wolfsoul
02-28-2004, 06:26 PM
I'm so incredibly sick and tired of how my mother deals with my dad.
She's always complaining that he doesn't pay child support. And apparently it's up to ME to make sure he does! She makes a list of demands and tells me to email my dad and get him to give me whatever it is I need. And when it takes forever for him to email me back, or he doesn't give me what I need, she completely takes it out on me, like it's my fault!
She says that I obviously don't understand how money works, because I keep trying to explain to her that he doesn't have very much money, and he can't afford to spend every last bit on me. We do fairly well without his money anyways. And I'm afraid that if I keep bugging him for stuff, he won't give me his car that he is supposed to be giving me in the spring.
Yeah, maybe I'd like some money so that I can do things, but I don't want to have to be the b*tch. If she wants the money so bad, she should email him herself and then she can't scream at me when she "can't" afford to pay for me. If I'm the cause of all her financial problems, than maybe she should have thought of a better method of birth control, and everyone would be alot happier.
God, she was screaming at me yesterday because I emailed my dad last week about buying me a bus pass and some stuff I need for school, and he still hasn't emailed me back. I don't exactly know how that's my fault. I didn't know that I really cared about it, but when she was yelling at me, and I was defending him, I actually started to cry.
She always says she's going to sue him, like she's threatening me or something. Well I really don't care at this point, because I just want to stay out of it. I know that if she does go to a lawyer and work everything out, they'll probably want her to sue for 13 years worth of child support, since he was only with me for the first 3 years. And I know if that happens, my dad will quit all of his assets and declare bankruptcy. That way, we don't get ANY of his money!
I'm tired of being the friggin go-between. Thank God I'm moving out next year. If she hates paying for me so much, then she should just stop paying for me. I'll starve, but hey, atleast she'll be saving up a few bucks for herself, and atleast my dad won't have to hear me ask for more money...Why don't we ALL live in a world free of responsibility, oh joy.
I'm trying hard to find a job right now. I was going to use it to save up money for college...but atleast it'll be just one sad person out of three instead of three sad people.
She's always complaining that he doesn't pay child support. And apparently it's up to ME to make sure he does! She makes a list of demands and tells me to email my dad and get him to give me whatever it is I need. And when it takes forever for him to email me back, or he doesn't give me what I need, she completely takes it out on me, like it's my fault!
She says that I obviously don't understand how money works, because I keep trying to explain to her that he doesn't have very much money, and he can't afford to spend every last bit on me. We do fairly well without his money anyways. And I'm afraid that if I keep bugging him for stuff, he won't give me his car that he is supposed to be giving me in the spring.
Yeah, maybe I'd like some money so that I can do things, but I don't want to have to be the b*tch. If she wants the money so bad, she should email him herself and then she can't scream at me when she "can't" afford to pay for me. If I'm the cause of all her financial problems, than maybe she should have thought of a better method of birth control, and everyone would be alot happier.
God, she was screaming at me yesterday because I emailed my dad last week about buying me a bus pass and some stuff I need for school, and he still hasn't emailed me back. I don't exactly know how that's my fault. I didn't know that I really cared about it, but when she was yelling at me, and I was defending him, I actually started to cry.
She always says she's going to sue him, like she's threatening me or something. Well I really don't care at this point, because I just want to stay out of it. I know that if she does go to a lawyer and work everything out, they'll probably want her to sue for 13 years worth of child support, since he was only with me for the first 3 years. And I know if that happens, my dad will quit all of his assets and declare bankruptcy. That way, we don't get ANY of his money!
I'm tired of being the friggin go-between. Thank God I'm moving out next year. If she hates paying for me so much, then she should just stop paying for me. I'll starve, but hey, atleast she'll be saving up a few bucks for herself, and atleast my dad won't have to hear me ask for more money...Why don't we ALL live in a world free of responsibility, oh joy.
I'm trying hard to find a job right now. I was going to use it to save up money for college...but atleast it'll be just one sad person out of three instead of three sad people.