Tonya
08-04-2004, 08:18 PM
I've been cramping the past week or so. My doctor told me not to worry about it because it's probably just my ligaments stretching.
Well, this morning, when I woke up, the pain was unbearable. So, I called the advice nurse and explained that I've had three miscarriages and that I'm cramping severely and what not. The guy was such an insensitive jerk. He told me that 80% of miscarriages happen during the first trimester and if I'm miscarrying there is nothing they can do. I was like "Yes, I'm off of work right now and under the doctor's care, she's making sure I don't lose this one!" He was all "Well, how bad are you hurting?" I said "So bad that I can't even take my son to school right now." He goes "Well how are you going to make it to an appointment then?" I said "Believe me, I will make it." And he then goes "Well, the soonest appointment is August 16th." I was like b.s.! Someone needs to see me and I don't want to go to E.R. if I don't have to.
So, he told me that he'd send an urgent message to the doctor and she'd call me back within the hour.
Well, the pain got a little better because I took a vicodin, but I am still cramping. Today my mind was pre-occupied with finding Raven, so I didn't really notice the doc hadn't called me back. She knows me well, so I figured that if she thought it was important, she'd call me back right away...
Well, once the vicodin wore off, I realized the pain was still just as bad, so I called back to see what was going. The new advice nurse said that @#&*&@$ didn't even leave an urgent message! In fact, he didn't even note my records! What a jerk! What if I lose the baby because of him?!
So, now I just left a real message with my doc. I'm pretty sure she'll call right back. But now, the labs are closed and stuff, so they can't really do any bloodwork or anything for me tonight. :mad:
Well, this morning, when I woke up, the pain was unbearable. So, I called the advice nurse and explained that I've had three miscarriages and that I'm cramping severely and what not. The guy was such an insensitive jerk. He told me that 80% of miscarriages happen during the first trimester and if I'm miscarrying there is nothing they can do. I was like "Yes, I'm off of work right now and under the doctor's care, she's making sure I don't lose this one!" He was all "Well, how bad are you hurting?" I said "So bad that I can't even take my son to school right now." He goes "Well how are you going to make it to an appointment then?" I said "Believe me, I will make it." And he then goes "Well, the soonest appointment is August 16th." I was like b.s.! Someone needs to see me and I don't want to go to E.R. if I don't have to.
So, he told me that he'd send an urgent message to the doctor and she'd call me back within the hour.
Well, the pain got a little better because I took a vicodin, but I am still cramping. Today my mind was pre-occupied with finding Raven, so I didn't really notice the doc hadn't called me back. She knows me well, so I figured that if she thought it was important, she'd call me back right away...
Well, once the vicodin wore off, I realized the pain was still just as bad, so I called back to see what was going. The new advice nurse said that @#&*&@$ didn't even leave an urgent message! In fact, he didn't even note my records! What a jerk! What if I lose the baby because of him?!
So, now I just left a real message with my doc. I'm pretty sure she'll call right back. But now, the labs are closed and stuff, so they can't really do any bloodwork or anything for me tonight. :mad: