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beeniesmom
09-16-2005, 04:11 AM
My grampa died yesterday. I was only told last night from a relative. I am sad because he died and upset because I wasn't told sooner. He had cancer.... We knew it was coming but didn't expect it to be so soon.

Pawsitive Thinking
09-16-2005, 04:21 AM
Carmen, I am so sorry to hear the sad news about your Grampa. Try to remember the good times - lots of love xx

crsvstang
09-16-2005, 05:34 AM
I'm so sorry about your grampa:(

finn's mom
09-16-2005, 05:46 AM
Carmen, that is doubly sad. I didn't find out about my great grandma until about a month after she passed (this happened when I was a child, but, it still hurt). I'm sorry to hear that he lost his fight and that you weren't told sooner.

Ginger's Mom
09-16-2005, 05:51 AM
I am very sorry for your loss.

Maya & Inka's mommy
09-16-2005, 06:25 AM
I feel so sorry for you Carmen!! Sometimes adults don't tell their kid everything, just because they don't want them to be sad. But, it is wrong. We always tell our kids everything. It is hard for them sometimes, but it is always easier to cope with things then.. .
Don't be mad at your family, they did what they thought that was best for you :)
http://users.pandora.be/bernardgabriels/images/smilies%20973%20Huge_hug.gif for you!!

petslover
09-16-2005, 07:02 AM
I am sorry for your family's loss. Prayers will be headed your way.

JenBKR
09-16-2005, 07:22 AM
I am so sorry for your loss

Jadapit
09-16-2005, 07:28 AM
I'm so sorry Carmen! My thoughts are with you. (((((Hugs))))))

trayi52
09-16-2005, 08:29 AM
I am so sorry for your loss, Carmen.:( Prayers are on the way for you and your family.

Willie:(

Daisy and Delilah
09-16-2005, 08:43 AM
OMG Carmen! So sorry to hear this news this morning. We're sending thoughts and prayers to you right away.:(

new mom to a veiled
09-16-2005, 08:46 AM
Carmen:

((((((((HUGS))))))))

furrykidsmother
09-16-2005, 08:47 AM
I am sorry to hear that. May he rest in peace.

catnapper
09-16-2005, 09:09 AM
I'm so sorry. The death of a grandparent is never easy. And to have heard it second hand like that must make the news even more devastating. (((HUGS)))

Queen of Poop
09-16-2005, 09:28 AM
Very sorry for your loss.

Karen
09-16-2005, 09:32 AM
I am sorry for your loss - even an expected death is a time for grief and mourning. Consider yourself blessed that you has a gradparent when you were an adult. I was 13 when my last remaining grandparent died.

Laura's Babies
09-16-2005, 09:54 AM
Grandparents are so special! I am sorry for your loss. I promise you will never forget him and he will always be a thought away and forever in your heart.

gemini9961
09-16-2005, 10:33 AM
Carmen I am so sorry for your loss.

lizbud
09-16-2005, 10:40 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss.:(

Lobodeb
09-16-2005, 10:47 AM
Carmen, I am very sorry to hear this. It's never easy losing someone you love whether they're sick or not.

Hugs to you and your family.

Logan
09-16-2005, 10:55 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. :( My last grandparent left me about 5 years ago. :( The others were gone long before.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Carmen.

Logan

Jamieejo85
09-16-2005, 10:57 AM
Carmen I am very sorry for your loss. I know how you feel. My grandfather passed away a week and a half ago and it feels like it just happened today. He and I were very close. If you ever need to talk or anything, feel free to PM me. You and your family will be in my prayers.:)

Buddy Blaze Lover
09-16-2005, 11:01 AM
Oh, I'm so sorry about your grandpa!:( That's just awful...I know my grandparents aren't far from death, and I just know when they pass on, that it's going to crush me! I just try to not take them for granted and love them constantly!

luvofallhorses
09-16-2005, 12:38 PM
I am so sorry. :( (((HUGS))) my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.

beeniesmom
09-16-2005, 02:01 PM
Thank you to everyone here.

It's difficult for me because he lived with us for over 15 years.
I thought he'd make it til December (my visit to Italy) so I could have said my goodbye. We all knew it was going to happen but not so soon.
I guess we were prepared but not at the same time.
I'm worried about my mom.
I spoke to her this morning and she almost seemed cheery. I know it was all a face.... so that we wouldn't cry on the phone.
I just wish I was there for her.

sigh... :(

slick
09-16-2005, 02:31 PM
My condolances to you and your family. :(

Lobodeb
09-16-2005, 02:37 PM
Carmen, no matter how much notice you have, you are never prepared. My grandfather was ill for a year and a half before he finally passed. We knew it was coming, but it still hurt when he left us.

Do what you can to reach out to your mom. She needs you as much as you need her. Just be there for each other as we are here for you.

Lexi_Lover
09-16-2005, 03:12 PM
I'm so sorry Carmen! :( I never saw this sooner...(((((HUGS))))) to you and your family, as well as my condolences! Sorry for your loss, he sounded like a wonderful man...

Paula

KYS
09-16-2005, 04:13 PM
[I am very sorry to hear about your grandfather.
(((HUGS))))

NoahsMommy
09-16-2005, 11:02 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss, sweetie. :(