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    Grieving kitties

    A few days, after Monroe had passed away, I noticed that the kitties were acting differently.
    Miss Kitty visited all of Monroe's favorite places, and she looked confused when she couldn't find him.
    Then, Clover stopped eating. I was terrified to have another sick cat.
    I had him checked out, and, physically, there was nothing wrong with him. But he hadn't eaten in 3 days, so I was very worried. The vet suggested that he potentially was grieving over Monroe. That had crossed my mind.
    She told me to try an appetite stimulant. It took only one dose, and now he's eating again, but he is very quiet and not as playful.
    And poor Olive is hollering more than usual. It's something she does occasionally, but now she's vocalizing for a couple of hours every evening.
    The only one who doesn't seem to be affected is Mindy. She was never very fond of her brother.
    When Willa died, none of them seemed different, but she always kept to herself. Monroe, on the other hand, was always in the middle of everything.
    I think that this will take some time and some extra attention!
    Willa (5/1/1997-3/17/2018)

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    Yes, time and attention, extra love for them, and you'll get extra love in return. Sending hugs for you and skritches for them.
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    I remember when I lost Chessie, Casey was constantly looking around for him. Even though I showed him Chessie before taking him to my parents' house for burial (he wouldn't go near him and hissed at him), he was constantly looking around for Chessie. I was constantly tripping over him as he was getting underfoot whenever I turned around. If he heard the slightest noise come from a different part of the townhouse, he'd take off running to look.

    Kevin

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    How sad for the kitties and for you. Hoping lots of hugs and cuddles will help you all.
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    Oh, I'm so sorry. Time and extra attention and loads of love for all (including you!) sounds like the way to go. You are all grieving your losses.

    We are sending loads of love and purrrs and kitty kisses and skritches and hugs for you all.

    {{{{{HUGS}}}}} and ~~~~PURRRS~~~~ and from Pat and Sparkler and Galaxy
    I meant," said Ipslore bitterly, "what is there in this world that truly makes living worthwhile?"
    Death thought about it.
    CATS, he said eventually. CATS ARE NICE.

    -- Terry Pratchett (1948—2015), Sourcery

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    SEnding more hugs, love and caring thoughts to you.
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