ignorance or an unwillingness to at least try to accept, understand, or learn something new (ie another person's point of view or different lifestyle), stereotyping (racism, breedism, homophobia, etc), dishonesty, and complete tactlessness.
Stereotyping and everthing in the parentheses following it are basically all included in the ignorance part, because that's pretty much what it is, in my opinion, those are almost all deal breakers for me. Dishonesty and tactlessness are more just things where I may still hang out with a person, but, will never fully trust them or really consider them a friend. I cannot consider someone a friend who has no control over the things they say to someone else, even if the other person is in the wrong. There are ways of being honest and blunt without being downright ugly. (like the girl in the first post said, I've gotten up and left a restaurant because someone has said something like that in public).
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