Tango

[Tollers-n-Dobes]

Tango woke up this morning and can't move/has no control of her entire back end at all. She just lays down crying, howling, shaking, and panting. We'll be going to the vet's in about an hour (when they open). I'd appreciate it if you could all keep my girl in your thoughts in the mean time though. The same thing happened to her brother (Winter) last November, and he ultimately had to be PTS. :(

Most recent (and last) update just incase you can't find it:

She's gone. :(

The specialist said that even if he did the surgery, she'd never, ever be able to walk again. That's no life for her, and anybody who knew her or has met her would agree. He said there's a possibility that she had a tumor on her spinal cord (but wouldn't know unless he opened her up), or she had degenerative disc disease. He's 98% sure it was the latter, and either way, the outcome wouldn't have been good. When I saw her today, she had no feeling at all from about the base of her neck, down her back. It was awful.

I hope nobody thinks we should have tried harder. We did what we could, and putting her to sleep was our best option and the best decision for her. She wouldn't have been happy at all being stuck in a wheel chair for the remainder of her life - she just isn't that type of dog.

[pitc9]

Millions of {{{{hugs}}}} and prayers to you and Tango.
:(

[angelbow20]

Lots of prayers for Tango.

[Vela]

ACK! I haven't been on PT much but I saw this and had to reply. I REALLY hope it's nothing serious. Lots of prayers for you all, I hope is doesn't come to that! I'm so sorry I hope she is better soon.

[WELOVESPUPPIES]

Aww Tango girl I surely hope that you are all better soon. I am sending out lots of prayes with hugs and kisses from the heart to you and your family.

[Freedom]

Ohd ear, PLEASE dear White Coats, find a way to help Tango! Did you find out what happened with her brother to cause this?
Prayers on the way!

[k9krazee]

I couldn't open this thread fast enough. Tango is in my thoughts and prayers. ((((hugs))))))

[RedyreRotties]

All good wishes and thoughts going out to you and Tango this morning. I will be checking back for an update.

[Queen of Poop]

Prayers and everything crossed for Tango.

[4 Dog Mother]

Thoughts and prayers going out for Tango.

[cyber-sibes]

Prayers for Tango & you. Lots of prayers.

[Taz_Zoee]

LES :( You and Tango will be in my thoughts today.

[cloverfdx]

Good vibes on the way for Tango.. all fingers, paws and claws will be crossed for her.

[BC_MoM]

Prayers are with you and Tango. :(

[Queen of Poop]

Thinking about you and Tango. I think you're in Calgary. Did you know that there is a new pet emergency hospital just off of Glenmore and Deerfoot that's open 24 hours? I've even seen ambulances there! They are very highly recommended. I sure hope Tango is ok.

[K9soul]

Just stopped by quick this morning and saw this. Please know that Tango is in my prayers. I hope and pray there will be a good update on her later. Thinking of you :(. Many hugs sent your way.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

How are you doing Tango? Maybe its something like a trapped nerve

[gardengirl]

Best wishes for Tango. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

[Zippy]

Tango is in my prayers and thoughts.
(((HUGS)))

[shais_mom]

I'm so sorry to hear this. :(
thoughts and prayers on the way for sure...

[jennielynn1970]

Oh! Poor Tango! Thoughts and prayers on the way!

[RobiLee]

Lots of prayers for Tango. I'll be thinking about her all day and waiting for your update.

[Flatcoatluver]

Oh my goodness (((HUGS))) Tango and you will be in my prayers.

[pitc9]

Thinking of you.....

[.sarah]

OMG, I am so sorry!

[Husky_mom]

OMG!!..... thoughts on the way...... hoped everything is ok......

I really got scared when i opened the thread...... let us know.......

my heart jumped when i read about Winter..... for one sec I thought I read Winston.... how scary....... and how sad for Winter...... hope Tango is not onthe smae path....... husky vibes her way.......

[RosaLee]

best wishes for tango

[Queen of Poop]

Checking in for an update. Praying for the best.

[Hellow]

OMG poor Tango!:eek: Lots of hopes & prayers that Tango gets better. (((((hugs)))))

[Sevaede]

***HUG***

Great vibes for you and Tango. The same thing happened to my RB cat Tier. :( I am hoping and wishing that your beautiful, darling girl gets well soon! :(

[WELOVESPUPPIES]

Checking in...No news yet??? I have been thinking of Tango all day and praying that everything is okay(or at least fixable). Still sending hugs and kissed for your QUICK recovery Tango girl.

[Kfamr]

Oh how scary. I hope your girl is okay, Devan. :(

[Glacier]

All paws crossed.

[Daisy and Delilah]

Thoughts and prayers going out from here in Florida. This is so upsetting!! Get better Tango!!! :(

[lute]

I'm so sorry! I hope Tango is ok! I can't wait to see an update!

[Freedom]

Just stopped in to see if there is any news yet. Still sending loads of prayers for you and Tango from RI!

[wolfsoul]

Oh no, I hope everything is okay. :( Please update soon! Poor Tango..

[cassiesmom]

just checking in for news (((hugs)))

[beeniesmom]

Oh, how awful and scary.
Hugs and prayers coming your way.

[caseysmom]

Your in my thought Tango hope everything will be okay.

[pitc9]

Checking back for an update.... :(

{{{hugs}}}

[DrKym]

Devan I am just now seeing this! I am so sorry honey! Prayers and candles for your amazing baby girl. she will be in all of our thoughts!

[Whisk_Luva]

Not Tango! :eek:

I really really really hope and pray that Tango will be ok! :(

(((Hugs)))

[KittyGurl]

You need to get Tango to the vet IMMEDITALY! If she can't control herself, she might of had a stroke. You need to get her to the vet!

{{{HUGS}}} to you and Tango. Get better, sweetie! PT prayers are coming your way!

[IRescue452]

I hope she will be alright. She'll be in our thoughts. Please be something simple like throwing her back out.

[petslover]

I been checking this thread often today. I hope to hear a good update.

[Aspen and Misty]

Prayers from Alaska for your sweet baby. I'm so sorry to hear that Tango isn't feeling well. Please keep us updated.



Ashley

[Ginger's Mom]

Oh no! I just got back from a long weekend, and I am just seeing this. I hope that the reason you haven't been able to update is because you are working with your little girl and helping her to get stronger and heal faster. I am so so sorry. Okay, I am off to say some very serious prayers for our special girl.

[slleipnir]

OMG, I'm so sorry to hear this! I hope everything is ok! She'll be in my thoughts :(

[Alysser]

Poor Tango, I am so sorry about this! I hope the poor girls okay!! ((((hugs))))

[ramanth]

Many thoughts and prayers for you and Tango. *hugs*

[Queen of Poop]

Checking in. Still praying that sweet Tango will be ok.

[Tollers-n-Dobes]

I apologize for taking so long to update you guys. We spent about 2 hours at our vet, and then had to go see a back surgery specialist, and we sat there for about 3 hours waiting to go into our consultation. She's staying overnight at our vet and then we're going to get some sort of test done on her tomorrow morning (A mylogram I think it was called, but am not sure). We would have gotten that done today, but they said that we'd have to wait until tomorrow. We don't know what the outcome will be as of yet. We can put her through surgery, but the vet/specialist said it's doubtful that she'll be able to run, jump, and play properly again (and that is her life - it's all she lives for). Currently all we know is that she's slipped at least one disc, maybe blew another. The X-ray couldn't show a whole lot. I'll definitely update again once I know more. She's in a ton of pain right now (which means there is probably something else going on - because if she was simply paralyzed, she wouldn't be able to feel much). She bit my mom, our vet, and my dad today. Something she'd never even think about doing normally. Oh, and our vet thinks it's partly herditary and because she's such an active, energetic dog, she could have easily done it by chasing her ball like she normally does.

Thankyou for all of your well wishes and such. They mean a lot to me.

ETA: Here are two pictures I took of her earlier:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v503/Tollerlover/Untitled.jpg

We're going to do absolutely everything we can for her, and give her the best chance possible.

[.sarah]

I am so sorry :( I hope there is something that can be done for her. I will certainly keep her and you in my thoughts.

[Danegirl2208]

:( Oh no, my heart dropped when I read this...Sending tons of prayers your way. Please, please keep us updated. :( ((hugs))

Come on Tango, I know you can get through this, we love you!

[Alysser]

I am so sorry about this. :( We'll know you will do everything you can for her, and whatever choice you make, it will be the right one and you'll consider her quality of life. (((hugs)))

[WELOVESPUPPIES]

I am still praying for you Tango. Giant ((hugs)) and **kisses** coming your way sweetheart.

Dear God,
I ask you to be with Tango in her time of need, lay a healing hand upon her and ease her pain. I ask that you be with the vets tomorrow, help them find what is causing her pain and help guide their hands to correct the problem. Please comfort her family and allow them to feel all the love that their PT friends have for them and the prayers that we are all sending their way. Sometimes Lord we have to make the decision that you have laid upon us and allow our babies to go to the Rainbow Bridge, only you know if this is Tango's time. If it is please comfort her family and help them through that most difficult decision for they love their baby girl and will only do what is best for her. But I pray with all my heart that this is not the case, not now...that she will be better because anything is possible through you.
I pray all these things in Jesus' name.
Amen.

[Freedom]

Couldn't put it better than the prayer in the prior post.

Hugs to you and your family. Lots of prayers for Tango. Please keep us updated when you can.

[jennielynn1970]

Such a sweet, sweet face... I'll be keeping Tango in my thoughts and prayers. I hope there is something the vet's can do to ease her pain, while also repairing her injuries.

Big hugs to Tango... get better sweetie!

[cyber-sibes]

:( Poor Tango, I hope they are able to give her some meds to relieve the pain tonight. My heart goes out to you, this is so sudden. Perhaps tomorrow you will know more after what the tests reveal. I'm so sorry she's ill. She's a strong girl, though, (((hugs))) to you and your precious girl.
~Pat

[slleipnir]

Thanks for the update. I'll be praying for her tonight. I hope everything goes well tomorrow

[dukedogsmom]

Bless her and your hearts! She looks so sad and that just breaks my heart. I just now found out about this. I am so very sorry. I hope the future won't be sad. I just love that sweet dog. Please give her some hugs from me and a kiss on the head. I know how much it hurts. I hope tomorrow goes well. I hope you get a miracle.

[shais_mom]

I'm so sorry to hear this.
I'll keep praying and thinking of her.
She looks so sad. :(

[critter crazy]

Oooo.....I am just now seeing this thread!! I am so sorry that our girl Tango is going through this!! I sure hope that there is something that can be done for such a sweet and Energenic dog!! Many Prayers coming your way!!

[chocolatepuppy]

Sweet Tango will be in my prayers.

[Bengalz]

That sweet face doesn't deserve such pain - I hope something can be done to make her more comfortable. What a heart-breaking day for you.

I am hoping for the very best outcome for your baby girl Tango and sending lots of hugs and prayers your way.

[Cincy'sMom]

Lots of thoughts and prayers coming your way.

This winter, my BIL's dog, a beagle mix slipped two discs in his back and had to have surgery. He has been doing wonderful since and although he has a slight limp when he gets tired, he is playful and energetic as ever. I wish the same sort of success and recovery for Tango.

[Taz_Zoee]

Major LES now. :( You and your family will be in my thoughts through this difficult time.

[wolf_Q]

I am so sorry to hear this news. :( Tango is one of my favorite PT dogs, I know she is loved by so many here. Please know I'm thinking of you and Tango, I'm hoping for the best possible outcome.

[Aspen and Misty]

I'll be keeping Tango in my thoughts. I'm so sorry to hear she is going through this. She is such a beautiful girl.

Prayers on the way for yoru sweet girl.

Ashley :(

[BC_MoM]

Ugh, I'm so sorry, Devan. I'm really praying hard for Tango, and you and your family right now.

[Queen of Poop]

Hopefully the tests will show something positive. I continue to keep you and Tango in my thoughts. I've asked my RB doggie, Sami to stay with Tango and keep her company and provide a measure of comfort.

[Pembroke_Corgi]

I am so so sorry to hear about Tango. :( She is such a wonderful dog and I know how much she means to you. My thoughts are with you and I hope for the best.

[Tollers-n-Dobes]

Thanks everyone. :)

Our vet phoned earlier and said she was doing a bit better and was a little more comfortable and relaxed now (thanks to the pain medication). She still can't move her back end or anything obviously, but at least she's not yelping everytime she goes to move positions and isn't panting and shaking terribly.

It feels so weird without her, and so boring. I can't imagine living without her permanently. She's not even 5 years old yet. I guess it's even harder because Echo was about the same age when she had to be PTS and that's all I can think about.

[cassiesmom]

Devan, can they give Tango steroids to reduce the inflammation to the disc that is slipped? (I'm a nurse) And something for pain? An acquaintance on the other pet forum I read has a dog that had back problems and made a terrific recovery with steroids, pain meds, and antibiotics. It was not a fast recovery by any means though. Please let us know what the myelogram shows. Thoughts and prayers for Tango.

Edited to add: I went to gratefulness.org this morning and lit a cyber-candle for Tango

[IRescue452]

Think positive. Maybe she won't even need surgery. And if she does it could work out fine. Autumn and Buster have both slipped discs. You can get her a doggie wheelchair if she's in no pain but doesn't recover her walking. The one thing that comes to mind right now is her nerves not coming back as well after such a wait. But positive thoughts are what we need to send for Tango right now.

[pessimisaurus]

oh my god Im completely heartbroken at this news. this is so shocking, I cant imagine what you must be feeling, I am so sorry. I know how special she is and how much youve accomplished with her. I hope you will get some good news tomorrow, or at the very least some definitive answers. I will be keeping Tango and your family in my thoughts. :(:(:( ***GOOD LUCK***

[kimlovescats]

I'm so very sorry to see this about Tango! It was hard enough to see my AnnaBelle paralyzed after she ruptured a disc, but at least she wasn't in any pain! It must be awful knowing that Tango is hurting too! :( I hope that is a good sign though, that maybe she won't lose all of her feeling and will improve!

Hugs,
Kim

[delidog]

Oh Poor Tango,
Please Know that Tango & You are in our Thoughts & Prayers for a Speedy Recovery!!!!!
My Heart Goes Out to You Dearest Tango!!

[captain]

I am so sorry to be reading this ......... my thoughts, prayers and {{{gentle hugs}}} go to you, Tango, and your entire family.

[Shelteez2]

Devan I'm so sorry to hear about this. You and Tango are in my thoughts. I was at Sue's house earlier today and she filled me in on what she knew at the time. Again I am so sorry.

[Flatcoatluver]

Devan, I am so sorry. I am in tears, I understand completly what your going through. (((HUGS))) Tango will be in my prayers.

[crow_noir]

Oh no!!! Poor Tango.

Would water physical therapy be an option?

[Cinder & Smoke]

HI, God ~

Since You're gonna be Out & About doin Klinik Visits later tuday ...
Would You mind addin Tango to Your list?

Kan You meet the Tango White Coats inna Lab an Help wiffa tests on her back?
We're all Purrayin that there's a Fix fur her problem.

THANKS, God!

/s/ the Prayer Pups

[Giselle]

Oh God :( I'm at a loss for words. I'm hoping that it's one slipped disc and that she'll be able to recuperate fully. I know a lot of breeds can get slipped discs, but I never realized how serious it could get and how much pain it can put a pup in :( I'm so sorry; miracles do happen, though, and I *know* Tango will make it through even brighter and better than before!

[shais_mom]

My heart just simply breaks everytime I think of you and Tango.
But it brought back a memory of a dog I saw when Anna, Phred and I went to a Bark in the Park. This owner had a dog in a cart, and he lifted her down to the water so she could swim. He had told Phred that she had always been a strong active dog and one day after a run in the park she came home and the next day when he went to take her out she did what Tango did, she couldn't walk or move. I don't remember if she had surgery but they had put her in a cart and he said she acted like nothing was wrong.
http://im1.shutterfly.com/procserv/47b4d704b3127cce9bb719ae218000000016109Qas2bFs1g
http://im1.shutterfly.com/procserv/47b4d704b3127cce9bb719afa0b100000016109Qas2bFs1g
http://im1.shutterfly.com/procserv/47b4d704b3127cce9bb719ac218200000016109Qas2bFs1g

[kallisto4529]

Oh No!!!! I am so very sorry, Tango is such a sweet beautiful girl!~!!! All of you will be in my thoughts and prayers for some good news on how to help her through this. Good luck to all of you.

[Ginger's Mom]

Just popped on this morning to let you know that you, your family, and Tango will be in my thoughts today.

[elizabethann]

Oh no! I'm just reading this! Poor Tango! I can't believe it! I will keep her in my thoughts. I hope everything will be okay.

[WELOVESPUPPIES]

I wanted you to know that I am still praying for Tango and your family. ((hugs)).

[anna_66]

Oh Gosh:( I'm just seeing this now and it's breaking my heart:(

I wish I had some words to make you feel better. Just know you and Tango will be in my thoughts and prayers.

[Crikit]

Just saw this right now. I hope Tango will be okay, and she will be in my thoughts today.

[k9krazee]

You and Tango are still in my thoughts and prayers. I know how much Tango means to you and this just breaks my heart.

[wolfsoul]

Lots of good thoughts coming from over here! Poor Tango, sure hope she'll be okay.

[4 Dog Mother]

You and Tango continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that today you will get some answers and that they will be of such that Tango can return to a full and pain free life.

[pitc9]

Still praying for Tango.

[cyber-sibes]

Sending loving thoughts & prayers to you & Tango this morning.
I lit a candle for Hope, and it's right here next to me. (((hugs)))

[RedyreRotties]

Hoping Tango is feeling much better today, and you as well.

Sending positive thoughts your way for calmness, courage, and healing. Please let us know something about the myelogram when you can.

[Husky15]

Oh, dear. :( I am so sorry that this is going on. My thoughts and prayers will be with you.

[Sevaede]

More thoughts and great vibes going your way!

Feel better soon sweet Tango!

[BC_MoM]

Any update today on our sweet Tango?

[Sudilar]

Just saw this now. Prayers going out to Tango. Hugs.

[*LabLoverKEB*]

Oh no! Poor baby girl.... I will deffinetlely keep sweet Tango in my thoughts and prayers. :(

[lizbud]

I am so sorry to hear this about Tango. :( I am adding my prayers for
her recovery.I do hope the vet can offer something to help get her back
on her feet again. I hate it that she's had to go through this pain. :(
You both will be in my thoughts & prayers.

[Tollers-n-Dobes]

She's gone. :(

The specialist said that even if he did the surgery, she'd never, ever be able to walk again. That's no life for her, and anybody who knew her or has met her would agree. He said there's a possibility that she had a tumor on her spinal cord (but wouldn't know unless he opened her up), or she had degenerative disc disease. He's 98% sure it was the latter, and either way, the outcome wouldn't have been good. When I saw her today, she had no feeling at all from about the base of her neck, down her back. It was awful.

I hope nobody thinks we should have tried harder. We did what we could, and putting her to sleep was our best option and the best decision for her. She wouldn't have been happy at all being stuck in a wheel chair for the remainder of her life - she just isn't that type of dog.

[Whisk_Luva]

I am SO sorry! Not Tango!:(

Hugs, lots and lots of (((hugs)))

[Glacier]

I'm so sorry that you had no other choice but to let your girl go. Even when there is no choice, it's a horribly difficult thing to do.

Godspeed, Tango. I'm sure she's playing fetch, running, happy and healthy again now.

[Jadapit]

I'm sitting here in tears. I'm so very sorry about sweet Tango. Words fail me at times like these. You are in my thoughts. (((Hugs)))

RIP sweet, beautiful Tango.

[CathyBogart]

Goodbye darling Tango. :(

[anna_66]

Oh man, I don't even know what to say:(

godspeed Tango

[Queen of Poop]

Good bye sweet Tango.

[Flatcoatluver]

Devan, I am soo sorry, I am just speechless. I just wish I could give you a big hug. :( R.I.P Tango.

[Lady's Human]

(((Hugs)))

Play hard at the bridge, Tango.

[Sevaede]

I am so, so sorry. :( I know nothing anybody can say will make things better. Just know that all of our thoughts and hearts are with you at this time. :(

You did the VERY BEST you could! Don't ever doubt it.

R.I.P. sweet, beloved Tango

[RobiLee]

I'm at work and fighting back tears. Anna just let me know. I'm so sorry. I wish there was something more that I could say. You know how much I love Tango. I'm really really sorry.

Rest In Peace, Tango. We love you.

[Husky_mom]

how hard.... I´m so sorry....... really can´t find words...... but you certainly did the right thing despite how hard and hurtful it is......

RIP Tango girl..... another PT pup I sure wish I had met :(
Play hard sweetie........

[Taz_Zoee]

I am at work and just burst into tears. I am sooo sorry. Tango is happy and running around like she loves to do up at the Bridge.

Hugs to you and your family.

[binka_nugget]

I am so sorry :( You and your family were selfless and did what was best for her. *hugs*

[king2005]

You & your family did the best for her. Not every dog is a wheel chair dog. My great grandmother was forced into a wheelchair after a drunk driver hit her.. She was NEVER happy again, she was American Indian & use to walking & hiking everywhere.. taking away her ability to walk destroyed her till the say she died. I could never put a high energy dog in a wheel chair either, it would be hell for that dog.

Just remember that Tango can play with her brother now & they will keep each other company at the Rainbow Bridge, until its your time to claim Tango once again.

[Alysser]

I was thinking about her all through Language Arts because I saw a picture of my teacher's dog. I am so sorry, please accept my deepest condolences. You definitely tried your hardest for Tango, we knew how much you loved her.

RIP sweet girl. :(

[Ginger's Mom]

Devan, as inadequate as the words may sound and feel right now, please know that I am very very sorry for your loss. You know how much I love that beautiful girl of yours, and how much happiness she bought not only to you, but many of us Pet Talkers in her time here. Thank you for sharing her with us. {{{Hugs}}} She is playing and worry free, again.

[WELOVESPUPPIES]

My heart goes out to you and your family. I believe that you did what was best for Tango. I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers to ease the pain of loss and to remember the happy times with Tango. Rest in peace sweet girl...you will be greatly missed here on PT.

[Zippy]

I am so sorry about Tango. :( You did what was best for Tango and she is at peace now.
(((HUGS)))

[chocolatepuppy]

Devan, I'm so sorry about Tango. :( She is running now at the Rainbow Bridge. She was such a pretty girl and I know you loved her dearly. {{{hugs}}}

[DrKym]

We are so sorry! Many prayers being sent to you in this awful time.

[gemini9961]

Devan - I am so sorry. I haven't been on much with work and to come here and open this thread is just heartbreaking. RIP Tango. I feel like I have lost my own beloved pup. :(

[RosaLee]

so sorry for your loss

[beeniesmom]

I am so sorry. I know nothing we say can make things better.
Tango is in a better place now, pain free and running wild.
hugs

[cassiesmom]

Devan, I am so sorry for your loss. I agree with Ginger's Mom, thank you for sharing Tango with us.

[.sarah]

I just can't believe it :( Such a happy, healthy dog. Wow. I am so sorry Devan, I know you had her best interest at heart. Nobody will be upset with you for that. RIP Tango.

[Donnaj4962]

Oh my... LES. I am so sorry. I am certain that it was a very hard decision, but you did what was best for your Tango.

Godspeed to the RB sweet one. Play hard and run fast!

[KittyGurl]

I am so sorry...my heart is breaking right now.

You did everything you could in the world to make Tango better and she thanks you for that. Tango was a wonderful dog and five years is very young, but she lived a wondeful and happy life with you.

Rest in peace, Tango...we will never forget you...:(

[shais_mom]

I am so so very very sorry.
Godspeed sweet Tango..

[critter crazy]

She's gone. :(

The specialist said that even if he did the surgery, she'd never, ever be able to walk again. That's no life for her, and anybody who knew her or has met her would agree. He said there's a possibility that she had a tumor on her spinal cord (but wouldn't know unless he opened her up), or she had degenerative disc disease. He's 98% sure it was the latter, and either way, the outcome wouldn't have been good. When I saw her today, she had no feeling at all from about the base of her neck, down her back. It was awful.

I hope nobody thinks we should have tried harder. We did what we could, and putting her to sleep was our best option and the best decision for her. She wouldn't have been happy at all being stuck in a wheel chair for the remainder of her life - she just isn't that type of dog.


Awwww....Hun I am so sorry!!! You did what was best for sweet Tango!!! We know that you put her needs in front of your own. I have been in the same boat, and it was so difficult. Tango is running happily at the Rainbow Bridge!!

[vinjashira]

I'm sorry to hear that :(


RIP Tango

[lizbud]

I am so very sorry. :( You loved Tango too much to have her suffer
any more. Rest In Peace Tango.

[animal_rescue]

I'm so sorry hun.
RIP Tango :(

[Karen]

You did the right thing, only you knew how much running and playing was important to Tango, and we knew she was in pain.

Now she is free, in no pain, happy and whole again, chasing butterflies at the Rainbow Bridge, I just know it!

[IRescue452]

I'm so sorry. I can't imagine what it'd be like to have such a sudden loss. My heart goes out to you and poor little sister Dance who probably wonders where Tango went. Rest peacefully sweet Tango.

[Aspen and Misty]

(((hugs)))

Tango has always been a favorite for me. I'm heartbroken to read this.

Play hard at the bridge sweet girl. We love and will miss you dearly here on Pet Talk.

Ashley :(

[Crazy-Cat-Lover]

I have been following this thread and was hoping for better news. You loved her so much, you did the right thing. Rest in peace, Tango. :(

[The Cat Factory]

I am so sorry. :( RIP, Tango.

[ramanth]

I am deeply sorry for your loss. Such a gorgeous girl. :( RIP sweet Tango. May you dance eternally at the rainbow bridge.

[dukedogsmom]

I am so very sorry. I know your hurt, believe me. My heart is breaking for you. Please, if I can do anything for you, don't hesitate to ask. She was one of the dogs that had my heart here at PT, and now it will be that much emptier without her. I've got so many feelings but don't know how to voice them here. If you ever want to talk on Yahoo or AIM, I'll be there for you. Just let me know, ok? I know you won't feel like doing any of that for a while. This is just such a sad shock for us all. I wish we didn't have to have so much sadness in our lives. But their love and the joy they give us is worth everything. I'll make sure my Duke takes good care of her. I've got to stop now. Can't see through the tears.

[Danegirl2208]

Oh no :( I am so sorry..Tango was such a happy and beautiful girl..words escape me. I am so sorry.

Rest in peace sweet Tango, you were greatly loved..run free.

[wolf_Q]

My heart sank when I saw this thread was in dog memorial. :( I am so very sorry for your loss. I know Tango was your heart dog and she meant so much to you...she was very loved by all of us at Pet Talk as well, and she will be missed. :( You did everything you could for her.

[molucass]

I'm so sorry to hear about Tango. She was such a pretty girl..

Rest in Peace pretty girl.. Have fun at the rainbow bridge.

[cyber-sibes]

Oh Devan, my heart is breaking for you, of course you did the right thing. I know how it just kills you to make that decision, even though you know it's the kindest choice. It sucks. It's just not fair. Tango was such a special girl.

Rest in Peace, beautiful Tango. You can run and play without any pain. Keep watch over your family, they love you so. And if a handsome red husky named Sherman comes along, please give him a nose-boink from me.

LES & (((hugs))) Pat

[CountryWolf07]

I'm very sorry to hear the loss of Tango. =(

[RobiLee]

I just wanted to let you know I'm still thinking about you, Devan.

{{HUGS}}

[wolfsoul]

Oh my goodness, I am just in shock.. How terribly terribly sad.. I am so so sorry. :(

[Bengalz]

I am so sorry to hear about Tango - you've made a difficult decision but one that bears all the love you have for your special girl. Rest in Peace baby girl and know your Mommy and everyone at PT misses you terribly.

[cali]

OMG not Tango :( Im so so sorry.

[AbbyMom]

I'm very sorry.

RIP Tango. You were well loved.

[delidog]

I Am So Sorry to Read This about Your Beautiful Tango...
She was a Beautiful Dog...And So Well Loved....
Shes' Been a Pet Talk Favorite for a Long Time....
Godspeed to The Rainbow Bridge Sweet Tango....
Scrubber & Ms.Puss w/be There to Greet and Guide You....
You are In Our Thoughts and Prayers

[Daisy and Delilah]

Rest in Peace Beautiful Tango :( Play hard at the bridge sweetheart :(

Words can not express how sorry I am. You did the only thing you could do for her. :( Please know that you made the right decision :(

[Pembroke_Corgi]

I'm so very sorry. I wish I had some better words of comfort for you right now. Tango was such a special dog- she really touched a lot of people here and I could tell she was very treasured by her family. Please accept my condolences.

[petslover]

I am sorry to hear about you and your family's loss. RIP Tango.

[Queen of Poop]

I can't stop thinking of you and Tango. Your situation reminds me of how Sami left me just over 3 years ago. She also woke up and couldn't move. We said good bye that same day, but she was 12 and 65 lbs. She was OLD. My heart is breaking for you. I have prayed to my dear Sami that she is showing Tango the "ROPES" at the bridge. If you need anything please let me know.

[ratdogg]

:(

[K9karen]

OMG! OMG! :( :(

I'm always so hesitant to check Memorial because I get so scared, and I thought I would pass out when I saw Tango's name.

I loved that girl so much. I can't believe she's gone. That face. I'm relieved she's not suffering, but it doesn't ease the pain. I'm sorry beyond words. Thank you, dear, sweet, gorgeous Tango for always bringing smiles. It was an honor to know you. Rest in Peace darling. *sends message to Cody to keep a loving eye on her* Condolence Hugs.

[k9krazee]

Oh Dev, I can't even begin to express how sad I am and how much I would love to give you a giant hug right now. :( Like you said in Winter's thread, the "good ones" always seem to leave us far too soon. It isn't fair.

Tango will never be forgotten. Even though I've never met her it feels as if I knew her, and I know how much she meant/means to you. Sending you gigantic ((((hugs)))).

:(

[Jessika]

Tango was definitely one of my secret loves here on PT. She was one of the most beautiful mixed pups I've ever seen and actually was one of the first Toller mixes I'd ever seen and sparked my interest in the breed. I will definitely miss her, she was beautiful, but she is enjoying her life to the FULLEST in a much much better place right now. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as she really was one of my favorites here on PT and don't ever for a second even think that you didn't do everything you could, we all know you tried your best and I believe you made the right decision in the end. I just.... don't know what else to say. I will really, really miss her :(

[Kfamr]

Devan, I've really spent all day trying to find adequate words to say. I still don't feel my words are adequate enough but I wanted to say something before I go to bed. I haven't spent a second without you and Tango on my mind. When you mentioned her brother Winter and how he was in the same situation I was hoping there would be a different outcome for Tango.

You know how much I love your girl and how she has always been a special girl to me. She reminded me so much of my sweet Kiki personaility/activity wise. I can't imagine the same thing happening to Kiki, she would be miserable. So, you certainly did the right and best thing. You are so wonderful for being so unselfish and thinking of Tango first.

9/11 will always be a terrible, terrible day for many reasons now.

I am sure Tango is running pain free, frisbees and all, with her brother Winter. I bet they are have so much fun together.



{{{HUGS}}} and please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.

[luvofallhorses]

Oh God Devan. :( I am so, so, so sorry. :( I loved Tango like she was my own and I can't even begin to imagine the pain you are going through right now. I know you loved her best. Please let me know if I can do anything for you. I wish I could take away the pain that you're going through right now. She was taken away from this Earth way too soon. :(

She was one of my favorite pet talk pups and I know she will never be forgotten. She touched so many hearts around the globe including mine. Rest in peace, sweet beautiful Tango. :( You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers, Devan. Remember we're here for you whenever you need us. (((HUGS)))

I Loved You Best
Copyright © Jim Willis 2002,
all rights reserved
So this is where we part, My Friend,
and you'll run on, around the bend,
gone from sight, but not from mind,
new pleasures there you'll surely find.

I will go on, I'll find the strength,
life measures quality, not its length.
One long embrace before you leave,
share one last look, before I grieve.

There are others, that much is true,
but they be they, and they aren't you.
And I, fair, impartial, or so I thought,
will remember well all you've taught.

Your place I'll hold, you will be missed,
the fur I stroked, the nose I kissed.
And as you journey to your final rest,
take with you this...I loved you best.

[Whisk_Luva]

I am so sorry, :( (((Hugs)))

Tango was one of my fav PT dogs.... I am really going to miss the lovely photos of her... :(

Play hard at Rainbow Bridge Tango,

:(Tango:(

[manda_moo87]

Oh my..... :( :( :( Devan, I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Rest in peace sweet Tango...

[Nobas Mom]

RIP beautiful Tango... play hard at the bridge sweet pup and stop by to see your family every so often just to let them know that are you are keeping a watchful eye over them. God Speed dear Tango!

[Vela]

I saw this yesterday, and I couldn't seem to find the words to post, I felt so so sad for you. I am so sorry it turned out this way. You did what your heart told you was best, even though it was breaking at the same time. I can't even imagine your pain right now. Sending prayers your way to help you through this. She is happy now, no longer in pain, it's those of us left behind who feel is so strongly when they go =(

[4 Dog Mother]

I am so very sorry that Tango has passed. You made the right decision. Tango is a very beautiful dog and will definitely be missed by many Pet Talkers. RIP Tango!

[WELOVESPUPPIES]

The sadness felt when I read this post is still overwhelming. I cannot even imaging what you and your family are going through right now. I will keep you in my prayers. Tango is now happy, pain-free and bouncing around at the Rainbow Bridge. She is not only happy because she has no more pain because her family loved her enough to do the right thing for her situation but because she knows that some day she will be reunited with her loving family. I thank you for sharing all those wonderful pictures of your beautiful girl, that is how she would want to be remembered.

[Sudilar]

I am so very sorry for your great loss. Run free again, Tango, at RB. Hugs.

[K9soul]

I don't even have words to say how sorry I am. I had tears running down my face as I read she was gone. I am just so sorry. I feel bereft of any adequate words. :(

[kimlovescats]

I am so very sorry for your loss, and the difficult decision you had to make! :(

[pitc9]

I am so sorry for the untimely passing of your sweet Tango.
She's dancing at the bridge now with all the other special PT pets that have passed.
She was too young to leave this earth... but someone must have needed her for something special.

You did what was right for her, best you knew what was best for her.
I send my thoughs, prayers and {{{hugs}}} to you and your family.

Angie, Sierra & Buddy

[cyber-sibes]

Thinking of you this morning...

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v432/cyber-sibes/RIPs/tangosigdone.jpg

[ChrisH]

I am so, so, sorry to read that your beautiful Tango girl has gone to the bridge. :( {{big hugs}}

Rest & run free again beautiful one.

[crow_noir]

* H U G S *

So so sorry for your loss. I imagine Tango as quite the dancer in movement and spirit from the way you describe her bubbly personality.

Such a beautiful dog. I always loved seeing pictures of her. (I'm a sucker for black red and white. On top of that she has such beautiful silky looking fur.)

May the pain subside with adequate comfort brought into your life by other loved ones and fond memories of cherished Tango.

[Cincy'sMom]

I'm so sorry for your loss. RIP Sweet Tango!

[jazzcat]

I'm so very sorry. I'm just now seeing this but from what I read you made the best decision for her. I know it is hard. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Rest in Peace sweet Tango.

[dukedogsmom]

Thinking of you and your family today.

[cloverfdx]

Devan i am so very sorry :(. RIP pretty girl Tango.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

I am so sorry. RIP pretty Tango

[Logan]

Devan, I have not been a very faithful Pet Talker, recently, and was shocked when I received an email from K9Karen about Tango. I'm so sorry. :( The hurt and loss is more than one thinks they can bear, and at times, I still can't bear it that my best buddies are gone. I do know that Tango had a multitude of new friends waiting for her in heaven. Several of them were closely connected to me.

I love the mental picture I got when I read Angie's note about Tango dancing. What a lovely thought. When my grandfather died, 4 months after his wife, my grandmother, died, the minister said "Don't you know that Hugh was greeted with joy, by Hannah, running on two good legs, towards him?". My grandmother had one leg amputated in the months before she died. I loved thinking of her whole again, and active. I have to believe that our four legged friends are whole again, too. Lilly, Zipper, Mimi and Murphy surely are there with Tango and a multitude of others, just waiting on us! What a wonderful reunion it will be when we are all there together.

Take care of you. I know your heart is breaking. This is all so new, right now.

Love,
Logan

[elizabethann]

I'm so sorry about Tango. My heart goes out to you. I'm sending you a hug.

Tango, please take care of your family. They need you to look after them in this time of sorrow. I know you don't feel any pain and you're running around the rainbow bridge, panting and playing with all the other dogs now. I know that when you're pooped and go to lay down for a little nap, you'll be sure to visit your family and give them a big lick. You will be in their hearts forever.

RIP sweet Tango.

[Daisy and Delilah]

Still keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers :(

[buttercup132]

I was keeping tabs on the thread and went to look today and saw it wasn't there. I thought surley it's not gone down already and then thought oh no dog memorial.


I'm always so hesitant to check Memorial because I get so scared I feel the same way.

I'm so sorry to hear about her. You must be a total mess right now.:(
R.I.P Tango.

[Cinder & Smoke]

:(
:(

Take Good Care of Tango, God ... she'll make a Great Bridge Angel.

And Please comfort Devan ... Tango's passing is leaving a Big Void.

Rest In Eternal Peace, Dear Tango ...
and enjoy your new Angel Wings.

/s/ :( Phred


http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v432/cyber-sibes/RIPs/tangosigdone.jpg

Memorial courtesy of Pat (cyber-sibes)

[Ginger's Mom]

:(
:(

she'll make a Great Bridge Angel.


What a nice thought. And I think you are right, Phred. She always was a very special girl, and she will make a very special angel.
Devan, I have been thought about you and Tango many times during the day. {{{Hugs}}} Give Dance some extra hugs for me, too.

[Suki Wingy]

:( I don't know what to say.

[Freedom]

Tango is free, happy and healthy again and romping a the Bridge!

Hugs to all of you. What a sudden thing that makes it so very difficult.

[slleipnir]

I'm so sorry for your loss :(

[BC_MoM]

Oh my God, Devan. I am so sorry. I don't know what to say... I am bawling my eyes out right now. I loved Tango so much - she was definitely my favourite on PT. I was looking for the thread and couldn't find it, and then I did a search and found it in Memorials. My heart just about stopped.

Rest in peace, sweet Tango.
You're in my prayers, Devan. If you need ANYTHING.. just PM me. I really mean it.

[Chilli]

I saw this yesterday, but couldn't bring myself to find any words to say. I still can't express how much my heart is breaking for you. :(:(
Never, did I expect to see this.

Good vibes headed your way, I know you could use all you can get.
RIP sweet Tango.

[Alysser]

Every single time I see a dog, I can't help thinking of you guys. I am so sorry for your loss. As many have said, Tango was a very special girl. I've always enjoyed hearing stories, and seeing the pictures. She was such a gorgeous pup. You did the right thing, and you followed your heart. I am so sorry it had to be this way..

RIP Sweet girl. Mommy misses you. :(

We all do..

Now, I am starting to tear up again.

[robinh]

I've hesitated to post because I didn't know what to say. Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss. Play free at the bridge, Tango. And thank you for the joy you've brought into so many lives.

[Danegirl2208]

Just wanted to tell you I was thinking about you throughout the day. Hope you are doing ok. ((hugs))

[dukedogsmom]

May the sun always shine on you, sweet Tango. We miss you :(
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v503/Tollerlover/July%202007/18.jpg

Irish Blessing
“May God give you...For every storm a rainbow, for every tear a smile, for every care a promise and a blessing in each trial. For every problem life sends, a faithful friend to share, for every sigh a sweet song and an answer for each prayer.”

[AdoreMyDogs]

I'm so sorry about Tango. She was just so beautiful. I can't imagine how sad you are now, especially at how fast everything happened. I know you've not had much time to prepare, and that's so hard.

When I lost my beloved angel, Graham, some may have thought I didn't try hard enough to get him well, but only the caretaker of the animal knows when it's the right time. It was the right time for Graham, as he was done trying to live, and it was the right time for Tango. When you care about an animal, you make the decisions that your heart tells you to make. It's not a matter of how long you tried. You made the right choice for your pretty girl and she'll be forever thankful.

I'm so sad to see the news about Tango. I didn't even know she was hurt, as I don't visit PT every day, so it was just such a shock :(

My thoughts are with you. Rest in peace, sweet Tango. Please say hi to Graham for me.

[Seravieve]

WOW [just seeing this post now...] Im soo sorry for you and your loss.. I too know how hard it is to lose a dog. I just cant imagine waking up one day and she couldnt move. Thats so heartbreaking. I wish the best for you.

[Tollers-n-Dobes]

Thank you so much everyone. You have no idea how happy it makes me feel to hear how much you all loved her, even though you never even got a chance to meet her in person. I've had other dogs PTS before, but she is by far the hardest I'm having to go through. It makes no sense at all to me why this had to happen to her. She was just running around, playing, being her usual happy-go-lucky self on Sunday night. I would've never guessed that I wouldn't have her with me this week. I was just telling her the other night what a great girl she was and how I couldn't imagine what I'd do without her...and then this happened. I feel so guilty, and I know I shouldn't. I keep thinking that maybe I should've never gotten Dance. That I should've spent my summer with just Tango, the way it always was. I love Dance, but not at all in the same way. Again, thank you.

I also wanted to share this drawing that somebody on another board surprised me with earlier tonight (sorry it's small). Now I'm just waiting for it to arrive..
http://i68.photobucket.com/albums/i19/Toller2008/drawing.jpg

[Giselle]

OH God :( I can not believe this. Tears are streaming down as I write this. I'm speechless with agony for you.

You and Tango are in my thoughts. Never have regrets about what you could or could not have done. Tango was an amazing dog and you were an even more amazing owner. *Hugs*

[chocolatepuppy]

I feel so guilty, and I know I shouldn't. I keep thinking that maybe I should've never gotten Dance. That I should've spent my summer with just Tango, the way it always was.
Oh Devan, please don't feel quilty about getting Dance. How could you have know this would happen? Besides, I'm sure Tango enjoyed having Dance for a buddy.
Still thinking of you.{hugs}

[Toby's my baby]

I am so very very sorry. BIG hugs to you and your family. Tango was one of my favorite pups on PT. I'm in tears, I'm so very very sorry, Tango was beautiful, she will definently be missed by all. Rest in Peace. :(

[Kfamr]

Devan, please do not feel guilty. I have a feeling Tango is grateful for Dance and led you to her some way. Maybe she knew her time was coming and she wanted Dance to be there for you when she was gone.

{{HUGS}}

Here's Tango's video I promised...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9zIX_rnwgg8

[Crazy-Cat-Lover]

That video is beautiful, Kay. Still thinking of you and your family, Devan. http://fc03.deviantart.com/images/i/2002/26/a/7/Hug_emoticon.gif

[manda_moo87]

Wow, what a beautiful video.... sure got the water works going over here! :( :(

Still keeping you in my thoughts Devan. Lots of hugs to you...

[crow_noir]

I only watched about a minute of it (slow connection), but that was beautiful!


Here's Tango's video I promised...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9zIX_rnwgg8

[crow_noir]

Wow, such a wonderful thoughtful gift from that other poster! It's beautiful!

If anything I think it was meant to be that Dance came into your life. It seems like Tango may have been needed elsewhere and wanted someone there to take care of you in her absence.

It really hurts so deeply when someone is whisked out of our lives so suddenly. No preparation, no warning, no goodbyes. (I'm crying as i write this.) *hugs* It seems so unfair that she was gone so soon. At least you had the heart to not let her suffer in an unable body.

[Rachel]

One only has to read your posts to know how very, very special a companion Tango was. One only has to read the other posts written here to know that you have been able to translate that magic to us. I can't read each and every post because there is such an intense sense of sadness here which is almost too much for me to absorb, yet I know I will come back at another time to honor Tango by doing that.

Tango was a heart dog....a dog of a lifetime. I lost mine 12 years ago and yet I am unable to advise you how to cope. Just know that we understand the depth of your pain. God bless you and your family at this difficult time.

[wolf_Q]

Here's Tango's video I promised...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9zIX_rnwgg8

Now I'm crying, that was beautiful. That portrait is beautiful too. I can't believe such a young dog full of life is gone. :( I also think it was meant to be that you have Dance now. If you need anything, please let me know. Thank you for sharing Tango with us. {{hugs}}

[cyber-sibes]

Oh Kay, what a beautiful tribute to Tango! I just watched it and cried the whole way through. That song is perfect. She was such a lovely, lovely girl.
Devan, still keeping you in my thoughts & prayers.

[pitc9]

Val, thanks for posting that picture of her. It's such a beautiful picture of her and what gets me the most is how it looks like she's looking up towards Heaven. :(

{{{HUGS}}} to you Devan.

I'm going to watch the video now.

Edit... OMG... Kay, I'm balwing my everloving eyes out at work right now. The video is wonderful!

[Ginger's Mom]

Val, that was a good choice of pictures to post. It made me cry a bit, because it shows her intelligence, and her willingness to listen and to please. She sure is a beautiful girl.
Devan, that drawing is gorgeous, it is definitely something to cherish. Put it together some sort of display frame along with a poem that makes you think of Tango, or her favorite bandana or something like that.
Kay, I cannot bring myself to watch the video yet. I am positive it is beautiful and well done. Maybe I will be able to do it this weekend.

[.sarah]

Kay that video is beautiful. It certainly got me crying again, as did reading everyone's replies yesterday. I think Rachel said it very well:
One only has to read your posts to know how very, very special a companion Tango was. One only has to read the other posts written here to know that you have been able to translate that magic to us.It was and is very obvious how special Tango was, Devan. I know that no words can bring enough comfort but I hope you can find it somewhere.

[Husky15]

I always liked Tango, she was so beautiful and adorable. She was one of the first dogs I had to show my sister when she first joined PT. RIP, sweet girl. :(

[Anita Cholaine]

I haven't been on PT on this last week, I just couldn't believe it when I saw this thread :(

I can't really find the right words to express how sorry I am. Tango has always been one of my favourites on PT, I know she was a special pup.

Rest in peace, girl. Play hard at RB.
{{{HUGS}}}

Kay, that video is beautiful. God, now I'm in tears.

[Danegirl2208]

Here is a video I worked on today in memory of Tango..I hope it brings back good memories of the times you had together. ((hugs))

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=38OxiEN9sQo




Edit: Kay I didn't see your video, I hope you don't mind if I post mine. Yours was wonderful btw, and it seems that great minds think alike, our endings are very similar.

[Kfamr]

Edit: Kay I didn't see your video, I hope you don't mind if I post mine. Yours was wonderful btw, and it seems that great minds think alike, our endings are very similar.


I know, I was just thinking the same thing... about the ending. The picture we both chose seems very heavenly to me. I actually thought of that song, too, but ended up choosing a different one.

I think we both did beautiful jobs. :) Both of them are bittersweet indeed.


Devan, still thinking of you today.

[*LabLoverKEB*]

Oh, Devon... I am at a loss of words right now... I cannot express how sorry I am. :( Tango was a gorgeous girl, so sweet, a wonderful companion. I'm just so thankful that you have Dance right now... I am sure she means a lot to you.
(((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))) ))))
Lots of Love, Sarah & the girls :( :(
ETA: WONDERFUL videos, both of you! Both had me in tears... :(

[Alysser]

Beautiful job on the videos, both of you. :)

[Muddy4paws]

Im so sorry to hear about your girl, I agree from the photos we saw of her she was very active and I personally would of done the same as you, Wheels dont always suit dogs.

:(

[jennielynn1970]

Oh my.... I didn't see this until tonight. I am sitting here in tears, watching the videos of Tango. Those soulful eyes just pierce right though you. I'm sure it would have been next to impossible to have seen her live the rest of her life paralyzed. What you did was the ultimate in selflessness... you spared her living in agony and a fate of living in a some kind of doggie wheelchair. Not a quality of life she would have wanted, nor would have you for her.

My thoughts are with you during this time... please find solace in that fact that you provided her a peaceful crossing. She knew she was so loved.

Play hard at The Bridge, dear Tango. I'll miss seeing your sweet face here.

[Taz_Zoee]

Even though I've already posted a couple times on this thread, I just had to come back and say one more thing.
I had a good friend pass away back in February and his last name was Toler. Tango was the first Toller I had ever seen. I didn't even know about that breed before her. Every time I saw a thread about her, and then Dance too, I thought of my friend (who all of us at work called Toler). So now anytime I hear Toller/Toler I have two angels to think about.
Oh, and I haven't viewed the video's yet, I need to go get tissue first. x

[Tollers-n-Dobes]

Thanks everyone. I love reading all of your comments. Even if they seem small to you, they mean a ton to me. Thank you so much.

Kay and Sydney, both of those videos were beautiful - almost all of my favourite pictures I ever took of her were in both, and the last picture that you guys used was perfect.

I'm doing a little better today, compared to the last couple of days anyway, but I'll never get over it. It's so hard coming home during the day and not finding her greeting me at the door, with her overly exuberant waggy tail and her constant "Aroo roo rooo"s. Going to bed is really hard to do as well. I loved having her sleep with me, or at least in her bed right beside mine on the floor. I also can't seem to quit grabbing her bowl in the morning when it's time to feed everbody else. Pretty much everywhere I go, there's constantly something to remind me of her. It's so hard.

[Dorothy39]

I just "clicked" onto this thread about Tango~ :(

I will never forget her Face and how she welcomed me to Pet Talk , so many days ago.

She was and still is an outstanding dog to remember and love.


You have Our Deepest Sympathy~

[Giselle]

Oh, reading that post just put me to tears :( My heart just aches for you so much. I know it's nothing compared to what you're going through, but when Giselle went missing for those few hours, it felt like she'd left me. And when I looked back at her pictures and thought about all the moments I would miss with her, my heart just shattered. I wish I could do something to help you, but I know only time can help. *hugs* And the pups send their cyber kisses to you. *more hugs*

[dukedogsmom]

I found this poem and thought of you:

WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME
Author: Unknown

When tomorrow starts without me
And I'm not there to see;
The sun will rise and find your eyes,
All filled with tears for me.

I wish so much you wouldn't cry
The way you did today
Remembering how I'd lay my head
In your lap that special way.

I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you,
And each time that you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too.

But when tomorrow starts without me,
Please try to understand,
That an Angel came and called my name,
And petted me with her hand.

She said my place was ready,
In Heaven far above.
And that I'd have to leave behind,
All those I dearly love.

But, as I turned to heel away,
A tear fell from my eye.
For all my life I never thought,
That I would have to die.

I had so much to live for,
So many sits and downs to do,
That it seemed almost impossible,
That I was leaving you.

I thought about our lives together,
I know you must be sad.
I thought of all the love we shared,
And all the fun we had.

Remember how I'd nudge your hand,
And poke you with my nose.
The squirrel I would gladly chase,
The bad guy "I'd bark and hold".

If I could relive yeaterday,
Just even for a little while,
I'd wag my tail and kiss you,
Just so I could see you smile.


But, then I fully realized,
That this could never be;
For emptiness and memories,
Will take the place of me.

And when I thought of treats and toys
I might miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you and when I did
My dog-heart filled with sorrow.

But then I walked through Heaven's Gate
And felt so much at home;
As God looked down and smiled at me
From His beautiful throne.

He said, This is eternity,
And now we welcome you.
Today your life on earth is past,
But here it starts anew.


I promise no tomorrow
But today will always last;
For you see, each day's the same day
There's no longing for the past.

Now you have been so faithful,
So trusting, loyal and true.
Though there were times you did things,
You knew you shouldn't do.

But good dogs are forgiven,
And now at last you're free.
So won't you sit here by my side,
And wait right here with me?

So when tomorrow starts without me,
Don't think we're far apart.
For every time you think of me,
I'm right there, in your heart.

[cloverfdx]

You are still in my thoughts Devan.

Val that poem gets me everytime :(.

[BitsyNaceyDog]

Oh Devan, I can't even begin to express how sorry I am. My deepest sympathies to you and your family. ((Hugs))

[Anita Cholaine]

Val, that poem is so beautiful, it had me in tears.

Still thinking of you, Devan {{{{HUGS}}}}

[Husky_mom]

Val, I just had the courage to read up to the fourth line, then I bursted in tears...... sooo touching, it reminded me of my lost ones.....

I´ll have to come back and read it full once I ´m not at work and have a kleenex box with me.....


Devan, Tango sure had this eyes (so deep piercing indeed), face (as sweet as can be), ears (I sure LOL ed at them many times), tail (gorgeous fluffyness), personality (all royalty in her)....... boy am I gonna miss her too.....

I sure am able to believe Tango brought Dance into your life.....she will remain beside you even when you can see her....... take Dance as a present Tango left you.......

still thinking of you.........((hugs))

[Denyce]

I just read this now. In fact I just couldn't read it all. I am so very sorry for your loss. You absolutely did the very best you could for Tango and I am sure she is playing and romping on the Bridge.

My very deepest sympathies.

[Pembroke_Corgi]

I'm still thinking of you and your beautiful Tango. **Hugs**

[kallisto4529]

I can not even begin to tell you just how much my heart hurts for you!!!!! I am so very sorry for Tango, I always loved seeing and hearing about her. Please don't ever doubt you did the right thing for her, she was your dog, you know what was best for her and you did that. Our prayers are with you, and Reilly sends some woof woof hugs.

[.sarah]

Still thinking of you ...

[finn's mom]

I can't believe I'm reading this. :( Tango has been one of my very favorite dogs on Pet Talk and my heart is broken at the news of her death. I am numb and don't even understand why completely. Please know my thoughts are with you, I'm sorry I'm just now seeing this...I don't visit the site much anymore.

[Tollers-n-Dobes]

Thanks again everybody. I'm doing much better today compared to the rest of the week, though I'm still angry/sad that this had to happen to Tango. She was such a good girl. It's hard to think that this time last Sunday was the last time I'd ever throw the ball for her again. Bed time is without a doubt the most difficult part of my day. People keep telling me that "she knew it was her time to go", and I shouldn't feel bad (though I understand they don't mean anything bad by it). She really didn't have any idea though. She looked terrified and confused, with a face that said "help me, I don't know what's happening".

I feel horrible any time I do anything with Dance for some reason, be it combing her, playing with her, taking her for a walk, whatever. I don't understand why and I wish that would go away. I want to be able to have fun with a dog again and just enjoy their company without feeling so bad about what happened.

[dukedogsmom]

I think you're trying to rush yourself through this. It's a long process. I know you feel guilt and that's completely normal. I know exactly how you feel. I had a similar experience with Duke and it's not a good memory. But, in our hearts, we knew what we had to do. As I often say, it's the last gift of love we can give them. Tango understands now and will always be with you. Come here to write as often as you like.

[crow_noir]

I doubt very much that it was. She was a very young dog. All she knew was that she was young and *something* happened to her. Of course she was terrified. In the wild what happened to her probably would have meant a slow painful death.

Bodies are like machines though, they're not perfect.


Thanks again everybody. I'm doing much better today compared to the rest of the week, though I'm still angry/sad that this had to happen to Tango. She was such a good girl. It's hard to think that this time last Sunday was the last time I'd ever throw the ball for her again. Bed time is without a doubt the most difficult part of my day. People keep telling me that "she knew it was her time to go", and I shouldn't feel bad (though I understand they don't mean anything bad by it). She really didn't have any idea though. She looked terrified and confused, with a face that said "help me, I don't know what's happening".

I feel horrible any time I do anything with Dance for some reason, be it combing her, playing with her, taking her for a walk, whatever. I don't understand why and I wish that would go away. I want to be able to have fun with a dog again and just enjoy their company without feeling so bad about what happened.

Tango was obviously very special to you. What you're feeling is what i consider to be a form of jealousy. I felt it horribly after King went. I really should have waited longer to foster after King went. I felt so much hatred and anger towards the foster dog... as if it were her fault King had died. ... Even though she didn't come until after he was gone. I wanted nothing to do with her. It's been almost a year... and I still feel that same way sometimes. Would you be able to have someone take care of Dance for you for about a month so that you can mourn? I think it would be really beneficial for your healing and for your future bond with Dance if you didn't have her around right now. Just until these feelings calm down for you. It might be helpful to sort out your head and just take some time for yourself.

*hugs*

[Alysser]

. She looked terrified and confused, with a face that said "help me, I don't know what's happening".


That statement made me cry. I am still in shock, everytime I read this board, it's still hits me so hard. Tango was such a pretty girl. I am so sorry.

[cyber-sibes]

:( Oh Devan, I know how you feel. I'm pm'ing you.
Pat

[lute]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Tango was a specail girl. Run like crazy at the bridge Tango!

You did what you knew was best. There is no reason what so ever for anyone to be mad at you. You made the effort and I know you would have saved Tango if you could.

[sammy101]

Oh my, i am so sorry :( :(
What a beautiful girl...i am truly going to miss seeing her on PT.

Rest Easy Tango

{{{Hugs}}}

[Tollers-n-Dobes]

Thanks again everyone.

crow_noir, it's not Dance that I'm angry with. I love her, and I know it's not her fault at all. She's a great pup, a little irritating at times, but still a great pup. I certainly wouldn't want her to go anywhere. I guess I feel I'm just sort of preventing myself from becoming too attached to her for some reason, and I'm not sure why. It's really hard to explain.

[dab_20]

Oh my gosh, Devan, I'm absolutely shocked to hear this. Never would I have guessed... I always enjoyed hearing about Tango and looking at all her pictures. She was so full of personality, you could tell by her photos that she was such a happy dog.

I had that kind of guilt when my RB Missy passed away. I felt awful everytime I did anything with Molli, as if I am betraying Missy for still loving another dog. Although, now I realize that I wasn't betraying her or doing anything wrong. The pain will get easier. (((HUGS)))
My thoughts to you today. Rest in peace, Tango, play hard at the RB. :(

[pnance]

I haven't been on PT for awhile, but to come back and see this thread is heartbreaking. I'm sure Tango is up running and jumping on the bridge with all the others we've had to say goodbye to.

[K9karen]

Thanks again everyone.

crow_noir, it's not Dance that I'm angry with. I love her, and I know it's not her fault at all. She's a great pup, a little irritating at times, but still a great pup. I certainly wouldn't want her to go anywhere. I guess I feel I'm just sort of preventing myself from becoming too attached to her for some reason, and I'm not sure why. It's really hard to explain.


Devan, I felt the same way when I got Logan. I swore I would never, ever get attached to her, like I did Cody. Now, I sing "you made me love you..I didn't want to do it" (an old song you may not know).

I'm no shrink, but what you're feeling is perfectly normal. I felt "deserted" when I lost Cody. I felt betrayed although it wasn't his fault, of course. But the pain was so severe, and the memories, happy but excruciating. I will be totally honest, it takes a while to recover, but with each passing day, it does get better. Your wound is still deep. My bet is that you gave Tango infinite love and attention. We all know you did. You musn't think, in your grief, that you "shoulda, woulda, coulda" because you did. Nothing we can say will heal your heart right now. But Dance needs you too, and you will feel close to her when you least expect it.

Whether anyone thinks I'm loony, or not, I will admit I've had "Cody sightings" in various ways, and altho it's been 4 years, he's always with me. Tango wrangled into our hearts and will always be with us too, Devan. *Hugs*

[Ginger's Mom]

I have to agree with k9Karen. I got Ginger very quickly after my Peaches went to the RB, and was sure that we were never going to connect. As a matter of fact for about a year I seriously thought of getting a second dog, because Ginger wasn't enough for me (she wasn't filling that hole in my heart). But that bond will develop. You can't stop it. ;)

[anna_66]

Devan, I agree with what the others are saying. It's totally normal to not want to get so attached to Dance. Mark really had a very hard time when we got Roxey after Keisha died. I think it really took him 2-3 years to get attached to her.

(((HUGS)))
Anna