View Full Version : Tennessee, April 1997- December 19, 2006
Cataholic
12-19-2006, 04:06 PM
I don't even know where to begin. My heart is broken, and my baby Tenny is gone from me forever. I helped him to the Bridge this morning at 11 am. I remained with him, whispering words of love, comfort and sorrow. Hard to believe it has only been 8 weeks since I heard that diagnosis of cancer. Two rounds of chemo did no good. As my fluffiest of all tuxies slowly faded away to a shell, I couldn't ask him to hold on any longer. No more whiny cries. No more heavy padding of the feet. No more headbumpies that sent my coffee spilling. No more good will ambasador. No more lover boy. I lost a precious member of my family, and Dakky lost his best friend.
Tenny never caused anyone a moment's pain. Why did this have to happen to him? Why? Play hard at the Bridge, Ten-Ten. Christmas won't be the same for me ever again. Give Tex and Binx my love.
Love,
Mommy :(
Cinder & Smoke
12-19-2006, 04:40 PM
:(
Dear Joh ~
Hard to just say "We're sorry ..." - sorry doesn't cut it at a time like this.
Try your hardest to remember those Head Bumpies ... Tenny at his best.
Hopefully Dakky will practice his *bumpies* on you - to help relieve his grief.
You guys can *Bump* your hearts out on each other.
Tell us some Tenny Tails - they might bring some tears, but they'll also bring
some Fond Memories that help to heal.
Big {{{Hugs}}}
/s/ :( Phred
Russian Blue
12-19-2006, 04:43 PM
Johanna, I didn't want to believe my eyes when I saw this post. It is not fair at all and my heart hurts for you. Please believe me when I say I wish I could have been there to help you through these past weeks. You have been in my thoughts, daily.
I didn't get a chance to meet this wonderful soul in person but you were very lucky to have Tenny share your life. I'm so, so sorry that cancer took another.... :(
Tenny, please come by and keep an eye on your mom. She's really hurting and will miss you. She will also need to remember the wonderful times you shared and that you will always be alive - in those memories and in her heart.
:( (((( Johanna )))) :(
Uabassoon
12-19-2006, 05:04 PM
Johanna I'm so sorry to hear this :( I'm sending you a million cyber hugs.
popcornbird
12-19-2006, 05:06 PM
Oh Johanna, my heart hurts so much to read the grief in your words. :( Dear Tenny was such a precious, fluffy, beautiful, sweet Tuxie, and I know he will be in your heart forever. I'm at such a loss of words, and know that no matter how hard I try, my words will not make the pain go away, but I want you to know that you are in my prayers, always. May God comfort you at this time of sadness and pain. May you find comfort in all the wonderful memories you have of him. I know just how very much you loved Tenny. :(
The tears are starting now. Sweet Tenny, rest in peace, in comfort. We will all miss you tremendously.
:(
Killearn Kitties
12-19-2006, 05:08 PM
So unfair! :( Your Tenny always sounded a wonderful cat. I am so sorry he has gone.
Rest in peace, sweetheart.
wolflady
12-19-2006, 05:35 PM
I'm so sorry to see this today, Johanna. :( I know how much you loved your Tenny, and how much you will miss him. That final act of love and compassion is always the hardest, but take comfort in that he's not hurting. We're all here for you.
RIP, sweet Tenny :(
**hugs**
kb2yjx
12-19-2006, 05:49 PM
I am so sorry to hear about your Tenny( I recall when I first saw the photos of your cats, how neat to have named them after States!!!). I now that Tenny was glad that you were with him to the end. He will always be with you, and you will know that his spirit is there. Sleep softly, sweet Tenny...And (((((hugs)))))))))to Mom...Sandra
catmandu
12-19-2006, 07:25 PM
Tennessee was truly a Wonderful Cat.
And it was 15 years ago that I lost My Dear Mother , and I know taht shes there making sure all the New Angels have thier wings and know where to go to go on thier many travels.
Tennesse will always be part of your life, and every once in a while will let you know hes still there by your side.
We are having lunch at Tony Romas Tomorrow, and Tennessee will get the first Rib, with Tennesee Smokey Sauce.
You will see your Friend and that love will burst into flame once more, and will be forever.
One Fine Day.
Prairie Purrs
12-19-2006, 07:46 PM
I'm so sorry for your heartbreaking loss.
Rest gently, Tenny, you handsome tuxie boy.
Catty1
12-19-2006, 07:47 PM
I am so sorry about Tenny...I had hoped too that some treatment might help.
All I can say is {{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}
Bengalz
12-19-2006, 09:18 PM
Joanna,
Losing our babies is most devastating and losing them close together is even worse. Tenny was the sweetest boy and so close to your heart. Lots of healing prayers for you and your family (fur and skin) - I'm sure Tenny is greatly missed.
Rest in Peace sweet Tennessee - please come and visit your Mama; she needs to know you're just fine.
Hugs,
Betty
Tubby & Peanut's Mom
12-19-2006, 09:44 PM
Oh my gosh, Jo, I'm so sorry. I just can't believe Tenny is gone - I still had a hard time believing he had cancer. :(
Tenny has been one of my all-time favorite PT cats and even though we haven't heard (or seen!) much of him lately, I will miss him terribly. I remember a thread about what is your dream cat, and my dream cat was Tenny - a big fluffy boy cat who knows how to give a good head bumpie.
I can't believe he is gone, but I know you did only what was best for him.
Tubby will be happy to meet you, Tenny. When you share head bumpies with him , try not to knock each other out.
Jo, {{{hugs}}} to you and Jonah, and extra special snugglies to Dakky. :( :(
trayi52
12-19-2006, 10:18 PM
Johanna, so sorry to hear about your loss.
Rest in Peace, sweet Tenny.
Sending ((((HUGS)))) from Tennessee to you, Johanna.
Willie :(
AbbyMom
12-19-2006, 10:21 PM
I am so sorry. I feel your pain. It hurts so much. Play hard at the RB sweetheart.
Barbara
12-20-2006, 04:24 AM
Joh, I simply couldn't believe it.
Poor Tenny, I am so sorry that he was fading away, being the handsome fluffy man in your life.
What a sad event so shortly before Christmas.
My thoughts are with you, Dakky and the others.
cloverfdx
12-20-2006, 04:59 AM
Oh Johanna i am so sorry for your loss {{Hugs}} :(. Rest easy Tenny.
smokey the elder
12-20-2006, 08:20 AM
I'm so sorry! He can join Ebony, who went 3 days ago. Ebony, play nice with Tenny, please.
Donnaj4962
12-20-2006, 08:53 AM
Oh my, I am so sorry to hear that Tenny has gone to the RB. I know that you loved him very much, and that you did all for him that you could. You made the ultimate decision to let him pass in peace, and for that I am certain that he is grateful.
Play hard at the RB little one, and RIP.
(((hugs))) to you and your family on your loss.
jazzcat
12-20-2006, 08:56 AM
My heart sank when I saw this. I'm so very sorry.
Rest in Peace sweet Tenny. You will be missed. :(
ChrisH
12-20-2006, 08:58 AM
Oh, Johanna {{big hugs}} :(
Rest in peace sweet Tenny.
slick
12-20-2006, 10:21 AM
Johanna, I feel your pain and know just what you are going through. {{{hugs}}}
RIP sweet Tenny and Speckles says to make sure you look underneath the big Christmas tree in town square. There will be a soft cat bed with your name on it.
Karen
12-20-2006, 10:31 AM
Rest in peace, sweet tuxie Tenny. And while you're at the Rainbow Bridge, can you send some love down, not just to your Momma Jo and Jonah, but to your namesake state, Tennessee, where our friend kimlovescats is in need of prayers and love? Thanks, sweetie, I know you have love to spare, and always did.
Joh, my heart goes out to you so much. I could sit here and type out long sentences of comfort in the hope they would help, but the best I can do is to say "I feel your deep pain" as I have been where you are now.
I am just so very sorry.
Felicia's Mom
12-20-2006, 11:37 AM
Jo, I am so sorry to hear this.
Play hard at the Bridge, Tenny!
Randi
12-20-2006, 11:51 AM
Oh Johnna, I'm so very sorry to hear this. :( Tenna was such a lovely tuxie and it just doesn't seem fair! I hope it will be a comfort for you that he is not suffering now, but playing happily with the other RB kitties.
Rest in Peace, sweet Tenna! :) You will always be remembered.
catlover4ever
12-20-2006, 12:10 PM
Johanna, I'm so very sorry. :( Cancer took my Tigger away as well and my heart aches so very much for you. It is so very unfair that this has to happen. We do all that we can for them. We love them more than we can speak the words, more than our hearts can even begin to imagine and then they are taken from us. :( :( We have to watch their bodies become frail, the glistening of the eyes loosing their luster as they look at us with all the love that they can give us...and we have to be the ones to make the hardest decisions for them.....it is so UNFAIR. :( :(
However, know that you did what was the very best for Tenny, you gave him unconditional love, a furr-ever home, friends to play with, and everything that he could have wanted in this world.
Tenny is looking down on you, smiling and playing with all his new friends like my Tigger. His body and soul is restored to health and there is no more pain.
(((HUGS)))
RIP Sweet Tennessee
You are missed dearly by all who knew you. :(
lizbud
12-20-2006, 12:42 PM
Johanna, I am so sorry to hear that Tennessee has gone. :(
Cancer is an evil thief that spares not even the kindest heart. (((HUGS)))
to you at this sad time. Liz.
Paws13
12-20-2006, 03:52 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about your much loved kitty's loss. :( It's good feeling to remember the good times you had with Tenny- all the times Tenny sent your cofee spilling and all the fun Chritmas you had in the past years. Even though it might be sad to think about these thoughts, it would make you feel good inside!
Tenny you will be much missed! :(
Rest in peace, Tenny! :(
Vermontcat
12-20-2006, 07:23 PM
I'm so sorry to hear that your sweet Tennessee Tuxedo boy has gone to the RB. :(
He was always one of my favorite Pet Talk tuxedo kitties.
I'm sure that his brothers Tex and Binx were waiting for him at the bridge.
Sending hugs your way, Samantha sends you comforting purrs as well.
dukedogsmom
12-20-2006, 10:22 PM
I am so very sorry to learn about this. It's a shame that our animals can't even be safe from cancer. That's how I lost my Duke as well. It's such a hard decision to make and then follow through on. Being with them as they pass on to the bridge is one of the hardest things we'll ever have to do in our lifetime. But, that's our last gift of love we can give them. My heart breaks for you. I know nothing we can say will make it better. Just know that we feel the pain you feel and will be here for you to help you grieve. Rest peacefully and pain free, sweet Tuxie. And make sure to look out after your mama who misses you so much.
krazyaboutkatz
12-20-2006, 10:57 PM
Johanna, I'm so sorry to hear about Tenny's passing.:( Now he's painfree and playing up at the Bridge with his brothers and waiting to see you again some day. RIP sweet Tenny.:(
AmberLee
12-21-2006, 01:15 AM
{{{Jo and family}}}
So sorry for your loss. Frolic heartily at the Bridge, sweet Tennie.
Edwina's Secretary
12-21-2006, 10:24 AM
SO sorry Johanna....so very sorry....Godspeed sweet Tennessee....
Grace
12-21-2006, 02:02 PM
I'm so very sorry for your loss of Tenny.
shais_mom
12-21-2006, 03:10 PM
oh Joh - I am so sorry I came late into this.
lots of love and hugs on the way for you.
Big Beautiful Tenny - travel sweetly and safely to the bridge.
Lots of people and PT critters are waiting for you!
Gosh we have lost so many this month.
{{{JOH}}}
jenluckenbach
12-21-2006, 07:05 PM
Joh My heart breaks with you. :( :( I know how quickly cancer turns into death and how it makes your head spin with grief.
There are no words to comfort you except those that you already know.....his memories are ours forever and cannot be taken away, and his body is restored so he can wait for you pain free.
{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}
Denyce
12-22-2006, 03:08 PM
I am so very sorry Johanna. Play hard Tenny and keep an eye on your mommy...her heart is missing you.
chocolatepuppy
12-22-2006, 07:33 PM
I'm so sorry about Tenny. :( May he Rest in Peace.
rosethecopycat
12-22-2006, 08:47 PM
my baby Tenny is gone from me forever.
:(
Johanna, you know it's not true.
ONE FINE DAY.
Godspeed to the Bridge, Tenny
Kirsten
12-24-2006, 04:03 PM
Oh Johanna, I haven't seen this until now!!! :( It's so very sad that you have lost your beloved Tenny, especially only a couple of days before Christmas!
R.I.P., little Tenny angel, I know you're sending smiles down from kitty heaven to comfort your meowmie, she's missing you so much!
(((HUGS)))
Kirsten
Lobodeb
12-27-2006, 10:58 AM
Johanna, I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm just reading this now.
Godspeed, Tenny. Keep an eye out for Mommy and Jonah, ok?
ramanth
12-27-2006, 12:30 PM
Johanna, I'm so sorry I'm just now finding this. :( :( My heart broke when I saw the title. RIP sweet Tenny. You are missed greatly down here on Earth.
*HUGS*
Logan
12-27-2006, 01:50 PM
Johanna, I didn't see this, either. I am so very, very sorry for your loss, my friend. :( :(
zippy-kat
12-27-2006, 08:32 PM
{{Rest sweetly, Tenny.}}
My sincerest condolences, Joh. :(
moosmom
12-27-2006, 09:37 PM
Johanna,
I'm so sorry to hear about Tenny. You were with him till the end and loved him unconditionally.
RIP sweet Tenny.
((((((HUGS))))))))
Donna
Miss Meow
12-28-2006, 06:45 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about Tenny. My heart is breaking for you, Jo.
RIP beautiful boy.
Cataholic
12-29-2006, 01:49 PM
Thank you for your kind words. My heart is still very heavy. Jonah and I went on an overnight trip Wed-Thurs, and all I kept thinking, "it is only cause Tenny is gone that we can do this". I couldn't leave before with his meds and his condition. :(
The vet called today, and his ashes are 'ready'. It is like it is all over again. :( :( I wasn't going to pick them up for awhile, but, then, I thought that I don't want him to be alone, without us, for another holiday.
:(
Laura's Babies
12-29-2006, 06:41 PM
Bring his ashes home for the remainder of the holidays so that you can wish him a Happy New Year. It will not be the same as having him there but he will be with you in spirit.. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Cincy'sMom
01-06-2007, 07:57 PM
I'm sorry I misse this previously. Tenny, may you rest inpeace. I am honored to have met you.
Thoughts and prayers for you and your family, Joh.
phesina
01-06-2007, 09:22 PM
Johanna, I am so very sorry about your beloved Tennessee. My deepest sympathy to you.
Rest in peace, beautiful sweet Tenny.
Hugs and love,
Pat
Maya & Inka's mommy
01-07-2007, 08:38 AM
Oh no, I am so sorry for you, Johanna.... .It is so hard to loose a cat in such a short time.... . How old was Tenny?
http://users.pandora.be/bernardgabriels/images/smilies%20922_big_hugs.gif to you and Tenny's buddy Dakky
Awwwwww! Sorry to hear about your bad news.
((((((hugs))))))
~Aki
Sara luvs her Tinky
01-08-2007, 11:24 AM
Johanna..
I ran across this late .. and havn't know what to say in reply....
I hope that time has healed some of your pain.. I hope you find comfort knowing that Tenny had a WONDERFUL life .... and was blessed to have a wonderful meowmie, baby brother .. and kat roomies.. to have fun and play with.
I know I have no words that could ease any pain.. but I do want you to know that i'm here if you need anything... and I wanted to send some {{hugs}}
catland
01-25-2007, 10:56 AM
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
Cataholic
12-19-2007, 11:43 AM
I awoke this morning with that awful feeling of dread, as I knew today was the day, one long year ago. The christmas tree is up, undecorated, but, up, and you aren't anywhere to be found my little boy. I miss you today, like I did the last 365 days. They told me you would come back to me, that I would 'feel' your spirit, and I have not. Daks misses you like no other, and while I didn't know it at the time, Georgie couldn't hold on without you. First Tex, then you, then, Georgie.
We miss you, Ten-Ten.
Love,
Mommy
Cinder & Smoke
12-19-2007, 12:04 PM
:(
They told me you would come back to me,
that I would 'feel' your spirit,
and I have not.
We miss you, Ten-Ten.
:(
He's been back ... he just walks *softly* and *WhisPurs* more quietly.
You're sure to notice the *smushed spot* under the Tree ...
a sure sign that they've ALL been back to check on you guys.
I swear there's White Fluff behind the puter chair that doesn't belong to either Cinder or Smokey.
And those lil Black hairs on my pillow ? ... Kat Tracks, for sure.
Yup - they'va all been back ...
<sniff>
:(
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