Boo's reading with Nancy

[Laura's Babies]

1st....That woman is simply AMAZING!! She told me things that I didn't even know that made sense after I thought about it and figured out what it meant.

Now, for Boo. She said Boo is VERY angry! Angry! Angry! Angry! She feels like she has been bounced around all over the place and she is SO fustrated and ANGRY! Nothing is like it was! She has nothing familar, nothing is the same anymore. She said Boo is not depressed but just ANGRY! Nancy said she is just a tough, angry, extreemly dominant presense. She walks through the house howeling because of her angry and to say "GET OUT OF MY WAY!"
She feels off balance here, hasn't adjusted and don't want to deal with adjusting.

Get this... Mama came through to defend Boo. It made Mama mad that we were calling her baby mean and angry and she wanted us to know Boo is like she (mama) was, tough..... NOT a tough "cookie" like Nancy and I kept referring to Boo but a tough "gal" that does have her soft spots. Mama was upset that I said she was tough and angry too and wanted me to remember she had soft spots too, although she didn't show it either. They BOTH seem tough but have soft spots and for me to remember that! Nancy asked if that was how Mama referred to Boo and I didn't recall ever hearing her call Boo "Gal".. (A phone call to my sister to ask and Mama DID call Boo "gal"!.. I swear, I did not know that!!!!)

She said Mama's death was VERY tramatizing to Boo. Boo understood Mama died since she was there with her when she passed, she understands it completely and she was so tramatized by it. Boo has not been happy since. Boo has not made the connection to Mama being MY Mama Too, or that I lived with them.

Nancy said she is doubtful Boo will ever be happy and don't think she will ever get over her anger. She said if Boo dies tomorrow, she would be happy because she wants to be with Mama again and not to hurt MY feelings but Mama isn't waiting for me, she is waiting for Boo. (That did not hurt my feelings since I already had that figured out.)

As for what to do about Boo, sending her to my sister or keeping her here, she said Boo is where she should be. She has had enough trama and uprooting.

Thinking back, after Mama died, Sis moved 4 times so that is all the uprooting Boo has been through after she lost Mama. Now wonder she is so upset... I just tonight put all that together.

As for why she HATES Samantha. For one thing she will never like these other cats here but she especially hates Samantha because of how SWEET Samantha is.... that irritates Boo to no end. She said Samantha could just wake up and stretch and that will irritate Boo.

Samantha, she said is just a sweet, sweet cat. Said she just gets so much love and sweetness from her and that she is SO apperciative. Nancy didn't understand the apperciative part until I told her about the former home she had and the 2 years on my doorstep begging to be mine. She told me Samantha adores me and just loves me SO much!.. I told her I know, I can see it in her eyes when she looks at me and I adore her just as much.

Boo also brought in what Nancy called a "tiger" cat and we figured out that was Amy. She said Boo will never respect Amy and never like her. She warned me, NOBODY is free from Boo's scorn here!

She said I will not change Boo so to leave her alone and let her work it out on her own if she ever does. To spend time with her, do it in a room alone with her with the door shut.

She told me some things that Mama wanted me to know and she is not sure Mama wanted me to discuss it with anyone, just things she wanted me to know. Things I was unaware of but now I understand.

Anyway, she said Mama feels better now but feels awful for Boo... so do I!

This was well worth the wait to get and I was stunned by some of the things she told me, things I had to call and ask Sis like Mama using that word "Gal".. This woman is for REAL! Just seeing things from the cats view was worth it. I just hate to hear how angry Boo is and there is nothing I can do but leave her alone...

She said she has spoke to Boo and so has Mama but don't know if it will help or not. Funny, but the bedroom door has been open all evening and Boo was in there until Nancy called and then she came in here pacing the floor just about the whole time I was on the phone with her. When I got off the phone, Boo went back to the bedroom.

She will do a follow up call in a few days to see if I have anymore questions.

[CathyBogart]

Nancy is really amazing. Poor Boo. I hope she is able to get past the hurt and anger and live in peace with the household, even if she never fully adjusts.

[Catty1]

I hope Nancy and your Mama can tell Boo how much you love her - that you will do anything you can to help - and even that others here on PT have seen her and think she is wonderful. And that you will never move her again!

I had to smile - Boo is ANGRY and seeing sweet Samantha...kind of like waking up with a hangover and having a big Smiley Face shoved in front of your eyes! :)

Boo - your Mama loves you in heaven...it's okay to be loved, it's okay to be sweet.

Laura - is there anything else your Mama owned that you can get - that Boo might get some comfort from?

HUGS and prayers to Boo. She's had a tough time...I hope she can feel just a bit of gratitude, even if it's just for regular meals.

[krazyaboutkatz]

Nancy sure is amazing and I'm glad that she was able to help you understand Boo better. Hopefully in time she'll become less angry towards everyone. Thanks for sharing her reading with us.:)

[G535]

Poor kitty, it must have been a terrible time for her, cats really hate change of any type. Maybe a bit more love and attention away from the other cats will help her adjust.

[Laura's Babies]

is there anything else your Mama owned that you can get - that Boo might get some comfort from?

Catty, I have Mama's bedroom furniture and her glider rocker... All of what has been redone since I got it but I had that with me since 2000 when I moved, so I know there is no way she remembers those things. My sister is not one to hold on to anything and in all those moves, she got rid of a lot..... They took very little with them when they went to Washington State anyway.

All I can do is take Nancy's words and leave her alone and give her time and hope and pray she will realize how much she is loved and cherished.

She asked me how I heard about her and I told her from a pet board I go to that speaks very highly of her..... And now, I will speak highly of her too! She is really amazing!

[catnapper]

Amazing!!!! I am so happy this settled many things for you. Boo looks so sweet in the photos, I hope she finds some contentment in your home and lets her anger subside.

I sure wish I had t he money to do another reading with her. She was so far on the target for me that at the time I thought she was making some things up.... but now I see she was right on target! She told me Pouncer kept telling her HE was the pee-er. I was sure it was Allen. Nope, I was way wrong. Pouncer was the pee-er. Sure Allen pees from time to time, like right now to voice his hatred of Tuscan, but Pouncer was the prime suspect. Also, based on her suggestion of Harry stalking Allen at the litterbox, I made a few changes so that theres no more Allen poops outside the box!

[Laura's Babies]

Isn't what she does amazing?! How many of us wish we could get into a cats mind to see what they are thinking??? I wish I could do it and the fact that she does it through pictures........ WOW!

I told her I wanted her to read my handicap cat but in the winter months since the winter months are so hard on her and I mainly want to know if she is in any pain and if there is anything I can do to make things better/easier for her. I thought it was amazing that Boo even brought Amy into the reading.

Could you imagine the fun she would have reading GIZ!!!!?

[mruffruff]

It's very possible that Boo will be more accepting of the situation now. She may understand what's going on better after Nancy opened the line of communication.

My cat Shai was a terror from the time I got her. When Nancy read her, she told me that Shai was angry at me for thinking she was afraid of me or anything! Shai and I ended up with a better understanding of each other. Now Shai is less angry and more accepting of all the other cats and even sits on my lap sometimes. It was an amazing transformation.

I saw the difference in attitude almost immediately. And it keeps getting better all the time.

Some of Boo's anger may also be fear that she will be moved around again. If she knows that isn't going to happen, maybe she will be less angry.

[Medusa]

This Nancy does sound amazing. Given the work that I do, I have access to lots of so-called pet psychics and none of them seemed like they knew what they were talking about. But after reading so many glowing reviews about Nancy, I think I'm going to give her a call about my Specs and why he behaves the way he does. I'm so glad that you got some answers. :)

[catmandu]

I Would Have Them Do A Reading On The Found Cats, Except They All Seem Reasonably Happy And Content And It Would Disillusion Me If They Werent Happy At The Hotel!!!

[Pawsitive Thinking]

Wow! Pity we don't have a UK Nancy - love to know what she would make of my lot!

Sending virtual scritchies to Boo

[emily_the_spoiled]

Hi Laura,

I am very glad that you were able to get a reading done on Boo. Nancy has done readings on all the cats in the house and I had one like you. Miss Bear was NOT happy with life and felt that she had been short changed (her previous owner moved to CA from MD and was going to put her in a shelter at 11yo). After her reading, Miss Bear and I have "reached an understanding". She will never be a cuddely lap cat but she seems much more pleasant to be around now. She has a room to herself with none of the other cats bothering her.

So giving Boo time maybe the best thing you can do for her...

[jennielynn1970]

Nancy was really on target with Ally cat too... Ally's just mean. I feel bad for her, and would love to be able to cuddle her and make her feel better, but she's just nasty. She's evil to other cats and bites cats and people. Sigh.

Poor Boo... Too bad there isn't a blanket or something that smells like "mom" for her. I hope she will learn to keep her aggression to herself and not do serious damage to the others!

I think a lot of people underestimate the feelings and emotions that animals feel. I also think that animals have personality disorders just like people do (I swear Ally is schizophrenic... her pupils dilate and everything and she just turns like a switch went off).

[sandragonfly]

laura, it's really nice that she can help you with boo and I hope for a positive change from now and on.

echoing what catmandu said, never have had my ark that needed a reading but I can imagine the misery you're experencing. just last week I thought about having nancy to talk with locke (my latest kitty) because he's somewhat upset - it only takes nancy a few minutes - days from pictures...

but with my patience I remember locke was shredded badly by one evil cat when I dropped him off and went gone for "too long" (three days camping), then went missing along with all of my other cats for about a week, then went and lived in a motorhome out nowhere in country with 10 of my "furstrangers" and me going in and out too many times commuting from/to the city and didn't get to see him or my other kids for another month and half because of recuperating and hospital visits.. then lastly, he survived the drive across america knowing no one actually.

poor him! he haven't really 'met' his meowmie yet or know he may be ok now until just two weeks ago (again, been in and out with meetings and second surgery recovery) after a LONG summer.. so I don't blame him at all and trying to gain his trust as much as he can tolerate, slowly. presently, sometimes he'd sulk like he never knew me, totally opposite of sweetness when I first met, well, picked him up. :( all I know he's not angry.. anyway, I hope this can give you some hope - maybe there's a boo you've never met before and she's waiting for you. it was said that she's staying with you... I wish you and her a better & peaceful life soon. how long has she been with you now?

[RedHedd]

Isn't Nancy the best? I just had a follow-up on Mitzi - my little mynx has been meowing a lot - especially when I go to bed or in the a.m. when I'm in the shower. Turns out, she just wants attention! We've gotten into the habit of having a daily play time and now Mitzi wants MORE! She also got confused when I took a short vacation and left her alone - she thought she had done something wrong! Poor little bean.

[Laura's Babies]

RedHedd... awwe! She thought you left because she had done something wrong... That is just so pitiful...

sandragonfly.. I have had Boo since feb., this year...and after this reading, I am glad as all get out that we did not put her through that 5 day trip with my sister and husband when they moved to Washington State. Poor thing, a 5 day trip in a moving truck probably would have done her in!

Everyone... people just do not understand the feeling a animal has. We never realized that Boo was tramatized by Mama's death or even all the moves since Mama died. Coming to live with me was her 5th move in 7 years,.... No wonder she feels so tossed about! We thought all this time that she just settled in really good and stayed on the bed all day because she liked the quiet bedroom.. My heart breaks for her now that I know all this and it makes me love her even more.

Nancy is so good at doing this and so "right on the money" with it.. Things are still falling in place that she said and making more and more sense to me.

[moosmom]

:eek: :eek: WOW!!

What is this woman's name and phone number???

I'm so glad you finally found out everything. It's amazing to be able to put the meaning together with the body language.

She sounds fantastic. Where is she located???

[Catty1]

Donna: [email protected]

[Laura's Babies]

I HIGHLY RECCOMEND NANCY to EVERYBODY!! She will amaze you and things will suddenly fall into pace now that you understand. It'll make so many light bulb moments when you put it together with what has been going on in your house..

... part of the grieving process.... is ANGER! I think that was the beginning of Boo's anger. From now on, I will look at ALL cats thing and remember they have the exact same reactions and feelings as humans.

moosmom, all I know is she is in a different time zone than me, there is a hours differance in where she lives and where I live.

[RedHedd]

:eek: :eek: WOW!!

What is this woman's name and phone number???

I'm so glad you finally found out everything. It's amazing to be able to put the meaning together with the body language.

She sounds fantastic. Where is she located???

She's somewhere on the East Coast. She is FANTASTIC! and so right on the money.

[cassiesmom]

Isn't Nancy the best? I just had a follow-up on Mitzi - my little mynx has been meowing a lot - especially when I go to bed or in the a.m. when I'm in the shower. Turns out, she just wants attention! We've gotten into the habit of having a daily play time and now Mitzi wants MORE! She also got confused when I took a short vacation and left her alone - she thought she had done something wrong! Poor little bean.

Awwww, Mitzi! I was just thinking about you this morning. I have to tell you, there's a rule at our house. When I'm showering, the bathroom door HAS to stay open so Cassie can go in and out. She usually waits in the bathroom and leaves when she hears the water go off because she knows she will get dripped on as I step out. Tell your meowmom that sleep and baths are hereby restricted in favor of play time! I was just thinking of your beautiful fluffiness today.

[krazyaboutkatz]

:eek: :eek: WOW!!

What is this woman's name and phone number???

I'm so glad you finally found out everything. It's amazing to be able to put the meaning together with the body language.

She sounds fantastic. Where is she located???
She lives in Michigan and I've also talked to her before but since I'm 3 hours behind her it's very hard to set up a good time for both of us.

[shais_mom]

that's amazing! :D
Donna
I have her name and email - I'll pm you -
she's awesome.
I got her name and email from Kimmy.

[shais_mom]

Wow! Pity we don't have a UK Nancy - love to know what she would make of my lot!

Sending virtual scritchies to Boo
actually since she does this via email -
she can help you! :)

[catfamily]

Laura this is so amazing and I'm so glad your sharing this with everyone and myself.
My cat BooBoo that passed on was the only cat that was sooooo close to me it was unreal.We were in each others heads.We were attached!
I know he's waiting for me.
I never experienced such closeness with anything like that before.

I'm sure it was exactly the same with your mom and Bo.
That lady Nancy sounds like the real thing.
I'm so glad you got to talk with her.

I may get in touch with her some day also.