Originally posted by Edwina's Secretary
Sorry...if my husband came home and said....I am really a woman and...although I am going to keep my nether region...I am going to become a woman in all other respects....would I still love him...sure...would I want to be married to him....well...I'm thinking not.
No kidding ... I'm thinking NOT in a big way. I would wish him all the happiness in the world, but stay married to him? No.
I think a lot times, though, in a case not so drastic as the above mentioned .... for example, extreme weight loss by one partner ... the person who lost the weight really DOES become a different person. Whereas you used to have two people who enjoyed spending their time together eating fattening food and sitting around on the couch watching TV .... now suddenly you have one person still wanting to do that and one person wanting to go to the gym, take a walk and have a salad.
Trust me on this ... I'm going through it right now with my boyfriend. (Soon to be ex, I'm thinking.) Since September, I have lost almost 80 pounds, by eating better and going to the gym. My bf has NO desire to do either one. He resents that I have this new interest that takes up my time, he resents that men are now checking me out or flirting with me (like that's MY fault??). And, frankly, I am starting to resent that he seems so very unable/unwilling to at least accept - or preferably take part in - a healthier lifestyle. Am I the same person I was? Yes ... and no.
Last edited by Twisterdog; 06-07-2005 at 02:47 PM.
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