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  1. #16
    Heh, we got a card from the Vet's Office today and it made me think about coming here.. saw your post, and this.

    I'm sorry you too had to lose your kitty. It isn't easy letting go, but with time it gets better.. Reading this though made me sad. Hehe, very cute cat though indeed..

    Squeak and Bear should get along just fine, the litter he was born out of (was the runt :P, ended up being the largest cat of them all it seemed..) was filled with little kitties that looked exactly like your Squeak. So it'll be nice for him to see a familiar looking kitty like his brothers and sister of before.

    RIP Squeak

  2. #17
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    I am so sorry to read about Squeak. She was a beautiful kitty. I recently lost my heart kitty as well (July 2nd) and just the other night I began to cry and couldn't stop for almost an hour. Just typing this, knowing the pain you are experiencing, is making tears come to my eyes again. Other Pet Talk members say it gets easier, and I believe it will. Our dear kitties will never be forgotten.

    RIP Dear Squeak
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    The loss of a dear pet comes with a pain like no other. So many of us have suffered this loss on Pet Talk, so you will have very understanding and caring responses from us.

    I am so sorry you have lost Squeak. As hard as it is - it just takes some time and the pain eases and the wonderful memories replace the pain.

    I am sure all Pet Talkers join me in sending you some gentle hugs.

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    Losing a beloved pet is like losing a part of your heart. Yes, it gets better, but you never forget them.
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    This website has been a blessing. Thank you all for being so kind with your words.

    I still can't believe she is gone though. I know it, but I don't believe it. I love her so much.

    I need to know what you do to go through your grief, I'm so sad.

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    Unfortunately there is no magic cure. Time does help though. I had to have the love of my life, Morgan, put to sleep four weeks ago today. I still have tears, although I think I may have had a day or possibly two this last week where I was only sad and didn't cry. Time is all I can offer you. I promise it does help. We don't forget them. And we still miss them, but that searing pain does lessen with time. As the days go by, you will find it will be easier to talk about your dear one with out crying so much. And then sometime out of the blue, the tears will fall. Just remember that she will always be part of you. I am very sorry for your loss.

    Time helps the sadness subside, but the memories remain forever.

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    Each of us may have a different response for you. I think the best thing for you on an immediate basis is to just give in to your sadness and tears.
    Sob if you need to - it truly is what you are feeling.

    So many things will remind you of your baby girl that the tears will just flow. But there comes a point when you are all cried out. It doesn't mean you care any less - it is just that you are coming to terms with your huge loss.

    Moesha is right - that searing pain (and it is that) will lessen but it simply takes time. But she will always be your little love and your heart will be full just thinking of her - but it will be with more love than pain.

    I think what is so difficult for you in particular is that your little baby was very young.

    Again, my heart goes out to you. I have been where you are and it just isn't easy.

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    My heart kitty Oscar is on my pillow every morning, snuggled up to me like I am just a big cat, and even grooming my nose and forehead (OUCH! Oscar, I don't have fur on my nose and face! )

    I can see Squeak had that same bond with you...I can only begin to imagine what a huge hole that has left in your life and heart.

    When my sister was in her early teens, she had a grey tabby named Squeak. Your beautiful girl reminds me so much of her.

    {{{{hugs}}}}
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    Your Squeak was such a lucky girl to have you as a Mom!!! It is so hard to lose these very special friends!! Sleep softly, sweet Squeak...
    Nine is Fine!!

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    Very special pictures you've shared with us---so very sorry for your loss, it's never easy.

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    I am so very sorry for your loss. What a beautiful, sweet kitty, and that picture of her and you in bed sleeping is precious. Such lovely memories you have to cherish!

    You and Squeak are part of each other always.

    Rest in peace, beloved little kitty. Your Meowmie loves you and misses you so much.
    I meant," said Ipslore bitterly, "what is there in this world that truly makes living worthwhile?"
    Death thought about it.
    CATS, he said eventually. CATS ARE NICE.

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  12. #27

    Unhappy

    I'm so very sorry for your loss of Squeak. She was a beautiful kitty. My Rocky & Jenny will play with her. They loved kitties. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers. (((hugs)))
    Krista- owned by Rudy, Dixie, Miagi & Angel

    Rocky, Jenny, Ginger Buster & Tiger .. forever loved & always in my heart..



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