Please Pray for Baby Nug and me

[LuvGold00]

Good thoughts heading your way...

[Samantha Puppy]

It's amazing how nonchalant doctors are about issues you think are very serious. My OBGYN didn't seem phased at all that I had lower back pain, nausea or contractions. She said that if we have more than 8 in a two hour window and the pain intensifies to call them. Otherwise, lay on my left side and drink lots of fluid and everything should be fine.

So that's where we are. She said it is normal to start getting "test drives" around this stage in my pregnancy so the only abnormality is if the pain comes more frequently or gets worse. Which is good, but at the same time, I still feel like poo... so I hope the next two months aren't going to see me feeling as badly as I have since last night or I'm gonna be one miserable mommy.

Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers.

[Lobodeb]

My hubby e-mailed this to me when I told him I felt like I was cramping. I hope this helps:

Braxton Hicks
Braxton Hicks contractions usually start making an appearance towards the middle of pregnancy, somewhere around 20 weeks. These contractions are felt earlier and more intensely if this is a second or subsequent pregnancy. You'll notice the muscle of your uterus tightening for anywhere from 30 to 60 seconds. In actuality, the uterus is flexing it's muscles, getting ready for the real contractions which will help push your baby out at term.

These practice contractions will begin at the top of the uterus and gradually spread downward before relaxing. Labor contractions are noticeably longer and more intense than Braxton Hicks. Most first time pregnant women will ask their doctor, "How can I tell the difference between Braxton Hicks contractions and true labor?" The answer is almost always the same and somewhat vague, "You'll know real labor when it begins."

Braxton Hicks contractions are not intense enough to deliver your baby, however they do serve a purpose other than to keep an expecting mother on her toes; they help to get the pre-birth process of effacement and early dilation started thus putting mom ahead of the game before labor actually begins. Many doctors recommend using Braxton Hicks contractions as the perfect opportunity to practice the breathing exercises learned in childbirth classes.

Although considered painless when compared with true labor contractions, Braxton Hicks can be very uncomfortable. You may notice Braxton Hicks come more frequently when doing light physical activity like vacuuming or carrying groceries in from the car. If you feel discomfort, try lying down and relaxing or getting up and walking around. Listen to your body. Changing your position may stop the contraction all together.

Some doctors recommend drinking a few glasses of water to help diminish Braxton Hicks contractions as they can sometimes be brought on by dehydration; as a rule, a lack of adequate fluid intake can make the uterus more irritable - another good reason to drink those eight glasses of fluids daily during pregnancy!

Braxton Hicks contractions may be difficult to differentiate from pre-term labor activity so it's always wise to err on the side of caution. Call your doctor anytime contractions are:


Accompanied by lower back pain
Coming at regular intervals
Accompanied by watery or bloody vaginal discharge
Are very frequent (more than four per hour)
Any or all of these can be signs of premature labor and require immediate medical attention. If you are past 37 weeks gestation and have had no other complications throughout your pregnancy, the call to the doctor can wait until contractions last 60 seconds each and are five minutes apart. In this case, you are going to have a baby, and yes, you'll know how real labor contractions feel very soon!

[Daisy and Delilah]

Jaime, I'm thrilled to hear it's nothing serious but I'm sorry you aren't feeling well. It's tough getting through these things. I hope you get some rest and feel better. Relax as much as possible. You know we're all thinking of you and little Nug

[Ginger's Mom]

Just seeing this now. Glad to hear that it is nothing too serious. Just take it easy, and hope you can get some rest and relief. Hugs to you and Nug.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

It's amazing how nonchalant doctors are about issues you think are very serious.

From what I can remember from when I was expecting my Katie doctors tend to forget that it may be your first pregnancy as they see so many. It is precisely because of that they know when its time to worry so with you and little Nug all must be going well!!

[finn's mom]

Glad to hear that it is normal to be experiencing that. Still stinks for you, though. I hope it doesn't get too much worse for you. Normal or not, it's still a bummer to be in pain.

[Tubby & Peanut's Mom]

I had to go to the hospital today for my pre-admission testing. There was a girl in front of me as I was checking in. She seemed a little heavy from behind, but I didn't think anything of it......until the girl behind the counter said "Take the elevators right here up to the XX floor and the maternity ward.." and the girl turned around and she was way pregnant! I just thought why are you standing here waiting in line if you're in labor??!!? She just said thanks, turned and headed for the elevators. I thought "Hmm....must not be the first because she's awfully calm!"

[furrykidsmother]

I am glad to hear that it appears to be nothing serious. Hope the next couple of months go quickly for you!

[Jods]

Glad everything is okay keep your feet up girl!!

[Samantha Puppy]

Thanks everyone. Physically, I'm feeling back to myself. The only thing that concerns me is that I am still getting contractions - very sporadically - but they seem to happen when I'm either standing or sitting up. That makes me worry that working, where I'm sitting at a desk or walking around all day, will not help matters any.

[Lobodeb]

Does your doctor know this? Perhaps a little bedrest might be in order until the contractions stop?

I'm glad you're feeling better, otherwise!

[Samantha Puppy]

Yeah, I told her that and she basically just reiterated what she'd said before - if they become more frequenty and more painful, call. Otherwise, do what I can do relax and drink water.

[Ally Cat's Mommy]

Hope things are going well and the contractions have slowed down.

I am having the occasional BH contraction (perfectly normal) and as this is my 3rd pregnancy I know what the REAL thing feels like

BH contractions feel like your entire tummy has "tightened" for a few seconds - almost like a wide elestic belt being pulled very tight. In my experience the real ones are much more intense, and almost take your breath away.

Re the back pain - is it only when you have the contractions, or is it at other times, as back pain can also be a symptom of SPD (More info here )

I have just been diagnosed with SPD, which will unfortunatley be with me for the rest of the pregnancy - basically the pelvis starts to separate WAY too early, so when I walk I have a "grinding" feeling and a LOT of pain. They can't treat it, so I am hoping it won't get worse - so believe me Jaime, I KNOW how you feel about the prospect of having pain for the rest of your pregnancy - I have another 17 weeks ahead of me!!!


(((HUGS))) to you and Nug

[Samantha Puppy]

No, I don't have SPD. I live with back pain daily as I was born with spina bifida and I also have a tumor in the base of my spine that presses on my sciatic nerve (which causes the pain and also keeps my right leg numb 100% of the time). The back pain I experienced Sunday was was very different from that of which I'm used to.

I still have contractions every day but they aren't regular like they were on Sunday night. Until they are, I've been told not to worry about them! They're the pros!!

Thanks to everyone for your prayers and concern.