Random thoughts

**Karen** · 12-01-2012, 06:19 PM

Originally Posted by pomtzu

If this is such a happy time of the year, then why don't I feel happy?????

Lots of people struggle this time of year, especially because of the lack of sunlight, and growing darkness. Severe case are known as Seasonal The "holiday" season also tends to remind people of loved ones who have since passed away, or traditions no longer held - it is very difficult for many people.

See if you can find a "daylight" lamp to shine around you especially in the afternoons and early evenings.

I most of all, remember that you are loved, no matter what. Sending you hugs!

**issop** · 12-01-2012, 06:25 PM

God loves you no matter what

**pomtzu** · 12-02-2012, 06:53 AM

Thanks Karen and issop. As I've gotten older, the "bout of the holiday blues" seems to hit every year, tho this year it struck earlier than usual. Maybe that means it will be over earlier than usual??? It will pass and I'll be fine. It's not the lack of sunlight that is the issue, but more of things and people (and pets) that are no more - for whatever reason.

**Karen** · 12-02-2012, 09:11 PM

Pomtzu, especially so soon after losing Sparky, it is understandable. But we are hear for you, no matter what!

Now, for a completely random though, I have just finished a toasted cheese sandwich with share cheddar and dill pickles - YUMMY! Whay have I not thought of this before?

(Okay, many years of not being able to eat cucumbers has a lot to do with it, but still ... yum!)

**CountryWolf07** · 12-03-2012, 06:45 PM

I think I know what Mike got me for Christmas, but I hope I can keep it as a good guess!

**krazyaboutkatz** · 12-03-2012, 06:47 PM

Originally Posted by Karen

I have just finished a toasted cheese sandwich with share cheddar and dill pickles - YUMMY! Whay have I not thought of this before?

(Okay, many years of not being able to eat cucumbers has a lot to do with it, but still ... yum!)

My mom always made them for us with sweet pickles which is also very yummy.

I'm glad that you're able to eat cucumbers again.

**Karen** · 12-03-2012, 06:57 PM

Originally Posted by krazyaboutkatz

My mom always made them for us with sweet pickles which is also very yummy.

I'm glad that you're able to eat cucumbers again.

Me, too! And bananas, and oranges and bacon and ...

**momoffuzzyfaces** · 12-05-2012, 06:18 PM

Originally Posted by pomtzu

Thanks Karen and issop. As I've gotten older, the "bout of the holiday blues" seems to hit every year, tho this year it struck earlier than usual. Maybe that means it will be over earlier than usual??? It will pass and I'll be fine. It's not the lack of sunlight that is the issue, but more of things and people (and pets) that are no more - for whatever reason.

That's just the way I feel too. Christmas is built up to be such a family time, that it's hard for those who are scare on the family and friends department. I don't drink but this time of year makes me wish I could get drunk and stay that way until Jan 2nd. (I want to sleep through all the football games on tv too)

**Karen** · 12-05-2012, 06:42 PM

Originally Posted by momoffuzzyfaces

That's just the way I feel too. Christmas is built up to be such a family time, that it's hard for those who are scare on the family and friends department. I don't drink but this time of year makes me wish I could get drunk and stay that way until Jan 2nd. (I want to sleep through all the football games on tv too)

You'd have to sleep long than that to miss all the football!

Have you considered doing some volunteer work in December, just to take your mind off the ones you miss? Visiting lonely folks in the nursing home (ask who never gets visitors, there are always some) and just bringing a little ornament or some inexpensive little thing to cheer them up might make you feel better, too! When I was a kid, Ma would take us to nursing homes to sing, and now I know what a happy difference that made for the people there. Any new face is welcome!

**cassiesmom** · 12-05-2012, 08:11 PM

I heard this on the radio today and I just figured it out... Holy cow! After December 12, 2012 (12/12/12), there won't be any "repetitive" calendar dates for quite a long while!

**RICHARD** · 12-05-2012, 11:57 PM

Years ago I was asked to volunteer to do face painting for a Christmas party.

I can't face paint - my art talent is limited to watching the guy with the 'fro on PBS.

I sat down, daunted, struggling thru the first handful of kids.

Who knew kids didn't care about a Christmas tree or reindeer, they wanted the cartoon character of the day drawn on their faces!

By the time I got good at Christmas trees, wreaths and reindeer, the party was over.

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In the end it wasn't about toys, trees or the fad of the day.

It was the look of a kid's face when you put up the mirror so they could see what you did for them.

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I picked up some face paints for a dollar at the store the other day.

You never know when you may need them?