It has been weeks since I have been in tears.
I finally decided that I must leave my church indefinitely. I have been there for some 10 years.
I am crying because I notified several people of my decision because I am involved with some service work - and I also emailed the priest because I have been there so long and known him so long.
My time there has seen me unconditionally supported through some of the worst times in my life. Some of the people I miss so much...this is not impulsive, this has been hanging over me and weighing me down for many weeks.
It's the dogma I can no longer deal with...I want to grow, and feel I can't there. There is so much that is believed to be literally true, and I just can't pretend any more. I became dry and dead inside.
I love the people I know there - it's the place I can't stand.
I posted in "Dear You" and the message there is virtually word-for-word what I just sent off to the priest.
It's like ending a relationship where there's still a lot of love, but I can't live there any more.
It just hurts bad. That's really my only point here. It is heartbreaking and hurts really bad.
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