNT

Shadow, you may be gone but you'll never be forgotten.
:(

{{{hugs}} to you Ashley, your family and your fur crew.

gemini9961
03-19-2008, 10:42 AM
I'm so sorry Ashley. Pretty girl Shadow meet up with Snoopy and Ginger and wait for us as we will see you all one day.

Prayers and hugs for you Ashley.

Jadapit
03-19-2008, 12:01 PM
Ashley, I'm so sorry for your loss. So much sadness on PT lately. Shadow was a beautiful girl, she will be missed. Your in my thoughts. (((Hugs)))

wolf_Q
03-19-2008, 12:07 PM
Oh Ashley I'm so sorry to hear this news. :( Shadow always seemed like such a sweetheart, I know you and your family loved her very much. We'll all miss her, I wish I would have had the chance to meet her.

Have fun at the bridge with all of the other PT dogs beautiful girl, we love you.

Alysser
03-19-2008, 03:26 PM
I am so sorry, Ashley. I think everyone on PT will miss your beautiful girl. RIP dear Shadow. You will always be loved.

k9krazee
03-19-2008, 03:41 PM
April 2nd, 1996 a sweet little Rottweiler came into this world. I was called up and rushed over to my Aunt's house to witness the miracle of birth. As the puppies grew, I was there, the curious little 8 year old that had only ever wanted a dog to call her own. I witnessed the docking and the dew claw removal, I was there when they opened their eyes and they became my favorite playmates as they grew.

Six weeks after the puppies were born I came home to a very special surprise. Shadow was mine. I had no clue that such a thing would ever happen and I was in disbelief. But my dream had come true, only she was even more special than I ever could have imagined.

As the years went by the lazy puppy turned into a strong, stunning adult. We'd "race" the neighbor girl and her Boxer on rollerblades constantly. It was one of Shadow's favorite activities. There I was, an 80lb ten year old with her 100 pound young Rottweiler...on rollerblades. Most would think that that would be a deadly combination, but Shadow was special. Shadow was raised in a house full of children, as my mom did daycare, and she was always the gentlest giant. Many times we'd dress her up, pretend she was the horse for our fake carriage, lay on her or read her a book and she never once complained.

Shadow taught me many things in life. She taught me patience; she was the first dog I ever attempted to train, and she could be extremely stubborn. She taught me endurace; whether it be rollerblading or going for walks she was always ready to go and I had to try hard to keep up with her. No matter what the weather conditions were, she always looked forward to our adventures. She taught me tolerance; she was always so gentle with everbody, and even took the additions of the rest of the Hoodlums in stride, even if she was an only child for 6-7 years. She taught me unconditional love; no matter what she was always as happy as can be wagging her little stump. But most of all she taught me how amazing dogs really can be. She was a dream come true to me and was a once in a lifetime dog. She made my passion for dogs grow and my love for Rottweilers stronger.

I will never forget her quirky love for jets. She could be laying in the garage and come running out to bark at a streak in the sky. We never did understand it. Or the way she loved ice cream more than anything. If we went for a walk and started heading towards her ice cream place she'd pull me the rest of the way there. Or the way she'd go between your legs when she wanted a good ol' butt scratch. It often surprised guests when she did it the first time, and it was always funny watching Shadow trying to go between the legs of somebody shorter. I loved the way she hopped a little when she barked, or growled when you hugged her. We always said it sounded like she was saying "awwww". I loved it when she'd beg and to get your attention she'd suddenly look out the window, at nothing, and growl. You'd ask her who was out there and she'd stare intently at your food. Like, see, I'm defending your house, I'm a good girl now give me food. I'll never forget the first time we went to the lake when she was just a puppy and she fell in the water. She was terrifed after that and never wanted anything to do with swimming. Or she'd chase our 4-wheeler at the cabin through the woods. We'd make my dad slow down so she could ride in the trailer with us. She loved cuddling in front of the TV as well. If you had a blanket and a pillow and were on the floor you were fair game. Most times she'd end up with your entire pillow and most of the blankets by morning. She was never much into playing with toys but she did have a favorite. A little purple dinosaur that she absolutely loved. She liked to sit at the top of the hill in the backyard and bark at the people below. Even before we ever fenced it in, she wouldn't go past that hill. She also loved the winter when we went sledding. She'd chase us down the hill on our sleds and grab our gloves, it was her favorite winter activity. I could go on forever, she was the best all around dog, we could take her anywhere and do anything with her.

I already miss her more than words can describe. She will always be my cow dog and I will always remember the big lug.

I just wished I could have been there when the decision was made. It hurts that I never got to say a real goodbye to my sweet girl. However, I am so thankful I got to spend her last week home with her. I'm going home tomorrow and I am dreading it more than anything. A Shadow-less house just isn't going to be the same.

I have some pictures and videos and I might make a memorial video when I have more time and when it doesn't hurt as much to go through them.

Thanks for all the kind words everybody, it means so much to me.

Cincy'sMom
03-19-2008, 03:55 PM
What a wonderful tribute to Dear Shadow. She certainly was a special girl.

Ginger's Mom
03-19-2008, 03:57 PM
Ashley, thank you so much for sharing that with us. Shadow was a very special girl, and I think she had a special place in the hearts of many Pet Talkers. I am once again reminded how much you can love, and hurt when you lose, a dog you have never met. I have been wondering if you were there when Shadow made the trip or if you were at school. I am sure it is hard not having been there to say good-bye, but the most important part is that you were always there for her when she needed you and shared many special and loving moments with her. {{{Hugs}}} I will be looking forward to the pictures and video.

Daisy and Delilah
03-19-2008, 04:21 PM
I'm so sorry. I'm just seeing this :(

Rest in Peace Shadow :( Play hard at the bridge sweetheart :(

You were such a lovely girl and you will be greatly missed by all. :(

AdoreMyDogs
03-19-2008, 04:36 PM
Oh such a sad time in PT :( So many precious pups are departing :( I'm so sorry to hear of your loss of Shadow. What a darling face she had, so gentle and kind. I never had the pleasure of meeting Shadow, but I can tell she was a very dear soul. Please accept my condolences :( Rest in peace, dear sweet Shadow.

robinh
03-19-2008, 05:50 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. So many loved ones lost recently. It breaks my heart to hear they have left.

Play free at the bridge Shadow. You will be missed.

Freedom
03-19-2008, 07:56 PM
RIP, dear girl, you are now a Shadow in the Wind, brushing past Ashley's cheek, nudging gently on her leg, letting her know you are near and doing well. Keeping and eye on the little girl you loved, who grew into a woman as you outgrew your puppyhood. You both grew up together a bond which will unite you both for Eternity.

RIP, dear girl.

luvofallhorses
03-19-2008, 08:41 PM
omg I am so, so sorry Ashley! :( I LOVED her! Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. (((HUGS))) she was a gorgeous rottie girl and will always be remembered.


Beyond The Rainbow

As much as I loved the life we had and all the times we played,
I was so very tired and knew my time on earth would fade.
I saw a wondrous image then of a place that's trouble-free
Where all of us can meet again to spend eternity.

I saw the most beautiful Rainbow, and on the other side
Were meadows rich and beautiful -- lush and green and wide!
And running through the meadows as far as the eye could see
Were animals of every sort as healthy as could be!
My own tired, failing body was fresh and healed and new
And I wanted to go run with them, but I had something left to do.

I needed to reach out to you, to tell you I'm alright
That this place is truly wonderful, then a bright Glow pierced the night.
'Twas the Glow of many Candles shining bright and strong and bold
And I knew then that it held your love in its brilliant shades of gold.

For although we may not be together in the way we used to be,
We are still connected by a cord no eye can see.
So whenever you need to find me, we're never far apart
If you look beyond the Rainbow and listen with your heart.

wolf_Q
03-19-2008, 08:44 PM
Beautiful tribute, Ashley. {{HUGS}}

beeniesmom
03-19-2008, 09:40 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. :(

ramanth
03-19-2008, 10:44 PM
*hugs*

kallisto4529
03-20-2008, 12:46 AM
That was a beautiful tribute to a beautiful girl!!! Bless you for sharing it with us and letting us see a part of the special bond you had with Shadow. My prayers are with you.

ParNone
03-20-2008, 09:06 AM
Wonderful tribute Ashley. I feel I got to know Shadow through your words. What a beautiful soul. God sure needed a whole lot of special angels these last couple of weeks. Have fun at the bridge, Shadow.

WELOVESPUPPIES
03-20-2008, 09:10 AM
Oh Ashley...my heart breaks for you. Shadow was a remarkable girl and reading your post on her was happy sad, all the sweet sweet memories you have of her. I am sending loving ((hugs)) your way. Rest is peace beautiful Shadow, you will forever be greatly missed.

anna_66
03-20-2008, 10:26 AM
Ashely, I hope you got my message on myspace because I just wasn't able to post here.

I hate the thought of never being able to see your beautiful girl again, but I'm so glad that I did get to meet her.

This is one of my favorite pictures of her that I took...
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v43/anna66/Picture046.jpg

She was a sweet girl and will be missed by us all.

Lots of (((HUGS)))
Anna

cyber-sibes
03-20-2008, 11:18 AM
That is a beautiful tribute, Ashley. I didn't get any closeups head on, but found several pics of Shadow from the last year's Memorial day pic- nic, just before we left Ohio:
Shadow, smiling for the group pic!
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v432/cyber-sibes/PT%20Memorial%20Day%2007/IMG_1964.jpg
Shadow & Sherman intently watching to see if Miss Luci can eat that big cookie all by herself:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v432/cyber-sibes/PT%20Memorial%20Day%2007/IMG_1911.jpg
Star, Shadow, Sherman & Jack:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v432/cyber-sibes/PT%20Memorial%20Day%2007/StarShadowShermanJack.jpg
((((hugs))))), to you & the hoodlums

RobiLee
03-20-2008, 11:57 AM
Lovely tribute, Ashley.

I stopped by to let you know that I'm thinking about you. {{{HUGS}}}

Cinder & Smoke
03-20-2008, 12:17 PM
:(
>sniff<
:(




She was even more special than I ever could have imagined.

We could take her anywhere and do anything with her.

Ashley ~

A Beautiful Tribute to a Wonderful Friend.

Rest In Eternal Peace, Dear Shadow.

/s/ :( Phred

Cataholic
03-20-2008, 12:58 PM
RIP, Sweet Shadow, you were much loved. Hugs to you, Ashley.

ChrisH
03-20-2008, 04:58 PM
Such sad news. :(

Thank you for sharing that lovely tribute to your beautiful girl with us.

Rest in Peace beautiful Shadow.

dukedogsmom
03-20-2008, 05:43 PM
So very sorry. I know you'll miss your special girl. Just remember she'll always be with you in your heart and memories. I know that's not the same but in time, the memories and photos will be special gifts. And remember, it's not goodbye but until you meet again. Shadow, I hope you've been given a grand welcome at the RB. You'll be missed here on this earth.

bckrazy
03-21-2008, 06:56 AM
OMG.

I am so sorry, Ashley... I can only imagine how hard this is for you. Shadow was a beautiful girl, with an amazing heart. I can't believe she was 12, I always thought she was so much younger. She always looked so happy.

That memorial really choked me up. I'll miss seeing her, so much. She was lucky to have such a wonderful life and family, and you were lucky to have to have such a great dog.

caseysmom
03-23-2008, 05:26 PM
I don't know how I missed this, I am so sorry she was beautiful. Play hard at the bridge sweetie.

Jennute
03-25-2008, 08:40 PM
My prayers are with you and Shadow, Sasha sends her love and slobber :) Hope to see you soon

k9krazee
04-02-2008, 09:35 AM
Happy Birthday Big Girl!
It would have been your 12th birthday.
We had made plans to go to the doggie ice cream shop.
You had never been there before.
I wish we would have gone the week I was home when you started getting sick.
You weren't feeling up to par, I was really hoping you'd feel a little better before we went.
I'm so sorry. Hope you're enjoying the bridge,
I love and miss you!

http://www.zoto.com/kangashrew13/img/45/9c043fbbdeb07655e8f58dc3b4a9c794.jpg
(April 2nd, 2006)

http://www.zoto.com/kangashrew13/img/45/067807df36908f923f33bb6d0dcf929f.jpg

http://www.zoto.com/kangashrew13/img/45/2b9c2120956e0df32825d2ea46dd5215.jpg

http://www.zoto.com/kangashrew13/img/45/975c81d55f7bbf389002b9e16301c627.jpg

I do have a video in process, but school has been sooo darn busy lately.

Cinder & Smoke
04-02-2008, 10:00 AM
God has a Partee Couch just like this one, up at The Bridge.

http://www.zoto.com/kangashrew13/img/45/975c81d55f7bbf389002b9e16301c627.jpg

HAPPIE Birfday,
* Shadow *!

;)

cyber-sibes
04-02-2008, 11:17 AM
Party time at the RB! Happy birthday Shadow!

Ginger's Mom
04-02-2008, 12:17 PM
I am positive that there is a party at the bridge today, and I am equally sure that there is ice cream for our special big girl. Just don't share any with Peaches, please.

Kater
04-02-2008, 12:32 PM
Oh Ashely, I'm so sorry for your loss. I know you have a treasure chest of wonderful memories with your big girl. I hope she's having a great bday up at the RB. My thoughts are with you today...

tikeyas_mom
04-12-2008, 05:25 PM
Oh no, I cant believe I didnt see this post till now!!! I am so sorry for your loss Ashley.. I can imagine how much your heart must hurt right now :(. Now Shadow can romp in Heaven with all our other beloves pettalk pups that have passed on.. Again, I am so sorry for your loss.. Keep smiling and dont forget how much Shadow loves you.


:(

luvofallhorses
04-12-2008, 07:48 PM
(((Ashley))) I am sure Shadow is enjoying all the ice cream she can get at the bridge for her birthday. :) we miss you sweet, Shadow. :(

k9krazee
04-17-2008, 09:17 AM
I had a dream last night about Shadow. It was all very strange, because in my dream she was gone too, but still stuck around the house. My mom explained to me (in the dream) that Shadow has been back for regular visits ever since she left, usually around dinner time. It just put a smile on my face this morning, it has been one month today. Oh how I miss my big girl.

RobiLee
04-17-2008, 02:07 PM
Awww, I think that is a sweet dream to have.

{{HUGS}}

ramanth
04-17-2008, 06:25 PM
That sounds like a lovely dream. *HUGS*

KYS
04-17-2008, 08:54 PM
I think are loved ones (fur or human) come back and visit us
through our dreams.
RIP Shadow and Happy Birthday up at the rainbow bridge..
Sending lots and lots of (((HUGS)))

*LabLoverKEB*
04-20-2008, 05:30 PM
Ashley, I am so so so sorry to hear about sweet Shadow girl. I can tell you really, really loved her. Rest In Peace, Shadow... you will be greatley missed. :( :(

captain
04-28-2008, 10:01 PM
Oh My - I have been away from the board too long.

I was so sorry to read about Shadow. You wrote a beautiful tribute, and she sure was a beautiful girl.

HUGS to you across the miles
LES
Michelle