Waiting for Roast Duck with Mouth Open

[Catty1]

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Waiting for Roast Duck with Mouth Open

I heard a funny phrase that made me laugh so hard, I thought I'd share it with you all. It's a Chinese aphorism that relates to taking action in order to get things done. Here it is:

Man stands with mouth open for long time before roast duck flies in.

Isn't that great?

I want you to imagine a person - man, woman, boy, girl - standing on a hillside and feeling very hungry. So hungry, in fact, that their mouth is watering and their stomach is growling like crazy. This person takes a look around their environment and decides the best course of action is to simply open their mouth and wait for a meal to fly in.

Absurd, isn't it?

But we do this all the time.

* My relationship with so-and-so is horrendous. I'm sure it will fix itself.
* I'm really stiff and sore, but I'm not going to stretch. The soreness will remove itself.
* I'm not feeling very well. I think I'll do nothing and hope the feeling passes.
* I'm broke! I don't have any money. I'll just wait for my wallet to fill itself with cash.

Many of us from time to time, even the most rational among us, expect roast duck to fly right into our mouths, with little or no effort on our part.

Those of us who think we can just wish for our problems to solve themselves will be waiting a long time before we get what we need. (I find the twin notions of The Law of Attraction, Manifesting promoted by The Secret, and What the BLEEP Do We Know, as well as Prosperity Theology promoted by Joel Osteen and and others to be a bit spurious.)

Our needs aren't going to fulfill themselves. We can hope and visualize for the best all we want, but in the end, we must act. Roast duck isn't just going to fly into our mouths.

How about you?

Can you think of some problem area in your life that you're just hoping will taking care of itself? Chances are you can also think of steps you can take towards remedying the situation.

I find that many people think their empty spiritual-religious lives will magically be filled. This will never happen. Like anything else, it takes effort - like planning to take time off, then actually doing it.

This week's spiritual-religious advice: don't just stand on the hillside with your mouth open. Go out and catch the duck yourself, roast it, then eat it. At the very least, head over to a restaurant that serves it.

[slick]

Slick stands with arms crossed waiting for boss from hell to quit. Unfortunately there is no action I can take - just a "wait and see" approach is all I can do.

[Catty1]

Roast Duck is much preferable to a BFH...Any sign that she WILL quit?

[smokey the elder]

*Homer drools* Roast duck...must make.

[Randi]

I have always been the kind of person who prepared for... whatever. Also worried about what might happen if... but John taught me something important - to try not to worry about what might happen if so and so... but have the attitutude "if what you do/say/work on/etc. goes wrong, what is the worst that can happen?" In other words, if you wait and stop worrying, things will fix themselves sooner or later.

I had a friend who lived across the road - she later moved, she would not open her snail mail for a week if she thought it was bad news, or bills. That's a sure way to get problems!