Well as most of you know, I have three (and others, strays etc.) beautifulkitty cats. Well....I need some advise on how to get Dylan to be "gentle" with the kitty cats. We do not use the word "nice" because he doesn't know what "nice" means, but he can learn gentle very easily. We have been teaching him since he was around 9 months old, when he started to crawl and could get to the cats more often.
He has started pulling Houdinis tail as well as grabbing very hard. We do not want to overuse the meaning of NO so we only use it when it is really necessary. But I have found myself having to look him sternly in the eyes and say it a few times this week. Most of the time we say, "Dylan you need to be gentle with the kitty cats" and let him know that the kitties will be hurt and cry because it is painful for them. We then have him pet the kitty cats and hold his hand and tel him to be gentle, and then we tell him what a good boy he is.
But there are times he is in his room with the cats and he has a hold of them and I do not want them to get hurt. The cats would never hurt Dylan, and still even with his tormenting them they are always very gentle.
Does anyone have any advise on how I can make him understand faster? Has anyone been through this before with your kids or nephews etc? Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance!
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