catnapper
04-24-2005, 06:08 PM
I mentioned the other day about my son being written up in the paper. My husband doesn't have much of a relationship with his sisters--- long story there, but essentially we don't talk anymore. Today she sent her oldest nephew (hubby's other sister's son) over with a letter. The letter basically said that she's disappointed in Tony for not talking about his grandmom in the article, because SHE got Tony into running track (the article was on his track running & school success despite adversity), and she took on the role of mother after hubby divorced his first wife. The letter escalated from there, basically telling Tony that he lied in the article. That she is just disapointed in him on so many levels, yadda yadda yadda.
I am LIVID! First off, Tony DID talk about his grandmom to the writer - its not HIS fault the reporter never mentioned her in the article! Second, how DARE she! She can pick up the phone and tell him her feelings. She can deliver the letter in person... not send his cousin to deliver the note! Thirdly, this is not the first time she's treated him like this. Once her husband used Tony as a decoy to have an affair. Tony told us and we told her. She accused Tony of lying for attention and ruining her marriage. Only after she caught her husband in the arms of this other lady did she believe him... did she ever appologize???? noooo. She plays power plays all the time.
How do we respond? Tony left a message for her. She has not answered his call or returned the message. I am ready to get in the car and knock her door down (though that won't solve anything and I know it.)
I am LIVID! First off, Tony DID talk about his grandmom to the writer - its not HIS fault the reporter never mentioned her in the article! Second, how DARE she! She can pick up the phone and tell him her feelings. She can deliver the letter in person... not send his cousin to deliver the note! Thirdly, this is not the first time she's treated him like this. Once her husband used Tony as a decoy to have an affair. Tony told us and we told her. She accused Tony of lying for attention and ruining her marriage. Only after she caught her husband in the arms of this other lady did she believe him... did she ever appologize???? noooo. She plays power plays all the time.
How do we respond? Tony left a message for her. She has not answered his call or returned the message. I am ready to get in the car and knock her door down (though that won't solve anything and I know it.)