carole
01-31-2006, 02:44 PM
Well as most of you know they have moved into my backyard and are purrfectly at home and content and happy, i have been in turmoil not knowing what to do and what will happen.
Finally i managed to see Dianne their owner and talk about it, she knew they were here and offered to come and get them, well that will do some good won't it NOT they will just come back, and yes she does still want them, so know i know what is what and it is beyond my control now,part of me is relieved because i really cannot afford two more kitties, but the other part of me is so incredibly upset, because i know the girls will leave eventually, she is talking of getting a house with fence, not for the kitties her grand-daughter ,with her daughter , which will benefit the girls too, but she goes away so much, and leaves them to fend for themselves, she leaves food but it only lasts so long, I feel mean as i have introduced the cats to a better life now , only to be taken away from them.
I started off with good intentions but i feel i made things worse in a way, they have shelter here as well, it is raining today, but hot and sticky and the girls are in their shelter hubby made for them, it is not flash and only a temporary thing, but they are warm and cosy and not getting wet.
Dianne never offered to give me any food and yet she knows i am feeding them,funny thing is she is actually quite a nice person in other ways, yes this is me saying that, she just does not get it with animals, she says she loves her cats but yet does not provide them with the best, she came over to see them and was actually kissing them all over, much to my suprise, hope it was not just for my benefit.
I ended up talking with her about other things on her life and she has a boyfriend who lives half the time in aussie and he was leaving today, she had tears in her eyes and i ended up giving her a hug.
I just wish i could really get through to her the importance of taking better care of the cats, she really does not even know i think that way, i have never been anything but friendly as can be and kind to her, but part of me wants to shake her and tell her off.
Yes i am in for heartache whatever aren't I? it is going to be a very bad day for me the day those two precious furbabies walk out of my life.,thinking about it now even chokes me up inside and makes me feel so low, I wish i was a harder person sometimes and would not get so emotionally attached, but that is the person i am I guess, soft as a marshmallow when it comes to kitties.
Thanks for listening .
Finally i managed to see Dianne their owner and talk about it, she knew they were here and offered to come and get them, well that will do some good won't it NOT they will just come back, and yes she does still want them, so know i know what is what and it is beyond my control now,part of me is relieved because i really cannot afford two more kitties, but the other part of me is so incredibly upset, because i know the girls will leave eventually, she is talking of getting a house with fence, not for the kitties her grand-daughter ,with her daughter , which will benefit the girls too, but she goes away so much, and leaves them to fend for themselves, she leaves food but it only lasts so long, I feel mean as i have introduced the cats to a better life now , only to be taken away from them.
I started off with good intentions but i feel i made things worse in a way, they have shelter here as well, it is raining today, but hot and sticky and the girls are in their shelter hubby made for them, it is not flash and only a temporary thing, but they are warm and cosy and not getting wet.
Dianne never offered to give me any food and yet she knows i am feeding them,funny thing is she is actually quite a nice person in other ways, yes this is me saying that, she just does not get it with animals, she says she loves her cats but yet does not provide them with the best, she came over to see them and was actually kissing them all over, much to my suprise, hope it was not just for my benefit.
I ended up talking with her about other things on her life and she has a boyfriend who lives half the time in aussie and he was leaving today, she had tears in her eyes and i ended up giving her a hug.
I just wish i could really get through to her the importance of taking better care of the cats, she really does not even know i think that way, i have never been anything but friendly as can be and kind to her, but part of me wants to shake her and tell her off.
Yes i am in for heartache whatever aren't I? it is going to be a very bad day for me the day those two precious furbabies walk out of my life.,thinking about it now even chokes me up inside and makes me feel so low, I wish i was a harder person sometimes and would not get so emotionally attached, but that is the person i am I guess, soft as a marshmallow when it comes to kitties.
Thanks for listening .