Robin
I haven't been on PT long, but long enough to recognise that you are a wonderful person, and have lots of caring friends here. that doesn't sound like a 'loser' to me. Kids can be hurtful - esp teens - which I'm guessing your son is.
I also suffer from depression and attention deficit disorder. As a single ADD /depressed mom raising an ADHD teen, our home is terribly disorganised, scattered and messy. Man, talk about a messy house!?!?! I always tell the (very few) friends I let in my house, that I keep it that messy to make my friends feel better about THEIR housekeeping skills! I have piles on piles of paper on my tables and desks! Honestly - it's scary! I once kept a 'pet' spider in the corner of the livingroom for half a summer - I told my mom it was 'educational' for my son, Jon, to watch it catch and eat the mosquitoes that got in! LOL! My kitchen floor has needed washing for a long, long time, and there's so many dog hair-balls rolling around on my wood floors, sometimes I think Fizzy had puppies!
Seriously, I try and I'm on medication, but it's really tough. I also have a weight problem, and like you, the depression just makes me want to stay home and sleep. it's an 'escape'. When I sleep, the bills, mess, stress and problems all dissappear for at least that litttle while. Whatever your job situation, however, I would stay with it if you can - I've been unemployed (or under employed) for a couple years now. I've been substitute teaching - but with school out for the summer, even that's gone and I'm back to unemployment. The thought of working a 'real' full time job scares the heck out of me!
If you ever want to talk - fell free to e-mail me,
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I hope you feel better, and this Dr. helps some -
hugs,
laura
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