My Friend Killed Herself

[sandragonfly]

I've been slacking on posts..

for second time in two years, my good friend killed herself last wednesday, two days after her 36th birthday.. she was my favorite babysitter and we became "sisters" after I left my parents. we went camping and did a lot together when I was in california. we talk over the phone every other two or so months, I loved hearing about her three kids, pets and their activities.. I don't believe this.

not a long ago I posted about missing my heroic grandfather ... feeling so depressed ever as much as I let myself go..

[CountryWolf07]

You are in my thoughts..

Such a tragedy.

[borzoimom]

Oh Dear Lord- in my prayers..

[My Peanuts]

I;m so sorry Gina. You will be in my thoughts.

[IRescue452]

I'm sorry to hear this, you'll be in my thoughts

[Queen of Poop]

Oh Gina I am so very sorry. Hugs and prayers to you to help you thru this. Prayers for her family that they can manage thru this oh so difficult time.

[Catty1]

{{{{hugs}}}}

Prayers for you, and for your friend's family and children. I hope no one blames themselves.

[Lobodeb]

Oh no, Gina! This is terrible! I'm so sorry to be reading this.

Please, please, I can't emphasize this enough, please get help to deal with the pain of losing someone to suicide. The pain is like nothing I've ever felt and had it not been for the support group I found, I don't know how I would have coped, especially since I was pregnant.

I'm here if you need help. Please don't go this alone.

You, your friend and her family are in my prayers.

[cassiesmom]

I;m so sorry Gina. You will be in my thoughts.

Mine too, Gina.

[sandragonfly]

I thought she loved me very much too.. there must be something not enough I could have done for her.

[Karen]

Don't blame yourself, sweetie. It was a decision she made, and maybe she couldn't for some reason feel that she was loved and needed in this world. We'll never know, but please do reach out to those around you, to help you through this. Suicide is always hard to deal with, and so many unanswered questions haunt us. It wasn't your fault, remember that, okay?

[pitc9]

hugs to you Gina.

[Pembroke_Corgi]

I'm sorry to hear that.

[Argranade]

Oh my God .. that's the worse thing anyone can do to them selfs,

It means somthing but I know you feel sad enough so I won't say it.

I'm so very sorry, this is so heart breaking for her family and you .. hope the pets have a home too.

Hope you can get threw this Gina ... what ever her fate I pray everything works out for her.

[Anita Cholaine]

Gina, I am so sorry about this

My thoughts and prayers are being sent to you and everyone involved. Please, don't blame yourself. Suicide is such a complex thing, and it is no one's fault.

{{{{HUGS}}}}