Sherman's Memorial thread

[cyber-sibes]

April 10: Please go to post #168 for updated messages
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Sweet boy, you are free now.

May Great Creator grant you
a peaceful journey, beloved friend,
as you go to join the Northern pack
beyond the Rainbow Bridge.

Dance in the light, Sherman, dance in the light.

He is gone. Sherman's passing was peaceful. He was so ready to go. He gently slipped into a calm sleep, and his breathing eased for the first time since his illness began. It was a comfort to watch his face relax, to feel the tension leave his body, and know how peaceful he was in his last moments this side of the Rainbow Bridge. I kissed his head and whispered your love to him, friends.

JoJoe & I are overwhelmed by your outpouring of love and compassion for our dearest boy. He is leaving his pawprints on hearts all over the world, and that is an awesome legacy.

Thank you

Pat, JoJoe, & Star

[pitc9]

Pat, If I could see through the tears I could type more.

Bless you for letting him be free.
{{{HUGS}}} to you, JoJo and Star. :(

Rest Easy Sherman... you will be missed by many.

[Roxyluvsme13]

I am so sorry. :(

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[Catty1]

Beautiful Sherman...your last sleep so peaceful...rest easy, baby.

{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}

Sherman could never have been more loved, and hence more loving, anywhere else.

[Glacier]

Godspeed Sherman. Thanks for letting us get to know you and for giving your humans one last gift, a peaceful crossing. They probably can't see it through their tears yet, but someday they will find much comfort in that. I'm sure you were met at the Bridge by a bunch of PT furkids. Look for Hoodoo and Preacher--they'll show you all the husky hot spots(or cold spots if you prefer!)

May time and your good memories heal your broken hearts Pat & JoeJoe.

This link is to a Siberian specific version of the rainbow bridge poem.
http://www.sibernet.org/memorial/north.html

[k9krazee]

Play hard at the bridge Sherman, you were such an amazing boy and I bet you'll be an even better angel. We will all miss you, and will never forget you, handsome boy.

:(

[baileysue]

Thinking of you all. We miss seeing you all at the Findlay dog park. I posted a note at the dog park tonight with the latest update on Sherman. I know many people have been thinking about you here.
Lots of licks and love,
Bailey (Joy and Nathan, too)

[Jadapit]

You are free of all pain now sweet Sherman. Heaven got a beautiful angel today.

I'm so sorry for your loss. :(

[RedHedd]

Pat, I haven't been keeping up with Sherman's story as I've been busy with Mishi's "story." I'm sorry for your loss and I know Sherman will welcome Mishi with open paws when he makes his own trip over the bridge later this week. :(

[K9soul]

My heart has felt so heavy all afternoon since I read Sherman would be leaving today. Your tribute is beautiful, so touching, so beautiful.. Bri, that signature is absolutely beautiful too, and so thoughtful of you.

Godspeed Sherman. I want to say more but my heart is so full of sadness, my eyes stinging with tears. And so I will just borrow from Shakespeare for now...

Good night, sweet prince, And flights of angels sing thee to thy rest

[Karen]

Oh, Sherman, of the gold-tipped fur
Copper-bright eyes
And heart of purest gold
An angel you were sometimes in life
Now an angel in heaven you'll forever be
At the Rainbow Bridge,
My peanut-butter pal
Go find my mom, she's got a soft spot
For extra-fuzzy dogs with "flag tails" as she called them
I am sure her pockets are full of treats
That she will share with you.
And now that you're up there
Your eyesight will be clear again
Puppy-sharp, those bright eyes will be
Use them now
To watch over your family - wide though it may be
And let them know you are safe and free of pain
Send a wild husky howl to their dreams,
And wink at them in the morning sunrise gold

[captain]

God Speed sweet Sherman.

{{{hugs}}} to you all.
Love
Michelle

[wolf_Q]

Good-bye sweet Sherman, you are missed and always will be. :(

Words can't express the sorrow we all feel. :( I loved that sweet boy of yours, I wish this would have never happened. I feel like I've lost one of my own. He had a wonderful life with you, he'll always remember and love you for it. {{{HUGS}}} to both of you, and Star too.

[luvofallhorses]

I am so sorry. :( You are in my thoughts tonight. (((hugs))) you were his angel and now he is your angel. he will look after you, your husband, and Star I am sure.

FROM FRIEND TO FRIEND

You're giving me a special gift,
So sorrowfully endowed,
And through these last few cherished days,
Your courage makes me proud.


But really, love is knowing
When your best friend is in pain,
And understanding earthly acts
Will only be in vain.


So looking deep into your eyes,
Beyond, into your soul,
I see in you the magic, that will
Once more make me whole.


The strength that you possess,
Is why I look to you today,
To do this thing that must be done,
For it's the only way.


That strength is why I've followed you,
And chose you as my friend,
And why I've loved you all these years...
My partner 'til the end.


Please, understand just what this gift,
You're giving, means to me,
It gives me back the strength I've lost,
And all my dignity.


You take a stand on my behalf,
For that is what friends do.
And know that what you do is right,
For I believe it too.


So one last time, I breathe your scent,
And through your hand I feel,
The courage that's within you,
To now grant me this appeal.


Cut the leash that holds me here,
Dear friend, and let me run,
Once more a strong and steady dog,
My pain and struggle done.


And don't despair my passing,
For I won't be far away,
Forever here, within your heart,
And memory I'll stay.


I'll be there watching over you,
Your ever faithful friend,
And in your memories I'll run,
...a young dog once again.

[slick]

:( :( :( Oh God, I'm crying so hard I'm almost choking. How is it possible for those of us around the world to feel such love for Sherman....a sweet pup we've never met??? And how is it possible for my heart to ache so badly.....for I feel what the humans feel???? :(

Cyber....you and the rest of the family are in my thoughts and prayers and I wish there was something I could say to take away your pain. Sherman was so lucky to have you and now he is in a better place just waiting to be reunited someday.

Letting him go now is the greatest act of love you could do for him. He will never leave your side you know.

Big {{{hugs}}} and sending lots of prayers to help you get through this.

[angelbow20]

Im so sorry to hear about Sherm he was so pretty and seemed so sweet. I know he is free from all his pain now and is still with you and your family you just cant see him.

[kallisto4529]

Goodbye sweet beautiful Sherman, may you have the most wonderful and happy time at the Rainbow Bridge, you will no longer struggle to breath, no longer have any pain, your family will miss you, but hopefully the last several years they have a ton of memories to comfort them, as soon as you are able to get settled let them know you are safe and happy.

I have no words to tell you just how sorry I am for the loss of Sherman. Please just know he has touched my heart and I will never forget him, and I will never forget how unselfish you both were to share him with all of us in these last days. If there is ever anything I could ever do for you or your family please never hesitate to ask.
Marti

[ramanth]

Oh fates, I'm now a blubbering mess at work. :( :(

Good bye Sherman. I will miss you.

[cassiesmom]

Oh fates, I'm now a blubbering mess at work. :( :(

Good bye Sherman. I will miss you.

same here... thank you for the privilege of knowing you

[AdoreMyDogs]

Goodbye Sherman. It was a pleasure seeing your handsome self and getting to know you threw your loving parents here on Pet Talk. I'm glad you had a peaceful passing. There's one more angel in the skies tonight.

[Queen of Poop]

Good bye sweet Sherman. Crying my eyes out for a dog I loved so much and never met. I do hope my Sami helped you on your journey to the bridge. I do hope your family will accept my sincere condolences.

[sammy101]

Oh no i'm so sorry for your loss of your beautiful boy :(

Rest Easy Sherman :(

[Ginger's Mom]

Pat, please know that we all share a least a small part of the sadness you are feeling tonight. You were a very brave and loving furparent to help Sherman find peace. Sherman, you were always one of my favorite PT pups not only because you were extremely handsome, but also because you seemed to have real personality. Run free, our gorgeous boy, you are loved and will be missed.

[Alysser]

Godspeed, Sherman. He's finally free from all pain and running happily with Rosie. I'll be thinking of you and your family, cybersibes. (((hugs))) I am so sorry for your loss, but you did the right thing for him.

[jazzcat]

Rest in Peace sweet Sherman. You will be missed.

[chocolatepuppy]

I'm so sorry. :( Sherman's healthy and playing at the Rainbow Bridge now. You will see him again one day.{hugs}

Grieve not, nor speak of me with tears,
but laugh and talk of me as if I were beside you.
I loved you so...T'was heaven here with you.

[critter crazy]

I am so sorry for your loss!! I somehow missed the Original Thread until today. I am sure that Sherman is playing hard at the rainbow Bridge.

[Bengalz]

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[I]Sweet boy, you are free now.

He is leaving his pawprints on hearts all over the world, and that is an awesome legacy.



This is truly the power of love worthy of so special a soul as you are dear Sherman. I am so sorry you had to leave so soon and pray the pain in your family's hearts can be somehow eased. You will find a way to show them, I know. For now, rest easy and let your spirit free.

Pat and JoJo, thank you for giving us all the opportunity to know your beautiful boy and to share this difficult time. Many thoughts and prayers are being sent your way and gigantic hugs for Sierra who must be feeling such a loss. :(

Betty

[zippy-kat]

Oh dear, many tears shed, here, too. :(

{{Many, many hugs to Pat & JoJoe.}}

Rest sweetly, dearest Sherm, rest sweetly.

[dukedogsmom]

Rest peacefully, sweet Sherman. I wasn't lucky enough to know you but I know from your photos and how others spoke of you that you loved life. I see you loved to smile. That smile will make the RB shine so brightly tonight.

Oh fates, I'm now a blubbering mess at work. :( :(

Good bye Sherman. I will miss you.
Me too. That's why I didn't write more and can't read everything, especially Karen's poem.

[BC_MoM]

:(:( I can't help but cry. It's like the canines of Pet Talk really to become a part of some type of family to the members.

Dear dear Sherman, rest easy and play hard at Rainbow Bridge. We all love and miss you.

[Kfamr]

As I said in PM Pat, I'm still at loss for words.

That boy of yours sure has a lot of people in tears tonight, including me. As I said in the PM, Shermie will be eternally grateful for you and JoJoe's love, understanding, and unselfishness.


Big {{HUGS}} for you, JoJoe, and Star... please let me know if there's anything else I can do for you.

Kay & The Muttlies

[animal_rescue]

Awww I am so very sorry to hear this. RIP Sherman :(

[crow_noir]

* HUGS * to Sherman's family and friends. It seems as if he has touched so very many lives. I know his physical presence will be dearly missed.

It was quite the journey we've been on with him in his illness. Who would have thought it was something so serious. Poor babe.

At least he had a very loving family and didn't have to meet the harsh ends that some dogs do. I couldn't wish much more for any dog.

My thoughts and prayers are with your family. (S.O. has also been hoping the best for Shermie through this whole ordeal. ... I'll tell him the news in the morning.)

[cmayer31]

I'm so sorry. :( Play hard at the bridge dear Sherman.

[cloverfdx]

Oh Pat, JoJoe and Star i am so sorry :(. Rest easy big fella, you left way to soon.

:(

[Tollers-n-Dobes]

I can't believe I missed your earlier update. :(

I am so extremely sorry, Pat. It's always hard when we have to let our dogs go, but especially so young. He knew he had a wonderful life, and a wonderful family though. Just remember that he's got Rosie now to show him around. I'm in tears reading this. I can't believe he's gone. I feel like I've lost one of my own.

(((HUGS))) to you, JoJoe, and Star. :(

[krazyaboutkatz]

I'm so sorry.:( You did the unselfish act of letting him go and now he's painfree and playing like a puppy again up at Rainbow Bridge. He sure was a handsome boy and will never be forgotten. I'm glad to hear that he went peacefully. RIP sweet Sherman.:(

[jennielynn1970]

Dear Sherman... I'm so glad your last trip was a painless and smooth one. Play hard at the Bridge sweet boy. You've touched many lives here, whether in person or not. We'll all be missing you. Keep an eye on your family and know they will need your presence in this difficult time. Enjoy being well and happy and young again. We'll all see you one day. God Bless.

[Cinder & Smoke]

Dance in the light, Sherman, dance in the light.

Sherman's passing was peaceful.
He gently slipped into a calm sleep, and his breathing eased for the first time since his illness began.
It was a comfort to watch his face relax, to feel the tension leave his body,
and know how peaceful he was in his last moments this side of the Rainbow Bridge.
I kissed his head and whispered your love to him, Friends.

http://petoftheday.com/i/our_smilies/frown.gif

Fly High, Dear Sherman ...
May Fair Winds Fill Your Angel Wings.

I'm not often at a loss for words ... but Sherman's Passing to the Rainbow Bridge
has left me wordless. I'll try again later.

Pat, JoJoe, and Star ...
Here's a HeartFelt {{{HUG}}} for each of you.

With Love,
/s/ http://petoftheday.com/i/our_smilies/frown.gif Phred

[caseysmom]

I am so sorry, I am ashamed I missed this, I don't get over to the health section very much. I am so sorry, I went back and read your saga and it is truly heartbreaking. You did so much to help your boy I hope he plays hard and pain free at the bridge, RIP Sherman you sweet handsome boy.

[Whisk_Luva]

Here come the tears :( (Again!)

(((Hugs))) to you and your family.

:(Sherman:(

[K9karen]

:( :( Have a safe trip to the Bridge, Sherman darling. You brought such happiness to everyone. I'm relieved you're not suffering anymore. My RB Cody will guide you and watch over you.

[Karen]

Dance, dear Sherman, dance in the light
Let the sunshine sparkle off your glitter-dusted coat
Let your smile, always ready, shine down on us all
And dance, sweet boy, with furry delight

Dance, sweet Shermie, with that husky wiggle
Let the fur fly - it always gave Mom a giggle
Dance, dear Sherman, dance in the light
Gone dark here on earth, but shining in heaven bright

Dance in the light, golden furry sweet boy
Let us all forget the sorrow, and just remember the joy
Moments of elegance, of goofiness, of fun
Though your time on earth is over, you'll live on in everyone

Dance in our hearts, dear sweet Sherman, now
Send comfort to your human folks, Pat and Jo-Joe
Tell Star, your sister left behind, to keep them extra close
Dance in the light, dear Sherman, and how

Dance in the hearts of everyone you knew
And even in the hearts of those far away, too
Love shone in your bright eyes, it always shone through
Peanut butter kisses, hugs and love we send to you.

* * * *
Down here on earth
In bird's nests in two states
Fledglings will grow strong
In nests lined with Sherman fur
It will keep them safe and warm
And when they grow strong and fly free
Another bit of love you left
Will grace the earth still
In birdsong at dawn

[crow_noir]

Wow Karen, those are beautiful!

Nice work.

(and you made me all sniffly again.)


Dance, dear Sherman, dance in the light
Let the sunshine sparkle off your glitter-dusted coat
Let your smile, always ready, shine down on us all
And dance, sweet boy, with furry delight

Dance, sweet Shermie, with that husky wiggle
Let the fur fly - it always gave Mom a giggle
Dance, dear Sherman, dance in the light
Gone dark here on earth, but shining in heaven bright

Dance in the light, golden furry sweet boy
Let us all forget the sorrow, and just remember the joy
Moments of elegance, of goofiness, of fun
Though your time on earth is over, you'll live on in everyone

Dance in our hearts, dear sweet Sherman, now
Send comfort to your human folks, Pat and Jo-Joe
Tell Star, your sister left behind, to keep them extra close
Dance in the light, dear Sherman, and how

Dance in the hearts of everyone you knew
And even in the hearts of those far away, too
Love shone in your bright eyes, it always shone through
Peanut butter kisses, hugs and love we send to you.

* * * *
Down here on earth
In bird's nests in two states
Fledglings will grow strong
In nests lined with Sherman fur
It will keep them safe and warm
And when they grow strong and fly free
Another bit of love you left
Will grace the earth still
In birdsong at dawn

[CathyBogart]

Sherman, I'm glad you're feeling better now dear boy. Look after your family from up there at the Bridge, okay? Breathe easy, handsome boy.

[Taz_Zoee]

RIP Handsome Boy. :(

[Giselle]

Tears are pouring for Sherman :(

May our prayers and tears fashion a crystal staircase to the Rainbow Bridge, Sherman. I know you're happy and well there. Look out for your mom, okay? She loves you so much.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

Tears and hugs for you brave Sherman and for your heartbroken family :(

[RobiLee]

I am so deeply saddened. I have no words right now. My heart goes out to you.

Dear Sherman,

I am crying as I type this. I will miss you so much. You were one of my very favorite boys here at Pet Talk. I am so lucky that I was able to meet you in person and to see just how sweet you were. When I first saw you I fell in love with your stunning looks and then when I found out what a sweetie you were you had me all the way. I love you Sherman. I know you are going to have lots of fun at the Bridge and meet all of our wonderful furbabies up there. Keep an eye on mom, dad and Star, ok? They are going to need you to look after them. I can't type anymore, Sherman. I'm crying because you are not here with us anymore. Selfish of me, I know. Take care, Sweet Sherman. I love you and will miss you.

Love, Robin


{{{HUGS TO ALL}}}

[cyber-sibes]

Wow. And here I thought we had cried till we couldn't cry anymore.

Thank you all for your words of comfort, for sharing your memories of Sherman & how much he means to you, thank you for the memorial sigs, the readings, and the poetry, and even for your "speechless" sorrows. I hope your happy memories of Sherman will ease the pain in your hearts, as well as in ours.

And Karen, your words are so very, very beautiful.
I have to tell you, in Sherman's last days, I sat with him on the floor, petting him and looking outside at sparrows collecting his fur. The looked so comical - birds with long Sherman-blond mustaches hopping along the ground. :) Your poem makes me smile.


A thick fog began to settle over the island last night just as we left the vets. This morning you can hardly see, and drops of moisture grace the needles of the evergreens outside our yard. We woke to the plaintiff sound of seagulls crying and the low moan of a fog horn off in the bay. It is as though his passing left this place shrouded and weeping.

I walked downstairs and it hit me again...the emptiness, the overwhelming sense of loss....I stood in the fog and cried.

I can't see him, but I know he is near. Star knows, too, she stopped and stared at his carpet, exactly where I lovingly stroked the air a moment earlier. He brought so much light into a room when he walked in. He had such an angelic face. He now has angel wings as well.

God bless you, Sherman, thank you for staying as long as you could.

[Dudster]

I am so very sorry for your loss.

[anna_66]

Pat I thought I would be alright this morning as I was a mess last night when I read your beautiful tribute, but gosh...after reading your post now I'm bawling again...Such a terrible ache in my chest:(

It's nice to know that you and Star feel him near. Take comfort in that feeling.

Rest In Peace Sweet Handsome Shermie

[Freedom]

Play hard, Sweet Sherman.
Can't type anymore, I'm bawling.

[pitc9]

Oh Pat.... the fog... the gulls... omg... and to think I just got to work and now I have to fix my make up already! ;)

I spent a lot of time hugging Sierra and telling her that her boyfriend has gone to the bridge. :(
I woke up several times during the night and was thinking about you all and crying.

I just can't believe he's gone, he was taken from you too soon.
But as I said before... he's not in pain anymore, and that has to be such a relief to you all.

Here are lyrics to Chris Daughtry's song Home.
I listened to this song non stop for a long time after putting Toby down last month. It's a beautiful song....
{{{hugs}}} to you, JoJo and Star.

I'm staring out into the night
And trying to hide the pain
I'm going to the place where love
and feeling good don't ever cost a thing,
And the pain you feel's a different kind of pain
I'm going home to the place where I belong
where your love has always been enough for me
I'm running from you know I think you got me all wrong
I don't regret this life I chose for me
But these places and these faces are getting old
So I'm going home
The miles are getting longer it seems
The closer I get to you.... babe
I've not always been the best man and friend for you
But your love remains true and I don't know why
You always seem to give me another try
I'm going home
To the place where I belong
Where your love has always been good enough for me
I'm running from you know I think you got me all wrong
I don't regret this life I chose for me
But these places and these faces are getting old
Be careful what you wish for
cause you just might get it all
you just might get it all and then some you dont want
be careful what you wish for cause you just might get it all
You just might get it all
I'm going home to the place where I belong
Where your love has always been enough for me
And I'm running from.. you know I think you got me all wrong
I don't regret this life I chose for me'
But these places and these faces are getting old
But these places and these faces are getting old
I'm going home
I'm going home

[finn's mom]

Regardless of my lack of posting, i have been keeping up with Sherman's plight. What a beautiful boy, and what a terrible loss for you and your family and for all of Pet Talk. You are right, that is an awesome legacy he has left behind. If only people could learn to live that way, too. Rest in Peace, dear Sherman.

[Cincy'sMom]

I'm so sorry Shermani s gone, but glad that is was peaceful, and that he is feeling no pain now. Knowing Rosie was there to guide him has to mean the world to you. I'm glad you had a chance to talk to Nancy.

Sherman was such a special boy. So happy, and such a love bug. We will all miss him.

Lots of hugs coming your way. We are all here for you.

[ChrisH]

Such a sad day. :(
Rest in peace now sweet Sherman.

[gemini9961]

RIP Sherman. :( You left quite a pawprint on PT and you will be missed deeply. I'm so sorry Pat and JoJoe. I'm sure if Sherman could say thank you he would. Play hard Sherman, some of the best pups are up there with you ready to play.

[Daisy and Delilah]

Please accept my heartfelt condolences, Pat, and all. I'm so sorry that this beautiful soul has left us. My heart continues to break for all of you.

Rest in Peace Sweetheart and play hard at the bridge :( :( :(

[Ginger's Mom]

I woke up several times during the night and was thinking about you all and crying.
Me too. I just wanted to let you know that I am still thinking of you and am sending more {{{hugs}}}. He was a very special boy. :(

[Cataholic]

Sweet Sherman, play hard. :(

[lizbud]

What a beautiful tribute to Sherman. I am so sorry he had to leave
but, like you, so glad he is no longer laboring just to breath. Rest in peace
sweet boy. Anyone who ever met Sherman in person, can tell you what a
special pup he was. Such a beautiful soul, inside & out. He will not be
forgotten. (((Hugs))) to Pat, JoJoe, and Star.


I'm Still Here

Friend, please don't mourn for me
I'm still here, though you don't see.
I'm right by your side each night and day
and within your heart I long to stay.

My body is gone but I'm always near.
I'm everything you feel, see or hear.
My spirit is free, but I'll never depart
as long as you keep me alive in your heart.

I'll never wander out of your sight-
I'm the brightest star on a summer night.
I'll never be beyond your reach-
I'm the warm moist sand when you're at the beach.

I'm the colorful leaves when fall comes around
and the pure white snow that blankets the ground.
I'm the beautiful flowers of which you're so fond,
The clear cool water in a quiet pond.

I'm the first bright blossom you'll see in the spring,
The first warm raindrop that April will bring.
I'm the first ray of light when the sun starts to shine,
and you'll see that the face in the moon is mine.

When you start thinking there's no one to love you,
you can talk to me through the Lord above you.
I'll whisper my answer through the leaves on the trees,
and you'll feel my presence in the soft summer breeze.

I'm the hot salty tears that flow when you weep
and the beautiful dreams that come while you sleep.
I'm the smile you see on a baby's face.
Just look for me, friend, I'm everyplace!

Author Unknown

[gini]

You will feel him by you - it will be so subtle that you could almost miss it.

It will be a flick of his tail or perhaps a brief cold nose - he will be checking on you to try to tell you that he is now alright - pain free and very grateful to you that you have relieved his suffering.

His love for you is unending - and he knows how much you loved him - the physical separation is only temporary - it's just God's way.

[Husky15]

:(

I am so sorry, Sherman was a beautiful boy.

RIP, Sherman.

[Husky_mom]

I´m so sorry Pat......you know we feel the same.... he sure sinked deep into my heart too and I feel the pain also........

yesterday I literally saw felt and saw him go......even from this side of the world......I will post a few pics I took of the happening later today when I upload them...... but I´ll tell you a brief......

the sky was dark and cloudy just as our hearts felt with sadness.... then rain drops started to pour just as our tears poured from deep in our hearts.....
I knew it was raining beacuse of all the people crying for him so it literally manifest itself in rain.....also God let down a tear for him......

then I saw the Angel Escorteés..... Bowser, Rosie, Angus, Duke,Teddy, Charlie, HooDoo, Phantom(my own RB), Cindy(my own RB).... and I think I even saw Corinna there......as a beautiful rainbow appeared across the sky still clouded and pouring........

then the light came through..... that white light one talks about.......that ray of light that seems like God is sending a path.......I saw that too adn that´s when I knew our Shermie boy was gone......I was bawling, just like I´m doing now...(which I shouldn´t as I´m at work, but he so deserves it)

I´ll miss you Shermie, but you´ll always be in my heart adn you´ll live forever in our memoirs......play hard pretty boy.......

*I´ll post later with the pics of the occurence*

[cyber-sibes]

Oh my gosh, Isabelle, that sounds awesome. Can't wait to see your pictures & hear more. He really was a special husky boy.


This link is to a Siberian specific version of the rainbow bridge poem. http://www.sibernet.org/memorial/north.html Thank you, Tamara. I was looking for where you had linked to it before, it's so beautiful... I can see our boy as a streak of red dawn light! If you see him in the Northern Lights, tell him I'll love him always, and look joyfully for the day he races in his silver harness to the gates of the Rainbow Bridge to meet me.

[slick]

Last night I woke up in the middle of the night and couldn't get back to sleep.....too hot here right now. I started thinking about Mishi and then Sherman and then all the current RB pets....especially my Speckles. Before I knew it, I was crying like a baby. Sometimes I wonder just how much pain can the heart endure. How can a heart that breaks in two become whole again??

When you are feeling that much hurt, it's hard to believe that you will every feel happy again.....but you will and it will take time. Grab ahold of those happy memories and never let go....the same way Sherman will never let go of you. As stated in past posts, he will be near you at all times. Gini said it right.....it will be so subtle that you will almost miss it.

HM: here I am at work and LES has overcome me at the moment. That's beautiful and I look forward to seeing the pictures this evening.

Lizbud and others: I just love reading those poems. Thanks you posting them.

Glacier: since I don't have my own office anymore, I'll have to wait to read that link. Don't want the staff here to see me crying. :(

Big {{{hugs}}} to you Cyber and to all the Pet Talk community as we grieve together.

[buttercup132]

:( Oh no. R.I.P Sherman.

[Pembroke_Corgi]

I am so sorry to hear about Sherman passing. :(

(((Hugs))) to you, your family, and Star.

[Donnaj4962]

I have been following Sherman's story... but have never posted. I am so sorry for your loss. I know that Sherman was greeted with open arms by many other PT babies that have already made the journey.

RIP sweetie, RIP.

[Sudilar]

I am so very sorry for your great loss. RIP, dear Sherman. Run healthy and free at RB.

[Killearn Kitties]

Sherman, you were one gorgeous boy, and so very very loved.
Play hard up there sweetheart. We will not forget you down here. :(

[Logan]

Sherman, I never knew you, but you certainly have captured the hearts of many loving people besides your own family.

Pat, please know that you and your family are in our prayers as you deal with this loss. :( I wish I didn't know your heartache so well, but I do. :(

Logan

[shais_mom]

Loved dogs do not die.

And Sherman you will live on forever in your mom and dad's hearts and the hearts of many others.
Pat and JoJoe -
I am so so sorry.
Keegan and I send lots of love and hugs to you during this time.

[Husky_mom]

I copied my text from the other post so you don´t have to look back for it with the pics.....hope you don´t mind reading it again... (I can edit if requested)I bolded the new parts besides the obvious pics

the sky was dark and cloudy just as our hearts felt with sadness.... then rain drops started to pour just as our tears poured from deep in our hearts.....
I knew it was raining beacuse of all the people crying for him so it literally manifest itself in rain.....also God let down a tear for him......
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a95/Husky_mom/sherman%20july%2010/100_2298.jpg

then I saw the Angel Escorteés..... Bowser, Rosie, Angus, Duke,Teddy, Charlie, HooDoo, Phantom(my own RB), Cindy(my own RB).... and I think I even saw Corinna there......as a beautiful rainbow appeared across the sky still clouded and pouring........ (can you see the double rainbow?... loved how they shined..... Shermie just got on....)
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a95/Husky_mom/sherman%20july%2010/100_2295.jpg
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a95/Husky_mom/sherman%20july%2010/100_2297.jpg

then the light came through..... that white light one talks about.......that ray of light that seems like God is sending a path.......I saw that too and that´s when I knew our Shermie boy was gone......I was bawling, just like I´m doing now...(which I shouldn´t as I´m at work, but he so deserves it)
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a95/Husky_mom/sherman%20july%2010/100_2296.jpg

Love always
another fan of yours.....((hugs)) to you Pat, JoJoe and Star

[.sarah]

:( I honestly had no idea Sherman was even sick. I just went and found the thread and I just can't believe I've missed it this whole time. I need to go back and read the thread to see what happened. I am so, so sorry for your loss. RIP Sherman.

[.sarah]

Oh gosh, I am in tears after reading his thread. I am so sorry for what he and you went through. How awful.

[Iilo]

I don't post often here at PT, but seeing threads like these dedicated to great dogs like Shermie bring tears to my eyes.

RIP Sherman.

My thoughts are with your family.

[sisterdog]

Sweet Sherman, handsome golden smiling boy, you will be deeply missed. ((Hugs)) to Pat, JoJoe and Star.

[Lady's Human]

(((Hugs))) to all of you from all of us. Play hard at the bridge, Sherman.

[dukedogsmom]

S-miling always
H-air gold like the sun
E-ver present joy
R-evered PT pup
M-any loved you
A-away from us too soon
N-ever forgotten

[DixieDad]

All of us here are saddened by your loss but we know Sherman is playing in the fields at the RB patiently waiting. Dixie sends a message of love to Sherman.

http://i127.photobucket.com/albums/p151/DixieDad/Dixie20407022.jpg

[cyber-sibes]

Awww, please give Dixie a big hug from me, that is just too sweet!

Val, that is beautiful. I read this first thing this morning (beginning another day with LES), and wrote a post back because you hit on something I think I want to share but I feel too vulnerable to share it yet. I may post it later. But thank you, I love it.

[dukedogsmom]

You are more than welcome. I'm happy to try to ease some pain. You can pm me any time you need.

[Hellow]

Reggie wishes to offer you and Sherman a present:
http://i206.photobucket.com/albums/bb195/Hellow54321/LittleReggieHeadgehog2.jpg

[Husky_mom]

the pics are fixed......sorry but I had moved them to another folder and the links broke :(......sorry (first post on the page, #76)

[ramanth]

Beautiful photos Isabelle.

[cyber-sibes]

Isabelle, those are beautiful! What gorgeous rainbows, and the white light bursting through, just lovely. I got goosebumps! Thank you, from all of us.

[lizbud]

Isabelle, the pictures are amazing. Thanks for posting them.



Pat, how are you and JoJoe doing today? How is Star? Thinking of all of
you today. Hoping & praying that peace & comfort come soon. ((Hugs))

Liz, Smokey & Maggie

[pitc9]

Thinking of you.

[Vermontcat]

I'm so sorry to hear that Sherman has gone to the RB. :(
He was a very special husky boy and he was loved by so many here at Pet Talk.
I always loved seeing photos of him from the Dog Park Meetings.
Sending hugs your way.

[anna_66]

Hi guys, just thinking about you again today and hope your doing alright.
(((HUGS)))

[tikeyas_mom]

I am so sorry for your loss Cyber, I cannot believe Sherman has passed away, he was so young!!.. My heart goes out to you and your family, Hug star for me too. I cant imagine what you must be going through right now, I am seriously in tears. May he rest in peace, and you will one day meet again. ((((HUGS))))

[cyber-sibes]

Still trying to process all this.

We watched him grow from a lanky adolescent into a handsome strong and agile adult. He was just coming into his prime.
I know we don't get to pick what tragedies we deal with in life. My SIL is a pediatric oncologist, and sees children taken way too young far too often... (God bless her, I don't know how she does it.) But this just feels so unfair, why did it have to be him? I'm angry, I'm sad, I feel powerless, and there are a million little things I'm mad at myself and the doctors for...but, we did what we could, right or wrong, one step at a time, and ultimately, it was a horrible disease that took our sweet Sherman away from us. It wasn’t God, it wasn’t the doctors, it wasn’t neglect on our part… it was cancer.

I'm so grateful we have this board to share on, I know everyone here has (or will) go through having to say goodbye, and it always feels like it's far too soon.

To everyone praying for a miracle, thank you. I believe we got our miracle. Sherman was sick and we didn’t even know it. Who knows how long we had with him, enjoying his company in blissful ignorance, before the disease manifested so obviously? I asked the vet, he said it probably wasn’t very long, maybe a month or so that the disease went undetected. But that month was a hectic and stressful time because we were putting our house up for sale and moving nearly 800 miles. I don’t know how I could have coped with the stress of that plus knowing my boy was so ill. The miracle is that we got to enjoy most of his last days without knowing that death sentance was hanging over us.

Please keep Star in your prayers, she is very depressed. I had to take her into the vets (she's having a little pee problem) and the poor girl was in such a panic. Not like her usual self at all. She just flipped out when the white coat vet came in and they wanted to put her on the exam table. I think she thought she was never going to leave that place, just like Sherman.

She's been so very quiet since he's gone, really distracted. She's lost four pounds. The Animal Wellness essence for Grief & Loss arrived today, so maybe she'll perk up soon.

[crow_noir]

Poor Star.

*switching gears to praying for Star* *order commenced*

*hugs and scritchies and lots of playful husky vibes to keep her company.*

Sending Koli to you probably wouldn't help matters any would it? ;-p Hey, just thought I'd offer a friend for Star. (I know... we all have our best buds and not any number of friends can replace them.)

Sherman must have been telling Star some awful horror stories!!! Maybe another reading with Nancy is in order.

[dukedogsmom]

Poor Star. I'll tell you what, she can borrow my guardian angels now. You all can. I hope she gets better soon. You all have been on my mind a lot. I hope you can find a little peace, soon.

[BC_MoM]

As I continue praying for Sherman, I will pray for Star just as hard. It must be tough for her. Shermie's physical presence may be absent, but his spirit is right beside you, Star. He is with everyone, right within our hearts.

[Sevaede]

*LES* :(:(

R.I.P. sweet, beautiful Sherman. :(

I am so, so sorry for your loss. :(

[cloverfdx]

Thinking of you all {{Hugs}}.

[ChrisH]

Poor Star. Prayers on the way.

[DixieDad]

Dixie has added Star to her prayers.

[Daisy and Delilah]

All of you remain in my thoughts and prayers, Pat. I'm so sorry to hear how badly Star is taking this. My heart goes out with extra kisses and prayers. :( Feel better Star!! :(

[Cincy'sMom]

Hugs to all of you.

[anna_66]

Although I know your thoughts are still on Sherman, try to focus on Star. It sounds like she really needs you now. I know you already know this, guess I just had to say it.

I so hope that the essence you received helps her...and you too. I've been putting them in my palm and rubbing them on Bon's pads. He seems very relaxed and happy and when I'm done I rub his body, ears and face. Then he licks the palm of my hand. It's a very serene time for the two of us and I hope it's the same for you and Star.

Your in my thoughts and prayers every day...
Anna

[cyber-sibes]

Last night I wooo'd a poem for Sherman. Mom translated it to people-speak, but it's really much more poignant in husky. Mom made a beautiful picture to go with it.
woos,
Star
(cross-posting this from our blog, just for PT)
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v432/cyber-sibes/sigs/sherm-memor.gif
My poem for Sherman
by Star

Your golden fluff is everywhere,
reminding us that you’re not here.
Our humans grieve, they do not know
you linger still and did not go.
I hear your padded step go by
when, sleeping in the door, I lie.
I feel your fur against my face
as you curl up beside my place.
I feel your warmth; I smell your breath,
You’ve here in spite of what’s called “death”.

Oh Sherman, Sherman, my dear boy,
I feel your spirit full of joy,
and yet at sunset, cry for you,
and softly howl a husky woo:
a-rooooooooooo,
woo-oooooooo,
a-rooooooooooo,
woo-oooo, woo-ooooo, woooooo

[finn's mom]

That is a beautiful poem. What a lovely tribute to a remarkable animal.

[Daisy and Delilah]

That's unbelievable, Star. How sweet it is, Pat. I can't stop crying :(

[Cinder & Smoke]

Dance in the Light, Sherman, Dance in the Light,
Dance with the Angels, Dance all Day and all Night ...
Dance in the Light.

Fly High, Dear Sherman ...
May the Fair Winds of God's Breath Fill Your Angel Wings.

Visit your Earthly Home each night, Dear Sherman;
Dry the Tears of Hu-Mom and Hu-Dad with the soft
flutter of your Angel Wings ...

Then visit you grieving Sister Star ~
Brush away her demons with your Wings,
that she might sleep the night ...

Now return to your Eternal Rest,
North of the Rainbow Bridge, your job well done.


Pat, JoJoe, and Star ...
Here's a HeartFelt {{{HUG}}} for each of you.

With Love,
/s/ http://petoftheday.com/i/our_smilies/frown.gif Phred

[dukedogsmom]

Oh Star, such a sweet, heartfelt poem. I know you miss your buddy. You made me cry again. A beautiful poem, indeed. Sadly, some of our best poems are written from sadness.

[cyber-sibes]

Oh Phred, that is just beautiful! (More LES) You know, reading this, I can easily picture Sherman with angel wings, they suit him well.
Yes, Sherman, my angel boy, please brush us all with your angel wings, and comfort your dear sweet Star, who misses you so.

[Husky_mom]

what a lovely poem Star!!...... LES........ and more LES.....

[kimlovescats]

I am so terribly sorry about the loss of your beautiful Sherman!

(((((((HUGS))))))))))
Kim :(

[sandragonfly]

posted by .sarah
I honestly had no idea Sherman was even sick. I just went and found the thread and I just can't believe I've missed it this whole time. I need to go back and read the thread to see what happened. I am so, so sorry for your loss. RIP Sherman.

same here, tear teary. :( :( I saw this few nights ago with another pet talker, could not know what to say but can't say nothing - loss at words still, I missed so much. one of disadvantages being on roadtrip I guess.

(((((may you all lay in my thoughts!))))) :(

[K9karen]

Sweet Star, your poem did me in. Bless you, darling.

[crow_noir]

Wow, that was really nice Phred!

[crow_noir]

Oh Star that is such a beautiful poem! Thank you for sharing it with your humans and having them translate it for us. *huggles*


Last night I wooo'd a poem for Sherman. Mom translated it to people-speak, but it's really much more poignant in husky. Mom made a beautiful picture to go with it.
woos,
Star

My poem for Sherman
by Star

Your golden fluff is everywhere,
reminding us that you’re not here.
Our humans grieve, they do not know
you linger still and did not go.
I hear your padded step go by
when, sleeping in the door, I lie.
I feel your fur against my face
as you curl up beside my place.
I feel your warmth; I smell your breath,
You’ve here in spite of what’s called “death”.

Oh Sherman, Sherman, my dear boy,
I feel your spirit full of joy,
and yet at sunset, cry for you,
and softly howl a husky woo:
a-rooooooooooo,
woo-oooooooo,
a-rooooooooooo,
woo-oooo, woo-ooooo, woooooo

[crow_noir]

Pat, today the dangest thing happened and i had to share it with you.

S.O. and i were in Saginaw and headed home (Saginaw is about a 1/2 hour drive for us.) Somehow S.O. missed the road he was supposed to turn on. Which is really odd as it's almost routine now. We ended up down some back road, not really lost but we had barely a relative clue as to where we were at. The road was lined with lots of mature trees and plenty of water in sight. When we finally came upon a road sign we found out we were on Sherman Rd. :D We decided to continue being "lost" on our way home (problem was is that we eventually surrounded by "Dead End" 's and had to backtrack. ...and we took the highway back home (instead of the usual way or Sherman Rd which ran along side it a bit.)

(No, I'm not making that up... but I only planned on typing out the part about being on Sheman Rd. As i typed out the rest of the story though i found it to be a morbid similarity to reality.)

But yeah... I thought it was neat that by chance S.O. missed the usual road and we later ended up on Sherman Rd. :cool:

[pitc9]

Oh Star, that was BEAUTIFUL!!! (BIG time LES)

Please forgive me for just seeing this, I've been on vacation and not home much because of out of town family have been in.

Prayers for Star.

[kallisto4529]

Just wanted to check in and see how you are doing? I have been thinking about all of you all week and just now had a chance to come on pt and see what has been going on. I hope the prayers and hugs from us all are comforting you some, still praying and hoping you and your family still feel the love and comfort from us, I know this is a really rough time right now.

[cyber-sibes]

Thanks, and yes, all these PT prayers & hugs have made a huge difference and been of great comfort. Wow. I just realized writing this that it has already been a whole week since he passed.... :( sure doesn't feel like it. We miss him so much. Thank you so much for asking about us.

[Pam]

Pat I am so sorry for your loss. The poem that you (and Star) wrote is just beautiful. (((Hugs)))

[pitc9]

Just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you.

[loveallfurryfriends]

Sweet Sherman is now @ peace. Remember all the joy he brought to your life & try to find comfort in it. Hugs to you and your family.

[Kfamr]

What a beautiful poem Star wrote for her brother...
{{HUGS}} to you guys.

[loveallfurryfriends]

I am so sorry for your loss. Sherman will be an angel to look over your family. He was an absolutely beautiful dog. He is now pain free & running and playing @ the bridge. My thoughts and prayers are with you!

[Tollers-n-Dobes]

What a beautifully written poem. I hope you guys are doing better!
(((hugs)))

[pitc9]

Sherman, Sierra and I sat outside looking at the stars and I pointed to one and told her that was you sending birthday kisses to her.

We miss you!

[dukedogsmom]

Just stopping by to let you know I'm thinking of you.

[cyber-sibes]

Hi Val, just wanted to say thanks for dropping by Sherman's thread to check on us. I can't believe it's been two weeks already. We're doing better, Star is perking up just a bit. she's still pretty subdued, but once in a while she'll play with some of her toys & wag her tail for a few minutes. I think he's still around, she will lay next to their bed and blanket instead of on it, and stare at it. It just seems so strange not to have him here anymore. :(

[wolf_Q]

That was a beautiful poem by Star. I'm still thinking of you all, more {{hugs}} for you two and a scratch behind the ears for pretty Star. We love and miss you Sherman!

[cyber-sibes]

:( Where's the "crying" icon? :(

It was a month ago Friday, since you left for the Rainbow Bridge, my love. You can't imagine how much we miss you, sweetie. So many times I just burst into tears thinking about you. You were and still are, our Angel Boy. Star is still mourning you, she is so sad. I really hate it that you got sick, why you? I've tried to be stoic & know that there is no answer to that question, but I really really hate it that you got such a terrible disease. I pray that your suffering wasn't too awful nor too long, and that you really are watching over us from the Bridge, healthy again. You were the best dog anyone could ever hope to have, our perfect boy. I love you, I miss your big head and your sweet paws, your handsome face and beautiful golden-brown eyes, I miss your thick soft fur, your quiet gentle ways, and all the little things that made you such a joy to share our life with. I hope when I whisper "I love you, Sherman", you can hear me.

[chocolatepuppy]

I hope when I whisper "I love you, Sherman", you can hear me.

Sherman can hear you Pat. I still talk to my Mandy and she's been gone over a year. It will get easier, or should I say you will find peace with losing him, but it sure takes a long time. Star missing him must be so difficult, that was one thing I found so hard, the other furkids just don't understand. :( I too, often wondered, why my Mandy? She was only 5. :(
If you ever want to talk, feel free to pm me. {hugs}

[pitc9]

:( I hope when I whisper "I love you, Sherman", you can hear me.


Yes Pat...he can hear you.

LES...
{{{hugs}}}

[dukedogsmom]

He's still there, you just can't see him. I believe their spirits are around us. But that sure doesn't make it easier. I wish I had more words of wisdom. I hope Star is doing better now. Hug her for me.

[cyber-sibes]

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v432/cyber-sibes/shermanstars.jpg
I can't believe it's only two months since Sherman left us. I am so down today, feeling really depressed. I still feel such an aching in my heart. It feels like he's been gone for years instead of months. He died way too young. He should have been here for at least another ten years. (IMO, not God's, obviously). I know, it's not good or nice or polite to be angry at God, but I am, I'm plain ticked about it. :mad: I'll probably come back & edit this part out later, but that's how I'm feeling: :mad: & http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v432/cyber-sibes/blinkies/attachment-1.php.gif
That's all, just need to vent today I guess.

My sweet boy, we never guessed that you be gone within weeks of these photos, Star & JoJoe & I miss you more than words can say.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v432/cyber-sibes/SSsmilininRI.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v432/cyber-sibes/dockdogs.jpg

[anna_66]

Pat I do know how you feel.

Being angry and sad just about sums up how I felt when my RB Keisha died. So I personally don't feel you should edit your post. How you feel is how you feel.
One day the feeling will be different, but the wound is still so fresh.

My heart goes out to you.
(((HUGS)))
Anna

[pitc9]

{{{HUGS}}} to you Pat!
JoJo & Star too.
If it makes you feel better, I want him back too! :(

[cassiesmom]

[[[[[[HUGS]]]]]] thinking of you today

[dukedogsmom]

You shouldn't have to edit out your feelings. I know exactly how you feel. There will be parts of you that will always miss him. I'm really sorry that you didn't have more happy years with him. You're right, it doesn't seem fair. Come back here as often as you like. I know it makes me feel better when I write in Duke's thread. It's like you can still keep the connection to them open for a little longer, you know?

[DrKym]

I am just now seeing this thread! Omg Pat I am so so so sorry! you must be devastated!

Sherman Please watch over your amazing Mom..................I cannot tell you how much you will be missed.

Pat all of my thoughts and prayers if I can do anything at all please let me know!

All our love the Goodnows and Doc

[lizbud]

Pat,

((Hugs)) from Indy. I've read this poem so often after Buddy's passing
and it did help me a lot.It captures my thoughts about losing even that tangible memory to remind you that they were once here. I've decided
that this loss only carves their name deeper into your heart. Liz.


YOU WERE HERE

As I sit in those moments of quiet,
When sadness invades me,
I know that yesterday,
You were here.

Now you are away from us,
Not knowing your future,
Or when you'll come home, but yesterday,
You were here.

It has now been a week,
A week since you last were in the house,
An entire week since we carried you away,
To the place where we did not know your future,
But just last week,
You were here.

Another day passes;
a week ago, you were still with us,
In daily reports from the clinic,
They did not know your future,
But we could still hope, and,
You were here.

More days pass,;
A week ago you left us,
Your head cradled in our hands,
Your spirit gracefully moving upward,
But for a few hours of that day,
You were here.

Sadness invades again,
As I know that once those hours pass,
I can no longer look back,
Over the span of a familiar week's time,
To find that comforting point when,
You were here.

More time will pass;
Sadness will not so much invade as menace,
And I will mark the days,
Saying things like,
"last month, last summer, last Halloween, last year,"
You were here.

I dread that day,
One year from now,
That first marking of the time,
That your body was no longer with us;
Though we will never forget you,
Your tangible memory fades,
The feel of your fur, your head, your back, your weight against us,
The smell and sounds of you when,
You were here.

The emptiness is beginning to fade,
To change into another reality,
One with you still playing a part,
But a role of ethereal presence rather than physical comfort we crave;
Your memory, your spirit, your essence and counsel,
Dwell with us, but this feeling is not the same as when,
You were here.


Author: Jenine Stanley
Copyright (c) Jenine Stanley, 1999

[cyber-sibes]

Thanks for all of your words of understanding. It's been a long and very melancholy day. I've been looking through this thread at the gifts of words you posted, looking at his pictures, all through tears. Liz, I cried all the way through that beautiful tender poem.... that is exactly how it is.
I read the thread about Tango this morning, and my heart just breaks that yet another PT sweetheart is mysteriously ill, with an uncertain future. They are with us for such a short time... much too short a time.

[crow_noir]

People say the pain lessens over time. I'm not so sure about that anymore. Sometimes it did for some loved ones i lost. Sometimes it's just that my brain forgets. So far for King it has been totally untrue. After the first month or so the pain hasn't got any less for me. I still randomly sob my eyes out and my nose gets soaked right off my face from being so mushy. I still randomly blurt out "I want King back." Other days my brain totally forgets he's not here and i ask where he is... and it hurts all over again as it washes back over me. (and it's been over a year now.)

Sometimes we love someone so deeply that it never stops hurting.

I've long since gotten over my terrier's death. I've long since been OK with my budgies gone... though i do sometimes get a bit lonely for feathered company. I miss my aunt and regret my father never let me spend more time with her. So on and so forth. One of my best friend's death still haunts me, but it is because he never received justice. King however... it is a loss more deep to me than anything i can describe.

Sometimes we love someone so deeply that it never stops hurting.

I see this being true for you with Sherman. It may not be comforting to hear that, but i hope that it is comforting to know that if you do feel that way that it's not crazy and others won't think less of you. That you are not alone in grieving deeply.

[dukedogsmom]

Crow, it's like that for me, as well. One of my cousins was talking about her cat that had gone off to die. She said she thought she knew where the RB was located. I told her to tell me so I could bring back Duke :( It'll be a year for me in two months and it hurts almost as much as it did that very day. If I knew where the RB was, I'd bring them all back to us.

Cyber, sorry for the small hijiack and I, too, hope I didn't make you even more sad.

[gini]

I have been where you are - and I understand. I wish that I had just the right words to make you feel better - but I don't.

Why do we get to love a pet so unconditionally and then have it taken away.
It is a mystery of life that we don't have an answer for right now.

I feel your pain and I am sorry.

[Cinder & Smoke]

Dance, Sherman, Dance





http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v432/cyber-sibes/shermanstars.jpg




The air is cooler, leaves turn red and gold, like your coat.
Crisp leaves dance in the air and on the ground across our path...
you always loved Fall.

Dance in the light, Sherman, dance in the light.
Shine in the Northern sky, shine true and bright.
Shine on our days, and shine on our nights,
You shine in our memories of what you were like.
Shine on these gray days, shine deep in our heart,
Shine here forever, and never depart.

There are no words to express how deeply you are missed,
Dearest Sherman.

With All Our Love,
/s/ Mom & Dad


Author: Pat St. Onge
Copyright Pat St. Onge, 2007
Source: Cyber-Sibes Husky Blog

[kallisto4529]

All I can say is all of us totally understand every tear, every bit of anger, every bit of emotion you feel or you need to vent about. We would never judge how you feel. I too was very angry with God at first when I lost Mousse. Dont get me wrong I loved Ginger very much, but I have come to realize Mousse was my heart dog, he was my child that I can not physically have, and when he was taken from me so suddenly I really thought I would go insane with the grief of it. This Christmas Eve will be three years since he went to the RB, it still haunts me to this day and I miss him every day I take a breath. Just please know we are all here for you and you can say anything you need to, in order to get your emotions out and be able to heal some. God Bless you, you will continue to be in my prayers and thoughts.

[4 Dog Mother]

I was re-reading this thread, Pat, and realized I never responded to it. I did read it and I guess I had no words to add to what was being said. Plus, this has been such a crazy time with Brian getting ready to deploy, Christy and the kids getting ready to move in plus my unknown illness. Rob died two years ago in July so we were also trying hard to get his stone ready to go on before that date.

It is also was so hard for me because every loss reminds me of the loss of Rob. So sudden, no real answers, the anger at God (and by the way, it is all right to be angry at God - he understands) and the deep, deep hurt and pain that really never goes away. Most of us think of our pets as our "kids" so while Rob may have been my human child and while I meaing me personally would have rather have lost one of the dogs than my son, both losses are just that losses filled with hurt, pain and anger. We have lost a part of ourselves that can never be filled by another and shouldn't be - we have lots of love in us and we need to remember our loved ones.

My thoughts and prayers were with you then and remain with you now. Diana

[Dorothy39]

Oh gee Pat!!! I feel your loss , yet I've stayed away from the memorial thread~ Oh My, Please Forgive me , my PT friend~ It's soooo hard for me to click here!!!! :(

I haven't forgotton your Dear Sherman!!!!

[loveallfurryfriends]

It is sometimes so hard to read these posts, b/c I cry whenever I do. The pain of losing our furry family members never really goes away. Each of them is so special!!! Please do not edit your posts, we all know the way you feel. It is heartbreaking for me to read about your beautiful Sherman, but know that we are all here for you. <<<<HUGS>>>>.

[cyber-sibes]

Dorothy, the heart has no expiration date on mourning, thanks for thinking of Sherman.
I let the third month anniversary of his passing slip by quietly, as the pain of his loss suddenly seemed so fresh again. That sudden awareness of his absence that pops up unbidden in one moment or another still catches me off-guard. It still doesn't seem possible he's gone forever. I so miss his handsome face, he always looked contented and peaceful. I know he's at peace now, but I wish he was still just sleeping in the other room.

I don't think we ever get over losing them, they're such a part of us.

[Dorothy39]

Dorothy, the heart has no expiration date on mourning~



How very well phrased cyber-sibes~Your Sherman has become a part of US!!

I guess it's just a matter of accepting their passing and learning that sorrow and joy can walk in hand~It's hard work~But the job pays well!!!

All if us here on The Memorial Thread tend to hold onto each other when the floor seems to fall out from under our feet!!!

[cyber-sibes]

Nov. 10, unbelievabele, but its been 4 months since Sherman went to the Bridge. I posted a rememberance to my boy on our blog today:
To Sherman (http://sscyber-sibes.blogspot.com/)I know many of you miss him too. He was such a sweetheart.

[pitc9]

{{hugs}}

I helped Toby to the bridge 1 month and 4 days before you helped our sweet Shermie. I remembered how fresh the hurt was of loosing Toby when we lost him, it made the pain come back and added to it the loss of your sweet boy.

I'm glad they, as newbies to the bridge, had each other to hang out with until they both learned their way around and met other RB PT pets.

Pat, I want you to know that I think of Sherman often (you, JoJo and Star too). My screen saver at work is a slide show of pictures and I have a few Sherman pictures in there so I see him often.

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}

Edit...OMG, I'm bawling after reading your beautiful post on your blog.

[lizbud]

Oh Pat, your tribute & memories of Sherman were beautifully written.
Thanks for posting the blog link. I loved your sweet comments on Anna
also. ( I had not seen her picture for awhile)

Sherman was not only a handsome fella, but the sweetest dog I've ever
met. :) I'm so glad I got to meet him in person. I know he was a heart
dog for sure.

[dukedogsmom]

Thinking of you and Sherman. I know the holidays will be difficult. I hope you can find joy, as well, this Christmas.

[cyber-sibes]

Hello Sherman,

I just want to tell you again how much I miss you. I think of you every day. Our mom & dad miss you too, I try to comfort mom when she gets very very sad. I can always tell cause she'll wrap her arms around me (you know how I feel about that!) and whimper like a puppy.

I do want o thank you for sending Jack our way, even if he is mostly annoying. I finally got him to understand I'm the alpha around here, so things are better between us. I think you would like him too, you two would have the entire yard dug up in no time!

Jack is okay, but I sure miss playing with you!
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v432/cyber-sibes/north%20pole%20adventure/IMG_1610.jpg
I know that you drop by once in a while, and knowing I'll be with you again when its my time makes your absence a little easier to bear.

Sweetest wooos,
Star

[cassiesmom]

Sweet Shermie, I hope you get this on da Bridge. You are still much missed and I am glad I got to meet you through PT and your blog, and there are some lucky ones who even met you in person. You blessed us sweetie. We miss woo. Please ask God to comfort your mom's heart.

[loveallfurryfriends]

I know how painful this is during the holidays. You will be in my thoughts.

[pitc9]

Oh Shermie... seeing that picture of you and your sister playing in the snow made my eyes leak. :(

{{{HUGS}}} to you all!!

[cyber-sibes]

Good morning, Sherman! Woke up and realized that today is your 5th birthday! I hope there's a party going on at the RB, complete with pupcakes & Frosty Paws! I will be sure to give Star & Jack an extra special dinner & treat today, in your honor. Wish you were here so I could give you a great big hug & a smooch in person, dear boy! Happy Birthday, Sherman!
Love, your Mom
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v432/cyber-sibes/PT%20Memorial%20Day%2007/IMG_1909.jpg
MMM, home-made cookies! PT Findlay pic-nic, Memorial Day '07

[pitc9]

Happy Happy Birthday Shermie!

I'll look up into the sky tonight and I just KNOW I'll see a party going on!

Miss you. :(

{{hugs}} to you Pat!

[lizbud]

Thinking of you too Sherman. Hope you do have a party at the bridge.
We miss you sweet boy. :(

[cyber-sibes]

Happy New Year, Sherms!
Sending you all my love, handsome boy. I didn't think I'd miss you so much tonight, but I do, :( Kisses, sweetheart.

[Lori Jordan]

Happy New Year Sweet Boy!

I hope you and Anna had a blast last night,Playing in the snow and having lots of treats,Take Care of her for me.

[lizbud]

Happy New Year, Sherms!
Sending you all my love, handsome boy. I didn't think I'd miss you so much tonight, but I do, :( Kisses, sweetheart.


We miss him too Pat. It's hard to think of Sherman without missing him. :(


Reading Sherman's thread always takes me back to the dog park & what
a cool sweetheart he was while his rowdy sis Star was making amorous moves
on poor Smokey. :)

[cyber-sibes]

9 months today, Sherman. :( Just doesn't seem possible you've been gone so long.
We're managing, but still miss you so. Star was whimpering in her dreams yesterday and I wondered if she was dreaming about you...I know she still misses you- she'll let Jack use her fluffy bed, but NOBODY lays on the black quilt you both shared, except her.
Jack is a good boy, I think you two would have been good buddies, he loves to play. He also loves pb as much as you did - and even licks his front legs after he eats it, just like you. He also sits so nicely for his treats, like you did, and patiently (most of the time) waits for Star to get hers first. Like you, he likes to snuffle Star's ears -and she doesn't like it any more than when you did it, either. ;)
I hope you have a happy day at the Bridge, sweetest boy. Thinking about you being happy makes me happy too.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v432/cyber-sibes/mistySherman.png

[Cinder & Smoke]

10 months today, Sherman. :(
Just doesn't seem possible you've been gone so long.
We're managing, but still miss you so...

>sniff<
:(

Pat ~
We all miss Sherman.
Today's Tribute was a little hard to get through ... darn Tears.

{{{Hugs}}} for You and Star; JoJoe and Jack, too.

/s/ :( Phred

[pitc9]

LES... oh Pat {{HUGS}} that picture turned on the water works for SURE!

Shermie, we all miss you like crazy!
:(