Hello everyone. I need to convince my black Lab mix, Artax, that I am the Alpha, not him. I would appreciate any advice from anyone familiar with this type of situation.
Looking back over our life together I realize I've spent too much time being his friend and not enough as his master, and he is now out of hand. He was crate trained for housebreaking, and used to like his crate. From the day he was neutered when he was five months old, he refused to go in his crate. I think he was caged for too long at the vet's when he needed to go to the bathroom, or else he associates the cage with the pain of surgery. Since he was already housebroken by this time, I just let it go and he has free run of the house when I'm not home. I give my dogs steaks on their birthdays. When Artax turned one, he was eating his first steak while I took some pictures and talked to him. When I tried to pet him he bared his teeth and growled. Since that day I cannot touch him while he's eating anything.
Artax is now 2 years and 4 months old and has decided he doesn't want to be touched while he's sleeping, either. A week ago he was laying beside me on the couch and growled when I petted him. He's growled every time I've touched him when he was asleep, since then. If I ignore the growling he will bite me, although he hasn't broken the skin but just lightly grabs me with his teeth.
Thinking he might be in some kind of pain, I took him for a thorough vet exam including x-rays and bloodwork. Everything seems to be fine physically with him, and he is active and full of energy.
I wanted to make my first post here a week ago but had problems getting registered. In the meantime I posted on a couple of other pet forums and have been following some of the advice I received there.
I am trying to get him to go into his crate willingly again. He absolutely freaks out when I try to get him in there. The only way I can get him in is to corner him, then put the cage opening down over him so that my floor takes the place of the cage door, and then slowly tilt it upright while putting the cage door back on. The first time I did this he put teeth marks in the cage and released his anal glands in it. Since then he hasn't bitten the cage but still does everything he can to avoid it. I was told to feed him in his cage only. If I put his food at the very back of the cage, he stretches his body out so that he can just reach it to eat with his hind end still outside the cage, and abandons the food if I try to push him all the way in. So I cannot shut the cage door while he's eating. I tried to keep the cage door shut with his food in there, and see if he'd get hungry enough to go in when I opened the door. He didn't eat anything for two days, and then ate peanut shells out of the trash. I felt sorry for him so I took the cage door off yesterday. He's been stretching himself out, grabbing a mouthful of food and then taking it into another room to eat it. Maybe after some time like this he will become more relaxed about his crate?
Artax is also not allowed on the furniture anymore. It took a few days, but he seems to accept this now, at least when I'm home. I'm sure he gets on things when I'm gone. He kept sneaking onto my bed when I was asleep, so starting last night he's been sleeping locked in the bathroom. But even when he's sleeping on the floor he growls if I touch him, or even act like I'm about to touch him.
I tried to force him into a submissive position by pinning him to the floor. He never submits though, but keeps struggling, growling, and snapping no matter how long I hold him down. I was told to stop trying this.
We've been practicing obedience a lot more. Artax has to sit before going out or coming in. He's much more responsive now, sitting immediately when I tell him or even before I say anything, instead of making me say sit several times like before. He even seems to enjoy this. We're also practicing heeling, which he hates and will only do with a choke or pinch collar and leash.
It feels like I'm at war with my dog. He's depressed, moping around with his head hanging and his tail between his legs most of the time, doesn't like laying on the floor, etc., and this is depressing me. I realize this problem took a long time to develop and I can't expect an immediate fix, but does anyone know how long it will be before I have a friendly Labrador that enjoys my attention again? Will he ever be able to lay on the couch with his head in my lap again? Any tips on additional steps I should take would be greatly appreciated. I normally take Artax about everywhere with me in the car. Could this be making him think he is equal in rank to me?
It was suggested that I take him to an animal behaviorist, but this is not practical for me. We live way out in the country, 75 miles from a city that might have such a person. It was also suggested that he might have to be euthanized. This is absolutely out of the question. I love him dearly, think of him as my son, and firmly believe getting a pet is a lifetime commitment that must be followed through with, for better or worse like marriage. I am not scared of him, and I know he can sense this. Hopefully this will help me gain control. And Artax isn't all bad. He's extremely smart, was a breeze to housebreak, never chewed up anything of mine, and does have a good heart. He's just confused right now.
I attached a picture of my babies. My other dog, Zaynah, is a 1.5 year old spayed female Boxer. They are my only two pets. They're best buddies, and Zaynah is perfectly happy being the Omega. Incidentally, Zaynah is a purebred but Artax was a "free to good home" puppy. He often gets mistaken for a purebred Lab, but from seeing his parents I know he has some Rottweiler and some Chow in him. Both of his parents were very friendly, family dogs though.
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