It was painful watching Kate. She's never going to be a dancer. She's never going to let herself relax and enjoy it either.

My take on her: I know she comes across as bossy and rigid. I know people like this. They have phobias. They are terrified of new experiences. They try to control every aspect so that they aren't so terrified. I think that's why she comes across as a monster. She is not flexible (and I'm not just talking her body). She can't adjust to different things easily. She was just trying to tell her partner that she can only learn a certain way (what that one way is, I don't know), but whatever he's showing her, she isn't picking up on it. I think she has low self-esteme. What she said about people quitting on her is true. Because of her lack of flexibility she is high maintenance for everyone in her life. Eventually, we all give up on people who are that needy. She's sad. I wish her well in whatever she does next -- 'cuz I don't think she's long for the DWTS show.