I have never been married, nor am I a child of divorce but I do have some experience at relationships. Taking a break can be a good thing. They would not be taking this step unless absolutely necessary. Parents in trouble can't hide it from the children so I'm assuming that you have perhaps witnessed some arguing or harsh words?? Did you see this coming?? Maybe you could sit down and speak with each one separately and explain your feelings.
I can understand that you are scared and confused. Do you have any peers you can talk to that have been through the same thing?? Perhaps a counsellor or a relative can help you through it. In addition, Jake needs you to.
Taking a break does not mean breakup or divorce. Sometimes couples need time away to realize their true feelings. As the saying goes "you don't know what you have until it's gone". I'm praying that in time they will remember the love they have for each other and move back in together. Please keep us updated. You are a valued member of Pet Talk and very much cared about.
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