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buttercup132
09-18-2006, 08:54 PM
I dont usually post this type of stuff but my friend and her mom really need some prayers.

Her dad is abusive.

One morning he went into my friends room and went right up to her face while she was sleeping a yelled at her " I F-ing hate your guts! "

He beats her and her mom and her sister who is now moved out(she moved out a few years ago)

But on Sunday morning she said he was yelling at thier cocker Spaniel puppy Ariel (I posted pictures of her in the summer when they got her)
and she said he used to kick her old dog sometimes when he was mad and so she went down there not knowing what he was doing to her and told him to get the hell away from her dog and he threw her into thier walk in closet and started beating her up, he was kicking and punching her and she now has a black eye forming and a BIG bruise on her back.

He beat her until her mom got out of the shower wich I'm thinking would be around 15-20 minutes.

Her mom kicked him out of the house and he moved 4 hours away with his parents.

Hopefully he never comes back or else there is going to be alot of people trying to do stuff back to him.( And I know my dad will get involved and show him how it feels to be beat up by somone bigger then him)
Wich I dont want.

She said shes so scared that one day he will come back and hide his car in the garage and be hiding in the house and just come for her.

And no they didnt call the cops she said they dont want to get them involved...anyone whos been in a abusive situation knows how they feel.

They are moving soon her mom has already called about a few houses.

Please prey for them that they get through this and have no more problems with that idiot. I'm so scared for her, she hasnt been able to sleep and is really depressed..I keep feeling like crying for her and I feel so helpless :(

caseysmom
09-18-2006, 08:57 PM
They need to get a restraining order against the creep. I am praying for your friend.

buttercup132
09-18-2006, 09:00 PM
Sorry I edited my post , they wont call the cops:(


And no they didnt call the cops she said they dont want to get them involved...anyone whos been in a abusive situation knows how they feel.

*LabLoverKEB*
09-18-2006, 09:01 PM
Ughhh, that's just disgusting! What a stupid b@$!@rd! I will pray and hope that she and her mother get through this... :mad: :mad: :(

BC_MoM
09-18-2006, 09:03 PM
All your friends mother has to ask for is a restraining order. I think the police really should be involved. This man sounds very troubled and it should be dealt with before he possibly kills someone. :(

Dorothy39
09-18-2006, 09:06 PM
I'm glad that this "father"? is no longer in the house.
They really need to get a restraining order and even change the locks on all the doors. Can the area police provide them other resources for protection?

I will keep them on my mind, that story is horrible. :(

Husky15
09-18-2006, 09:08 PM
'Fraid to say but with people like this I don't think a restraining order would work. I am scared for your friend too now. It's awful her father would do this and I really hope he doesn't come back. This is just an awful situation and I am praying for your friend.

Catty1
09-18-2006, 11:08 PM
I hope she can get a lawyer at no cost - because if he wants to contact her, he better do it through a lawyer!

I hope your friend and her mom get counselling once they are settled - or even now.

They'll have a lot of what's called post-traumatic stress...if they can even go to a support group for abused families. I hope they have been seen by a doctor.

Prayers for them!

Argranade
09-19-2006, 11:26 AM
Thats Horrible :(

Ill say a prayer for her.

buttercup132
09-19-2006, 02:22 PM
:rolleyes: :mad: Her mom has gone to pick up the dad...but shes taking him to the hospital..I really hope thye dont get back together.

Karen
09-19-2006, 02:23 PM
I will pray for the whole family, They all need help.

Dorothy39
09-19-2006, 02:37 PM
I pray that this poor woman knows / has a Domestic Abuse Hot Line Number. :(

Praying for this family.

Catty1
09-19-2006, 07:32 PM
Do you know why he is being taken to the hospital?

I hope he gets a good assessment there...and I know a lot of medical staff are made aware of how to find out about domestic abuse without scaring people.

Prayers still going from here!

luvofallhorses
09-19-2006, 07:39 PM
They need to get a restraining order against the creep. I am praying for your friend.

my thoughts exactly. I hope she'll be okay! :( (her mom, too!) How scary! :(

luvofallhorses
09-19-2006, 07:41 PM
:rolleyes: :mad: Her mom has gone to pick up the dad...but shes taking him to the hospital..I really hope thye dont get back together.

good, God. I was hoping she'd stay away! :(

zoey
09-19-2006, 08:24 PM
I detest a bully. I grew up with a few. Blah. They are just mean!! :(

flamepony12
09-19-2006, 08:38 PM
How terrible :( I'll keep them in my thoughts.. :(

buttercup132
09-19-2006, 08:50 PM
Hes going to the hospital for his issues,Thanks everyone for the support.
I just want this to be over for them so they can get on with thier life.

CelticDreamer
09-19-2006, 09:02 PM
I got alot of praying to do tonight for people thats for sure & I'll see your friend & her family get put at the top of my list sure sounds like they need it in the situation they are in... I hope and prayer your friend & her Mom get help to keep this looser out of their lives forever... How anybody could abuse anything is beyond me but I know it happens every day in our world be it physical or mental abuse it's all just as bad and sad to have to live through..... It sure sounds like your Friends Father not that id put him in the Father catagory as Fathers don't abuse or should'nt abuse their Children in this way gets some kind of help or put away from society so that nobody else can get hurt by his mean ways.. Perhaps he too was once a victim of abuse one never knows what goes on in someones life sometimes but you would think if that was perhaps the case they would want to make things better for the family they had.....

I just checked out your Photography page & wow you have taken some awesome pictures I love all your fur babys they are just so adorable.....

May life bring you many blessings & then some....

~Celtic Dreamer~

Catty1
09-19-2006, 09:16 PM
I am glad he is going there to get help. I hope he sticks with it.

Prayers for them all.

kimlovescats
09-19-2006, 09:44 PM
I am glad that he is willing to get help, but I still think the mom and daughter should stay away from him for a while! He is a dangerous man!

Prayers for this family! :(