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Alysser
02-08-2006, 04:53 PM
Most of you know about that girl who has been bugging us. Well, me,Jenna,and Or friend Yi were walking past her friends house. One of her friends(who is in sixth grade) came up to Jenna(I_luv_rusty) and pushed her and pulled her hair. Jenna kicked her for self defense. Molly(The a$$ who is bugging us all the time seprated them. Well, Molly then goes "YI! go back to China B****!" for no reason. We come back from BK and try ignoring them. The crowd around us saying "Leave courtneys cats alone." This courtney is another little loser who is a friend of Mollys. She is in fourth grade. Anyway, she said " DON'T pick up my cats." WE NEVER DID! The cat was following us. Also, if you let your cats roam outside then get used to people touching and petting them. I don't care what they say. I'm touching any cat I want when I want. Molly has already lost SEVEN friends to this fight and shes losing more soon. Also, Danielle(another girl) RANG MY DOORBELL LOOKING FOR ME! :mad: :mad:

buttercup132
02-08-2006, 05:10 PM
Wow what loosers I wish I was there they would have been dead :D
Cant you guys charge her for harassing you and for physical abuse?

Alysser
02-08-2006, 05:11 PM
I just got word Jennas mom is calling Mollys dad and we are going to guidence at school tommorow. No, we can't charge her. It's not that serious yet.

Jessika
02-08-2006, 05:13 PM
I just got word Jennas mom is calling Mollys dad and we are going to guidence at school tommorow. No, we can't charge her. It's not that serious yet.

Not only that, but you're all minors correct?

Anyway just remember, have patience while talking to the counselor and DO NOT loose your temper. Be calm, cool and collected and just explain the situation to them. Who knows? Maybe this is the resolution you've been looking for :)

Alysser
02-08-2006, 05:18 PM
Yes we are. Actually, teenagers but whatever. Thanks for the advice but somertimes I just can't help it. I'll clue you in on it tommorow. :D

king2005
02-08-2006, 05:31 PM
if the other girls start lying & yelling & blaming things on you, KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT!!

If the councler sees them freaking out they will know for sure they are bullies & will deal with them., so ONLY talk to the councler when spoken too & do NOT respond to the other girls.

Trust me on this one. This is how I got many bullies suspended & kicked out of school.

Kfamr
02-08-2006, 05:33 PM
Teenagers are minors. :p


This is axactly why I hate associating myself with a majority of the kids who went to my school. Immature petty things like this girl is doing, not to me, but to others. :p

Alysser
02-08-2006, 05:36 PM
Jennas mom is on the phone with her Dad! I am going to try and ignroe her but she is so annoying. We are going to the counsler and she WILL pay. I MEAN IT!

Jessika
02-08-2006, 05:39 PM
Jennas mom is on the phone with her Dad! I am going to try and ignroe her but she is so annoying. We are going to the counsler and she WILL pay. I MEAN IT!

RemembeR: DO NOT do something you will later regret. As previously advised (and GOOD advice, too) is KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT unless the counselor talks to you directly. DO NOT respond to anything the other girls say, don't get mad, don't shout, period!

Alysser
02-08-2006, 05:40 PM
I understand that already. But once this is settled she'll leave us alone.

Vela
02-08-2006, 05:58 PM
Well it sounds like a good idea, since the ignoring didn't work and it only escalated, involving the adults and proper authority figures, counselor's, etc., is the right way to go. Good luck and I hope it works out.

Alysser
02-08-2006, 06:00 PM
Thanks Vela!

Alysser
02-08-2006, 06:48 PM
Okay UPDATE PEOPLE! Jennas mom is STILL on the phone. I unblocked her for a minute and she said we are trying really hard to settle this fued. I was like okay and she has speaken to me since.

Miss Z
02-09-2006, 01:22 AM
I really hope you get this sorted out, pm me when you have more news;)

king2005
02-09-2006, 05:57 AM
Why are you talking to her?
Ignore her 100% !
I had pretty much NO school friends ever. I find they will only stab you in the back when they get the chance & they are NOT worth my time.

I have NO friends, only buddies. I don't see them often, sometimes its weeks, months or years that I'll see them next. I chat ONLY online with some of my buddies & never to hardly ever see them.

I pretty much just hang out with Rob (hubby) & Tom (bro-in-law, he lives with us)

jackie
02-09-2006, 09:05 AM
Why are you talking to her?
Ignore her 100% !
I had pretty much NO school friends ever. I find they will only stab you in the back when they get the chance & they are NOT worth my time.

I have NO friends, only buddies. I don't see them often, sometimes its weeks, months or years that I'll see them next. I chat ONLY online with some of my buddies & never to hardly ever see them.

I pretty much just hang out with Rob (hubby) & Tom (bro-in-law, he lives with us)

I agree with ignoring the bully, but saying that most ¨school friends¨will stab you in the back, and it is better to not have any friends is a very sad way to go through life. :(

Miss Z
02-09-2006, 12:46 PM
I agree with ignoring the bully, but saying that most ¨school friends¨will stab you in the back, and it is better to not have any friends is a very sad way to go through life. :(

Yeah, i feel sorry for you choosing to not have friends. My best mates Katherine (midget gem) and Victoria (cavylove) are brilliant and i would really be lost without them. There's nothing quite like special friends who understand you and will listen to you when you're down. I don't think i could live life without friends. If that's your choice, then that's fine, but i would find it very difficult.