Hi, I've had more experience than I want with seperation anxiety. I have 2 dogs who suffer from it, but I have gotten it to an incredibly manageable level, as opposed to how severe it was when I first adopted each of them.
One of the easiest things to try is to ignore your dog 15 minutes before you leave, and 15 minutes after you get home. The idea is to take away the anxiety from the situation. If you come home excited and full of hugs and kisses for your dog right away, the whole time the dog is alone she will be filled with anxiety waiting for the moment you burst through the door. Since they need an outlet for this anxiety, they will start chewing, digging, barking, etc.
I might suggest crate training your dog until you can trust her alone in the house. The weather outside doesn't seem ideal to leave her in. Also there is the danger of her jumping over the fence.
When you first start leaving her, only leave for short periods of time, even 5 minutes is good. What I did with my poodle is I spent a whole day just walking out of doors and leaving him on the other side. The first time I only stayed out about 15 seconds. Then I increased it and increased it. He eventually learned that when I leave, I DO come back. It is important to not come back if your dog is barking or doing any other kind of destructive bahvior. When she is quiet and being good, you can come back in the door. If you come in while she is barking, it will condition her to bark and expect you to come through the door. Then she'd never stop barking until you were home.
Another trick that worked for my dogs is covering their crate with a blanket. I also play classical or new age music softly and leave a stuffed kong in the crate. Reece refuses to eat treats or play with toys while I'm gone, but I still leave it in there for him just in case. The kong helps Lolly a lot. I actually don't crate my dogs anymore since there are 2 of them and it makes them not feel totally alone. I leave them in my bedroom though so they don't see me go out the front door. All they usually do is lay directly in front of the door and wait for me to get back. Occasionally they have relapses, but they are doing great.
The most important thing to remember is to not make a big deal about leaving, and don't coddle bad behavior. I have to go now, but I can write more on this when I get back.
[ September 13, 2001: Message edited by: aly ]
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