Aww, thanks for the input. Asia is hanging in there. She still enjoys her food and treats and loving belly rubs. Aunty and Uncle are not rushing into anything, they want her to pass at home and she has all the meds and comforts. unless something changes, that is where it stands now. SO very hard to deal with our elders sometimes. It is scary, but I agree they should love her and care for her until they decide different. She's so much a member of our family.