What is the deal?

[Sevaede]

Just to start off with: This is not directed at anybody in particular. This is just something(s) that I have noticed over my time here which has, consequently, made it a less enjoyable (hurt feelings or annoyed, etc) stay.

Why is it that when someone, who is not as well known or has the highest post, takes the time and effort to do write/type out a (heartfelt or slightly less than) topic, or reply, or anything, that some folks just blow it off? Sure, most will READ it but they won't reply to it. Even when someone makes a post or a reply about/to another member, it will go unnoticed or looked at but unreplied to. I can understand in the case where everything helpful has already been offered BUT I have noticed that this is not the case most of the time. I look and see a needy, or helpful, or otherwise, post go away with a hundred or more views yet no replies. Also, of course, this doesn't really apply to folks who have limited time (ten minutes during a lunch break, an hour at the library)

I feel that, sometimes, others are made out to be better or more worthy of replies or noticed at all because they've been here a certain amount of time or have a certain amount of posts. Or that somehow, miraculously, their opinion is supposed to be worth more than anothers.

I feel that there are several people (myself included) who contribute helpful information, advice, and whatnot, yet we can hardly get a response.

I feel like I'm in a car wreck and most people want to slow down to watch but very few get out to help.

I appreciate EVERY single response that I get. While some are a little harsh, excluding the seriously despicable ones, I still appreciate them. I appreciate and admire the folks behind them as well. Thank you to all the people on PT who have ever taken the time out to say hi, offer advice, or just be a friend. You guys are great.

[DJFyrewolf36]

The only reason why I don't reply to a lot of things is that I'm not on a whole heck of a lot anymore...with my work schedule amongst other endevors I hardly have the time to get online. I see a few things though, and some times I feel like I really can't say anything more without sounding insincere, and I'm really not. I've gotten some good advice from people here, people I don't know in person but people who took the time to help me out anyway. I wish I could offer good advice in return for the wonderfull kindess I've been fortunate to recieve...unfortuneatly I've never been one to be able to do much outside of listen...and encurage people to leave it up to thier God and to ask for spiritual advice (I believe that communications with a higher power should begin at the personal level)

Did that make sense?

[wolf_Q]

Honestly, lately it seems just the opposite to me. I've noticed that the newer members get more replies and attention...maybe that is just in dog general though. I feel quite ignored and not well-liked here myself and I've been here since 2001 with 9,000+ posts....so.... :confused:

I try to post when I have time, but if it's some topic asking for help/advice I usually do not post unless I actually have help/advice to give. Its not that I don't care, I just don't know what to say...

[Sevaede]

Yes, indeedy. :)

I understand with people who have limited time or don't know what to say without sounding insincere (have been there a couple of times). But I have noticed that there are some folks who seem to be on here for some time and only reply to select posts and that makes some people feel left out.

[Sevaede]

Amy/wolf_q,

I understand about not wanting to give advice unless you have something to give. I feel that way, as well. I don't want to give somebody false hope/advice/etc. I often feel myself not having anything to say and then feeling dumb. :(

[G535]

I'd love to reply to all posts in the cat section but I just don't have the time and with failing health at the moment (I'm not getting any younger!) I find it extremely hard to concentrate. I also noticed that when it's summer in one half of the world that half has a lot less people on forums, probably because they spend more time outdoors. :)

[Karen]

Not everyone has the time to respond to each and every post. As I have mentioned many times in the past, the Views should mean more to folks than the posts. Just because someone has taken the time to read your post doesn't mean they can think of something to say in response. I have been a part of boards where people will respond just for the sake of responding, with nothing to say, and it gets pretty boring, pretty fast. I also appreciate that people often have time constraints on their computer usage, and many people can only see Pet Talk while they are at work, so we don't need to get folks in trouble for posting.

Remember, no one can make you feel bad without your consent. Choose to see the views as people who were interested in your post, and in what you had to say, because that's likely the truth.

[Cinder & Smoke]

I feel quite ignored and not well-liked here myself and I've been here since 2001 with 9,000+ posts....so.... http://petoftheday.com/i/our_smilies/confused.gif


Oh Amy - how NOT true!!

You (and Nebo) have a HUGE Following and long list of Supporters ...
not to mention the Cheering Section, too! http://petoftheday.com/i/our_smilies/wink.gif

We love you and you Pups - and some of us even tell you that!

.................

Wenisrubber ~
Have Patience - it takes time and effort to build your following.

http://petoftheday.com/i/our_smilies/smile.gif

[Argranade]

I only post in the Pet or general sections I dont know why I never seem to take a look at the dogs or cats section.

I read things and dont post because..I dont realy know why sometimes they ask for an opinion but I dont give one or they show some pics and I dont reply saying how nice they look I think I just reply to things that intrest me not saying that if I dont post its not a good thread. :o

[zippy-kat]

One thing to remember, too, is that some of the views may be from people who have not signed up to be a member. That may contribute to the lack of response. :)

[kuhio98]

I really think you're being too sensitive about this. I never look at the number of postings a person has or how many views versus replies a thread gets. Don't focus on stuff like that. If you have something to say, say it. If people don't view it or reply, who cares? Sure, it's nice when you're asking for advice to receive some, but I'd rather receive zero replies than 20 replies saying ~ Sorry, I don't have any advice.

[Riptide]

Honestly, lately it seems just the opposite to me. I've noticed that the newer members get more replies and attention...maybe that is just in dog general though. I feel quite ignored and not well-liked here myself and I've been here since 2001 with 9,000+ posts....so.... :confused:

:eek: seriously? you and Nebohave always been my idols, lol.

[BOBS DAD]

I Read Your Posts (and Wolf Qs)... And Honestly, I Don't Know If I Reply Or Not. I Say That Because I Want You To Know That I Don't "even" Know Who I Do Or Don't Respond To. I Don't Check Post Numbers Or How Long You've Been A Member (and I Don't Know If Folks Check My Numbers). So If I Have Ignored You, I Want You To Know That It Was Nothing Personal. I Also Want You To Know That I Think Of You As 'ol Timers!!! Lol.

I Guess I Answer/respond When Something Catches My Attention Cause I Am Currently Dealing With A Similar Situation Or Something Is Said That I Feel Really Strongly About Or I Disagree Stronglt, Etc., Etc. Hard To Say Just Why I Ever Respond, But I Definitely Do Not Go Out Of My Way To Ignore Anyone.

BTW... I READ YOUR BIO. HAVE YOU DECIDED ON A COLLEGE YET? AND ANY IDEAS ON A MAJOR?

[ashleycat]

I don't even look at who's posting. But sometimes there will be days where I haven't been here.

[areias]

I understand what your saying, but like everyone said sometimes it's hard to reply when you are on a time limit. If it is an urgent situation, most people will reply right away if they have any advice.

Also, sometimes I don't reply (not to you, by any means, no one specific) because sometimes people ask questions that they already know the answer to. When you try to be helpful they won't just take the advice and say thank you, they will argue with why it won't work. That bothers me to no end.

[Lizzie]

I know what you are talking about but I tend to blame myself for posting something boring or long-winded. I was upset for a little while after I read some posts in a thread that came up a few months ago, can't remember the title, but some old-timers did say they didn't respond to new members. I thought for a few days that I'd just leave the forum and let them revel in their homey atmosphere. Instead, I decided to give myself a role here, that of a newbie responding to other newbie threads - as long as they caught my interest and I had something relevant to say. For instance, I didn't want to see the thread about cats needing help in Bellafonte, PA to disappear and so I've kept posting on it, as has Catty1. It's the kind of topic I find very interesting and I want new member Melissa to feel welcomed and supported.

[Lady's Human]

Some of us very simply don't reply if we don't have anything to add. I read a lot of threads here, but don't post in that many. I just don't think posting to show I read the thread is very important.

[Sevaede]

Oh Amy - how NOT true!!

You (and Nebo) have a HUGE Following and long list of Supporters ...
not to mention the Cheering Section, too! http://petoftheday.com/i/our_smilies/wink.gif

We love you and you Pups - and some of us even tell you that!

.................

Wenisrubber ~
Have Patience - it takes time and effort to build your following.

http://petoftheday.com/i/our_smilies/smile.gif

That gave me great giggles! :D And it is truth.

I don't know. Before this post, I would get worried when I would post and I didn't get a reply because I would think that maybe nobody cared or whatever I posted about wasn't vital enough. Now, I know that's not the truth. :D

PT is great.

[Sevaede]

I Read Your Posts (and Wolf Qs)... And Honestly, I Don't Know If I Reply Or Not. I Say That Because I Want You To Know That I Don't "even" Know Who I Do Or Don't Respond To. I Don't Check Post Numbers Or How Long You've Been A Member (and I Don't Know If Folks Check My Numbers). So If I Have Ignored You, I Want You To Know That It Was Nothing Personal. I Also Want You To Know That I Think Of You As 'ol Timers!!! Lol.

I Guess I Answer/respond When Something Catches My Attention Cause I Am Currently Dealing With A Similar Situation Or Something Is Said That I Feel Really Strongly About Or I Disagree Stronglt, Etc., Etc. Hard To Say Just Why I Ever Respond, But I Definitely Do Not Go Out Of My Way To Ignore Anyone.

BTW... I READ YOUR BIO. HAVE YOU DECIDED ON A COLLEGE YET? AND ANY IDEAS ON A MAJOR?

Heh, thank you!
Funny enough, I have gotten so many refreshing perspectives from this post! :D It really does make me feel better. I know I'm overly sensitive about most things but sometimes I feel like I can't help it. Yarrgh!

I would like to go to Texas A&M or Oregon State University or LSU Baton Rouge for veterinary medicine.

[Sevaede]

I understand what your saying, but like everyone said sometimes it's hard to reply when you are on a time limit. If it is an urgent situation, most people will reply right away if they have any advice.

Also, sometimes I don't reply (not to you, by any means, no one specific) because sometimes people ask questions that they already know the answer to. When you try to be helpful they won't just take the advice and say thank you, they will argue with why it won't work. That bothers me to no end.

Oh, I understand.

I love to help out whenever I can but it becomes frustrating when you attempt to do something and then they kind of second guess you.

[Sevaede]

I know what you are talking about but I tend to blame myself for posting something boring or long-winded. I was upset for a little while after I read some posts in a thread that came up a few months ago, can't remember the title, but some old-timers did say they didn't respond to new members. I thought for a few days that I'd just leave the forum and let them revel in their homey atmosphere. Instead, I decided to give myself a role here, that of a newbie responding to other newbie threads - as long as they caught my interest and I had something relevant to say. For instance, I didn't want to see the thread about cats needing help in Bellafonte, PA to disappear and so I've kept posting on it, as has Catty1. It's the kind of topic I find very interesting and I want new member Melissa to feel welcomed and supported.

Indeed!

So, maybe I should give my crew a snazzy name and set up a cozy spot here? :D Hmm... How about... Babys babies? :D Heh, my 20 month old niece, Grace, can say Mama, Mamaw, Dada, Papaw, Uncle Troy, but NOT Aunt Angelique! :p So, she just calls me Baby. :p

Hmm. IDEAS!

[Miss Z]

Angelique,

I know exactly what you are saying, and have known about it since my first few weeks of Pet Talk. I know that now I get far more response to my posts now than I did when I had only been here a month or two, even though my style of question was generally no different. In a way though, I do not condemn this. People on this board build friendships with other members, and often when a friend posts on a topic, you often feel inclined to post. There is no shame in that. But everyone should give everyone a chance, that way perhaps you will make more friendships! For instance, I remember all the PTers that replied on Zsa-Zsa's thread when she was COTD, so that response really makes an impact.

Just IMO :)

[BOBS DAD]

Angelique,

I know exactly what you are saying, and have known about it since my first few weeks of Pet Talk. I know that now I get far more response to my posts now than I did when I had only been here a month or two, even though my style of question was generally no different. In a way though, I do not condemn this. People on this board build friendships with other members, and often when a friend posts on a topic, you often feel inclined to post. There is no shame in that. But everyone should give everyone a chance, that way perhaps you will make more friendships! For instance, I remember all the PTers that replied on Zsa-Zsa's thread when she was COTD, so that response really makes an impact.

Just IMO :)

Miss Z is "like" the most mature 14 year old in the entire universe!!!
:D

Seriously, everytime I read one of her posts I tell myself, "that can't be real" - "she can't really be 14". She just sounds too mature and articulate. I think you are really a 45 year old woman living in a 14 year old's body.

When I was 14, I was "like ahh, ahhh... like dude", making fart noises under my armpit and knocking on people's doors and running when they came to answer (good times) - not writing well constructed letters to associate/friends with common interests!!! Heck, I couldn't even find England, Australia, New Zealand (just a few of our Ptrs homes) on a map!!! :D

[Sevaede]

Very eloquently put, Miss Z! Very true. I've been contemplating possibly sending a nomination in for Soni or Isis to be COTD or Spanky to be DOTD, maybe that would do the trick? I would like to make friends but I suppose that, like everything else, in time, will work itself out. :)

Heh, Bobs dad, indeed. :D I feel like I'm a lot smarter in my own head. I have a problem communicating my thoughts or, rather, getting them to spill out the same way they formulated in my head.

[Miss Z]

Miss Z is "like" the most mature 14 year old in the entire universe!!!
:D

Seriously, everytime I read one of her posts I tell myself, "that can't be real" - "she can't really be 14". She just sounds too mature and articulate. I think you are really a 45 year old woman living in a 14 year old's body.

When I was 14, I was "like ahh, ahhh... like dude", making fart noises under my armpit and knocking on people's doors and running when they came to answer (good times) - not writing well constructed letters to associate/friends with common interests!!! Heck, I couldn't even find England, Australia, New Zealand (just a few of our Ptrs homes) on a map!!! :D

Ha ha ha! How did you find out that all this time I've been lying and I'm really a 45-year-old highly revered politician who studied English language and literature at Oxford university for 5 years???:eek: Joke, joke ;)

And thank you for the compliment *beams*:D

See everyone how easy it is to make friends!

[Pawsitive Thinking]

If I responded to every post that I wanted to I'd never get any work done....................................... :D doesn't mean I don't love you all!!

[Sevaede]

Hehe, yes Miss Z, looks easy enough! :D

Then, may I begin the traumatization caused by my sense of humour? Let us begin! :D

*pokes you with a stick*

[Miss Z]

Hey! Why the heck did you poke me with that stick? If you read my earlier posts thoroughly, you'd see that there was absolutely no need for that, and that I have absolutely nothing against sticks. Now I'll drag in all the times before in which we have fallen out, and all other things off topic, like why do you have a cat in your signature??? Blah-di-blah-blah

;) :D :D :p

We get too many of that type of arguement here on pT too, just thought I'd raise the issue ;)

[Alysser]

Miss Z is "like" the most mature 14 year old in the entire universe!!! :D

I agree with this so much! I seriously think she is lying to us about her age. Zara, you always use big words I've probably never heard of and seem to have so much knowledge. :)

Anyway, back to the topic of this thread. I seriously don't even have time to reply to most posts anymore. Sometimes I have all day, But now, most of the time, I have less then fifteen minutes, so I only reply to the posts I find nessacary for me to reply to. If someone is asking for help and I don't know how to help, I don't reply because I have nothing to contribute and to help the person/animal involved. This does not mean nobody likes you, because you are a wonderful member to the board and I'm glad you joined. :D

[Cataholic]

I was upset for a little while after I read some posts in a thread that came up a few months ago, can't remember the title, but some old-timers did say they didn't respond to new members.


Lizzie, I would really like to see that thread you are referencing. I find that sort of comment from 'old-timers' quite surprising. I count myself among the semi old-timers, and can't think of anyone that I *know* that would have such an attitude, much less display it. So, I would like to see it, if you can find it, and see if perhaps it wasn't misunderstood. I didn't see it, so, I cannot say much (but, why do I go on and on, you might ask?), but, I am sitting here thinking, "surely she took that out of context".

Thanks.

[Lady's Human]

IIRC, in the thread you are referring to someone mentioned that they didn't take the advice of a newcomer as readily as they would take advice from someone who has been here a while.

[Sevaede]

Hey! Why the heck did you poke me with that stick? If you read my earlier posts thoroughly, you'd see that there was absolutely no need for that, and that I have absolutely nothing against sticks. Now I'll drag in all the times before in which we have fallen out, and all other things off topic, like why do you have a cat in your signature??? Blah-di-blah-blah

;) :D :D :p

We get too many of that type of arguement here on pT too, just thought I'd raise the issue ;)

Well, because, um, sticks are awesome. Now, I will make a comeback of various run on sentences and ask why you would have a particular sort of pet.

Heh, I agree. We must have satirical comic relief, though! :D

[My Peanuts]

I have been here for a while and I try to post and reply as much as possible, yet I feel unliked myself. I have replied to posts with heartfelt words and advice and while others get responses to what they say, I rarely do. I guess I never clicked with anyone on here although I've tried. I've just accepted it and I still post my opinions.

[Oggyflute]

Miss Z is "like" the most mature 14 year old in the entire universe!!!
:D

Seriously, everytime I read one of her posts I tell myself, "that can't be real" - "she can't really be 14". She just sounds too mature and articulate. I think you are really a 45 year old woman living in a 14 year old's body.

When I was 14, I was "like ahh, ahhh... like dude", making fart noises under my armpit and knocking on people's doors and running when they came to answer (good times) - not writing well constructed letters to associate/friends with common interests!!! Heck, I couldn't even find England, Australia, New Zealand (just a few of our Ptrs homes) on a map!!! :D
You really make me laugh Bob's dad. :D
This forum is fun everyone. It's the reason no matter how busy I am now, I always come back here to smile. :)

[dukedogsmom]

WOW. you guys took this thread SO MUCH MORE COOLER than some the people in cat general!! WOW AGAIN! not a single negative comment :eek:
i am absoluetly positively shocked....wow. wow. wow. WOW. guess where i'm going now? better get me a dog :p LOL!! angelique, can i "borrow" spankie forever and ever? i promise i'll give her back to you the day after forever!! :D :D :D

seriously, you guys are great...the posts on this thread in cat general made me cry and my blood boil. i feel so much better looking at this one! ;)
Although I haven't experienced it myself, I have heard that about them. Maybe they were too "catty"? Ah, I couldn't resist.

As for the main topic, I kind of know what you mean. I feel that way alot myself.

[Vela]

I think many people here on PT feel "unliked" or not liked as much as others. I have felt that way quite often, since I don't have a lot of time to post and don't take many pictures. I have an extremely busy life and work two jobs so I'm afraid I don't post as much as I'd like to but I just post when I feel I can contribute and just leave it at that. There are many nice people on here, some I really don't know well, probably most, but it doesn't stop me from replying or posting when I do have the time. I enjoy coming here most of the time, not as much when there is a lot of drama, but nobody should feel bad when they don't get a lot of responses, it's just part of being on a message board. With so many people it's easy to miss posts, they often get shuffled back to the secondary pages quickly on a busy day and sometimes they are never seen. Try not to take it to heart, I really don't think it's anything personal.

[sasvermont]

:rolleyes: I really think this thread has had a good life and needs to be put to rest. :rolleyes: Trying to pit one group against the other isn't so nice of a response. Can't we all get along?

[Cataholic]

WOW. you guys took this thread SO MUCH MORE COOLER than some the people in cat general!! WOW AGAIN! not a single negative comment :eek:
i am absoluetly positively shocked....wow. wow. wow. WOW. guess where i'm going now? better get me a dog :p LOL!! angelique, can i "borrow" spankie forever and ever? i promise i'll give her back to you the day after forever!! :D :D :D

seriously, you guys are great...the posts on this thread in cat general made me cry and my blood boil. i feel so much better looking at this one! ;)


Uh, sweetcheeks, your post was about the most inflammatory one there was in Cat General. Wherever do you get your nerve? It must be at some discounted price somewhere.

[sasvermont]

This link is for all those folks feeling lonely and unloved and unreplied to... :eek: .

hugs (http://www.answers.com/topic/mutual-admiration-society)

hugs and more hugs (http://www.mutualadmirationsociety.com/)

[Miss Z]

*ahem*

You know that arguement Angelique and I were joking about? Lets keep it to joking, everyone ;)

[dionne]

*ahem*

You know that arguement Angelique and I were joking about? Lets keep it to joking, everyone ;)

AMEN. sorry, miss Z. :D :D :D

[Miss Z]

AMEN. sorry, miss Z. :D :D :D

No problem! :D Life is so much more fun when people are much more light-hearted!;)

[dionne]

tell me about it! :eek: if more people were, then we'd have a lot less heart attacks and strokes!! oh well, population control, i guess. :p there are rarely things that get to me, and i guess this was one of them. but i'm not gonna sweat it anymore. there's just some people who have too much time on their hands. i forgive 'em.

you guys are right. miss z is more mature than most! i like ya, kid ;)

[BOBS DAD]

I think many people here on PT feel "unliked" or not liked as much as others. I have felt that way quite often, since I don't have a lot of time to post and don't take many pictures

VELA,

I am sorry if YOU have ever felt "less liked", cause I have always thought of you as one of the coolest people in life, and a very good contributor. So it just goes to show you that what you sometimes feel isn't always how others perceive you.

[sasvermont]

No more comments from me about this topic. It doesn't warrant my attention.

[CathyBogart]

TIME FOR BELLYRUB PICTURES!

http://pics.livejournal.com/cathybogart/pic/000c8hdw

[DJFyrewolf36]

Nothing defuses a stressfull situation quite like a cute puppy...

*BELLYRUB!!!*

Thanx Cathy :D

[dionne]

BELLIES? DID SOMEONE SAY BELLIES!? :D

http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i234/dionne_verba/my%20pictures/angel3.jpg

[Cataholic]

and no, pitting groups against one another is NOT what im doing. im stating a fact, and that fact is, some people *cough, cough* in cat general were very rude, and there is no rude or negative comments here. very simple can you comprehend that? maybe i give you a little too much credit, being human, and all.

How can you not see you are the ONLY one doing rude things? **cough cough**. That is what makes this so funny. Not seeing the forest for the trees and all that...LOLOL.

[Sevaede]

TIME FOR BELLYRUB PICTURES!

http://pics.livejournal.com/cathybogart/pic/000c8hdw

PUPPY! :D *RUBS* *gives a bone*

[Sevaede]

This link is for all those folks feeling lonely and unloved and unreplied to... :eek: .

hugs (http://www.answers.com/topic/mutual-admiration-society)

hugs and more hugs (http://www.mutualadmirationsociety.com/)

Yep. Because that was totally necessary and you would be doing that if the shoe was on the other foot.

Really, though. Why do you have to go out of your way to be rude? It's not like I'm self obsessed or conceited. I was just posting about not being replied to because I thought NOBODY WANTED ME AROUND. That's what it is about. Okay.

[Alysser]

I really don't want to get into the argument as I don't know what it's about. But let me just point out, that Cataholic said nothing rude or offensive, unless I'm blind.

[pitc9]

I have been here for a while and I try to post and reply as much as possible, yet I feel unliked myself. I have replied to posts with heartfelt words and advice and while others get responses to what they say, I rarely do. I guess I never clicked with anyone on here although I've tried. I've just accepted it and I still post my opinions.

AMEN SISTER!!!

One thing that got me recently was the thread about what PT dog would you "flitch" if you could.

I hated reading throught it because I knew my dogs were never going to be named, but I did anyway :( For crying out loud I'm 30!! Why do I feel like I'm back in middleschool *waaahhh no one likes me!* :o
I'm sure it's just human nature... the need to be liked.
....it gets depressing after a while when you realize it over and over that you are not liked by everyone and there will always be people that are liked more.
I always tell myself to walk away from PT and save myself from the pain but do I ever listen to myself? Noooooo!
I am grateful for the (few) people that respond to anything I may post. You REALLY make my day!!!

[k9krazee]

AMEN SISTER!!!

One thing that got me recently was the thread about what PT dog would you "flitch" if you could.

I hated reading throught it because I knew my dogs were never going to be named, but I did anyway :( For crying out loud I'm 30!! Why do I feel like I'm back in middleschool *waaahhh no one likes me!* :o
I'm sure it's just human nature... the need to be liked.
....it gets depressing after a while when you realize it over and over that you are not liked by everyone and there will always be people that are liked more.
I always tell myself to walk away from PT and save myself from the pain but do I ever listen to myself? Noooooo!
I am grateful for the (few) people that respond to anything I may post. You REALLY make my day!!!

I understand exactly where you guys are coming from, and I feel the exact same way most of the time. I was away for a month last summer and I highly doubt not one person realized I was away, or if they did didn't care. I'm leaving in a few days for college, and I won't be spending anymore time here (or if I do it will be VERY limited). I debated posting a "goodbye thread" but ulitmately decided against it because nobody's going to care anyways! I'll just leave quietly and peacefully, I feel childish for saying this but I was going to post pictures of The Hoodlums before I leave too, but its really not worth the trouble anymore.

I admit though, I don't reply to threads nearly as much as I used to. I feel like I'm saying the same thing over and over and people will think I'm just making pointless posts. :o I do look at all of the threads, just don't reply. OR, I write up a reply and I'm not happy so I just delete the whole thing (like I'm about to do with this one). I'm not sure why. Sometimes I'm just not in the mood to reply to threads. *shrugs*

Oh, and Angie, I would definitely filch your two! I've always had a 'thing' for GSDs and Buddy and Sierra are gorgeous!

And I'm not exactly sure why I quoted you ;)

[Dorothy39]

k9krazee, I will miss your posts!!! so, don't dismiss that good-bye thread!!!

It is not a "Good-bye",like, I won't post ever visit again, it is , rather, I am , growing, and I will not forget where I have left my foot prints. ;)


And, wenisrubber, you know that I am still frightened of the vicious pictures you posted of that canine terror, that Chihuahua from Heavens" Hell!!! ;)

Your dogs have left a print on my heart. You matter to me.You helped me grow as well

I have learned so much from Pet Talk, it has been another Kindergarten!!! Only , better ;) No fat crayons!!!! :eek:

[Karen]

I knew that the "filch" thread was meant well, but that somehow people's feelings would end up hurt. Sigh.

I love all of the dogs of Pet Talk. That's why I didn't say I would filch any of them, because we were only allowed one. There was no "all of the above" choice.

I only mentioned a certain husky and an afinity for peanut butter Scooby Snacks because I know that that's as good - or better - than the Pied Piper's pipe to a certain husky, so I wouldn't technically be filching anyone! He'd follow me home through no fault of my own ... right? And whoever else happened to come with us ...

K9krazee, we will certainly miss you while you are at college, but will understand you posting less. College is important, and we'll still be here when you have a moment to breathe, are lonely for someone who knows you, or need to vent, or just need hugs.

You are all, each and every one of you, important to Pet Talk. This place is a community that covers a broad spectrum of humanity, but we all do love our pets, and I think that sets us apart from "the rest" - and in a good way.

[BOBS DAD]

I am so sad!!! Seriously... I am not joking. I hadn't checked this thread in a while and I was "very surprised" that folks feel the way they do. Not that it isn't understandable, and as pitc9 put it - "simply human nature". BUT I SERIOUSLY - No... I mean seriously like you guys! K9Krazy and Pitc9 and you too MyPeanuts!!! And you too - that's for whoever else may read this and I am "just not thinking of" at the moment.

I really do not know who I have and have not responded to in the past. I sort of respond to something that catchs my eye. I do have to say that I shy away from those who continually ask for help and advice "that they obviously intend to ignore". Also, think about this... sometimes we/people in general, respond to those we "don't like" - cause we wanna let them know we disagree or are offended and such.

But heah, don't go... Shane, come back Shane!!! I promise I will miss you guys!!! I promise... No, I mean... I promise. College has Internet - I'm pretty sure!!! Check in and let us know what exciting stuff in going down in school. That is interesting stuff and we old folks really like hearing about it. And Pitc9... I agree that your dogs are beautiful and I think you have one of the most distinguished, regal looking siggys on the site. And you are not "endlessly changing yours" like some. And MyPeanuts... I always read your posts.

Ahhh man... I am so sad! Well if you guys go, you can always check in with me. PM me or you can even Email my business address - [email protected]!!!

[dionne]

hey, it's just simply let bygones be bygones for me. ;)
people acted out of hand, heck I am guilty of doing so myself. thats ok, cuz i'm human, youre human, we're all human. and i'm sorry, and willing to put it behind me. all that really matters is that we love our pets, and this forum is just another cool way of expressing that. :D

so be happy everyone!! we have our animals, our animals rock, and we love them! putting all this stuff behind us will make us all feel so much better. ;)

*You are my sunshine,
My only sunshine.
You make me happy
When skies are grey.
You'll never know, dear,
How much I love you.
Please don't take my sunshine away.* :D :D :D

[catlady1945]

This is funny - 4 pages! I guess the way to get a response is to be critical of others' motives. I do agree with the point of the original post, however. I feel for my cats when nobody looks at their photos. (Really insane to care, I know)

[Alysser]

I understand exactly where you guys are coming from, and I feel the exact same way most of the time. I was away for a month last summer and I highly doubt not one person realized I was away, or if they did didn't care. I'm leaving in a few days for college, and I won't be spending anymore time here (or if I do it will be VERY limited). I debated posting a "goodbye thread" but ulitmately decided against it because nobody's going to care anyways! I'll just leave quietly and peacefully, I feel childish for saying this but I was going to post pictures of The Hoodlums before I leave too, but its really not worth the trouble anymore.

I knew you were going to college, but I didn't know it would be this soon. :( I will definatley miss you and the hoodlums. I hope college goes well for you and I hope you can get on sometimes at least.

[DJFyrewolf36]

hey, it's just simply let bygones be bygones for me. ;)
people acted out of hand, heck I am guilty of doing so myself. thats ok, cuz i'm human, youre human, we're all human. and i'm sorry, and willing to put it behind me. all that really matters is that we love our pets, and this forum is just another cool way of expressing that. :D

so be happy everyone!! we have our animals, our animals rock, and we love them! putting all this stuff behind us will make us all feel so much better. ;)

*You are my sunshine,
My only sunshine.
You make me happy
When skies are grey.
You'll never know, dear,
How much I love you.
Please don't take my sunshine away.* :D :D :D

LOL AMEN! :D Hey K9, good luck in college *HUG* I'll miss you and your furkids!

[dukedogsmom]

AMEN SISTER!!!

One thing that got me recently was the thread about what PT dog would you "flitch" if you could.

I hated reading throught it because I knew my dogs were never going to be named, but I did anyway :( For crying out loud I'm 30!! Why do I feel like I'm back in middleschool *waaahhh no one likes me!* :o
I'm sure it's just human nature... the need to be liked.
....it gets depressing after a while when you realize it over and over that you are not liked by everyone and there will always be people that are liked more.
I always tell myself to walk away from PT and save myself from the pain but do I ever listen to myself? Noooooo!
I am grateful for the (few) people that respond to anything I may post. You REALLY make my day!!!
I would take your sweeties in a heartbeat! And I know how you feel on that note, too. One person mentioned my sweet Duke. I really don't like those threads because someone always ends up getting hurt. The place is too big for them not to, you know? That's why I never reply to them.

Didn't want to bring this thread back down but I saw that after not being on computer much.

[Danegirl2208]

I think we all just need to be happy and SMILE!!

http://www.nealgardner.com/images/blog/monkey.jpg

http://home.ied.edu.hk/~s0007310/cat%20smile.jpg

http://img33.photobucket.com/albums/v101/yokeking/dog_smile.jpg

[GreyhoundGirl]

He He He- great pics. Especially the last one. :)

Heres another: ;)

http://i83.photobucket.com/albums/j314/greyhoundgirl_2006/asmiler.jpg

[Sevaede]

k9krazee, I will miss your posts!!! so, don't dismiss that good-bye thread!!!

It is not a "Good-bye",like, I won't post ever visit again, it is , rather, I am , growing, and I will not forget where I have left my foot prints. ;)


And, wenisrubber, you know that I am still frightened of the vicious pictures you posted of that canine terror, that Chihuahua from Heavens" Hell!!! ;)

Your dogs have left a print on my heart. You matter to me.You helped me grow as well

I have learned so much from Pet Talk, it has been another Kindergarten!!! Only , better ;) No fat crayons!!!! :eek:

Heh, you have helped given me more perspective and I appreciate that and your posts. You're always so wonderful! :D

Spanky sends vicious little licks! :D

[Sevaede]

I knew that the "filch" thread was meant well, but that somehow people's feelings would end up hurt. Sigh.

I love all of the dogs of Pet Talk. That's why I didn't say I would filch any of them, because we were only allowed one. There was no "all of the above" choice.

I only mentioned a certain husky and an afinity for peanut butter Scooby Snacks because I know that that's as good - or better - than the Pied Piper's pipe to a certain husky, so I wouldn't technically be filching anyone! He'd follow me home through no fault of my own ... right? And whoever else happened to come with us ...

K9krazee, we will certainly miss you while you are at college, but will understand you posting less. College is important, and we'll still be here when you have a moment to breathe, are lonely for someone who knows you, or need to vent, or just need hugs.

You are all, each and every one of you, important to Pet Talk. This place is a community that covers a broad spectrum of humanity, but we all do love our pets, and I think that sets us apart from "the rest" - and in a good way.

Karen, I appreciate your post very much. I understand what you meant and I think everyone else does too. It's so good to know that I am important and am helping to make a difference or do anything for anybody! We are different from the rest, especially in being avid animal lovers (devoted fans? ;D ). We are all fabric pieces of an important cat/dog/ferret/horse/rat/bird/betta/etc loving quilt. :D

k9krazee, I have been following your college thread. It makes me overjoyed to hear that you are going to continue your education and go on to greater things. I, also, very much enjoy pictures of all your pooches, Kyra and Mini, especially because they remind me so much of my parents dogs.

Of course, that would not be filching Karen. ;) I am sure Spanky (Soni and Isis too!) would have followed you right into bed to get those snacks!

[Sevaede]

This post was not meant to offend so I am sorry if it did.

I hope that this does not go down as a judgement against my character. I was honestly trying to keep anything positive from going to shambles.

I am sorry if you were offended or hurt by this post. I was not trying to be mean or anything with anyone. I respect everyones opinion and realize that some may not be getting rude but just trying to point out some thing blatantly. :)

[catlady1945]

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[My Peanuts]

AMEN SISTER!!!

One thing that got me recently was the thread about what PT dog would you "flitch" if you could.

I hated reading throught it because I knew my dogs were never going to be named, but I did anyway :( For crying out loud I'm 30!! Why do I feel like I'm back in middleschool *waaahhh no one likes me!* :o
I'm sure it's just human nature... the need to be liked.
....it gets depressing after a while when you realize it over and over that you are not liked by everyone and there will always be people that are liked more.
I always tell myself to walk away from PT and save myself from the pain but do I ever listen to myself? Noooooo!
I am grateful for the (few) people that respond to anything I may post. You REALLY make my day!!!


I know what you mean. I didn't even read through it cause I knew my guys wouldn't be in that thread. Stuff like that doesn't bother me.

[My Peanuts]

And MyPeanuts... I always read your posts.



Thanks, that made me smile :)


I will say this though, when Jimmy was going through all this stuff, vet visits, surgeries, medications, a lot of people were really supportive. That really meant a lot to me. Aspen and Misty pm'ed me about it yesterday just to see how Jim was doing. That kind of stuff really makes my day. This is site is about animals and people. If people don’t particularly like me it makes me happy that they like my animals.

[lizbud]

I know what you mean. I didn't even read through it cause I knew my guys wouldn't be in that thread. Stuff like that doesn't bother me.


I never read those threads where you pick one person or animal over
all others.The thread starter probably mean well, but it's basicly picking
one over another & usually leads to hurt feelings along the way.As to some
people avoiding all your posts, I know it happens but haven't a clue why.
It just does. I have 7 cats yet any time I post on the "cat side", I am lucky
to get anyone to post a response. Why? Who knows? It's just the way it is.

Life is much to short to let little things get to us or get us down.This forum
has so much to offer in many other areas & ,by & large, a great group of people to learn from. Enjoy. ;)