-sigh-
I wish I knew what to do, but I just don't. I don't want anyone to think I'm just randomly whining or looking for attention. I'm just so confused..
I've probably posted before with how I'm feeling lately. Anyway, the last week or so I've been feeling a lot worse (emotionally). I've spend a lot of time crying, feeling sick to my stomach, worrying, you name it. I'm VERY stressed from school. This is my first year at university. I can't seem to concentrate in class, so I have no idea what work we're doing. I usually spend computer science drawing cause I can't listen. I usually spend economics TRYING to understand what is going on. Then when I have assignments, I have no idea how to do it. I turn to my books for help but I can't even focus on reading them.
I've been having dark thoughts of hurting myself too...the other day I sware if I had something sharp in my room I would have cut myself. I know that sounds so stupid, but it hurts SO much to feel like this...Sometimes I feel like I can't handle it anymore. My dad is being extremely supportive and is trying/will try anything to make me feel better. I love him so much for helping me through this, I couldn't do it without him.
Anyway. I've been trying to decide if maybe I should drop 2 of my courses and just focus on biology for now. It would cut down on the stress...but it makes me feel like a failure if I do drop it. My 'best friend' said she thinks it's a bad idea and I'm just looking for an easy way out..I need people to be supportive and that just didn't help. I though I would be ok with dropping it till she said that...and maybe it's true..but i don't want ot be a failure. I really didn't feel ready for school this year, but I feel like it's something I need to do. I want to get a really good job and make my dad proud of me. He says he's proud anyway and doesn't care if I go to school or have a good job but I can't help but feel like I need to.
Another issue is, I paid 1600 for my courses. 3 of them. Well, actually dad paid for them...which is part of the problem. If I drop it now I only get 60% of my money back....that is still a lot of money I won't get back..-sigh- it's such a waste...he said he doesn't care about the money but I feel like maybe he's just saying that so I won't feel bad...
I'm so confused...I'm scared..I'm tired, stressed....everything. I threw up the other night cause I worry so much. I literally feel sick to my stomach for 80-90% of the day. I'm so sick of feeling this way. I feel like if I dropped the courses it would be a load of my shoulders...I don't want to give up though..
btw...I am taking medication (it might be part of the reason fo rme feeling worse...I duno) and I'm also seeing someone for help..
Sorry this is so long..you don't even need to read it..sometimes I feel like I just need to get it off my chest..it makes me feel better someimtes
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