The Band, the noise, and a plan...

[Cataholic]

See here for the saga....

http://207.44.135.130/talk/showthrea...threadid=34917



Last night, the police were here, again. We all talked...the band, the parents, the police, and the chaplain (who just happened to be riding with the officer that night). My ONLY choice was to cite the son, who is 18. That means, he would have a record, though the offense (loud music) isn't that big of a deal. I just can't do that to an 18 year old...who hasn't ever been in trouble, and who is my neighbor. I just can't.

So, this is my plan! On Monday, Wednesday and Fridays, at 4:45 pm, Eric lets Binx out into the backyard to relieve himself. I no longer "have" to come home to do it, and will either work late, OR, go to the gym right from work...not getting home until 7 pm anyhow. I won't be around to hear the music, and won't be bothered by it.

I left Eric a note, asking if this solution will work. I hope he says YES! It is the best of both worlds...the band can play, and I am not home, but, not taking care of my obligations....

What do you guys think????

[sasvermont]

If everyone lives up to the agreements, then WOW, everyone wins! Great deal - great thinking!

SAS

[Aspen and Misty]

I LOVE it! I think it's a great idea!!!!!!!!!!

Good thinking!

Ash

[mugsy]

You are so good Jo!! I am duly impressed.

[popcornbird]

Catapault sure is a SMART lawyer! Good thinking! Great solution!

[moosmom]

Johanna,

I've got to say that you have the patience of a saint!! I would've cited the son. Record or no record. I mean, why should YOU have to sacrifice YOUR peace and quiet for a kid that really doesn't give a rat's patoot? IMO, I think you gave in waaaaay to quickly. But like you said, they are your neighbors and you do have to live next to them.

Anyway, I supposed that coming to SOME kind of agreement is better than nothing. Let's hope this kid sticks to his part of the bargain.

[Tonya]

That sounds like a great solution! I hope it works out. Keep us posted.

[Cincy'sMom]

I think it sounds like a good solution. And of course Eric needs to know that if he screws it up, the citation is made, end of story.

Good Luck!

[carole]

What a great solution, I can well understand you not wanting to cite him, after all we were all young once, and probably at one time in our lives annoyed some-one with our loud music.

let us hope it all works out just fine, GOOK LUCK. and WELL DONE.

[micki76]

Originally posted by moosmom
I've got to say that you have the patience of a saint!! I would've cited the son. Record or no record. I mean, why should YOU have to sacrifice YOUR peace and quiet for a kid that really doesn't give a rat's patoot? IMO, I think you gave in waaaaay to quickly. But like you said, they are your neighbors and you do have to live next to them.

I agree! I would've cited the brat and would certainly not sacrifice my peace of mind and peace in my own home! Wow!

[shais_mom]

As long as it works for you!

[pitc9]

Sounds good!!!
Make sure you keep us posted about it!!!!!

[SeamusK]

well, i'm in a band, but its very isolated in my basement so nobody can hear

Anyway. Nice idea!! you geeeenius!!!

[Cataholic]

Well, 24 hours after I left the son a note..still no contact. Hmmmm....band practice is tomorrow night!

[Cataholic]

I saw Marcie, the mom, today. She approached me and said Eric was tickled to death about the plan, we hugged, and both apologized for how out of control it got. She will be the one letting Binx out, and she has already asked me if she needs to let him in again, after a certain amount of time. I told her as long as it is above 50, he can stay outside for a couple of hours....but, once we get to cold weather, 30 minutes, and let him back in. She has a golden and a puppy, so, she knows doggies...and she won't let him get cold.

I am soooo glad this has worked out like it has!!!!