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bckrazy
11-23-2005, 04:02 PM
:( I know, you guys are probably like, "who's Lily?". I usually don't do this, but Lily is my sister and her husband's new fawn/white English Bulldog puppy. You all might remember them giving away their Border Collie/Rottie/x, Mercedes, a few months ago. I did find a great home for her with a family that I'm friends with who have an ACD boy named Rex and 5 acres of property. She's happy now, in a much more active home with enough space to keep her entertained and another active dog. Well, a few weeks ago, Jason (my sisters husband) heard from a co-worker that their friend or relative (or something) in the bay area had a 12 week-old female Bulldog puppy that they needed to place in a home. This person is allegedly a "good breeder". He took work off one day and drove down to get the puppy (and paid $1800), without asking my sister -_-... my sister is already the ONLY caretaker of Bentley. Jason plays with him for 30 minutes when he gets home from work at night, but my sister brings him to Obedience every week, cleans up after him, feeds him, buys him everything, walks him, crate trained him, etc. Jason was the one who demanded they give Mercedes away because she was bored and destructive. My sister was upset that he got Lily behind her back, but the "good breeder" said they weren't able to keep another dog at that time when my sister called them.

Lily has been soooo sweet and healthy since they got her. She had a problem with bladder control, and she leaked for a while, but my sister was working on her training which helped. I only saw her twice and did not get any pics, so I didn't want to introduce her here until I got a few to post. She's really adorable, with a piebald face and she seemed to have great structure. Lily always acted very calm and subdued for a puppy, so my sister asked about that when they brought her in to the vet yesterday. They discovered that she has a SEVERE heart murmur. The vet wanted to euthanize her right then and there :(... but my sister refused and brought her to UC Davis vets, where she is right now. She has friends there, because she's going to UC Davis to become a nurse, and they're all doing the best they can to take care of Lily. It's been a very hard week for my sister... she and Jason seperated yesterday, also. We've been trying to call Lily's "breeder", with absolutely no luck. I'm pretty much convinced that they KNEW Lily had a bad heart murmur (after all, vet's do check that during the puppy's first vet check-up!) and sold her hoping that a new family would be too attached by the time they discovered the murmur. Please keep Melissa and Lily in your prayers. I'll try to get pics of Lily from her to post up, she's a wonderful little puppy and she deserves so much better! It kills me, because I talked to Jason, and the rest of my family, so many times about how horrible it is to support BYB's and mills and to take that risk on an unhealthy puppy. :(

caseysmom
11-23-2005, 04:07 PM
Erika I am so sorry you and your sister are going through this. Sorry but Jason sounds like a jerk! I am sure you will be pickier about a spouse someday :D The breeder sounds absolutly awful too. Hopefully they have no skin kids.

For everyone's info UC Davis is rated the best veterinary college in the nation, my daughter plans to go there.(after I rob a bank of couse :eek: )

.sarah
11-23-2005, 04:08 PM
Wait, who's Bentley? When you said that name I got lost ...

bckrazy
11-23-2005, 04:30 PM
Thanks, you guys. I really really hope Lily makes it, and I hope my sister takes both of the dogs because the only thing Jason cares about is himself. I'm going to the house this weekend to pick up the ferret boys, I don't think he's ever lifted a finger to care for them either.

Sarah... I'm sorry, I should have explained better. Bentley is their almost-2-year-old English Bulldog. I attached a picture of him, he's a very very sweet boy, he's healthy and from a great breeder. Lily is his little "sister", she's a fawn English Bulldog.

poofy
11-23-2005, 06:33 PM
the whole thing is really sad, for you sister n the pup and all..in my prayers of course..

k9krazee
11-23-2005, 06:51 PM
:( Hoping the best for little Lily, thats soo sad :( And if her "breeder" did know about it that is completly awful, she'll be in our thoughts...

dogzr#1
11-23-2005, 06:56 PM
That "breeder" is pretty awful to be selling a sick puppy. Prayers being sent for Melissa and Lily!:(

new mom to a veiled
11-23-2005, 07:41 PM
awww that is awful.....I will keep your sister and Lily in my prayers....Poor baby I hope she is able to get better :(

sammy101
11-23-2005, 07:44 PM
thats awful :( I'll be thinking of Lily and Melissa.

chocolatepuppy
11-23-2005, 08:06 PM
They discovered that she has a SEVERE heart murmur. The vet wanted to euthanize her right then and there ...

You have got to be kidding! :eek: Euthanize her? What kind of vet is that? :mad: My Mandy has a servere heart murmur (a 5-6 on a scale of 1-6) She is still with us at 4 1/2 years old. We were told she might not live a year by one specialist and pray for 3 years by OSU.
I will keep Lily and your sister in my thoughts and prayers.

bckrazy
11-23-2005, 11:40 PM
My sister just picked her up, and UC Davis said she should be euthanized, it will only get worse for Lily.

Apparently, she has had bad breathing problems, which Mel just assumed was the normal Bulldog heaviness of breath at first. They did x-rays and she has a hole in her heart, and a very low red blood cell count, and she has been losing weight. It's definitely congenital... so, not only did her breeder sell her knowing about the murmur, they also bred unhealthy dogs. :( I don't know what to say or do. I'm going over to see her tomorrow.

chocolatepuppy
11-24-2005, 06:07 AM
Oh, it does sound bad. :( I'm so sorry for your sister and for you. :( You both as will be in my thoughts and prayers, as well as Lily. :(

Pawsitive Thinking
11-24-2005, 06:12 AM
That is so sad :(

Pardon me for saying but Jason is a total idiot!! Hope he's learnt his lesson :mad:

chrissycat21
11-24-2005, 07:28 AM
Thats all so sad. :( I'll keep Lily and your sister in my thoughts.

k9krazee
11-24-2005, 08:12 AM
Oh no, thats not good news at all :( Your sister and Lily will be in our thoughts and prayers :(

4theloveofzoe
11-29-2005, 12:10 AM
sending {{prayers}}