Update.....and asking for prayers.....

[Moose]

As most of you know, my father was diagnosed with cancer a few months ago. He has started his treatments and has been doing them for a fair amount of time, but there haven't been any signs of recovery yet and seems to be doing worse. This has really put a strain on our family as a whole, and I am constantly getting into arguments with my mother.....I think the stress of the whole situation is creating a lot of ridiculous tension between us.

This is really scary for us because my dad's father died of cancer about 7 or 8 years ago, my dad's mother had part of her lung removed after finding out she had lung cancer, and my dad's sister-in-law was diagnosed with breast cancer about 5 years ago [but thankfully, has since made a full recovery]. I know, scary isn't it?.....everyone just happens to be on my dad's side.

Anyway, I'm asking that you all keep my father in your thoughts and prayers.....please send some good vibes this way, we could definitely use them. I'm not asking for your sympathy or anything like that, I just think that the more hopeful thoughts we get the better. My dad would certainly appreciate it......I told him some of you who had seen my first post were pulling for him, and he really seemed touched that people he has never even met were keeping him in their thoughts.

We all really do appreciate every little thing you guys have done and can do just through prayers and good thoughts, so please....keep them coming this way. Thanks you guys!

BTW -- For those of you who read my last post and were wondering how my boyfriend and I are doing, let's just say things seem to be looking up day by day. We have gotten over the biggest hurdle in our "disagreement" and will hopefully be over the rest soon.

[CountryWolf07]

Of course.. You have my prayers.

[primabella]

I'm sorry about your dad and the tension that it is causing on your family. Sending some positive vibes to your family and I'll keep your father in my prayers tonight. Hope everything works out for the best.

[Rio and Me]

Me and Rio are sending prayers and happy thought to you and your family! and to little moosey to he to must be feeling to upset vibes!!!
Ky and Rio

[popcornbird]

One of the hardest things to deal with..........a sick family member. Of course your dad and family will be in my thoughts and prayers! I know its not easy. My parents' friend's 2 year old son was diagnosed with cancer last year. He's been on treatment for over a year now, and this did his scans last week to check if the cancer's gone. Nope........there are two new tumors in other places...........so they're repeating the treatment. He looks/acts normal, but that's because he's under treatment. If they let go, it will spread. Poor baby.......my heart goes out to his family, as it does to your's. Cancer isn't an easy thing to deal with. Its scary.........very scary, and you have my thoughts and prayers.

[Moose]

Thank you so much, guys. Popcornbird, I feel so sorry for your friend's son.....and I will certainly send my own best wishes to them. After experiencing it firsthand, I have a special place for them in my heart.

[CatDad]

The kitties and I are sending prayers for your dada. Also, sending some positive thoughts for the entire family.

[Moose]

Thank you, Bryan.

[Karen]

Your dad will be in our prayers, I promise. When you have a chance, take your mom out for a girl's only lunch, just to let her know that, despite the disagreements, you still love her!

[tatsxxx11]

I understand what you and your family are going through right now. I lost my mother to cancer when I was quite young. 3 years ago, my father was diagnosed with leukemia. Unfortunately, he came out of remission this summer. But after 2 hospitalizations and further chemotherapy, he's finally beginning to rally again. This type of illness leaves everyone in the family feeling stressed and frightened and tired. But you need each other to lean on and to give each other strength. Sometimes just talking about your feelings helps. I don't know what type of cancer your Dad has or if he's undergoing treatment. But both chemotherapy and raditaion treatment often leaves the person feeling lots worse before they begin to feel better. Some days my Dad was so exhausted and nauseated, he could barely face the day. I'll be keeping your Dad in my extra special "Daddy" prayers and sending lots of positive thoughts your way. Hang in there. Big hugs to you and Moosie Love, Sandra

[Moose]

Thank you so much for the concern and idea, Karen.

Sandra, I'm so sorry to hear about your troubles....but I do really appreciate your special thoughts. My father has been doing treatments, and no.....he really hasn't felt well at all. I really do hope that you are right, and that he will feel better soon.

[Tonya]

My thoughts and prayers will be with you. Best wishes.

[dukedogsmom]

I can only imagine how scared you all are. I am terrified of that horrible disease. So much so that I've even gotten insurance on it. I hope your dad does well and has many happy years ahead. It's horrible to have to deal with. I hope your family gains strength by sticking together. It can be conquered sometimes. I'm a firm believer in approaching things like this in a positive manner. The mind is a very powerful thing and can accomplish things doctors sometimes can't. I wish you all well. You ought to print these messages out and let him read them. It might make him feel better to know that a lot of people are thinking about him and his family. Glad to know things are a little better with your boyfriend. Relationships can be a real pain sometimes but for the most part, they're worth it.

[Moose]

Thank you so much, Val and Tonya.

Val, I actually e-mailed him the URL to this thread and he checked it out earlier today. He was pretty impressed and really shocked.....I definitely believe he was touched by it [he's just trying to be tough and won't admit it ].

We both thank you for your words of concern, and admire your ability to throw us into your prayers without even knowing us all that well. Thank you.

[ChrisH]

Sending prayers and positive thoughts for your Dad, and for the whole family too.
Hugs
Chris