I have a year and 4 month male Golden Retriever. About a month ago, we added a female Golden puppy to our family. Misty is currently just a little over 3 months old.
We decided to get a second dog so that Kody had someone to play with. We were pleased when they started interacting with each other- first by playing tug, then by play-fighting each other and playfully chasing each other around the house. They have so much fun together!
However, I am starting to suspect that Kody is jealous of Misty. Every time one of us bends down to pet Misty or picks her up to hold her, Kody tries to push her out of the way. If we put Misty down, Kody "fights" with her until she forgets about us and walks away. I didn't think anything of it at first since they play all the time, but as it kept happening and his playing got rougher and he was quicker to react when we showed her any sort of attention, I am now starting to suspect that there's more to it than just cooincidentially-timed play.
Have any of you had this issue before when adding a new pup to your family? Do you have any suggestions on how to help break this habit? So far, the only way I've been able to stop it is by holding Kody's collar for about 30 seconds after I put Misty down. I've also found myself sneaking around, trying to pick Misty up or pet her when he's not looking or in another room.
Know that I do spend individual time with each dog. When I take one somewhere, I'll take the other somewhere else the same day. I love on and pet both of them frequently- it's not at all that he's neglected or anything. They are both spoiled rotton with a plethra of love, attention, and lots of toys.
Do you think it's jealousy? If so, any ideas on how to stop it?
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