I now I should forgive and forgrt but I can't. I blam my self for everything evn my friends do.
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I now I should forgive and forgrt but I can't. I blam my self for everything evn my friends do.
People that blame you for everything are NOT friends.
But if you blame yourself for everything, then they will agree with you. Maybe they would have tried to cheer you up - but if you keep blaming yourself, then they will give up.
Dear Oliver, I don't know your or your background or where you are - but I am just wondering if you always blame yourself for stuff, and the death of your dear kitty made it worse.
There is low-cost counselling available...you might want to look into that. If you are under the age of majority, you might need your parents or guardians to help.
Life is too short to beat yourself up - it can be a great life. Blaming yourself does not make you a better cat owner - it just makes you a more unhappy human being - and you deserve better.
Go get it! :)
HUGS