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Cookiebaker
06-04-2005, 09:50 AM
I'm really sad today. :(

Thursday night, I picked Marigold up and noticed a very obnoxious smell and her ear was filled with goop. I called the vet yesterday (Friday morning), and the earliest they could see her was first thing this morning (Saturday). I just got back and she is going in for surgery this afternoon. She has an infected abscess so they are going in to clean it up and put a drain in. At the same time, they are going to scale her teeth.

She will hopefully be home very late tonight, or mid-day tomorrow. We will need to clean it out and pill her everyday.

Please pray that my baby will be OK. I was very emotional when I had to leave her. She looked so trusting at me, and I violated her trust by leaving her there. :(

lizbud
06-04-2005, 10:07 AM
Oh poor baby Marigold.:( It must be very painful for her. I hope
the surgery goes well & she gets well quickly.

catnapper
06-04-2005, 10:11 AM
{{{HUGS}}}} She will be just fine. She might not like the cleaning and pilling, but she'll know it needs to be done.

chocolatepuppy
06-04-2005, 10:12 AM
Marigold will be in my prayers. Leaving one of your babies at the vet is so hard! :( She will realize you didn't desert her when she is home and all better.

dukedogsmom
06-04-2005, 10:27 AM
Poor Marigold. I hope she'll be alright. Give her some loving from all of us at PT.

Maya & Inka's mommy
06-04-2005, 10:38 AM
Poor Marigold, she is such a beautiful calico girl!!
She is in my prayers!!

RedHedd
06-04-2005, 10:43 AM
Prayers going out your way that Marigold comes through the procedure feeling much better!

catcrazylady
06-04-2005, 10:44 AM
Oh poor Marigold! Prayers on the way that she will get well quickly. It's so hard to leave them isn't it? They look at you like they just can't believe you aren't taking them home with you. That is the saddest and hardest part for me too. You know you have to do what is best for them but it hurts like the dickens when you look into those eyes.:( :( :(
The good thing is she will be home soon and she will feel better. That had to hurt having an abcess in the ear. They hide pain so well.
Hang in there meowmie and keep us updated.

kittycats_delight
06-04-2005, 11:05 AM
lots and lots of positive thoughts and get well vibes coming yours and Marigold's way that her surgery goes well and that she will heal very quickly. Everything will be fine. All fingers, paws and whiskers crossed here. {{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}} Michelle

orangemm
06-04-2005, 12:16 PM
Lots of prayers & good thoughts for Marigold! It's awful when you have to leave them at the vet's and there is no way to explain it to them.

Keep us posted as to her recovery!

catmandu
06-04-2005, 12:29 PM
KARINA ANGEL,WILL STAY,WITH MARIGOLD,UNTIL SHE,IS HOME,SAFE AND SOUND,AND ALL MARIGOLDS FRIENDS,AT THE FOUND CAT HOTEL,ARE PRAYING,FOR HER RECOVERY.

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v621/catmandu/catphotos461.jpg


GET WELL SOON,MARIGOLD.

Logan
06-04-2005, 01:19 PM
Anna, I hope that everything goes smoothly. Marigold will be so happy to see you. She will be in our prayers.

Logan

Randi
06-04-2005, 01:32 PM
Oh poor Marigold. :( I hope it goes well and she'll be feeling better very soon! Did you get some painkillers for her until she goes in?

Give her gentle kisses and scritchies from me - Fister sends headbumpies.

Craftlady
06-04-2005, 01:34 PM
I will keep good thoughts for a speedy recovery :)

krazyaboutkatz
06-04-2005, 01:57 PM
Poor Marigold.:( I hope the surgery goes well and that she makes a quick recovery. Lots of prayers and positive thoughts are being sent your way.

Glacier
06-04-2005, 02:28 PM
Sending lots of healing thoughts to Marigold.

luvofallhorses
06-04-2005, 02:31 PM
Marigold will be in my thoughts and prayers.

furrykidsmother
06-04-2005, 04:59 PM
I know know how you feel. I had to leave Gidget for an emergency hysterectomy and the look she gave me I will never forget, but you have to do what you have to do. Marigold will understand and forgive. They can't make decisions for themselves so we have to. Prayers and Hugs to both of you.

slick
06-04-2005, 05:11 PM
Oh how awful. I know how stressful it is when our babies are sick. All fingers and paws crossed here that things go well and sweet Marigold will be home soon.

K9soul
06-04-2005, 05:37 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about Marigold. She'll definitely be in my prayers.

NoahsMommy
06-04-2005, 06:31 PM
Poor Marigold...poor YOU! Its so hard when our furballs are sick...we worry so much and just want them happy and well.

Please give her some kisses for me when she returns home.

Hugs,
Kelly :)

Vermontcat
06-04-2005, 07:30 PM
Oh Anna, I'm so sorry to hear that sweet Marigold had to go to the vets.:(
Please keep us updated, I hope she's feeling better real soon.
Hugs to you and especially to Marigold when you pick her up at the vets.

Cookiebaker
06-04-2005, 08:21 PM
I just got an uppiedate from the kind Doctor (yes, at 9:15 pm) and there is no update. :( She is on pain meds, antibiotics and the procedure is scheduled for tomorrow morning. She said that she is very affectionate and loving!! So that made me smile.

Meanwhile, I miss my Goldy kitty. Thank you sooo much for the well wishes and prayers. I appreciate every single one of them!!

shais_mom
06-04-2005, 11:26 PM
poor sweets

what was the abscess from?

Cookiebaker
06-05-2005, 12:56 PM
There's some bad news, and some good news! The good news is that Marigold came through the surgery just fine, and I will be picking her up at 6 pm tonight! The bad news is that there were actually two pockets of infection, but she only put one drain in.

Shais Mom, we aren't really sure what they are from. The vet suggested that she might have gotten injured several weeks or months ago, and the infection has been slowly brewing. She certainly has seemed fine -- playful, cuddly, eating, pooping and nothing appeared wrong from the exterior. I feel really guilty for not noticing, but I never suspected anything.

Anyway, I can't wait for her to come home, but I'm a bit nervous about keeping her still and comfortable until she heals.

NoahsMommy
06-05-2005, 01:17 PM
Oh no! Two owies? Poor girl. Glad surgery is over now and she's now on her way to recovery.

Don't feel bad about not noticing...cats are experts at hiding stuff like that, its in their nature.

Give her kisses when she comes home for me.

Hugs,
Kelly :)

Vio&Juni
06-05-2005, 01:55 PM
Poor golden kitty, I hope she'll get better soon.

Kirsten
06-05-2005, 02:04 PM
Poor sweet Marigold! I'm so sorry to hear you are ill!

I'm glad the surgery is behind you already, and I hope you will feel much better soon!

Get well soon!

Kirsten

Barbara
06-05-2005, 02:05 PM
You know that with cats you should never feel sorry for not noticing... They are specialists in hiding....

I hope that Marigold will be better soon- and her trust will come back in no time- she knows in her little kitty heart you wouldn't take her to the bet if it wasn't for her best:)

krazyaboutkatz
06-05-2005, 04:40 PM
I'm so glad to hear that Marigold's surgery well and that you'll be able to bring her home tonight.:) I'm sorry that she has two owies but I'm sure that she'll recover quickly and be just fine. Get well soon Marigold.:)

If she has to remain still then you might want to consider buying a dog crate. This is what I bought for Storm after his surgery and it helped him a lot. Take care.:)

Cookiebaker
06-05-2005, 07:38 PM
Wow, this is HARD!! :( I picked her up a couple of hours ago, and we are home now, and pilled and cleansed for the night. It took the two of us to get the job done, and I have NO idea what I am going to do for the rest of the week since Mark leaves for Memphis at 5 tomorrow morning.

It is totally heartbreaking to see her. She has an E-collar on and so uncomfortable. Please tell me that she will get used to it soon, and quit fighting against it. I want to hold her so bad, but she just struggles against me. So I put her back in the crate.

Yes, KAK, we have a medium sized dog kennel from when Malone was a pup that I have her in now. There is enough room for a small litter pan, her food & water, and a couple of towels to sleep on.

Thank you again for your good thoughts and prayers.

ps I got a pill popper thing to make pilling for her easier, or so I thought. Everytime I put the pill in, it pops out instantly and automatically and there is no getting it to her mouth. :confused: Am I doing something wrong? Is there a technique that I'm missing? We ended up not using it, and she nearly bit Mark. :eek:

Cookiebaker
06-05-2005, 07:40 PM
PS all the virtual cuddles and kisses will wait until tomorrow -- maybe she will feel like receiving them then! ;)

NoahsMommy
06-05-2005, 07:47 PM
Oh honey, I feel your pain. It is SO HARD to pill a cat, especially one that is your "heart kitty". ((Hugs))

It wont get easier, I'm afraid. Now that she knows that that pill popper is for, she'll know what to do to get the pill out. Can you crush her pills into food? Did your vet offer Pill Pockets? http://www.pillpockets.com/index_fs.htm (these work when I have to pill Micah)

Um...let see. The most effective way is quickly and as sternly as possible. I know its hard...I know...I've felt bad more days than not when my furballs are ill...but its for the good of Marigold that she gets her meds.

I put the cat(s) between my legs and kneal on the floor. Cross your feet so they can't get out. Hold their body/head with one arm, the pill with your other. Stick your finger into the side of their mouth and throw the pill in AS FAR as you can. Clamp the mouth shut and blow gently on their nose...while stroking their throat. Don't let go until the pill is gone.

I wish you lots of luck, honey. Pilling cats has to be the worst job ever!!

((((LOTS OF HUGS))))))

NoahsMommy
06-05-2005, 07:49 PM
OH! I open their head with one hand...place it over the back of their head, placing your fingers along the jawline on each side. That makes it harder for them to move their head.

This is how most vets and techs handle cats...so its safe, I promise.

Cookiebaker
06-05-2005, 09:47 PM
Noah's Mommy, thank you so much for the tips! :) I'm sure that they will come in handy, and I'll let you know how it goes.

I'm just checking in for the last time tonight. Marigold seems to have settled down now, and not meowing anymore so I think she's sleeping.

She did calm down and let me pet her and we snuggled for quite a while. I was so happy I cried. :o

I taught her how to eat and she got the hang of it pretty quickly. I'll attach a quick video that I shot of her learning to eat and drink. :) I hope it works for you.

I'll report in more tomorrow!! In the meantime I'm exhausted!

Cinder & Smoke
06-05-2005, 11:57 PM
Firstly ~
NO Self-Respektin KAT will "knowlingly" consume Medications -
when "hidden" in treats or food -
no matter HOW *tastey* the treat or food may be! :p

Here's Dad's Oft-Repeated "How to Pill da Kat" article >>

Here's a good article on How to PILL da Kat ~
with minimal loss of blood...

How to PILL the Kat article (http://www.hsus2.org/international/library/eng_ht_pill_cat.html)

And we'll repeat *our* method ~
Get youselves a Pill Shooter!

They are *cheap* - less than $5.00 US;
should be availabe in any Pet Store - US and elsewhere:
cause little *stress* to either Kitty OR the Human;
almost Guarantee a successful *pilling* on the first *shot* :p

Here's a poor picture of ours - all soft plastic and made by
"Four Paws".

Pix - "Four Paws Pill Dispenser" (http://www.petdiscounters.com/dog/health/nutritional/fp_pill_dispenser.html)

Dad *loves* it; Boots tolerates it;
and there hasn't been a lost or spit-out pill in years! :cool:

Y'all really Otta Get One!!

WHERE to get a Pill Shooter?
Almost ALL Pet Shops sell them...
Usually less than $5.00 gets you a reasonably good Plastic one.

Your VET may have a loaner; but you might as well buy your own.
And you do NOT need a fancy Chrome-Plated "Vet model" your Vet
may offer to :eek: SELL you!
The Pet Shop "cheepie" works just as well!

To get meds on-board over the weekend - if the
"Using your Fingers" method in the article above doesn't work ~

Get a STRAW - plain ole Drinking Straw - semi-large diameter
(thick milk-shake size)...

Insert pill in one end...
Take deep breath and secure Kat...
Insert Opposite end in your mouth...

Open Kat's mouth with methods from above articles...
Insert KAT End of straw over Kat tongue at back of throat...

*BLOW* through YOUR end of straw -
NOTE! Important! **BLOW** (Do NOT *:eek: *suck*!!)

"Verify" Pill came OUT (in KAT) -
before re-inserting straw in your milk-shake!

/s/ Phred :D

(Above is a "Reprint" from a previous post.)

Cinder & Smoke
06-06-2005, 12:44 AM
Originally posted by Cookiebaker

I got a pill popper thing to make pilling for her easier,
or so I thought.

Everytime I put the pill in, it pops out instantly and automatically
and there is no getting it to her mouth. :confused:

Am I doing something wrong?
Is there a technique that I'm missing?
We ended up not using it, and she nearly bit Mark. :eek:

:confused:

"Everytime I put the pill in, it pops out instantly and automatically"

Two things come to mind ...

1) IF you have a Super-Deluxe Vet model -
SOME of them have a spring-loaded plunger that actually "shoots"
the pill AFTER you pull the trigger ...

IF this is what you have - "practice" with a piece of kibble till you
figure out HOW the silly thing works ...
You don't really even need da Kat - if you're getting an ""early release" -
you can practice at the kitchen table withOUT da Kat!

2) Or is the PILL itself super-small -
SO Small that it just "falls out the end" before
you can get it in Kitty's mouth?

IF THAT's what's happening - try this fix ...

a) Insert PILL into Shooter with plunger pulled way back...
b) Use a piece of Scotch Tape to wrap around the slotted END
. . of the pill shooter to close up the slotted end ...
c) It will require some additional "Force" on the plunger to
. . "break" the tape seal ...
. . bit a SINGLE Layer wrap of Scotch tape should break fairly easily.

Now if what you meant by "Everytime I put the pill in,
it pops out instantly"
Was that it "pops out" of da KAT's MOUTH ...

That's an easy fix ... you're just not "inserting" the pill popper FAR Enough
into Kitty's mouth!

When you open their jaws with your Thumb & Index Finger in opposite
corners of the back of their mouth ...
The Jaw pops open without much fuss...
But the darn TONGUE falls back and "plugs up" the throat ...
not to mention the front end of the tongue starts Flappin Up & Down
to further block things up ...

You need to use the Pill Shooter just like the Doc uses a "wooden tongue
depresser" on a lil kid ...
GENTLY push down on that flappin tongue and SLIDE the
pill shooter back and over the tongue ...
Done properly, you'll think the end of the pill shooter will be
appearing under the TAIL of da Kat :eek: ...
Not quite THAT far ... but you probably won't be able to "see" the
end of the pill shooter once you get it in FAR enough that Kitty
won't be able to block the pill with her tongue!

Lastly -
don't "practice" with the "Real Pill" ...
use small pieces of Kibble/Krunchies or treets ...
If you miss or Kitty *spits* one out - no problemo -
somebody will find it and eat it later!

Happie Pill "Poppin"!!

/s/ Phred ;)

Pawsitive Thinking
06-06-2005, 06:53 AM
try an empty biro case - put one end in kitty's mouth, insert pill and BLOW! Hope she is on the mend

anna_66
06-06-2005, 07:25 AM
Anna I'm just seeing this:o

I'm so sorry to hear about Marigold and hope she's doing much better. Pilling dogs is bad enough, I can't even imagine trying to do it to a cat:eek:
She looks so sad in her new collar, I hope she doesn't have to have it on for long.

Skitches to Marigold (when she feels better of course!).

Randi
06-06-2005, 08:02 AM
Oh poor Marigold having to wear that collar. :( I hope you'll succeed getting the pills down her troat - one way or the other.

I had big problems giving Fister pills to begin with, but now it's pretty easy. :) I did it more or less the way Kelly suggested, I was "sneaking" up from behind while he sat relaxed, looking out of the window. Then put both my arms tight around him while leaning my chest on him. I opened the side of his mouth with my left finger - making sure to get it all the way to the back of his teeth, then he can't really bite. ;) Then popping the pill in with my right hand and keep his mouth closed, while stroking him on the throat. It has to be done in a relaxed way not forcing him too much.

Ok, he has been known to spit the pill out a few times, but eventually, it goes down. :)

Those pill poppers, I've never tried - wouldn't it be nice if you could put some water in as well, that would probably make them swallow immediately.

Best of luck!

lv4dogs
06-06-2005, 09:48 AM
I'm glad to hear that the surgery went well. I hope she starts cooperating with you so she can get better.

Logan
06-06-2005, 10:38 AM
Anna, this is my first chance to catch up in a couple of days. First of all, I'm glad your swwet girl is home I have no advice for the pilling stuff, though, because I have had no success with Mimi or Butter in administering pills or liquid meds. If the pill is small enough, perhaps it could be hidden in a bite of wet food. Otherwise, I just don't know.

Keep us posted on your sweet girl. I hope she will be just fine!

Logan

smokey the elder
06-06-2005, 10:45 AM
Poor Marigold. I hope she gets well soon. E-collars and pills are a drag, but you need them, little kitty!

momcat
06-06-2005, 11:14 AM
Prayers are most definitely being prayed for Marigold. Poor kitty, hope she feels better very soon. You didn't betray her trust, you did the right thing, you did what any responsible, loving, caring pet owner would do. You got her the medical care she needs to resolve a problem that could possibly get worse. How is your little girl doing now? Please keep us updated?