Hey Dex!!! Please let your parent know that you ARE hugging them and a purring them to sleep. Your family is learning that a cat is one pretty smart cookie. One of the best things our cats do is to wait at the window when we are out. Then when we walk in the house, the reception line is ready to greet us! You sure sound like a very special fellow. I hope that you and the future addition of the puppy will get along. Yes, you will be the boss, you were there first!!! Lots of love and hugs to you, Dex, on YOUR day!! HAPPY COTD!!!!