Dig your way out of this mess?

[pomtzu]

Perhaps they could try some kind of resolution, but usually at that point it's too late.

That's the point I was getting at. At least if they would try, even if it didn't work, then when they do go their separate ways, they might feel better about themselves. I would rather think I put some effort into a possible resolution, rather than running away and seeking solace with others who probably don't give a rat's a$$ about me anyway, no matter how sweet the talk they talk.

Just a little bit of useless info here: if my ex and I hadn't split, today would have been our 48th anniversary. Yup - I really am ancient!!!!

[Asiel]

But these people are consenting adults, they are not doing anything that they believe is wrong. It's not against the law. They are free to choose how they live their own lives.
Why condemn someone who doesn't look up to your expectations as to how they should behave ???

Yes, they are consenting aduts even if I think they're acting like spoiled brats who want every toy in the store. But condemning them, no I'm not condeming them, I couldn't care less what they think of my values or opinions. Not doing anything that they believe is wrong? Sorry, the fact they they can be found in seedy motels or out of the way places so they won't be recognized makes me think they know that they are doing wrong. I'll just keep working on my own life and they can do what they want with theirs. I see quite a few elderly people in nursing homes who never get visitors...the reason? They chose to wreck their family in favour of a romp in the hay so the family doesn't have anything to do with them. Are they lonely...you bet, too late for them. That romp in the hay wasn't the answer to their troubles but it hurt a lot of people along the way . You reap what you sow has always been my belief.
Funny how the OP went into hiding after the discussion got under way, must be sitting back laughing , reminds me so much of someone else....stir the honey pot and let's see how many bees I get...


Bonny---I have to agree with you about the "in sickness and in health" part.
Anyone who can work through that one deserves a medal. To so many it would be an excuse to justify walking out, bravo to those who remember their vows...forever and ever till death do you part.

[pomtzu]

Funny how the OP went into hiding after the discussion got under way, must be sitting back laughing , reminds me so much of someone else....stir the honey pot and let's see how many bees I get...

Careful there girl - you might wake the other one up. Let the lion sleep!

[Asiel]

Careful there girl - you might wake the other one up. Let the lion sleep!

Yeah, slipped my mind, sorry about that. Maybe that lion has a thorn in the mouth

[wombat2u2004]

But the lion had some very valid points kids.

[Bonny]

The lioness sure knows how to stir our puddin.

[wombat2u2004]

The lioness sure knows how to stir our puddin.

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

[wombat2u2004]

Yeah, slipped my mind, sorry about that. Maybe that lion has a thorn in the mouth

"Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well dance."

[pomtzu]

But the lion had some very valid points kids.

You don't know the lion that Asiel and I are referring to. Consider yourself lucky!

[Bonny]

Is it a lion or lioness that you are talking about? Where for art they? Are they in hiding?

[pomtzu]

Is it a lion or lioness that you are talking about? Where for art they? Are they in hiding?

It's a lioness who lives a ways from here. She only wakes up when she gets bored and wants attention or pity for some fabricated drama in her life. Shhhh - let her sleep please!

[Bonny]

ok I will ssshhh so she doesn't wake up, but the fabricated drama sound interesting.

[pomtzu]

ok I will ssshhh so she doesn't wake up, but the fabricated drama sound interesting.

Drama Queen personified! If it wasn't truly pathetic, then it would be laughable.......

[wombat2u2004]

Now now girls....sheath those claws.
Be nice.

[wombat2u2004]

Is it a lion or lioness that you are talking about? Where for art they? Are they in hiding?

Would Cinderella hide from the two wicked sisters ????