Ok, so what do you do when you meet a guy on line, and he seems like a nice, NORMAL guy, and then slowly but surely, he becomes practically a stalker?? Seriously.
I start talking to this guy, he seems nice. I know he has health problems (he fell off a platform at work and was partially paralyzed, but now can walk better; he also just had surgery for perforated ulcer), and because of the health problems he hasn't been to work for 5 years. So, he's at home, recovering, learning to walk again, and doing all that stuff and living with his mom again. I have NO issue with that. I mean, how could I??? He's lucky he survived and that he's doing so well.
What I have an issue with is him calling me all the time, or constantly checking for me on my messenger screen name (I'm now invisible.. and I haven't done that for years!!!). He is just so clingy and so needy, it's driving me nuts. He leaves all these mushy messages on my Facebook profile, and it just makes me want to vomit. I'm not kidding!!! Maybe other women would like this, but he's giving me the creeps.
I'm supposed to meet him today for the first time. First off, I see BIG RED FLAGS all over the place about this. Secondly, I've been sick for 4 days now and I still don't feel good and don't want to be running to the bathroom while I'm there every 15 minutes. Third, I don't want to get them sick. Oh yeah, and his nieces will be there because they want to meet me. Umm... pressure much???
I'm freaking out at this point. It's 9:30 and I am supposed to go there at noon today, but I just don't see it happening. I want to just stay home and hide from him!
Any thoughts??
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