Hey all, I got upset at something last night and was wondering if anyone has ever been through something similar.
Yesterday was my boyfriend Steve's birthday, and he had some friends over. They were all ooh-ing and aah-ing over Tito and Sophie, fawning over them, playing with them, etc. I brought some toys out and we were all having a great time playing with the kitties. Sophie was all hyper and bouncy, and being adorable,of course. One of my boyfriend's friends picked her up, and it was the way he played with her for like about 5 minutes that made me upset.
He was playing rough with her. I don't mean he was hurting her, just upsetting her, I think. Grabbing her belly, paws, etc.; lifting her up in the air with one hand; grabbing her stump (which she HATES and I told him that, and he stopped after that). He also kinda grabbed the scruff of her neck with one hand and was making her attack his other hand - kinda weird I know.
I know she was agitated - she was squeaking a lot at him - but the sweetie didn't really try to bite or scratch him. Now I know Sophie, and I've been there when she's at the vets, or when I have to cut her nails, and I KNOW she could have easily wrestled her way out of his lap and ran off. She didn't though, at least not that I saw. She didn't seem scared or anything. But I was just really upset by it. I felt like, that is my cat, and I have made sure to raise her with a gentle, loving hand, and what says you can come in here and mess with her like that?! She's not a toy. She's my baby. You know?!?!
So anyway, I had been drinking, and when all this happened I decided I better not open up my mouth and risk saying something I would regret. So I sat there, silent for a minute, and tried to give this guy a few looks, like "Dude, stop messing with my cat!" Then, I pulled Steve aside, asked him to make this guy stop, and then went in my room with Tito. Steve got him to quit, saying it was Sophie's dinnertime, and put her in the bedroom with me. She was quite hyper the rest of the night, more so than usual. I guess he just got her riled up, but she was back to normal as soon as she laid down to sleep.
So I know this is a long post, but I feel like maybe I'm just being paranoid. Maybe I shouldn't freak out just because someone does that, he didn't hurt her after all...but on the other hand I feel like I have every right to be pretty darn upset that someone would treat my pet with a lack of respect. Maybe he's just not experienced with cats, but still....
*sigh* guess I'll stop now. Just had to get it all out. Now that I am thinking about it, I really am getting upset. I know it's no big deal in the long run, but still.
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