bckrazy
01-12-2006, 11:58 PM
arggg. Well, my Mom and my grandMother have just bought a really, really nice home. It's on at least 1 acre and it's in a quiet neighborhood with space between homes. BUT, now for the bad news, my grandma has convinced my Mom that Lola should go outside during the day! *wince*
Lola just got all of her shots updated (even though they aren't due for a couple of months... to be safe) and Frontline and such. And she's microchipped and has ID/rabies tags and a safety collar. But I just feel horribly guilty :(. My last cat was the most amazingly wonderful cat I've ever met, Stewey, and I raised him from 4 weeks because the Mom cat (my friends cat) abandoned him... and I used to let him outside for 1-2 hours every evening and he'd always come back. But one night he never came back. I've really never forgiven myself for that, and I would DIE if that happened to Lola. I somehow think she's more street-smart than Stew was, and the nieghborhood is far less close and busy, but I'm really worried.
The reason my grandma is convinced she craves the outdoors is because she's extremely clingy, must sleep with some one or she'll dig up the carpet trying to get under the door, eats constantly, and her favorite thing to do if she doesn't have food is to sit up on the couch and ravenously devour the hair of whoever is sitting there. Honestly. I attached a vid of it as proof. I think getting another cat for her would help, but my grandma and Mom are vehemently against that. Is there anything else I should know about outdoor cats, how to introduce her to the outdoors (she was actually picked up as a stray - so she's familiar with outside) and maybe what to do to calm her behaviors? She'll of course come inside if the weather isn't good and at night, but it still feels irresponsible to me. She has gotten out 2 times before and just layed by the door :).
Also... I'm sorry I never ever post here. I lurk all the time. I just don't get the time to post often, but I'd really appreciate any advice from people experienced with "outside" cats.
Lola just got all of her shots updated (even though they aren't due for a couple of months... to be safe) and Frontline and such. And she's microchipped and has ID/rabies tags and a safety collar. But I just feel horribly guilty :(. My last cat was the most amazingly wonderful cat I've ever met, Stewey, and I raised him from 4 weeks because the Mom cat (my friends cat) abandoned him... and I used to let him outside for 1-2 hours every evening and he'd always come back. But one night he never came back. I've really never forgiven myself for that, and I would DIE if that happened to Lola. I somehow think she's more street-smart than Stew was, and the nieghborhood is far less close and busy, but I'm really worried.
The reason my grandma is convinced she craves the outdoors is because she's extremely clingy, must sleep with some one or she'll dig up the carpet trying to get under the door, eats constantly, and her favorite thing to do if she doesn't have food is to sit up on the couch and ravenously devour the hair of whoever is sitting there. Honestly. I attached a vid of it as proof. I think getting another cat for her would help, but my grandma and Mom are vehemently against that. Is there anything else I should know about outdoor cats, how to introduce her to the outdoors (she was actually picked up as a stray - so she's familiar with outside) and maybe what to do to calm her behaviors? She'll of course come inside if the weather isn't good and at night, but it still feels irresponsible to me. She has gotten out 2 times before and just layed by the door :).
Also... I'm sorry I never ever post here. I lurk all the time. I just don't get the time to post often, but I'd really appreciate any advice from people experienced with "outside" cats.