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puppyloves
12-06-2004, 03:16 PM
Tina asked me to tell everyone here that she is taking a break from here. She has been depressed for the last few weeks but just has not said anything to anyone. She feels that no one here or in her real life really likes her. I don't know if that is true or not but I sure hope that it is not true.

She is not really depressed because she thinks she is hated here. It is her life in general. She feels that no one cares about her and just pretend they do. It could just be the cold weather or something. I think me being her really does not help her either. But she is trying to be strong for me and helping me through my divorce with my husband. It sure has been a rough year for both Tina and I.

I am not sure when she will return but I will try to keep those that want to know updated on her. Since I will be staying here some with her and her family. I will also stay at my parents too but not as much.

I hope that you all can keep her in your thoughts.

chrissycat21
12-06-2004, 03:34 PM
Oh no! I hope Tina comes back soon. I love seeing pictures of her beautiful kids and fur kids.

I hope she feels better soon!

puppyloves
12-06-2004, 04:59 PM
I'm sure she will be glad to know that someone cares. I really do not know how long she plans to take a break. I have not ever seen her this depressed before. :(

sammy101
12-06-2004, 05:02 PM
oh Tina:( im sorry that you feel like this.Let me tell you i think your a wonderful person and i like you for who you are.Please come back post more pictures of your furbabies

GraciesMommy
12-06-2004, 05:15 PM
That is really sad that she feels this way. I think she may need to see someone..for the depression. It is horrible to have those kind of feelings. I work in a counselor's office and see this all the time. I wish she would go see a specialist and see if there is something that can make her feel better

CamCamPup33
12-06-2004, 05:21 PM
Oh Tina. I had no idea. :(

I always love seeing your pups, and your beautiful daughters.

We'll miss you, Tina. Hopefully you'll be back here soon! :)

tatsxxx11
12-06-2004, 05:30 PM
Hey Tina...Deep down you know we love you here and all the puppers too. I really do believe you're having some real issues with depression and you know, if you are, the last place you want to leave is her. We love seeing pics of you, the kids and the puppers. Just look at all the replies you had for your recent pic posts! Please don't shut yourself off, if not from us, from others in your life. You just had your dear and obviously concerned and caring friend puppyloves join, so please rethink your decision. At most, take a break and come on back girl!!! BIG hugs...Sandra and the furkids

NoahsMommy
12-06-2004, 06:29 PM
Tina,

I hope this break is just to clear your thoughts for a short while. If you are depressed, being away from your support (here or there) is not a good move. :(

Please take care and maybe talk to someone.

Feel better.

catnapper
12-06-2004, 06:36 PM
I am so sorry to hear that. I do not know her well, but she seemed like such a sweetheart. I know that depression is a terrible thing and I hope she feels better soon.

anna_66
12-06-2004, 06:54 PM
Please tell Tina that I will be thinking of her (and answering her email soon).
Take as much time as you need. We will be here for you when you need us.
Anna

Katiesmom
12-06-2004, 07:16 PM
keeping you in my prayers:) Come back soon now you here:D

pitc9
12-06-2004, 07:19 PM
Please tell Tina I'll miss her!!

I'll say a prayer for her!:)

Karen
12-06-2004, 07:21 PM
Tina dear, you will be in our prayers for sure. This is a sad, difficult time of year for many people, and even mild depression is nothing to take lightly.

You know you are loved and welcome here, and we'll be here for you when you return. And even before you return, we'll be here when you're feeling up to posting again.

cookieluver7
12-06-2004, 08:07 PM
Tina,

I have never really gotten to know you but I'm am sure you are an extremly WONDERFUL person. I'm sorry that you are feeling depressed. I promise you, your friends and family will help you get through this hard time. They love you and so do all of us on pet talk. You are ALWAYS welcomed here!

~Best Wishes~

Jods
12-06-2004, 09:19 PM
Tina,
If you read this and ever need anyone to talk to email or PM me you'll be in my thoughts.

Logan
12-06-2004, 10:45 PM
We're here, Tina, if you need anyting. Please don't forget that!!!

robinh
12-07-2004, 08:11 AM
Tina:

I know this time of year is hard, but know that we care for you and will miss you. Check back when you can. Don't let the depression drag you under. If you need to talk, contact any or all of us and we'd be delighted to help in any way we can.

Robin

petslover
12-07-2004, 09:20 AM
Hey! I hate to hear that she is depressed. If she needs to chat about anything she is free to PM me or e-mail me anytime. I hope she gets feeling better.

puppyloves
12-07-2004, 09:41 AM
I told Tina about all of the replies and all the people that care about her. She said thankyou for all of your kind replies she does not know when she will be back.

I am keeping a close eye on her. She seems to be to doing pretty good this morning except for all the noise is going on. :rolleyes: The guy that bought some land across from her house is doing some work and making tons of noise. He is doing house development or something.

elizabethann
12-07-2004, 10:42 AM
Hmmmm...My Pets Secret Santa was a Tina from WV. Perhaps this is her? If it is, I hope my presents arrive soon and I hope they put a smile on her face. Best wishes Tina.

puppyloves
12-07-2004, 01:00 PM
Originally posted by elizabethann
Hmmmm...My Pets Secret Santa was a Tina from WV. Perhaps this is her? If it is, I hope my presents arrive soon and I hope they put a smile on her face. Best wishes Tina.

She got your package! She says "thankyou so much!"

Maya & Inka's mommy
12-08-2004, 06:32 AM
Tina, I'm so sorry to hear this. Please don't give up. Live can get really hard sometimes, I know... :( I am taking anti-depressiva too right now... .. In a period like this, the most important thing is your friends. Be sure to read a bit on PT whenever posiible, so you will know we all care about you!! Thanks again for the gorgeous pics of both your little girls!!

Miranda_Rae
12-08-2004, 06:57 AM
Oh Tina. I am so sorry that you are going through this difficult time. Depression isn't fun, and its an ugly thing. I know what you mean when you feel like everyone in real life and on PT doesn't like you. Thats happened all my life. :rolleyes: I hope you start to feel better soon, and everything starts to get better. :) {{{HUGS}}}

slleipnir
12-08-2004, 08:40 AM
I don't know Tina overly well. All I know is that I can totally relate.

KYS
12-08-2004, 08:12 PM
Tina I hope next year will be a fresh start and a better
year for you.
Take care of yourself and come back when you
are ready.

CalliesMom
12-08-2004, 09:07 PM
I don't even know you Tina but completely understand the whole feelings of depression. I hope that you work things out and know that people do care for you on this website.