Dear Friends,
This is my first post on this forum. I am at my wits end and hope I can get some good loving advice.
We have two cats. One is 13 1/2 years old Calico. Shadow... The other we just adopted. He is 6 years old, male named Clayton.Before we adopted Clayton, we had another male, big orange baby named Pumpkin. Pumpkin crosed over last April with Liver cancer. He and Shadow were raised together. He was the diminat one and she always being a Calico retreated to the background. After Pumpkin died, she came out of her shell. She became the Princess. Never allowing us to pick her up, she let us pet her and she became more relaxed, relaxing in my study and sleeping with us at night.
In January we adopted a male 6 year old from our local awesome SPCA, where Pumpkin and Shadow were adopted from. It was love at first sight and CLayton came home with us. We did what everyone said to do. We kept them separated and tried to initiate them slowly.
When they finally saw each other up close and p[ersonal, Shadow hissed and growled and chased him away. She is NOT Happy that he is here. She still hisses and growls if he walks in the same room. The tables seem to have turned and he now will chase her.
She is now retreated back into herself. She stays in the podwer room bath room or hides behind a sofa oe my husband's desk. She no longer comes in my study or sleeps with us. My heart is breaking. I love my little girl so much. I don't know what to do. I love them both.
Calicos are "special" unto themselves, as we all know. What do I do? I try an dpet her and kiss her.. she is still upset with me. What do I do?
Our vet said leave them be. THey will work it out. But every day I see her retreat more and more into herself. I had to get a litter box an dput it in the powder room becasue she won't go downstairs any more.
PLEASE other lovers of cats help me help my Princess.
BLessings,
MommaCat
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