Hmm, Black Friday Ponderings

[Karen]

All week, maybe longer, I have been getting Black Friday Deals emails - most of which are spam. I never go to any of the stores that are opening on Thanksgiving Day itself, and rarely go anywhere near the malls on the Friday after Thanksgiving. It seems as if everyone - even car dealers - are trying to capitalize on Black friday hype this year.

Do you shop at on on Black Friday, or even on Thanksgiving Day? Just curious ...

[pomtzu]

NO WAY!!! And if people were just a wee bit more observant, they would find most of those great Black Friday deals are available even cheaper on line in pre-Black Friday sales. My son does it every year!!! Ya just gotta take the time to look. But a lot of folks have blinders on and fall for all the hype of the day, and think they can't find a better deal. Damned if I would camp out in front of a store for sometimes a week or more like some do. Just crazy!!!

[phesina]

Several big chain stores are opening at 7 or 8 pm Thanksgiving.. get an early start on the Black Friday deals! And you have idiots who have been camping out for days now to be first in line at some of these places.

Then I got an ad in the mail today from Meijer (a midwestern Walmart-type chain) promoting their THURSDAY (i.e., Thanksgiving Day) ONLY sale .. starting at 6AM!!!!!

If this kind of nonsense actually catches on, I wonder how many years before Thanksgiving itself is diminished as a true holiday, meant for sharing time and energy and food and love with family and those we love most.

[Alysser]

I would NEVER. Here we are, celebrating what we should truly be THANKFUL for and then people go out and practically and in SOME cases do KILL each other over material items. Pathetic. I went to the Christiana Mall in Delaware two years ago with my brother and holy c-r-a-p. We were buying a Macbook, we already knew what we wanted. But there were about 5 or 6 accidents in the parking lot ALONE. I can't believe actually camp out for this crap.

[oberz3]

I don't think I'll ever need something so badly that I'd be willing to brave hoards of ill-mannered people (not to mention the cold weather!) pushing and shoving for that last item on the shelf that they've simply GOT TO HAVE! All the stores, either actual or online, live for this "Black Friday" to boost sales now that it's been branded in people's minds that it's THE day to get THE deal-of-a-lifetime that you won't be able to get at ANY other time . . . EVER! Inasmuch as this is an outright lie, it still amazes me when I hear seemingly intelligent, normal people talking about which stores they're going to "hit" first on Thanksgiving right after shoving that last bite of pumpkin pie down their throats. I'd much rather wait a week or two, shop at my leisure, and get that same exact item that I would have otherwise been mauled for if I had been stupid enough to try and buy it on Black Friday, for exactly (or very close to) the same price you paid! Imagine that! Listen up people, these "things" that you've just got to have because they're "such good deals" on Black Friday will still be good deals (perhaps even better) after the Thanksgiving rush is over.

[chocolatepuppy]

I have an appointment on Black Friday so might hit a store or two while I'm out. ;) No shopping on Thanksgiving for me. That's a day to eat, not shop.:D

[sparks19]

No way. not a chance. I'm actually done the majority of my Christmas shopping and it's all wrapped already LOL. Hannah is getting a ton of stuff and I paid next to nothing for it all. There are a FEW items I am keeping an eye out for on sale but ONLY if they are online. I will not be getting anywhere close to a store this weekend :)

[cassiesmom]

A couple of years ago I went into Wal-mart on Thanksgiving night, must have been around 8:30 or 9 PM because I was on my way home from my mom and dad's. My mom had invited a friend whose son lives out of state, and she had massive amount of cologne on. I was having a histamine reaction from her fragrance and I knew I had no Benadryl in the house, so I figured I would quickly shoot in to Wal-Mart to pick it up.

What I saw floored me - sections of the store were roped off for several electronic items that would be going on sale early the next morning. Area #1 was a TV, #2 a DVD player, #3 a gaming system- you get the idea. Each area had a line of people waiting and there were rules posted with line etiquette - addressing things like eating, getting out of line to use the washroom, children waiting in line must be accompanied by someone over eighteen years old, no sleeping on the floors, clothes or blankets must be paid for before you can use them while you wait on line. The items were available for purchase at that time but at higher prices. I was stunned. So I found what I needed and scooted right out of there.

I did go to Target on Black Friday one year, just to say I had done so. I've got an appointment on Friday, so I'll be out, but I don't think I'll be shopping. Small Business Saturday is this weekend so I will try to support a couple of favorite local stores. And I will do the weekly Petsmart run on Saturday for food and cat litter.

So no, I'm not a fan of the big shopping weekend.

[Freedom]

Nothing is open Thanksgiving Day here, not permitted - that is, RI and southeastern Mass. I wouldn't go anyhow, don't believe in it.

Black Friday, I used to go out with a list of 2 or 3 things. Last few years there's nothing I need to get. I don't exchange gifts with anyone, and if I need something I get it when I need it, after searching for reviews and pricing etc. Besides, you can usually do so much better online. I do sometimes wander out after lunch, just to see the nuts! :D Go in a busy store and stand around looking at the people, not the merchandise. AMAZING what you see. I assume these folks are sane most of the time, I mean, they are out and about alone, right? They seem to have lost any sense of decorum, manners, etiquette, sanity!

Karen, you must be a many lists, I haven't had one Black Friday / spam message all week!

[cassiesmom]

You know what I'd do on Black Friday if I got the chance, though? Take a drive out to Montgomery to shop at Blain's Farm and Fleet. Montgomery is in the waaaay-western suburbs of Illinois right about where the 'burbs end and the country begins. The Farm and Fleet is a Wisconsin, Iowa and Illinois business and I've been there one time. I'd like to go again and look at all the farm stuff. I could handle that.

[kaycountrygal]

Noooo, I will not be shopping on Thanksgiving or for several days after Tgiving. I would rather go when there are not as many people shopping even if I have to pay more for an item. I usually watch the local news where they show the parking lots and people and am so glad I'm not one of the people looking for a parking space:).

[Steve Arnold]

Under no circumstances whatsoever. Thanksgiving should not be a day for recreational shopping, and the day after should be a day of leisure to enjoy friends and family. I regard Black Friday as a way for the business community to make fools of the rest of us. Midnight or 2:00 am or 5:00 am are not civilized hours for conducting business. Period.

[Karen]

Karen, you must be a many lists, I haven't had one Black Friday / spam message all week!

Remember, we have been running PetoftheDay.com since 1997, so my email addresses associated with the websites a have been in existence that long - so if there's a spam list or database out there, I'm sure to be on it. And mind you, these are only the spam I see, not the thousands that automatically go into my spam folder!

[Edwina's Secretary]

There is nothing that could tempt me. Last Sunday we went to Best Buy (great deal on a DVD player for my mother!) Next door is a sporting goods store. I commented that someone appeared to be testing a camping tent on the sidewalk. My husband corrected me...first in line for Black Friday.:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

Beyond disgusting!

[snakemama]

I'll be the only one I guess who says that I look forward to "Midnight Madness" at the outlet mall nearby. After dinner my mom, my sister, and a few other relatives watch a movie together and then drive about an hour to this outlet mall...the stores all have coffee and snacks out, there are shuttles to get you to and from the parking area, and everyone seems to have a blast! It's busy, but I've never come across any nastiness there. I don't even know/care if I get any particular bargains, I just look forward to the party atmosphere and extra time with my mom.

Once we're wiped out, we all go out to breakfast and then crash.

This year I'm completely out of money because of Sherpa being hospitalized, but I'll probably still tag along for the fun of it.

[krazyaboutkatz]

No,I won't be shopping on Thanksgiving or Black Friday. I needed a few things so I went to Target after work on my way home tonight so I won't need to go shopping any where during my 4 days off.:) I really don't even enjoy shopping normally and I hate crowds so you couldn't pay me enough to shop when there are several hundred of other crazy people fighting over sale items.

[smokey the elder]

Shopping in general: feh. Necessary evil. Black Friday is an invention of the devil.

[momcat]

I don't like shopping to start with, it's something I do to get it over with but only when I absolutely have to go. For Christmas shopping I wait about two weeks - the "early" crowds are gone and the last minute shoppers haven't hit yet. In and out is the only way to go.

[RICHARD]

I think BF does have a useful purpose.

"I will be in line for the XXXXX on sale at XXXXX......."

Translated?

"NO, I don't want to go to Thanksgiving dinner at your house and I will not be hosting any kind of gathering at my home. I will be having a nice, quiet day - eating, watching football and sleeping the day away!"

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I have heard that on November 25th the retailers will be ramping up for Valentine's Day.

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I have to laugh at the women who refuse to go camping, but WILL pitch a tent on the sidewalk outside of a retailer's door for a few days to get a 'deal'.

If I was married to a woman who thought that was fun?

I'd try to convince her that picnic baskets were on sale in Yellowstone Park.

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i LOVE crowds - I have been to tons of concerts and sporting events and even the rowdiest, drunkest and most obnoxious people were well mannered compared to some of the film clips I have seen of BF shoppers.

Go figure?

[Taz_Zoee]

Like many others, I hate shopping in general. I did go shopping on Black Friday a couple years ago with my mom, SIL and nieces. Only because I'd never done it and just wanted to experience it once. We didn't see any fights or encounter nasty people, but I will never do it again. We woke up at 4:30, that's earlier than I wake up to go to work. No thanks!!
My SIL and oldest niece are going this year. I'll stay home in my nice warm bed...........thanks. :)

[Edwina's Secretary]

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I have to laugh at the women who refuse to go camping, but WILL pitch a tent on the sidewalk outside of a retailer's door for a few days to get a 'deal'.



It was a man. Do you laugh at men who refuse to go camping but WILL pitch a tent on the sidewalk?

[Karen]

It was a man. Do you laugh at men who refuse to go camping but WILL pitch a tent on the sidewalk?

I am sure he would. That's an equal-opportunity example of human oddities!

[RICHARD]

I am sure he would. That's an equal-opportunity example of human oddities!

A woman would not be able to pound the tent stakes into the concrete sidewalk, so it would have to be a man........;)

[Karen]

A woman would not be able to pound the tent stakes into the concrete sidewalk, so it would have to be a man........;)

You have not met me in person, Richard, you might be surprised how much strength a woman can must, especially given proper motivation ....

[Edwina's Secretary]

A woman would not be able to pound the tent stakes into the concrete sidewalk, so it would have to be a man........;)

Stakes in the group??? It has been a long time since you went camping, hasn't it?:D:D:D

[RICHARD]

You have not met me in person, Richard, you might be surprised how much strength a woman can must, especially given proper motivation ....

Karen,

I have the utmost respect for women, all women.

I'll have to pass on meeting you in person, though.

I can't afford to have anyone find out I got me arse handed to me by a woman........;):eek::o

(and pounding tent stakes into concrete is some stupid us men would go anyway, women have more sense than trying that.)

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Why is it not called Green Friday for all the money that exchanges hands?

[cassiesmom]

Just got home from Thanksgiving with the family about an hour ago. There were LOADS of cars parked at our local Target, Kohl's and Wal-Mart and a group of people waiting outside either the Verizon store or Game Stop (they're side by side). Dunkin' Donuts next door to Game Stop was doing a land office business with cars in the drive-up and lots of people inside.

[pomtzu]

Black Friday shopping is done! I did mine yesterday - sitting at my computer while the turkey was in the oven. Got the same prices on line for the items I ordered, as people will be paying in the store today - plus FREE SHIPPING!!! No wasting my gas - no fighting the mobs - and I can sit back and relax and watch the newscasts of the fights and traffic that will definitely be occurring today around the country! :p

Happy Black Friday, everyone!

[Pinot's Mom]

When I was younger, we did more gift exchanging, and I considered Black Friday kind of fun. It was NOT the mob scene it is now. That was then...

We no longer exchange many gifts, by our own choice, as neither of us really like to encourage the blind materialistic waste of a lot of the gift giving. We have actually tried, with varying success, to have our family members stop gift exchanging. The exception being something hand made or edible. What Black Friday has become is insane and really just a disgusting example of human behaviour.

Small Business Saturday is a good idea. It supports strolling down the main street in your own town and supporting those local businesses - that's a good thing.

I realize we are kind of a minority in the lack of gift giving - that's OK. It's just important to us that people don't blindly spend money on things that we don't need or necessarily even want, just for the sake of the occasion. Spend money where it needs to be spent - on those who need it.

Happy Holidays.

[RICHARD]

When I was younger, we did more gift exchanging, and I considered Black Friday kind of fun. It was NOT the mob scene it is now. That was then...

We no longer exchange many gifts, by our own choice, as neither of us really like to encourage the blind materialistic waste of a lot of the gift giving. We have actually tried, with varying success, to have our family members stop gift exchanging. The exception being something hand made or edible. What Black Friday has become is insane and really just a disgusting example of human behaviour.

Small Business Saturday is a good idea. It supports strolling down the main street in your own town and supporting those local businesses - that's a good thing.

I realize we are kind of a minority in the lack of gift giving - that's OK. It's just important to us that people don't blindly spend money on things that we don't need or necessarily even want, just for the sake of the occasion. Spend money where it needs to be spent - on those who need it.

Happy Holidays.



What I did for a few years was to give my family members an envelope with cash money in it and told them that they HAD to go out for a family meal, on me.

When my parents were alive we would get a group together and pick a random Friday to go out and eat. I seem to remember THOSE days more than spending a morning of comparing who go what and how much was spent on each other every Christmas....

[dab_20]

I personally think black Friday is just silly- waiting in line all night or even for days is ridiculous! The fact that it started on Thanksgiving this year is so sad. There's a reason it's called Black Friday so lets leave it for FRIDAY! However, this year ( just leaving as we speak), I'm hoping to find some good deals on baby items so am going shopping now at 8 am. I normally really hate crowds and long lines so we'll see how this goes :/