sumbirdy
11-30-2006, 02:05 PM
Okay this is really making me mad so I'll tell the whole story.
I have a sister-in-law named Stephanie who has a four month old boy, Nathan (very adorable). When Nathan was born his heart stopped but they got it to start beating again. But when he was born Stephanie didn't even want to see him before they care-flighted him. When he was getting out of the hospital 2 weeks later she had to stay in the room overnight so they could see how she did with him. She kept trying to get the nurses to take him out of there because she said she was too "tired".
They were coming to live with us since they just recently got kicked out of a friends house and they couldn't bring the baby home unless my parents were there. When we brought Nathan home Stephanie didn't want much to do with him and every time he would cry she would hand him to my mom or dad. She rarely held him for no reason. She rarely held him at all. Now she is staying gone for 5 days out of the week and going to another city where my brother works and staying in a motel. Nathan is staying with us and when she comes home for those two days she barely pays attention to him. He cries everytime he looks at her so dad thinks that she did something to him because its that scared cry.
The last time they came home she couldn't get him to stop crying so she just handed him off to Charles (my brother, her husband) and left. She has a case worker and this is what really makes me mad. Everytime the case worker comes over to see them she acts like she really loves Nathan and she can't stop holding him and she tells all these lies to the case worker and says that she does night feedings (which my parents do because she just ignores him when he cries) and she acts like my mom doesn't know nothing when it comes to taking care of Nathan.
My mom has raised three kids and she's basically raising Nathan too. When the case worker is there she also acts like her and Charles are the perfect married couple (which they are not because they get into fist fights and threaten to kill each other all the time.) The case worker is trying to get them an apartment and to get Nathan to move in with them. Charles already told her that he wanted Nathan to stay with us for at least six months because he doesn't trust Stephanie around Nathan. But the case worker keeps insisting that Nathan move in with them. Dad told her he didn't know why she wanted to get his grandson killed because living in that home he will probably end up dead.
We think the only reason why Stephanie wants the case worker to think that she's crazy about Nathan and all that is because the case worker is helping them get an apartment and a job (Stephanie is very money-hungry. She went out and bought herself a bunch of stuff when she knew Nathan needed diapers and formula.) But it just really makes me mad that Stephanies acting like such a fake about all this. It really makes me sick. Nathan is so adorable and sweet and he just doesn't need a mother like that. I hate it that people just have babies to get stuff and they don't really care about the baby when there are so many women out there who can't have babies and would really love them. I think it would be better if he got adopted but would me and my parents be able to see him?
I'm sorry this is so long but I just had to get this out.
I have a sister-in-law named Stephanie who has a four month old boy, Nathan (very adorable). When Nathan was born his heart stopped but they got it to start beating again. But when he was born Stephanie didn't even want to see him before they care-flighted him. When he was getting out of the hospital 2 weeks later she had to stay in the room overnight so they could see how she did with him. She kept trying to get the nurses to take him out of there because she said she was too "tired".
They were coming to live with us since they just recently got kicked out of a friends house and they couldn't bring the baby home unless my parents were there. When we brought Nathan home Stephanie didn't want much to do with him and every time he would cry she would hand him to my mom or dad. She rarely held him for no reason. She rarely held him at all. Now she is staying gone for 5 days out of the week and going to another city where my brother works and staying in a motel. Nathan is staying with us and when she comes home for those two days she barely pays attention to him. He cries everytime he looks at her so dad thinks that she did something to him because its that scared cry.
The last time they came home she couldn't get him to stop crying so she just handed him off to Charles (my brother, her husband) and left. She has a case worker and this is what really makes me mad. Everytime the case worker comes over to see them she acts like she really loves Nathan and she can't stop holding him and she tells all these lies to the case worker and says that she does night feedings (which my parents do because she just ignores him when he cries) and she acts like my mom doesn't know nothing when it comes to taking care of Nathan.
My mom has raised three kids and she's basically raising Nathan too. When the case worker is there she also acts like her and Charles are the perfect married couple (which they are not because they get into fist fights and threaten to kill each other all the time.) The case worker is trying to get them an apartment and to get Nathan to move in with them. Charles already told her that he wanted Nathan to stay with us for at least six months because he doesn't trust Stephanie around Nathan. But the case worker keeps insisting that Nathan move in with them. Dad told her he didn't know why she wanted to get his grandson killed because living in that home he will probably end up dead.
We think the only reason why Stephanie wants the case worker to think that she's crazy about Nathan and all that is because the case worker is helping them get an apartment and a job (Stephanie is very money-hungry. She went out and bought herself a bunch of stuff when she knew Nathan needed diapers and formula.) But it just really makes me mad that Stephanies acting like such a fake about all this. It really makes me sick. Nathan is so adorable and sweet and he just doesn't need a mother like that. I hate it that people just have babies to get stuff and they don't really care about the baby when there are so many women out there who can't have babies and would really love them. I think it would be better if he got adopted but would me and my parents be able to see him?
I'm sorry this is so long but I just had to get this out.