Uppydate on Me

[NoahsMommy]

First, I need to thank you all for your continued support and prayers. Lately, I've been telling myself that while my life has been a rollarcoaster, God has indeed blessed me with the family I'd have chosen if given the chance. (((((hugs to you all)))))

Long story short, due to the financial implications of my illness, I'm being forced to discontinue my lease here. I'm going to be moving (with all five of my cats) to my great friend CiCi's house. My last day in my apartment is Sunday, October 30th. I'm upset, but need to remain positive, as I cannot make myself sick.

As a result, my mom is very angry. She'd rather have me "get rid of my cats" and move in with her. :( I'm sad she can't see what they mean to me...and that I'd never part with them like that.

I do, however have some fairly good news regarding my health. I went to see my specialist at Cedars on Thursday and he validated the pain I've been having for over 5 years. He thinks its a nerve ending issue. He said we could try a nerve blocker through the back...but he, nor I, were thrilled about that option. Instead, he's calling my GI and is sending me to a pain management specialist close to me. In the mean time, he's given me more than enough pain medicine that will hopefully keep me out of the ER/hospital.

I'm sad to see my independence go away, but with time, I'll be able to save enough $$ and move to my own place again. I'm so lucky...well, blessed, that I have friends like CiCi and you guys. I don't have any idea what I'd do without you all.

Anyway, just wanted to let you know what's been going on in my life.

Love, Kelly :)

P.S. I LOVE my job!! I trained all last week and tomorrow I'm shadowing the person who's job I'm taking (she got promoted to the ER). I'll be there at 6:30 a.m. to see how we open up...and watch her admit patients all day. I'm really looking forward to that.

[gini]

Sweet Kelly, you know you have my continued prayers.
Things WILLwork out...........just you wait and see!

[Ally Cat's Mommy]

Kelly, I am so glad you are managing to remain upbeat and positive, and the new job sounds wonderful.

I can understand why your Mum must be angry - I have had similar issues with mine in the past - and time heals these wounds - the main thing is that you don't stress yourself about it and make yourself ill over it!

Thank goodness you have a wonderful friend like Cici, who understands (as we do) how very important the furkids are to you!

The new pain management you are looking into sounds like another positive step too - hope it continues to work out well.

Sending you tons of prayers and positive thoughts!

(((HUGS)))

Julie

[Maya & Inka's mommy]

I'm so sorry that you have to leave your appartment, as you were so happy when you moved there. But, I just know it, you will find an even better place in the future! It just HAS TO be, you deserve it!
Good luck with your new job, Kelly, it sounds perfect for you!
((((((((((HUGS))))))))))

[jenluckenbach]

I am so sorry that you need to give up your appartment, but you have an AMAZING friend who is helping you AND your kitties. I only wish your parents could understand that pets are family memebers.

[catnapper]

Kelly, you are truly blessed, and I'm glad you are able to see that. Someday mom will come to understand what the cats mean to you - this move should have reflected that to her.

I am so glad they might have a proper diagnosis for you. What does a pain management specialist do? Teach you ways to mentally deal with the pain? Teach you ways to move when the pain comes? I find this very intriguing since I never heard of one before! It sounds like a god-send for people like you.

[Daisy and Delilah]

Kelly, don't ever forget we're all behind you here and you know how much we all love you. Someday soon we'll see you regain your independence but in the meantime, God Bless CiCi. What a doll she is. Please give her a giant PT hug!! She will not go unrewarded in this life for being so kind. I'm ecstatic that things are beginning to look up for you. Now you can stay with your babies and share the warm, wonderful, companionship of a dear friend. Your life is going to get better all the way around sweetie!!! I'm thrilled about your job too. You go girl!!! Brighter days are ahead!!! As I always tell you, you deserve the very best that life has to offer. You will always rise above the negativity that surrounds us and you will excel at everything. Keep the faith and don't ever forget that we're here for you. You'll never be alone :)

[Craftlady]

Best of luck to you Kelly.
I hope this new doctor can help you. The pain management specialist can really do wonders because they use so many other resources than what a typical doctor.

[luvofallhorses]

Kelly,

I am so sorry that you have to move out of your apartment, but you're right you are so blessed to have a friend like CiCi who is willing to help you and your kitties. :) Just remember we are all here for you. :) ((((HUGS))))

Love,

Krista & the fuzz butts :)

[Christiansmommy]

Glad to know things are looking up for you...in that you have a place to go, so that your kitties can stay with you. I am sure during your times of discomfort and pain they have been a stronghold for you...how on earth could you give them up?!! At least your mom will maybe see how much they really do mean to you afterall. I will continue to keep you in my prayers, Kelly. I even thought of you as I sat in church yesterday and the pastor talked about how people go thru such struggles and we often ask God, why? And the hardest part of being a Christian is knowing that in His perfect time and in His perfect way, our prayers will be answered, and that it is something out of our control, and we just have to wait on Him...it can be a long hard road, but He will never leave us...I know it is easier said than done. I know you are struggling with things right now, and it looks like you are going to be just fine...(((HUGS)) across the miles and keep looking up :)

Robyn

[slick]

Hey Sis, was great talking to you on the phone last night and to get your good news in purrson. As Gini says, things will work out......you know that I'm there for you...... ;)

[shais_mom]

I am so happy this is working out for the best. Miracles at work for sure!
:)
you are not losing your independence - Just working on making your life BETTER!

[tatsxxx11]

What an encouraging update, Kelly! I'm sorry to hear you have to give up your apt., but I whole heartedly agree, keeping your beloved kitties is a top priority! The comfort, support and love they provide is priceless. I know I would have made the same decision. And hopefully the pain management specialist will help to not only ease your pain, but help to get you on the road to complete independence as well, very soon! What a brave young woman you are! Sending you my love and keeping you in my prayers!:)

Sandra

[Logan]

I think, perhaps, that your mom, like many, is a bit "shortsighted" when it comes to your wellbeing. She isn't a pet lover and simply can't imagine the additional stress you would endure if you had to try and find loving homes for all of those kitties, Kelly. But we DO understand, and thank goodness for your good friend, Cici!

I'm also so happy that your job looks promising and that you are feeling well enough to endure the training!!!!! :)

As much as you will miss your apartment, things are looking up for you, my friend!!!!! :D :D :D

I'm so happy for you.

Logan

[wolflady]

I think, perhaps, that your mom, like many, is a bit "shortsighted" when it comes to your wellbeing. She isn't a pet lover and simply can't imagine the additional stress you would endure if you had to try and find loving homes for all of those kitties, Kelly. But we DO understand, and thank goodness for your good friend, Cici!

I'm also so happy that your job looks promising and that you are feeling well enough to endure the training!!!!! :)

As much as you will miss your apartment, things are looking up for you, my friend!!!!! :D :D :D

I'm so happy for you.

Logan

Well said Logan! I agree. Non pet lovers just can't understand or fathom the feelings we have for our furry family members. I truly believe that Kelly needs her kitties to help with her healing process and in developing her new life.
Kelly, I'm just so glad that CiCi is able to let you stay with her until you get back on your feet. What a blessing that is! I know that your mom's place would not be a good environment for you to be, and I'm sad that she just can't understand your commitment to your kitties. It just shows what a loving, caring and responsible meowmie that you are. You are a wonderful and sweet person, honey! :D
I'm also so happy that you're enjoying your job! That's even better! Once you get into the swing of things, it will hopefully keep your mind occupied from being sick.

**hugs**

[NoahsMommy]

I even thought of you as I sat in church yesterday and the pastor talked about how people go thru such struggles and we often ask God, why? And the hardest part of being a Christian is knowing that in His perfect time and in His perfect way, our prayers will be answered, and that it is something out of our control, and we just have to wait on Him...it can be a long hard road, but He will never leave us...I know it is easier said than done.
Robyn, I'm FINALLY in a place where I can say with my whole heart (and tears instantly come to my eyes) that you can't look for what YOU want to happen....what we not is usually not in God's plan. Its been a truly hard time with my faith, but because of everyone's prayers and my encouragement from friends, I've come to see that CiCi and my job...even this new doctor...ARE THE ANSWER to my prayers.

That, and the well being of my furkids, is my number one priority.

There's no way I'd ever be without them. I'd rather live in my car.

Unfortunatly, mom and I are going through some stuff, and I think this is from God as well. While its not pleasant, its a LONG time coming.

Anyway, I had my first day actually registering patients for tests and surgery today and I really enjoyed it! My superviser even told me that she enjoys having me around and is happy I'm working there. :) Yay!!

OK, off to play with my furballs! LOVE those critters! :)

Thanks again for the support guys...there's no way I'd be were I am without you all.

Love ya,
Kelly :)

[chocolatepuppy]

I'm sorry you have to leave your apartment Kelly. :( Thank goodness your good friend is willing to let you stay and keep your babies! I wish you good luck with your new job and I'm sure things will work out with your mom. :)

[prechrswife]

I'm so glad things are moving in the right direction. :)

[PJ's Mom]

I'm not sure whether to say I'm sorry or congratulations. ;) You have the beaufiul ability to turn something dark into something bright and positive. I envy you for that and wish you nothing but the best. :)

[ramanth]

Sorry you can't stay in your apartment Kelly, but it sure does sound like things are going to be okay. :)

*hugs*

[krazyaboutkatz]

Kelly, I'm a little late :o but I'm so sorry to hear that you're going to be loosing your apartment but so glad that you have such a wonderful friend that is willing to take you in until you can get back on your feet. :) I'm also very glad to hear that you finally know what's causing your pain and hopefully the medicine will help this too. I wish you nothing but good luck and happiness in your future. :) Please take care.(((HUGS)))

[moosmom]

Kelly,

It amazes me how people can be so ignorant when it comes to people's pets. My brother was the was the same way. I told him (this was before Mark offered his apartment) Sue would only let me bring MooShoo (cuz he doesn't shed) and he got furious saying I need to worry about myself and not the "damn" cats. I love my brother dearly, but THAT really pissed me off.
My kits are my babies and have been there for me no matter what.

Like I said in my cellphone message, I'm so glad you've got a good friend in Cici. As far as your mother is concerned, the whole thing with the cats is HER issue, not yours. You've found alternative housing that includes your cats and that is all that matters. Please try not to let your Mom's negative attitude towards your furbabies upset you (I know, so easy to say but difficult to do). The last thing you need to do is get any sicker because of her issue. You need to take care of yourself.

Hang in there honey!! We're both in the same boat and have been through much. But somehow things seem to turn around when you least expect it.

Love you!!

xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Donna

[Sonia59]

Kelly, I' m sorry I missed the post and saw it only today!

The only thing I can say is that I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST FOR YOU AND YOUR FURBABIES!!!!!!

I feel sad for what happens to you and your mother :( . But I know things will get better and better! Keep on being positive, your job will help for sure! :)

Hugs,
Sonia

[carole]

Onwards and upwards eh Kelly? you sure have had your challenges of late, and I am very happy to hear about the new job, but in the same breath so sorry about the apartment, just see it as a stepping stone, in time you will have your independence back, thank goodness for your kind friend, I am sad your mother does not understand the love you have for your pets, but at the same time I guess five kitties is a big ask,especially in her new expensive home.

You will be much happier at your friends, because she has welcomed you and your kitties with open arms, so for now that is the best place on offer and I am sure you will do much better there than if your mother gave in and reluctantly said yes, that would probably cause you untold stress, which you my dear do not need right now.

Good luck with everything sweetie and know we are always here to lend and ear and a shoulder to cry on okey Dokey. :)

[NoahsMommy]

Awww, thanks guys! :)

Yes, CiCi is wonderful for having me....she is indeed an angel to me.

My mom and I are having more issues at the moment. Should be interesting to see if she ever comes around. :( But, like you all said, these are her issues not mine.

Work is going well so far. I really like what I do and the patients I'm meeting. Yay! :)

[RICHARD]

sometimes life sucks for about 5 minutes.

remember the other 23 hours and 55 minutes-THAT'S where you five minutes don't mean squat.

[Felicia's Mom]

I wish you the best of luck. My brother-in-law is like your mother.

[just me]

So glad to hear all is working out for you. :D
I just want to send Best wishes to you.
And CICI you are indeed an ANGEL.

[CalliesMom]

I am so sorry you are having problems with your mother. It is always hard for non-pet lovers to understand where we are coming from but like you, I would rather live in my car than give them up. She may never accept your decision, but she will always love you. That's what family is for--being pain in the butts but loving us/them regardless.

[finn's mom]

Wow, Kelly, it really sounds like things are going in the right direction for you. You sound so level-headed, and, ready. I'm sorry that your mom is having such a rough time, but, I think you are handling it the best possible way. I'm so glad for you that you have someone like CiCi in your life to help you through this. And, thrilled to my fingertips that you get to keep your cats! That's awesome, too, that you are enjoying your job!

[Karen]

Things sound like they're really turning in the right direction. I'm sure your mom wishes you'd be back home where she could take care of you, some mothers have an easier time than others with the whole child-becoming-independent-adult thing. And moving in with CiCi - did you tell this makes her pretty much a Pet Talk family member - does she know what she's getting herself in to? - isn;t you losing your independence, it is you making a positive step to ensure your continued independence. And CiCi has the gratitude of all of Pet Talk, and will, as a bonus, have the oh-so-fashion-necessary cat hairs added to her home as well! :) Good for you.